OMG! Love that idea

and GFY admin, fyi-when I tried to log in to GFY mobile it routed me left field a bit before I could access. Also when I was posting from mobile I didn't see a 'preview post button' only a 'submit reply' and I couldn't scroll up to review the post so another reason I just sent it off. I will surf the mobile site of GFY to become more familiar with it. It's a great site nonetheless.:thumbsup

to clarify - I purposely shut down GayPornCenter to see 'what would happen' once it went down and no linking codes were active and 'nobody' had access.

Took less than 36 hours to receive certain emails from certain 'people' who were MIA for a long time. Pretty much wrapped it all up with a nice little bow.

I have a full plate in biz and in life and I was considering letting it go and taking another hit but the email threat of board action had me reconsider being 'nice' about this one. I saw what being so nice got me before...learned my six figure lesson.

So yea, actual board action sealed my decision. And only evidence I need to qualify for Eric is this statement posted earlier from him:

"Oh yes, using GPC email address. Apparently, that did happen a few times to people I email just about every day. It was still setup in my Outlook for awhile and when I dropped down the box to select an account I may have selected the wrong one. That account was removed when I was doing some maintenance."

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My reply to that statement: our records show and emails seen this was happening as late as January 2010 which is 6 months AFTER going MIA.

Obviously, we have a lot more to the equation but I'm leaving that to my attorney unless someone cares to step up and clear up - It's not as scary as it may appear, I lived it. And I am much nicer when going that route. :upsidedow



K - G'nite all. Was a great day and looking forward to an amazing tomorrow.

Wow really? So you're denying that I emailed you in December, February and March? And that on Feb 1 you did not ask for another copy of the invoice so you could get it sorted?

Question: Why didn't you lock me out of email if I was such a threat? Also, like I said, since you know when the emails happened, you also know the contents. Go ahead, post them. There is nothing there.

You also never terminated our relationship. I simply stopped working because you were too broke to pay me.

6 months after going MIA? You paid me in October and I tried to collect multiple times after ... that is not going MIA. Your math isn't the best.

Also, how does a few incidental emails back up your claim that I changed link codes and were skimming sales from you?

What is evident here is that you do not pay attention to your business and refuse to accept responsibility for that. Had I ripped you off, like you are alleging, you would have done a systems audit to make sure I did not have any access.

You also wouldn't have been discussing possible biz deals with me just six weeks ago.

You were busted, plain and simple.

Lori, you have a lot of enemies. They are now presenting themselves to me. Had I known 1/8th of what I do now, I wouldn't have typed a single keystroke for you.

It all makes sense while awhile back when I started a positive thread about you on this board you told me to never do it again because there is a lot of old things that may be stirred up. I didn't think to do a search of what those things are, but now I do not need to.

Post REAL proof Lori. Post proof of me STEALING from you, which is what you are accusing. Don't say that me accidentally using an email account to send messages that had nothing to do with your business or your sites to people that I talk to on a regular basis is proof. That is called a mistake. Apparently, no bigger of a mistake than you forgetting to cancel the account.

What you are alleging is outright fraud and theft. Prove that.

BTW, fraud with the email account would be me emailing someone pretending like I was with GPC and had business to conduct on your or the sites behalf. Emailing my friends and close associates from the wrong address because it's one up from my "business personal account" in the drop box in Outlook hardly constitutes fraud.

Jesse - the rules of GFY are that I post evidence of something - using an email account intentional or not constitutes evidence you are utilizing what does not belong to you. I didn't shut you out for a reason - as stated in my previous posts, we had footwork to do so shutting you and another out would have hindered our efforts so I just let it ride. Not to mention that you owe me money from our other 'partnership' - you know the one - I did my footwork in other areas too. And that took time and therefore took time away from deals but I got the info I needed.

All other proof will be sent directly to all parties.

Oh and if I had a nickel for every time someone said something about me or slammed me, well then that would have me retired by now. I think many of us would be retired by now if one values their business by and gets paid out from drama and time wasting threads like this.

At the end of the day...the deals are rolling again and the dollars are flowing again for those that are rolling with TAB and The Mobile Broker. That is all that matters and that is my priority. TIME=MONEY.

I've already been through the tsunami and walked through fire so rumors, perception and gossip hold no court in my life anymore - have fun with them.

Maybe take a cue from that and get through your own issues and recurring storyline of being a victim and get power around your illness - I walk that same path with Chron's disease as you well know - I have for 34 years - and we had many conversations about that and I guided you in your personal life and took time to walk you through your pain - the very pain and hospital situations and surgeries that I have lived all these years. Difference is---I finally got power around it all, took back my life, stopped letting it control my life, but most of all, I NEVER played into so much as to become a victim and use it as a business angle. I mentioned in my wipe out thread in December...all these years in business NOBODY knew what I deal with health wise - because I still ROSE UP and performed and conducted business. I SHOWED UP in business while in a hospital bed, I SHOWED UP at shows straight out of a hospital bed, I returned to hospital beds right AFTER SHOWS.

I do what it takes to stand up, and when I couldn't get up - I revealed it once, not day after day after day, post after post after post.

And here I am again - I ROSE again. So perhaps consider who YOU ARE BEING that keeps you in this vicious cycle of drama - drama that is the very thing that feeds your illness to stay alive and strong. YOU CREATE YOUR ILLNESS - YOU FEED IT - Why don't you break your pattern - you see how it affects every area of your life, not just business. but every area, every relationship.

I was there for you on a level money can't buy. You can't buy someone's heart. And you were on my heart level at one time. And from the sounds of our conversations, which were many and more personal than even business, I paid forward to you in ways that have nothing to do with business - and I was happy to be there for you -even while I was going through my own losses and deaths but i still took time to walk and talk with you through this aspect of life - I've walked a long road and all that I learn and continue to learn I pay forward in hopes it helps someone else. That is how I live. But I have a limit when it crosses the line of compromising my own well being.

I can no longer feed into what you are creating.


This is my final direct conversation with you on this thread. If you care to call me and get in communication in a manner that is positive and non dramatic, I am open to receiving your call.

It is your choice. Decisions are your Destiny. Choose your life in the manner it was meant to be lived and in what you have searched for-- peace - - only you can give yourself that. When you do, the good that is waiting to come into your life will appear. That affirmation I still hold for you.

And with all I have expressed in these posts both in reactive ego with typos as well as from the heart...I officially say peace out now to this thread.

You know where to find me -

Hello... I am 'A Gay'....

Please see CIG

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Just stating that he used an internal email address is not posting proof. You're spewing a lot of drivel and providing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IN THE WAY OF PROOF to back up your claims.

All this so you can get out of paying a measly $200. My guess would be that business isn't quite as well as you make it out to be. Which isn't surprising considering it was just a month or two you were melting down and business was shit.

Ban this bitch.

So do you and so do I. But you don't see either of us begging for help and donations.

i would never use her services, or recommend anyone as well because of this thread, seems like her services are all hogwash anyway.

ps donations for a break down are pathetic.

didn't she post here that she was so broke that she couldn't afford gifts for kid and someone on here bought a bunch of shit for them?

Christ you guys should start a club.

you don't complain, you don't see the money. simple as that in this business...

how many times should a person just 'forget' about a couple hundred bucks? 2 times? 5? 20? It adds up. No point in being a sucker for someone elses bullshit, its not your fault they have problems. Do you think that excuse would fly if you were a few hundred short of your car payment or mortgage? why should this be any different? if you run your business based on emotions you are going to be a mark for other people who think they can take advantage of you.

It's a digestive tract issue, not a terminal illness. :1orglaugh

I'd bet that there are a lot more of us here with it. I don't see any need to use it as an excuse. I can always take a laptop into the bathroom with me. :winkwink:

Yes...and now business is booming and better than ever. Her lawyer has this all under control.

Lori has always had a really stellar reputation. I've never worked with Lori, I have only met her briefly at shows but can say that people who have worked with her have relayed to me personally that they think nothing but the best of her and the services she provides. It's great to see her making a comeback, I wish nothing but the best for you, babe.

That being said, it's not right to accuse someone of theft and not show anything to back that up. Also, I really don't think he's using his illness as a business angle here. It's only being thrown into the mix to explain why an amount that some of us would shrug off has become so important to him, which is something that shouldn't have to be done. When you're owed money you are owed money, but as you can see by the sidebar comments between him and Dave sometimes knowing the dire straits of someone's situation puts their actions in a different light. I don't see it as being any different than when you discussed your illness months ago to let everyone know the severity of your personal situation.

If a job has been done someone should be paid for it, end of story. Two wrongs don't make a right and the "wrongs" that were committed on his part, if they did happen, weren't discovered for months and months after he should have been paid for the work he completed. Really what I'm getting reading through everything is someone did a job but only got paid for half the work, then was strung along for months about the other half of the payment only to find out you're not going to pay them because you suspect there may have been some shady shit going on.

If this situation does go to a lawyer, probably the first thing they are going to recommend you do is settle the remaining balance on the invoice for the work completed, otherwise you'll both be viewed as delinquent in the eyes of the judge / mediator. Also if this does go to court you will need more than showing he had access to an email account to prove he ilegally profited from the project and stole from your business. That won't hold up in a court of law and I will be surprised if it holds up in the court of GFY.

this pretty much covers it.

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yep, pathetic.

i seem to recall the last person around here who didn't pay ~$200 owed due to *principle* is now facing felony charges on an unrelated matter as a result.

It's not my place to say whether the situation has been handled appropriately by Lori, but for all it's worth I've only dealt with her briefly, trusted her with my money and was pleasantly satisfied with my dealings with her. She's good people as far as I'm concerned.

You are starting to be my hero. :2 cents:

Lol what the fuck? I see a lot of "i rose" "i will survive" "better then ever" "positive thinking" bullshit that has nothing to do with the case in question. You have not posted 1 proof of what you said, and you should be banned for that unless you do so.

Oh and, the first time you see someone saying "Business is booming, i'm rising again", it's clear you're in the shitter.

Ban her.

Shelly pretty much laid it all out in black and white.

Pay what is owed.

you haters should be looking to the adult broker for inispiration.

at a time when the entire industry is reeling from lower revenues, loss of traffic, etc., she not only picked herself up from rock bottom, but has risen to the top like a phoenix and her business is so good she barely has time to reply to this due to all day conference calls and she even has a lawyer to handle ~$200 issues such as this.


congrats the adult borker, fuck the haterZ!

once a thread has deteriorated into an essay writing contest i'm outta herre ...

Aw shucks, you guys are making me blush :)

though if your life has going to a point where if you are in trouble you don't turn to friends/family irl but some anonymous pixels on a message board your have some serious soul searching to do.

since she's doing so well now, maybe she can pay tony back for the presents he bought her kids for christmas... :2 cents:









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So what's the official rule on banning when accusing someone of something?

Don't they have to post proof?

Yeah and from what I can tell we have 2 ladies needing to post some. (Immortal/TAD)

why so many people with Chrons?

I always think similar things. Like when someone says "you can deal with my lawyer" or something along those lines ... they don't have a lawyer.

I know I've done it and it sounds silly.

Personally, I think processed foods, smog/environment, etc. has something to do with it.

Broker me a deal with that attorney that will take on cases with $200 at stake... I want to go after that kid that stole my lunch money back in the third grade... with interest and damages I figure that $5 must be worth about a $175 by now! :1orglaugh

I am also no responding to Lori anymore.

I realized she was off her rocker when she was begging for donations here to give her daughter a Christmas when she is such a proud jew. In fact, one of the reasons she gave me for increasingly not being around at the end was that she was celebrating the jewish holidays (all the one's that fall in October).

Wasn't going to bring the kid into the thread except she likes to use the kid as a pawn (notice how she rarely mentions a kid unless things are bad and she needs sympathy).

I'm reviewing things that were put into my lap last night (all public information it turns out) and it seems to be a recurring theme.

For me, it's all about my diet. If choose to eat recklessly I pay for it and it's not pretty.

I can really mess up a toilet bowl. If this thread hits 12 pages, I'll post pics. :1orglaugh

My best friend was diagnosed with it when she was little. Her older sister was just diagnosed with it last year. The docs they have seen think it's hereditary / genetic and also said the thing that kept the older sister's crohns at bay for so many years was the fact that she smoked. I guess smoking, while it can't roll the progressment of Crohns back can in people in early stages put it in statis. Weird way that smoking in her case benefited her health. She quit smoking and the crohns came out :(


I didn't have Crohns, my issues were caused by a antibiotic happy dr that perscribed me too many powerful antibiotics in too short a period of time which wound up throwing off my gi tract in a very bad way. Pretty much it was like my whole digestive tract was sick. I threw up, alot. And if I didn't throw a meal up it wasn't long before I was seeing it again the other way :Oh crap. On the brightside I have a chance of someday making a full recovery while my friends with Crohns will have to manage and fight flares forever.

I like the idea of having a club though :1orglaugh It can be some rough shit to go through. If anyone ever wants to vent, seriously, ICQ me anytime. When I was in the thick of it I withdrew, I didn't want to talk to anyone about it, I kinda shut out and shut down. I tried my best to cover it up as best I could and didnt want people to see how weak I was or let them know how serious things got. I think that was a mistake, I missed out on alot of support during the time in my life when I needed it the most. :2 cents:

I do have to respond to one more thing...actually saw this last night and meant to respond.

So we've gone from me supposedly causing you irreparable harm and damage to me just being able to admit to something that didn't happen, apologize to you, don't go after my $205 and you drop everything?

That is the most crafty way I've ever seen someone try to get out of a debt...

Homegrown Video is to amateur porn as the intestine is to digestion
 

From a literary standpoint... this thread is so genius... Crohns as a metaphor for debt. So deep I might have to go read some Joyce or something.:thumbsup

yeah from people i know it's the same, although new a few with more serious forms.

I do have to respond to one more thing...actually saw this last night and meant to respond.

So we've gone from me supposedly causing you irreparable harm and damage to me just being able to admit to something that didn't happen, apologize to you, don't go after my $205 and you drop everything?

That is the most crafty way I've ever seen someone try to get out of a debt...

EDIT: Sorry for the double post...the GFY database went down.

Post proof of this rule or be banned!!

I'm calling my lawyer.

Hehe, good one. =)

always bring it to the boards even when its a $205

I won't downplay the seriousness of it. It's not fun. But it's not the end of the world by any means.

Well so far, One side of this story is full of holes...

No proof yet either.

Lori, the rules of GFY DO NOT state that you have to post proof of 'something' ... it quite clearly states that you have to post proof of YOUR ACCUSATIONS... not just 'something'... which you have NOT done.

let me paste this just in case you havent actually read the rules.

You called him a scammer and said he backhandedly switched affiliate codes to his own and claimed that he stole revenues from you.

Back that up with actual proof, recant and apologize (along with paying him) or face the penalties of your actions.

I know youre respected around here... but there are strict rules now that have to be followed by all.

Perhaps you should have chose your initial words better? Well that chance is gone... you have 3 options...

I do hope rules apply to everyone... seems they have since the new regime so far...

good luck man. looks like you rose above it.

Please define ROI.

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My apologies in advance to innocent bystanders in the pic. This was done purely for illustrative purposes only.

BTW, if I don't get paid, this picture will end up being an illustrative point for other things that were passed along to me. 2004 ends up being a key year with lots of questions about character and integrity.

TAB knows what I am talking about. I was kind enough to forward to her by email what I know. Of course, she didn't reply, but we expected that, didn't we? I sent my email to her shortly after she posted that I knew where to find her.

It's all public information, just took a few people piecing it all together.

Dirty D. v2.0? Time will tell... :winkwink:

fuck waiting.. spill it now.. she has gone into invisible mode and you wont be hearing from her again...

dole that dirt out... :thumbsup






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i'd hit it.

Unless you have a picture of her doing lines, sorry, but dancing in a room of webmasters is - well, maybe something to be ashamed of - but definitely nothing to feel guilty about...