OK GFYers, MY GF: "MY PAST BEFORE I KNEW YOU IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS"
 

ladies, should i accept that or is it my business because we have been together for 5 months and are supposed to share everything with each other

what's right and whats wrong

what should i do?

Sounds like she has a double anal gangbang in her past she is ashamed of. :Graucho

She has a point, but you prolly figure she is hidding something now.

Damn, when I read the thread title I was going to post "she was in a gangbang".

After 5 months she should be able to tell you anything. I think you have a right to know...what is the big deal anyway?

If she tells details about any past relationship prolly she'll hurt your feelings. Same applies if you tell her you've fucked two trannies when you weren't even drunk :winkwink:

of course its your business. maybe she killed her last boyfriend.

Maybe she started life as a man. Have you checked her carefully for scars?

You don't want to know what she did before. You think you do but you don't.

Has she been tested?

i agree... it seems kinda odd... :(

She's a lying cheating bitch who is hiding things.

Leave her.

Plus, 15 year olds are cranky bitches.

I know what my girlfriend did in the past.

I wanted to know. It hurts. I wouldnt change the fact that I know.

Oh dear, depends on how mature the both of you are, and if you are in love with her and can excuse her past. I'm in agreement with a few others, she must be hiding something....otherwise, she'd share. After all, aren't we suppose to be partners and very honest with our mates....trust is the biggest issue aside from love, sex, loyalty, etc. She's not trying to build much trust this way, think about it baby!!! Good luck!

:thumbsup

True :)

I'd never say something like that unless I had something pretty big to hide. This is just her nice way of telling you that you're going to run across her pics while you're checking trades. :winkwink:

Her past? Odds are she's 15... so she probably did a few double anal stints, and maybe sucked off the entire football team.

If she's with you, she's got to be pretty ugly, or damn torn up...

I'd dump her, and then jump off a bridge.

Is this the same girl you dumped last month for being in the same room with another guy in the middle of the afternoon, with other people around?

i would have to agree with brad here, she is hiding something huge...and how can you love and accept everything about her if she is hiding

she doesn't love you, if she did, she would not care about telling you anything

wow, another wonderful response from the king of dimwits

Stick to what Rick said.

Matt

if it was the oposite would you agree?

what's the big deal?

she could have at least lied about her past

She's probably afraid that you're going to have a jealous temper tantrum like you always do.

aint that the truth :glugglug

it's always like that :(

Sure thing.. seriously sometimes it is just better I think :thumbsup

taint that the truth

Well let's see, you're 16 or 17... so that would make her, probably 14 or 15...

So I'm guessing anything from her "past" would involve Barbie, Lizzie McGuire, Disney Channel, and Nsync.

I wouldn't lose much sleep over it.

she has to be hiding something. she must know you're insecure if she isnt willing to tell you.

Don't try to find out how you got aids

That what I was sort of thinking! :warning

Bullshit... When I married my wife, I knew there were a lot of things she hadn't told me, but I trusted her. Over time, bit by bit, most of those things have been revealed... and they were things that hurt her too much to talk about, not things that made me think less of her.

If you're looking for a serious relationship, run for the hills. Hiding one's past and keeping too many secrets is bad news.

Big difference in just not saying and saying none of your biz once asked. Were you gonna tell her about about all the good sex with who-ever???

Better to say none of your business than to lie.

BTW - how was the Tranny?

I agree with Dagwolf here..... sometimes it isn't so much that YOU will have a fit, but rather she doesn't want to talk about it for her own reasons. I know when I got with my husband like 21 years ago, that was part of my situation...... a lot of things had happened to me that I just DID not want to go into at the time...... from being molested to raped and LOTS of other things. They were things I didn't want to go into, not that I didn't trust HIM to have a fit or not have a fit.

Over time, and as we were together longer, and I trusted him and I was more comfortable in opening up with him, it all started coming out. And yes, some things he did NOT want to hear, but he was told anyway. And yes, some of it made him very angry..... and some made him cry WITH me, because he is good like that.

Bottom line wasn't whether he trusted me or not enough to hear it, but rather, that I trusted him enough to open myself that far up to someone because it's very hard for me to trust people..... so maybe you guys shouldn't be so quick to judge what kind of person she is, but rather is she trusting HIM enough to open those doors again, and has he GIVEN her a reason to trust him that much? :thumbsup

Not trying to start drama here, but just giving you more to look at than just the surface of it. It's a LOT harder for women to trust men than it is for men to trust women. MOST women think you are just with them for the ass, and once you have given her reason to believe otherwise, chances are she'll trust you with her life and give you all of the information you want to know. I say this out of personal opinion and life experience, doesn't apply to AL, but for me, it does. I didn't trust that my husband HONESTLY loved me til we had been together for like 5 years... but that was more because of a horrendous childhood where men had been the sole point of my horrors, so it was extremely hard to trust a man with ANY aspect of my life.

And you know what? I now know and have for a long time, that men aren't ALL bad, some are, but majority of them aren't, they have their own insecurities as well. Once a woman has truly hurt them, it takes forever for them to trust another female...... so it goes both ways.

you'll learn one day not to dig into a girl's past, all it does is cause jealousy and start fights

you want the truth? you can't handle the truth!

it isn't any of your fucking business, and you really couldn't handle it if she told you

only a young punk would seriously think that after 5 months of being her "boyfriend" that this entitles you to know who or how many people she has fucked or anything else.

if she wants you to know, she will tell you, and you will wish she hadn't

BINGO!!!!


Oh, but do try to get the video....

ohh btw where is 187 now? he's gone all of a sudden.