Girlfriend Crap, What would you do?
 

Hey,
Got a girlfriend of 3 years. Been making money off porn secretely for a year now, making good money.

She today finds out and wants me either out of porn or out of her life, what would you do? Other than this crap the relationship is honestly perfect.

-max

:BangBang:

Can you get me a beer hun on your way up to pack your shit ?


:thumbsup

One Word: UPGRADE

m.o.b. lol

Tell her to deal with it or get the fuck out.

Otherwise you'll be a little pussy-whipped bitch!

Fuck her! Money is more important than a girlfriend.

3 years though? And seriously, shes fucken amazing.

be gay.

I stick to my original answer .... you think there aren't more amazing girls out there ?

If my old lady didn't like what I did for a living and I had to change everything .... see ya !!!!!

Money Over Bitches,,

take pictures of her sleeping naked and post them here.

explain to her that the only reason you do it is for $$$. explain to her that without this income, she can no longer have all of the nice things she has come to enjoy. Explain to her you are trying to build a comfortable future. Explain to her its marketing. Explain to her that you are simply selling whats in the highest demand in the curernt internet market.

Explain to her that without you, shes nothing:thumbsup

dump her so many girls out there

Three years? So what! She's willing to drop you, right? Fuck her, literally, and then kick her out.

Fuck, i think im going with PureMeds and if not then... oh well, anyone got a cute sister?

how old are you?

21 :) ... lol here come the "dump the bitch" replies...

if shes not down for you for who you are fuck the ho...theres millions of them and they all feel the same :thumbsup

my girlfriend loves the porn! i would show her a good bukkake video that should set her straight :winkwink:

do you have a day job? If not, and if you work at home, she needs to understand that from 9-5 or whatever you are working, just like at any normal job.

This is from a girls point of view. You can take it or leave it. This is your life not her's. She knew who and what kind of person you were when she got with you. She probably already knew about the porn. We always suddenly know shit conveniently. Forget the relationship, fuck it. Your makin bank, your young, shit get somebody else. Nobody needs a negative playa hater around anyway. Okay?

Dude, I hope she's not living with you.
If she is you'd better check the common law marriage statues in your state...
:warning

No day job. Contract work. I wish it was 9-5, its more like 9-11:30. Im gonna get off GFY and try to work this shit out. Will keep you guys updated.

take pictures so we can "see" how it's going.

Dude! Your 21...its not like you're gonna get married. Nobody gets married anymore until they're like 32.

Ditch the bitch!

tell her to hang out at gfy for a week before she makes her final decision. Best advice ever!

3 years and you didn't tell her in all that time you worked in porn?

Sounds like a solid relationship...

i concur... gay is in :thumbsup

your a man! admit it!

Been there..
if its not this it will be something else.

3 years is a long time I feel your pain.

If you love her set her free if it's right then she will come back and its ment to be. Or something like that.

Porn just aint for everyone good luck!

wait till shes sleeping and give her a facial

and hardcore anal pounding!

Girlfriend problems? I feel for you.

Rent the movie "John Q" with Denzel Washington. Watch as she cries like a little bitch during the part where Denzel is telling his son goodbye as he is dying in the hospital bed. Watch as Denzel is about to blow his own brains out so his son can have his heart. Denzel's last words he tells to his son. Basically:

"Son, do what you have to do to have money in life. Sell out if you have to, but make money. Don't let this happen to you."

You see, his son was going to die because they couldn't afford medical care. As your girl is crying like a baby at that scene, you pause the movie and ask her if she agrees with what Denzel was saying. She'll be like fuck yeah I agree.

Then you tell her that is exactly what you are doing. You are doing what it takes so that you have money to take care of her and your future kids, that you aren't going to sit on your ass and let your children die someday because you can't afford health insurance and shit.

Maybe she will see the light...

Ask her what she is insecure about regarding your work. Otherwise this could be more of a control thing. I agree with everything RogerV said.

Finally post a nude pic so we can all give you some serious advice.

Good luck man... We've all been there in one way or another.

what is your definition of "good money" and just how amazing is she?

if the money is that good and she is that amazing just say:

ok honey i would rather have you over this porn money any day!

then hide your porn shit better in the future!

cheers,
BV

wow, a girlfriend will decide the way you'll make your living.......

great

Hey Turboface I read that post, not good man :/

As for the question, I recently offered my brother some work making some sites as he's just had a kid and needs all the money he can get.
His gf said no.
"I dont care how good the pay is, I dont want you doing it!".

What I think it comes down to is being close minded, my opinion is try and convince her it's just a money thing, it's not like you beat off over it all day! (do you?)

Otherwise fuck her off, anyone willing to throw away a 3 year relationship over your profession isnt worth DICK.

Yes.

"3 years and you didn't tell her in all that time you worked in porn?"

this is what i'm wondering. nobody breaks up over just one thing, especially after three years. perhaps she's pissed cause you've been lying to her for a whole year.

just a thought.