Being in Love
 

How do you know when you're in love? How long do you date someone before you tell them you love them?

you bagged a new man...?

by the time you finish the 8th drink???

Feb 18th will be a year now.


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somebody made you feel good down there :winkwink: its lust


what if you dont drink? :helpme

I'm giving the no drinking thing a try.

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nice, and my one liner was just a joke about myself LOL i get awfully chatty after about ummm,... 2? :1orglaugh

however, i rarely drink these days, maybe 2 beers a month LOL

as Seinfeld once said, are you confident in the "i love you" return ...?

Chemical imbalance in the brain...

That I don't know, in reality I'm not sure if I'm in love. I do have some strong feeling but not sure if it's all the great sex I love! LMAO

Sounds like you're doing a good job on that.


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If you are not sure, you probably aren't in love.
I knew I was in love when I stopped thinking about what I had with my ex-wife and started thinking about what I wanted with my new love (now my wife).

Friends told me I used to mention my ex in every conversation some how. When that stopped being the main topic of conversation, even they knew I was in love - without even knowing if I was dating anyone else.

oh trust me, as a lover of the drink, i have tried to have some drinks, but i find myself wondering why I am even doing it, so I stop... i had two sips of champagne on new years,... thats it... was a big part of my life for so long and took everything i had to stop, now I just shake my head at the wasted decade of daily drinking...

i promised myself my little girl would never see me like that and as I sit here now I can assure you she never has and never will. she is two years old and hasnt seen me drunk...

I had a friend (she was about 14 at the time) she was wondering how do you know when you feel orgasm. Well when you feel it for the first time there's no doubt what it is :1orglaugh Same shit with love I guess. You wouldn't ask if you felt it. When you love you just know what it is

The prob is we have crazy good sex so I'm not sure if it's love or lust. I have learned so many thing's about myself this last year and I think he pulls out the better side of me. I never thought I could be so patient until now.

I get the butterflies and all that when he calls, my roommate tells me that after I see him I like happy as hell for a few days. There's only one bad thing about it his wife of 20 years passed a year ago on the 29th of this month so that kinda makes things hard.

She passed a year ago? And when did you start dating?

Don't judge she fought cancer for 4 years unfortunately, he was there 100% and looked after her the whole time. The first time we went out was Feb 18th, May is when the dating thing started I think.

You'll have a clearer picture in 3-6 months if you still feel the same.
Here's hoping it works out for you both.

If you wish to be the furthest away from that object of desire then you're truly in love ...

I'm not saint myself to judge anyone
I asked from pure curiosity
It's interesting why he started dating someone else so soon after. Several reasons came to my mind. But I'm not TOO curious to make you discuss it with me :)
4 years fighting cancer, that's dreadful

I've been married for 10 years, and I've never told my wife I love her. Talk is cheap.

I refuse to say stupid those things that other people do to profess love for their significant other -- and believe me, if she asked, or tried to force me to say it, I'd have serious doubts about whether or not I should be with her.

Anyway, I think you know you love someone when you can spend extended periods of time with him/her, and come back for a second helping with a smile. When we were stuck in our house for days watching movies during last year's snow storms, we didn't want it to end.

Also, she has what I like to call "magic pussy". It's like fucking warm melted butter.

https://gfy.com/showthread.php?t=1041360 ?

I wasn't serous about him then and he was one of the 3.


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you having steak don't you want something on the side? thats why i said lust

Men who speak about the past are THE WORST!!! Deal breaker.
(not you) just saying in general people who don't move on or feel the need to tell new lady all about it.

Congratulations on new wifey!

That's too hardcore!

I agree with Femme Fatale here

Someday, someone will come into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. ;)))

I am truely in love with my lady and there wasn't a specific time. It was more like a wave that came over me one day. I can't live the rest of my life without this woman. You will definitely know. The feeling cannot be mistaken. Love is a brutal bitch though as it ever changes.

The difference between LUST and LOVE:

After you have sex if you leave its LUST. If you stay and cuddle for the night its LOVE.

The other difference is when its Lust, you agree with everything they say. Love you actually have an opinion and are not afraid to stand your ground.

When you would prefer to suffer pain than see them suffer pain.

this. so so true.

It's so hardcore that I love it!

I never liked saying I love you. always felt like I was obligated to.

That's definitely a good sign, if you find yourself being happy for no other apparent reason! The effects of lust shouldn't last for days but love will :winkwink:

To answer your original question, it's not something I can put a finger on about when, where or how I personally knew, but at some point (I think about three months in actually ...) I knew that he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I couldn't imagine spending it with anyone else instead. I don't think there is a way I could even start to explain how I knew he was the one, I just knew.

TurboAngel I think she is trying to tell you here about her new pheonsay.

Now that made me laugh! Where did brand0n ever go?


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I believe you know it when you feel it in your bones (and no, not your boner, your bones). Ive been blessed to REALLY feel this way 1x in my life...and I let him tell me he loved me first before I told him I loved him. I still feel his love for me and Im sure he still feels mine for him, THATS how you KNOW.

I think when you trust implicitly rather than doubt it's a good sign.

Loves blind particularly when you fuck up the first glance :2 cents:

You just know it!