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engorgecash 10-10-2006 12:38 PM

Fathers, I don't like having sex with my wife after witnessing birth of our son
 
This was about 4 months ago and I don't know what to do. She's been really great about getting back in shape and is even starting to get a little aggressive in initiating sexual contact. Before she got pregnant, we were like rabbits - all the time, anywhere, every position. Then, when she got pregnant, I started seeing her in a bit of a different way.

Finally, when she gave birth, I saw way too much. Our son's head ripped her vagina open. She lost control of her bowels. The resulting mix of blood, shit, and amniotic fluid produced a sight and smell in the delivery room I never EVER want to experience again.

Any other GFYer dads experience this? I should have stayed in the waiting room but she insisted that I ":mad: be there for the birth of our child. :mad:"

I'm really at a loss here. The result is that I find her unattractive, even sexually repulsive now. She might think I'm having an affair, but I'm not. Yet. :Oh crap

LexiLexxx 10-10-2006 12:55 PM

Cowboy up bitch!

lambpie 10-10-2006 12:57 PM

i have to say, even reading that shocked me.. so i wont be witnessing any child births if i ever have kids thats for sure..

ae-sc 10-10-2006 12:59 PM

talk to your doctor about this. im sure that you're not alone here.

please dont resort to the affair. it sounds as if you've already had something lined up, but didn't have the balls to actually do it.

cheating on your wife just because you are having a problem now could not only have an affect on you, but the connection between you and your child. I'm sure that your child is gonna turn into a fuckup if you tell them that you found their birth (and essentially them) repulsive

OY 10-10-2006 01:01 PM

Chicken...

MaLayLaH 10-10-2006 01:02 PM

If it makes you feel better, woman are usually tighter after childbirth than they were before, because of the curtesy stitches from the doctor. The fact that you're repulsed by a natural thing that happens during childbirth is normal for a guy, but just imagine how you would feel if that were you and you couldn't control your body infront of a bunch of strangers ? Give her some props.

squishypimp 10-10-2006 01:02 PM

yeah you may want to talk with a doctor about your issues.

engorgecash 10-10-2006 01:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaLayLaH (Post 11042093)
If it makes you feel better, woman are usually tighter after childbirth than they were before, because of the curtesy stitches from the doctor. The fact that you're repulsed by a natural thing that happens during childbirth is normal for a guy, but just imagine how you would feel if that were you and you couldn't control your body infront of a bunch of strangers ? Give her some props.

I'm disgusted by the childbirth. I think it should be like the old days when men stayed in the waiting room and passed out cigars later. Men shouldn't have to see his wife and kid until she is scrubbed, cleaned and sutured up and put back together again. No wonder so many men cheat after the kids arrive. It's fucking gross. :mad:

Now because of that nightmarish experience, I can't seem to get rid of this image of my newborn son's head ripping her insides out. :disgust

Ayla_SquareTurtle 10-10-2006 01:14 PM

she had sex with you, went through a pain you will never IMAGINE, and now you wont make love to her?

grow up. :321GFY

Violetta 10-10-2006 01:16 PM

Im glad I'm not a father yet and dont have to deal with this issue. But I can understand you. Good luck in solving the problem!

engorgecash 10-10-2006 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ayla_AAA (Post 11042186)
she had sex with you, went through a pain you will never IMAGINE, and now you wont make love to her?

grow up. :321GFY

Making love to her, going down on her feels like I'm french kissing my newborn baby on the mouth. Blech!

I now advocate wholeheartedly women having C-Sections instead of natural child birth. It's cleaner. Safer. And the plumbing stays intact.

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE 10-10-2006 01:18 PM

start fucker her ass, you'll think different, no baby ripped out of that... maybe a huge duker, but nothing else

HomoErectus 10-10-2006 01:19 PM

yuck i just lost my appetite.

Ayla_SquareTurtle 10-10-2006 01:20 PM

give my sympathies to your wife.

then again, she picked you.

engorgecash 10-10-2006 01:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rockatansky (Post 11042206)
Im glad I'm not a father yet and dont have to deal with this issue. But I can understand you. Good luck in solving the problem!

Yeah I hear you man. Women don't realize the emotional impact on "Dad" having to have to bear witness to his wife being permanently physically goatse'd for life for christ sakes. :mad:

MetaMan 10-10-2006 01:20 PM

:1orglaugh

HomoErectus 10-10-2006 01:21 PM

so she shat a turd out along with the baby?

Dagwolf 10-10-2006 01:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LOL :D (Post 11042222)
start fucker her ass, you'll think different, no baby ripped out of that... maybe a huge duker, but nothing else

:1orglaugh Omg, I almost pissed myself.

Seriously, see a shrink. You need to put this in perspective, since you're obviously the one with a problem... and how do you know it won't affect you with all women?

TheB 10-10-2006 01:27 PM

I stayed up by my wife's head during the birth (holding her hand, stroking her hair, keeping eye contact, reminding her to breathe, that kind of thing) so I didn't see the actual head pop out or any of the related fun stuff.

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Originally Posted by engorgecash (Post 11042211)
Making love to her, going down on her feels like I'm french kissing my newborn baby on the mouth. Blech!

That's just weird. I think you might have general issues not strictly related to the recent birth.

Quote:

Originally Posted by engorgecash (Post 11041900)
Finally, when she gave birth, I saw way too much. Our son's head ripped her vagina open. She lost control of her bowels. The resulting mix of blood, shit, and amniotic fluid produced a sight and smell in the delivery room I never EVER want to experience again.

TTIUWP

SmokeyTheBear 10-10-2006 01:28 PM

thats funny i have no problems fucking your wife at all..

just kidding . im a father and i never had that problem.. it grossed me out the first time for a few weeks ( flashbacks lol ) but that didnt last long

MaLayLaH 10-10-2006 01:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by engorgecash (Post 11042155)
I'm disgusted by the childbirth. I think it should be like the old days when men stayed in the waiting room and passed out cigars later. Men shouldn't have to see his wife and kid until she is scrubbed, cleaned and sutured up and put back together again. No wonder so many men cheat after the kids arrive. It's fucking gross. :mad:

Now because of that nightmarish experience, I can't seem to get rid of this image of my newborn son's head ripping her insides out. :disgust


How do you think the mother of your child would feel in that situation? It was YOUR SEED that impregnated her, grew inside her, and caused her pain and tearing. If that were me, I would be terrified about the pain I was going to have and I would only hope that the person who put me in that position would be there to hold my hand and help me through it. If you honestly didn't want to whitness it, you should've discussed it with her beforehand and not resent her afterward. Sure it's gross, but it's just a gross for her, having the embarrassment of having it come out of her when her water breaks, while strangers are watching it happen to her, and the month of heavy pms afterwards.

You should suck it up and make her feel special for even giving you something as special as your child.

sicone 10-10-2006 01:33 PM

its clear that you truly love your wife

Dveron 10-10-2006 01:36 PM

You have to remember that childbirth is a natural thing. I saw my baby boy come out and watch the doc as he removed the placenta afterward. Sure I was grossed out at the time but you move past it and you should have huge respect for what your wife went through. it's not like she really had a choice about those things happening to her body at the time.

Sounds to me like you have some issues with bodily functions etc

Dveron 10-10-2006 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sicone (Post 11042339)
its clear that you truly love your wife

:1orglaugh

Fred Quimby 10-10-2006 01:38 PM

I'll never forget the smell, just thinking of it makes me want to puke.

10 seconds before my wife gave birth (all on video of course) the doctor sliced her vagina open from the botton to the top of her ass hole,, then everything spilled out. Fucking gross. Even after 5 years she sill watches the video on a regular basis.

as long as your wife mouth still works you should be fine. and be happy with that cause your not the baby anymore.

Missy 10-10-2006 01:40 PM

I have to agree with Ayla on this one. You think you have it bad? Try to imagine what your wife had to go through! They compare it to a man trying to squeeze a lemon out of his peehole. Childbirth is a natural and beautiful thing. To watch a brand new life enter into this world is really a miracle, and if you hadn't been there for it, you'd probably regret it.

More likely than not, your wife is already suffering from the self-esteem issues that almost every woman goes through after childbirth, and your attitude won't help a damn thing.

LaoTzu 10-10-2006 01:43 PM

I caught my second baby under water in a birth tub while I was in there with my wife. Swam in all kinds of bodily fluids, cut the cord, got out and then showered.

I love my wife's vagina, and get with it whenever possible.

Dagwolf 10-10-2006 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear (Post 11042299)
it grossed me out the first time for a few weeks ( flashbacks lol ) but that didnt last long

It didn't gross me out at all.. I couldn't wait to get back in there. :1orglaugh

Dagwolf 10-10-2006 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LaoTzu (Post 11042428)
I caught my second baby under water in a birth tub while I was in there with my wife. Swam in all kinds of bodily fluids, cut the cord, got out and then showered.

I love my wife's vagina, and get with it whenever possible.

One of the most important lessons in life:

Shit washes off.

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE 10-10-2006 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LaoTzu (Post 11042428)
I love my wife's vagina, and get with it whenever possible.

i love your wifes vagina too :thumbsup :1orglaugh

he-fox 10-10-2006 02:53 PM

I don't get this thing about men witnessing childbirth. Stop imitating what you see on TV shows.

Elli 10-10-2006 03:00 PM

I bet you're not the only one with this issue. Try looking up some local "new dads" help groups and bring it up with them.

In the meantime, you're hurting your wife's feelings. She worked so hard to get back in shape for you to find her attractive again... I would sleep with one eye open for the next while.

Spudstr 10-10-2006 03:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ayla_AAA (Post 11042186)
she had sex with you, went through a pain you will never IMAGINE, and now you wont make love to her?

grow up. :321GFY


have you never had a kidney stone? i've had two suposably they are worse than giving birth :-/

rigrunner 10-10-2006 03:53 PM

Beer will sort ya...plenty bottles beer and a viagra :thumbsup

shekinah 10-10-2006 04:23 PM

Seeing a wife giving birth really sucks but what had happened was normal because I saw women giving birth and it's not a big deal for me if they gave off something eww. You will get used to it bro!

Matiz 10-10-2006 04:39 PM

I watched a movie instead of witnessing childbirth.

How did it smell again? :upsidedow

kezia 10-10-2006 04:57 PM

Why don't you try talking to your wife about this?Every problem of couples need to be talk about...finding solution is much better than keeping it to your self!!!

tranza 10-10-2006 05:16 PM

Fucking fag...

VexXxed 10-10-2006 05:28 PM

Thanks for the warning! :warning

No way in hell I'm catching a birdseye view of this shit.

dissipate 10-10-2006 05:32 PM

Whenever I have a child, im not watching it pop out - i'll take the side view thank you very much


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