What are some REAL signs that a girl is in love with you? Any females in the house?
 

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If she sucks your dick and swallows she loves you....oh another way is if she fucks all your friends.

wish I knew the answer to this one, but I dont :(

damn she doesn't swallow...

but she's a newbie still in training, hehe.

Once she laughs at your corny jokes, starts cooking romantic dinners, and just offering to be there if youre in need :D

I just gave you the fucking answer! what more do you want? Another sign is if you fuck her bestfriend and she doesn't leave you then she loves you.

I have... but before we started dating, lol.


well, not best friend :)

I agree with this. I think some signs include when a chick cooks when she doesn't have to and is there for you when she doesn't have to be. That's when she's initially in love, once she's confident you are too, then the cooking and all that will probably stop ;) At least that's what happened when I met my hubby, but I only realize all this now looking back.

~Alli

When she marries you, knowing you will be gone in 10-15 years.

She wants you so much she will sacrifice the best years of her life.

Please, some girls do that AND give you some booty on the first date.

If she's still with you even you don't have enough money to spend on her!

There's GOT to be more to it than that. Although I do have money, the most my girl will see from me is is lunch/dinner once in a while :)

My girlfriend's ex boyfriend was a millionaire... bought her EVERYTHING she wanted. She always talks about how stupid he was.

P.S. he never got any :Graucho

if she takes it up the ass

lol... a sign??? hahahahahahahahaha hahaha a fucking sign?

:321GFY

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Well, then either way its a win win.


But theres more to it. Once the girl not only listens to yo but really *listens*, gives good imput. Once you feel a connection with deep thoughts, shes the one.

The best way to make a girl love you is to ignore her and/or treat her like dirt.

All girls show it in different ways, but some of the main things to look for are (in general, but not for all women):

1. Wanting to know where you are and who you're with more often than she ever did before.

2. Acting jealous whenever you are around other women.

3. Wanting to spend almost all of her time with you.

4. Waiting by the phone for you to call.

5. Calling you alot more often.

6. Forgiving you more easily when you hurt her feelings, show up late for things, etc. (But some women get angrier when you do these things because they feel you don't care.)

7. Spending less time with other guys, even male friends.

8. Cancelling important events in her life to spend time with you.

9. Touching you more often. More hugs, more arms around you, more touches on the arm, etc.

10. More eye contact. Is she looking directly into your eyes more often?

11. When you sit together, is she crossing her legs TOWARD you? If you sit beside her and she crosses her legs so her foot is pointing at you, that usually means she likes you alot or loves you (in body language.)

12. When you're talking to her, are her lips slightly parted most of the time? Some women instinctively (yet subconsciously) will listed to a guy they are interested in with their lips parted slightly as if waiting for a kiss.

13. Does she lean forward when you talk to her, perhaps with her chin in her hand? If so, she might be in love. If she leans back, possibly with her arms crossed, she is probably not interested in you in that way.

Remember, a girl could exhibit all of these signs and not be in love, or she could have none of them and be head over heels. All women are different. :)

Treat her like shit and see if she's still willing to lend you thousands of dollars or support your broke ass. :1orglaugh

Let's see...


1. Wanting to know where you are and who you're with more often than she ever did before. CHECK!! lol

2. Acting jealous whenever you are around other women. HUGE CHECK!! lol

3. Wanting to spend almost all of her time with you. > Seems like she has to be forced out of the house, lol...

4. Waiting by the phone for you to call. > No I don't think so.

5. Calling you alot more often. > I guess, but I think she feels she has to, lol.

6. Forgiving you more easily when you hurt her feelings, show up late for things, etc. (But some women get angrier when you do these things because they feel you don't care.) > I'm ALWAYS late... some kind of disease I have, lol

8. Cancelling important events in her life to spend time with you. > nope.

9. Touching you more often. More hugs, more arms around you, more touches on the arm, etc. > I'm usually the one to initiate that stuff.

7. Spending less time with other guys, even male friends. > Doesn't have many male friends

10. More eye contact. Is she looking directly into your eyes more often? > Havn't really paid much attention to that.

11. When you sit together, is she crossing her legs TOWARD you? If you sit beside her and she crosses her legs so her foot is pointing at you, that usually means she likes you alot or loves you (in body language.) > Havn't paid attention to that either.

13. Does she lean forward when you talk to her, perhaps with her chin in her hand? If so, she might be in love. If she leans back, possibly with her arms crossed, she is probably not interested in you in that way. > I don't know, lol

You wanna know the simplest way to tell?

Its when you get to the point where you can be yourself around her. Where you can belch, pick your teeth and be a slob in front of her.

Same thing with her, when you can see her in the morning and not scream your lungs out cause you saw her without makup...

You know stuff like that.

I have to agree with zzgundamnzz.
When she has seen you at your worst, when she knows your ugliest secrets and most repulsive habits, and still wants to be with you... that's love.

good thread.


Allison- i WISH someone would cook for me someday lol

interesting no one has mentioned anything about a gut feeling here.


personally, i've never had a clue until she tells me. Even when it's mutual somehow i always think it's only me that feels that way. in one IMPORTENT case it went on for YEARS and i found out how she felt over the same time period and that she felt the same way about me over the same period of time. KILLED ME inside.......someone i completely and totally adored....changed my life

She told me she loves me... but I said it first, and for some reason I just wonder if she really means it.

i don't think you really should have to GET to that point with the person you truly love...good relationships are based on who each partner is BEFORE the relationship - not after. if you can be yourself then your realtionship will last - if you have to be someone else - ie wear a mask, it WILL eventually break down. might take YEARS, but it will happen

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what's the reason you wonder - can you put your finger on it?

Not quite. Well, I guess lack of reciprocation in the relationship may be a factor. I feel I'm putting a lot of effort in to the relationship when she's putting in none. Can be frustrating at times.

If that's the case, why put up with her?

I don't know :1orglaugh

if you don't feel loved back - LEAVE now.

find someone you LOVE, not someone you CAN love. - now RE-READ that SLOWLY


find someone who loves you for who are - not what you do for them.

it's MUCH harder to leave 10 years later and you'll have wasted a lot of your life. worse yet, you may find your true love and be married and not able to persue it.

you should be more worried about whether or not you love her, not if she loves you

now there's a man :thumbsup

you believe her ex boyfriend didnt get any?




anyway the true sign of love is the following:



tell her that if she loves you she'll let you take a pic of her doing a goatse. if she does it, marry her!

Excellent advice.

But I mean, I have been infactuated with this girl since the day I first layed eyes on her. Absolutely georgeous (used to be a model but now prefers to work behind the scenes). We've been dating 5 months and I still can't believe I actually got her in the first place, lol.

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infatuation is one thing. but can you QUANTIFY why?

think about good and bad qualities of the person and come to terms with them. NOT just appearance and how they make you feel, WHO THEY ARE as a person. Every time I've ever done that with anyone i've had a crush on i lost the crush on them soon afterwards (cept once, in that one case it made it much worse lol)

Once again some good advice. I did something similar when we got into a fight a while back. Listed out the pros/cons of the relationship.

Anyways, thanks for the input and advice Sleazy. With that said I'm going to try and get some sleep. Have a good one :glugglug

"Man, there are a million fine girls in the world, but not all of them bring you lasagna at work. Most of them just cheat on you."

-- Silent Bob, "Clerks" (1994)

From what I have read it sounds like she loves you in a different way then you think or wished she did.

:thumbsup listen to him

Infactuation ends and you see what you really feel after that.
She is just another person you should not be thinking oh wow I can't believe she is going out with little ol me. There are millions of hot chicks in the World you just got to look.