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Veggetto 11-22-2010 07:20 PM

I'd love to do this but it's not gonna be easy to outsource. Or if I do get it outsourced the quality will be horrible.

Leshansom 12-03-2010 07:32 AM

This is a great post and good for writers like me to get business. However, although i always want more business, i would stress that anyone starting a blog try to keep it up and do it themselves. This way you get an identity and a theme that people may actually end up enjoying; if you employ a load of different, poor quality writers to do your blog, not only will it cost a fortune, but you'll also get substandard content. Many writers will only do what they have to and no more!

Watch out for these guys!

Keep writing and make your blog interesting to read, you'll convert much more traffic this way. Text links are really good too, i agree.

Django 12-17-2010 06:27 AM

nice read, thanks

thedalmation 12-21-2010 08:15 PM

ive heard blogs are dead....any thoughts?

Jayvis 12-28-2010 10:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thedalmation (Post 17791916)
ive heard blogs are dead....any thoughts?

Just checking in on this thread, thanks for the feedback so far everyone.

Blogs are far from dead... I've had untouched blogs for years that still have page 1 spots on Google for nice keywords.

If anyone needs advice anytime... don't be shy. My ICQ is usually always on, just leave me a message and I'll be sure to get back to you. :)

angelicka 12-30-2010 10:49 PM

My Pouty Lips
 
Thanks for sharing.
I find myself in exactly this situation, and did almost the same as you did. Although my blog is not a dating site, but features erotica stories.
I do have over 30 original posts now, quite a few comments, etc. But I think I still have room for improvement. I wouldn't mind that you take a look at my blog (please see in my sig) and that you give me your feedback on it.
Thank you for that!

Kisses

Angelicka

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jayvis (Post 17056635)
Dating Blog Traffic on a Budget

I am writing this piece in response to the overwhelming number of individuals that have a limited knowledge of the adult industry but have ambition and are willing to put in the effort; they just need a little coaching in order to place their best foot forward.

I can?t begin to express how many times I receive an email or ICQ along the lines of ?How can I begin earning money with little to no start-up costs?? This in itself is a tough question to answer. It?s very difficult to build traffic with absolutely zero investment, but over the years I have found the following to be the best way to build organic traffic on a budget. These days it?s not exactly easy to slap together a simple page and rake in the money, but with a little bit of hard work and dedication, you can begin to ramp up search engine traffic in due time. Just remember, Rome wasn?t built in a day.

The typical ?newbie? affiliate may not have a firm grasp on installing a complex tube or TGP script and they may lack the designer know-how of creating a beautiful page. Without that knowledge, both tasks can be costly to hand off to someone else. With that said, I am a firm believer in Wordpress as an easy, overall solution to starting a website. Whether you?re a novice or an industry veteran, Wordpress is free, simple to install, and highly customizable. If you?re brand new to Wordpress, a few hours inside the admin area will have you feeling very comfortable and familiar with the way it works. Even if you?re feeling apprehensive about installing Wordpress yourself, you can always rely on just about any virtual hosting company to do it for you, as most have the ability to do one-click installs which saves you a lot of the technical headaches.

I won?t focus on the many ways to make your blog the most eye-catching or tell you about the best plug-ins. Instead, I?d like to jump right into discussing some of the methods I have used in the past for garnering search engine traffic. So with that said, let?s assume that you have Wordpress installed, you have a theme you?re happy with and you?re ready to begin publishing content.

The first method I would like to share involves writing a blog as a typical dating site user, almost in a ?review? sense. It boils down to writing about your experience with a product. Is it a new idea? Not at all. Is it saturated? Depending on who you talk to, just about any affiliate method is ?saturated? but I?ll tell you this? it?s effective; both in earning money and climbing the SERPs. I will try and break this method down to every little detail so that you can get a clear picture of how I worked this angle and how it was effective for me.

Firstly, our ?review blog? is going to be focused on dating, written by me in the first person. You need to grab a domain. Let?s say the domain is ?HowJayGotLaid.com? or ?SingleGuyInNY.com? or some variation of those? after all, in this instance, we are going after the dating market.

I would suggest you start with an ?about me? page and do a write up to allow your visitors to really feel like they know you, the writer. You can work this a few different ways. I would do stories of how ?I? had a hard time overcoming shyness and therefore decided to give online dating a chance and (of course) it was a ?great success!? ? It?s important to come off as a ?work in progress? story and to mention that ?I use this blog to document my success one date at a time ? as a kind of personal dating diary? and ?now I wanted to share my story with the world.? Include a picture (make sure you have permission if you?re going to be using other?s content) ? this allows your visitors to put a name to a face.

From here, you can begin with the actual posts. I think its common sense to keep your affiliate links as discreet as possible. We?re writing this as though we?re writing in a personal diary, not spamming the hell out everyone. Some common blog topics and points of interests to help fill content:























Ok, ok, you get the idea by now (hopefully).

With those topics above you could easily fill a blog with 20-30 posts over a period of time, if not more.

I would advise against placing banner ads on your blog. I would suggest sticking with only text links (but feel free to do it both ways to see how your traffic reacts to it). Sometimes people will come to your site and read every single word you post, other times they are lethargic and might only click on the flashy dating banner that caught their eye. Like I said, do a test and see how the clicks fluctuate.

The great thing about this method of sending traffic is that you can apply it to almost anything. Whether it?s adult, dating, mainstream; writing a blog can be done for almost any topic. The sky is the limit.


Jayvis 02-07-2011 04:11 PM

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This got picked up by The Fubar Times for their print publication. I had no idea until someone texted me this picture while they were at the Xbiz LA 2011 event. Thanks Fubar! :)

Hopefully I can get around to writing up some more items later on down the road!

{Psycho} 02-12-2011 02:52 PM

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Thx for the tutorial

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Jayvis 08-24-2011 10:50 AM

Hey guys, I just got word from someone at AVN that they will be running this piece for the Webmaster Access magazine that will be going out during the 2011 Amsterdam show. I'm very honored that they would ask me, made my day! :)

possiblygreen 10-06-2011 12:38 PM

Interesting take on the situation. A nice method for playing the long game, right?

Jayvis 10-20-2011 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by possiblygreen (Post 18473763)
Interesting take on the situation. A nice method for playing the long game, right?

Hmmm, not sure what you mean by the "long game" can you elaborate on that?

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