I don't get it either.

This is far from the worst hypocrisy.

My favorite is this one

Have sex before marriage, get pregnant, but won't abort because that is against GOD!

Girls can't resist big thick cock and money. Its a fact that once a woman knows she can get bigger cock and more money with another guy, she leaves the marriage.

in theory sure but despite your rich man dreams, most single guys who have never married and never have kids live in shitty broke ass apartments and when something goes wrong, no one is there and no one cares. my girlfriends uncle is one of these. he had a stroke, can't talk, can't walk. is stuck in government care and will probably be there till he dies. of course, this shouldn't be a reason to get married and pro-create but its scary to get old.

people do it out of insecurity mostly

So people should get married so they have somebody that is forced to be with them as they age and die? Sounds pretty shitty. Why not strive to have a full life and be surrounded with people that love you (family and friends) instead?

I am seeing a lot of "get married so you aren't lonely."

Sorry, that sounds like a shitty fucking reason to get married.

yup.. people are afraid of being lonely.. WTF is this lonely shit?

personally my ideal life is ill travel around, bang some latin american whores (girls there love men 50+), basically just keep fucking, then when i hit maybe 60 and cant fuck, i'll find men my age and travel around, hire a full time nurse, and if i can still fuck, well keep fucking..

i dont see the lonely argument, you have a 51% chance your lovely wife will divorce your ass.. wtf is that, yet you are willing to trade in your balls for that

LOL, 60 is still pretty young. Live a good life, stay healthy, take care of yourself... you should be able to do all of that way beyond 60.

good point.. with meds i might be able to fuck till im 75, while the rest of you guys cuddle up to the same nagging pussy who will most likely divorce you down the line..

im not willing to give up my freedoms, NOR live a boring life from 30-65, just so i dont "die alone" at 75

if i hit 70 and i get lonely, ill go down and get me some colombian chic and marry her, yeah she wants my $, but she'll cook, clean, and take care of me..

all these problems could be solved, hence the reason i said guys who are extremely wealthy and good with ladies do not get married as rapidly or quickly as john 9-5

plus i love all the guys who say they want someone to cook/clean/fuck them. HAHA

my maid who comes daily in panama COOKS/CLEANS 10X better than any gf ive ever had.. thats her only job so she does it well

and cant beat variety.. have a little money and you'll fuck 10 girls a month easily.. or even better, pay a hooker to do all ur nasty things too..

once again like i said, this marriage problem mostly has to do with lack of wealth

:2 cents::2 cents:

tax benefits worth giving up some freedoms and boredom?

to all you married men who dont actually believe you are giving up freedoms, well lets see..

Heres something i can do that you cant:

can you see a girl thats hot, talk to her, close the game, take her home and fuck her? lol

like they say, MARRIED AND BORED, SINGLE AND LONELY

EXCEPT, money takes care of that SINGLE AND LONELY PART..

i was never lonely the times i was single, actually i had too much fun.. as long as you have money you can travel around, meet new people, and fuck lots of girls.. wheres the loneliness in that

who are you trying to convince?? :Oh crap

you are always talking about money. you really think you're going to be lucky enough to be 'wealthy' your whole life? doutbful..

bleh, im not trying to convince anyone, except those looking to take the plunge.. i dont know one fucking happily married couple.. EVERYONE thinks their marriage will work, doesnt work like that...

and its not just about money, just saying that a lot of these guys would not be getting married if they had more money,

and as for having money my whole life, thats the intention, just save enough and live well below your means and that wont be a problem, unless USA completely collapses

its just not that cut and dry really. when i had lots of money, i did nothing, was depressed, etc. i could have travelled anywhere, done whatever i wanted but who wants to go to some foreign country by yourself when you can't even speak the language. all my friends were 9-5 slaves, couldn;t do shit or afford shit. they resented the fact that i had money. money has been up and down since those days but there is something about being with someone that will be there regardless of your money, etc. sure, most relationships don't work, thats largely because people like the idea of a person rather than the person themselves. single life isn't perfect, nor is being in a relationship.

So, you are coming out of the closet at 60?

lol @ baddog. i meant ill find guys my age to hang out with..

and yeah blackcrayon i had the same problem.. shit i still do, many of my friends work 9-5, my solution: move to a country where being american gets girls all over you, like panama for example...

then just wake up in the morning, work till evening, take some nice girl out to dinner, enjoy the weather, fuck her, rinse and repeat.. not such a bad life

What's your icq? If you don't want to post it hit me up on mine. 111914

love each other

because they want to? same reason i eat cake drink pepsi and smoke weed even if its not that good for me i want to do it so i do

I'm in Vegas right now, and getting married in two hours.
The reasons why have nothing to do with 99% of the shite posted in this thread.
But I've also been with her for over 10 years, so it's not some sort of snap / mindless decision borne out of drunken emotion.

:2 cents:

Never got married but I've been with the same girl for 20+ years.

Congrats on 10!
Now go marry that girl :thumbsup

That would be the secular world. In the world of religious Judaism, the rate is something like 2%.

Hell yea! Screw having kids and a nice family, and maybe a classy life. Lets get stuck in the "I'm 22 and never had a college life" mode for the rest of your life, and add the adult industry as a career! How I don't envy you.

You're asking people in the porn industry that do nothing but porn and usually know nothing about anything outside of porn. Maybe that's where you went wrong. Try asking people that have a meaningful life and don't have to sit on the computer 8 hours a day, you'll get different answers.

Thats where I use to be about 5 years ago and most people who act like they are scoring with chicks and living a great life in this thread are too.

haha who the fuck told u that having kids/wife is a better life... i dont envy the poor bastard husbands who have to deal with nagging kids and a wife who wont put out.. i see them everyday at the mall, etc.. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

one of my best buds down here is nearing 40, he is single, dates lots of latina chics, and is genuinely happy....

everyone believes college>job>wife>kid>die

thats society talking to you.. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO have kids. unless you want to.. i pity dumbasses who keep popping out kids when they can barely feed themselves....

i chose not to do what society dictates and so far its been working out great for me.. i doubt i'll have a wife, and i doubt i'll have kids.. i dont envy my sisters who have kids at all.. they are stressed the fuck out, cant sleep, and spending all their money on kids..

plus once the kids become teenagers you'll want to stab them.lol

you guys keep forgetting everyone has their own version of happiness.. for some people like me its not having kids,wife,family.... you will be an idiot to think that everyone un married over 35yrs is miserable.. there are tons of happy people who ARE NOT MARRIED by CHOICE, and they want to keep it that way...

im tired of everyone saying i'll be miserable once i hit 30+ and dont get married.. nah ill just travel and fuck 18yr old girls, save up money, and date a few girls.. no need to get married.

pS you dont need a wife for love.. ive had gfs who loved me more than any wife could.. marriage is just a contract, it doesnt change anything BEFORE your bf/gf relationship.. lots a dumb asses get married thinking it'll fix their shitty relationship, then get surprised when it doesnt.

50% divorce rate? Wow... That's bigger than I thought. I have no experience with marriage, so I can't really say anything that matters.

I rest my case. Please continue with your low class lifestyle.

Exactly. That's what you get when you either don't go to college, or spend your life on the computer.

low class lifestyle? you gotta be shitting me you delusional man..

i have a great life.. tons of friends.. i get laid by different women.. and im free to travel around and so as i please without checking in with someone else..

yes let me continue with my low class lifestyle.. have fun begging for sex and changing diapers

Some losers will never grow up rofl.

I would rather die old and alone than a burden on someone else.

dumbass.. all the married guys i know envy me and tell me im lucky because ive lived in a different place each year for the past few yrs, was in ny, nj, then in panama, now im going to san diego, afterwards probably australia or sweden, and by the way i easily fucked 50 girls in 2009.. go fuck yourself:1orglaugh