I wondered if she wasn't shooting porn in the house, then what was the problem and why she had to shut down her site so his kids could come over on visitation? Something seemed to be off on that post.

But the mother has every right to be concerned. If the porn is being filmed in the house with performers coming over, all it takes is one crazy suitcase pimp or father to follow girlfriend/wife/daughter to Ella's house and blame Ella for getting their daughter into porn. Now he knows where Ella lives and where Sonny's kids visit. It's still dangerous to shoot porn in the house even if you don't have kids. People now know where you live. And if one of the performers brings drugs into the house, the police could bust the house and Sonny loses all visitation with the kids.

The main issue I took offense to was when you insinuated perhaps Ella was the reason Sonny and his wife split. That she may have been the other woman. I felt that was out of line.

As far as shooting content in the house, I don't know if they do or not. If you're shooting gang bangs in your living room, then yes, I can see a concern- but if you look at her site most of her content seems to be solo girl. If it's just her and Sonny shooting behind closed doors in their own home, as long as the children aren't present, I don't see the issue. I know a handful of amateur performers who shoot themselves or their sig others are involved who work out of their own home. In that situation there's little difference between that and parents just having sex.

Just working in porn is enough reason to shut the site down- regardless of where the content is shot. No court in the world is going to look favorably on people who work in our industry, especially when deciding matters of child custody. Its a fact of life. To say things like "you wouldn't close the site unless you were shooting out of the house and creating a dangerous home environment" and to say that maybe the ex wife is so upset because Ella might have been the other woman, I just don't know why you would jump to those conclusions.

I would say bitter statements like that are the opposite of supporting women in our industry. Or should I say my industry. Other than trying to "expose" people through your blog posting it doesn't seem that you actually are involved in it. You seem to really have a hate on for alot of people, why not focus your talents on something you might enjoy yourself. You might find your work to me more fulfilling. :2 cents:

How do you define a victim? For me its a woman forced to have sex. Doing it voluntarily is not a victim, even if she needs money quick, because there are surely 1 billion of people on the planet now in need of quick cash, they don't all shoot porn.

While i appreciate being called America's Sweetheart ... i have avoided any post you have made since your first day here. This is the second time you have posted my name in 2 days ... granted a copy and paste post in 2 different threads, but still.

I leave you alone because we will never see eye to eye. I have already said my peace to you in your original thread. Considering you wrote a op/ed piece about me that was very unfaltering and had zero facts in it, i think i have been pretty cool. I know you said someone suggested you did and you did post the statement from my previous employer saying it wasn't true and that is appreciated by me. I know you don't believe it ... but i don't need you to. As you can see i'm pretty reasonable. So hopefully you can be reasonable too.

have a great day!

Ok so Darrah is fml tube..its confirmed...or?

I guess another thing that's really bothering me is how can you say these things but openly support Janine Lindermulder?

I want nothing but the best for Janine and have been very vocal about my thoughts on the matter. I hope she gets her shit together and I want to see her get her kid back. My issue is here you are saying these things to / about Ella, where no one knows if she shoots in the home or not, but you're pro Janine, who has been open and honest about shooting in her home from day 1.

There seems to be no rhyme or reason to who you see fit to attack and tear down and who you select to support, which are few and far between. You seem to polarize all women in adult as either hapless vitims or whores of babylon.

Again, as I've mentioned before in another thread, I don't know why you've chosen to involve yourself in an industry you seem to despise so much. I think you would probably find your life to be more fulfilling and your career more rewarding if you involved yourself in something you truly enjoy.

Being forced, being forced to do whatever sex act for more money when they already know she isn't comfortable, treated badly, name and domains stolen, and so on.

You know that FORCING someone to do a sex act, even if it's for "More Money" is still considered RAPE right?

So are you saying that someone was raped or not?

I don't know how it was unflattering when all I asked is if you were fired from Shane's World as some sort of a fall out after the Jack Venice rape conviction. Nothing against you but needing someone to throw under the bus sort of way. I never accused you of anything but more so your former bosses. Someone wanted me to ask if you being fired had anything to do with it. So I asked.

Oh good Lord. Let me count the cases. Raped on set, raped in those illegal dorms, raped in offices, and so on and so on.

There's never been anything against Janine as a mother. Raising two kids in 18 years and nothing was ever thrown at her until Sandra Bullock came along. Now all of a sudden, according to Sandra Bullock, Janine is passed out on drugs at home while her daughter is there. Really, where's the proof? Social Services would have had her out of there so quickly if it was true. And I'm sure Janine must be drug tested and passed those tests when her ex and new wife are accusing her of being a drug addict.

Yes I heard Janine shot at home with her husband because she desperately needs the money but I never heard she was shooting with other people at her home. Shooting with her husband and only her husband is no different than just having sex with your husband every night. But if you're inviting others into your home to shoot the porn, then you're putting yourself and any children in danger if one crazy husband or father follows a model to your home.

I don't know the full Ella story. Porn is a legitimate industry and doesn't usually get your children taken away. That's why I was asking is there something else behind the story to make his ex-wife go after Ella shutting down her site. Someone on that thread had also said how he had to provide proof to child services that he wasn't shooting porn at home in his own custody case. He also knew that anyone in a model or performer's life could follow her to the home and all hell could break loose. So I was wondering what else was behind the ex-wife being so angry and wanting Ella's site shut down. So I threw the question out about was she the other woman. There's no reason for my madness. I usually say whatever comes to my mind which usually gets me in trouble. :disgust

I have a story for you then. A local web cam studio that should be shut down. They post online looking for personal assistants. When the girls show up they talk them into being web cam models. They lock the ladies in the studio, they touch them, they offer them money for sexual favors, they walk in on them and watch them in private shows, one of guys who used to run the place is in jail for rape, etc. I know several ladies that used to work there that you can talk to.

Good one Grandma.

Well, that is bad, obviously.

WHO was raped?

Why don't you tell that story to the cops? Why wait?

The cops have been told. One of men was arrested for rape. They just keep moving the studio location around. They prey on young girls who don't think the cops will believe them because they work in porn.

Hey Darrah , just a suggestion for the accusations of being fml tube person. Phoenix forum is around the corner. Why dont you simply show you face there. Considering you have such an opinion on stuff, meet your peers in Phoenix.

Jenna hipped me to this
http://twitter.com/darrahford

They are entering a custody battle and custody battles get nasty. Why give someone more amunition by keeping the site going. Why would you want to go into it with a black eye?

Go back and read the original posts by Ella and Sonny, you connect alot of dots and fill in the blanks assuming things that were never said. You might want to do a little more reading about Janine's case as well, because you've got a few things wrong about what's going on with that situation too.


That's just it and that's my issue. You're making these wild accusations against people and forming these conclusions based on feeling and very little fact. Because you fancy yourself a reporter or journalist of some sort it makes some of the things you say and or do very damaging to the people you target, which you admit there is no rhyme or reason for.

So again I ask you, why do it at all? You're a self proclaimed outsider. You bring nothing to the table but negativity. What do you hope to accomplish or acheive? Don't you want to be able to look back on how you've spent your time over the last few years and have something to show for it? Don't you want to work in an industry where your contributions are welcomed?

Some kids build sandcastles, other kids knock them down. I get that. I just find it very unfortunate that someone would choose to live their adult life that way. :(

I have a feeling I know what you're talking about ... I'd like a heads up on it though because I've been suggesting to some local girls to check out local cam studios - I'd like to know which one to stay the fuck away from. ICQ me if you don't want to post it publicly.:(

Yet you don't give Ella the same credit you give Janine. And an angry ex-wife? Yes, that is pretty much unheard of, isn't it?

So uh.. did this all start because dirty d owed someone like 400 bucks, but refused to pay?

I'm probably going to not come back to read any replies to this post, so uh... IF that's what happened, then.... I guess let this be a good lesson? if you owe someone money, even a tiny amount, pay them, or they'll bang you in the ass, or something. i think.

jesus christ i lost track of wtf is going on here like 10 days ago D:

nutjob keeps messaging me on icq now.

Did Dirty D. know she was underage?
This could happen to pretty much anybody. She could have used the ID of a friend who looks similar and BAM! You have no way to tell...

Nothing breaks the tension in a thread than some sweet booty. Thank you, kind sir:thumbsup

This whole case is apparently about him knowing it and still shooting her. Its hard to believe he would be so stupid. But he surely didn't sound too smart in the "non paying" thread, so everything is possible.

Can someone summon up what is going on real short?
I just know "she" was an absolute cunt on here and got banned.....what is thsi stuff about threats?

PS: no time to read this thread

GFY turns into a gossip forum and people keep feeding it.
DirtyD got in trouble, a judge must say if he's quilty or not.

That's it.

You forgot the lin about some random internet nutjob thinking she's joan of fucking arc...

:1orglaugh

And i take it that flmtube reported him then?

:1orglaugh:thumbsup

Isn't this the thread with the pictures of poo?

That's true. There is an adult paparazzi who thinks he/she is big brother.
Everything posted here can be used against you.

I've "known" Darrah for a while now, and that is her only nick.

american pervert = fmltube !!!

http://www.bestweekever.tv/bwe/image...OCO%20FACE.jpg

Poo-kakke :thumbsup

you got me!!

but, the thing is, people here know me IRL....

I used to like poo...