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gothweb 09-28-2002 10:32 AM

Cool. I just got threatened!
 
So, there's this guy... Olivier Hufkens. He runs a site called Crucified Women, where he uses pics without permission. A dark site based on stealing peoples' graphics. We had a run-in a while back, when he was using my affiliate program but using unauthorized images from my sites.

Anyhow, I got CC on the following email... From him to Dark Dollars, CCing a bunch of gothic webmaster...

Hello,
*
*Check out
http://www.crucified-women.com/hufkens/
*
I have put the first two banners of dark dollars over there.
*
I would like you to click them,....
and let me know if you enjoy the explosion of pop-up windows that follows after exit.
Then imagine you are a visitor of my site,....
and ask yourself the question if you would click those banners again for a second time !!!
*
Almost all my affiliate programs are ccbils-referrals,....
because*ccbill really pays every week like promised.
*
But you can be sure that almost none of my visitors will
click those banners a second time if you don't remove those pop-ups.
All my links to other sites are opening in one same window.
My visitors do know this!
*
You have a selection of*GREAT MAJOR Paysites !
Please,...
Do something about those pop-up windows.
*
I am sending a copy of this mail to other webmaster who might join your programs,
but get rid of those pop-ups windows on exit,.... please.


I didn't really see the point of him sending me his little rant, so I repied:

Hey asshole-- Why am I getting emails about Dark Dollars?

And this was his reply...

Because you are a webmaster!
Call me Asshole again,
and I come to you in person to break your face, get it.
And I heard that a lot of other webmasters would be thrilled to join me,...
You are that schmuck working alone, aren't you!


How exciting.

gothweb 09-28-2002 10:37 AM

:1orglaugh Perfect. Thanks.

ControlThy 09-28-2002 10:38 AM

Everyone is getting threatened these days.
Nothing special really.

Fletch XXX 09-28-2002 10:38 AM

That page is horrible on the eyes.

gothweb 09-28-2002 10:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fletch XXX
That page is horrible.
Pretty much all of his stuff is crap. He also told me once that he is in trouble, accused of kiddy porn...

cherrylula 09-28-2002 10:56 AM

"You are that schmuck working alone, aren't you!"

Tell him you are also the schmuck who collects big paychecks from your sites, all by yourself.

I smell teen angst.

galleryseek 09-28-2002 11:09 AM

"and I come to you in person to break your face, get it. "

thats hilarious.. he must watch the sopranos a lot.

titmowse 09-28-2002 11:22 AM

your first threat. how thrilling! personally, i think the guy has a crush on you :Graucho

SleazyDream 09-28-2002 11:26 AM

pretty much anyone who has to stoop to a threat is a coward, I wouldn't worry about it.

sherie 09-28-2002 11:34 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by galleryseek
"and I come to you in person to break your face, get it. "

thats hilarious.. he must watch the sopranos a lot.

:1orglaugh

Make sure that he doesn't bring his 'goombas' (sp)

dasexi1 09-28-2002 11:42 AM

ouuu internet threats!!

i mean really whats he gonna do next email a link to a pic of a knife? eek!

better watch out if he really gets mad he might send you this smiley ---> :boid

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 11:50 AM

Hahahaha, what a fucker....

don't sweat it Ian....look at his piece of shit site...probably not making a penny anyways...interesting we never recieved an email from him....

and what's really funny is his site contains popups to toplists...

I'll take this (the emailing of our webmasters) as an effort to ruin our business, so I may terminate his account...

Actually, I'll email him first. Do you have his email addy? shoot it to [email protected] please.

Stealthy 09-28-2002 11:56 AM

Heheheheh... Threats on the internet... Heheh... I bet this guy's about 5 foot nothin' 90lbs. and listens to Sisters of Mercy over and over and over trying to memorize the words to "Vision Thing" so all the other wannabe "Darksiders" will take him seriously, despite his ever growing comic book collection and love of "Magic, the gathering"...

Tough guy geeks, gotta love it...

Fletch XXX 09-28-2002 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Stealthy
Heheheheh... Threats on the internet... Heheh... I bet this guy's about 5 foot nothin' 90lbs. and listens to Sisters of Mercy over and over and over trying to memorize the words to "Vision Thing"
:eek

I was jamming this yesterday.

Great album.

gothweb 09-28-2002 12:02 PM

Yeah! Make fun of 90 lb. internet geeks, and I have no problems. After all, I started getting fat years ago. Make fun of the Sisters, though, and I might have to send you a scan of my fist. ;)

Stealthy 09-28-2002 12:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by gothweb
Yeah! Make fun of 90 lb. internet geeks, and I have no problems. After all, I started getting fat years ago. Make fun of the Sisters, though, and I might have to send you a scan of my fist. ;)
Scan of my fist... Heheh that's pretty good...

My GOD man! Do you really think I would in good concience dis the SISTERS?!? I lost my virginity to "Ribbons" and have been a fan of theirs for as long as I can remember! Nay, nay I say! I was merely suggesting this twerp that was threatening you is nothing more than some scrawny nerd with an inferiority complex...

I just can't believe I admitted knowledge of "Magic, The Gathering!" (Whew, good thing I didn't mention my collection of Little LuLu comics, now THAT would have been stooopid...)


"Her lovers queued up in the hallway... I heard them scratching at the door... I tried to tell them, about Marx and Engels, God and Angels... I don't really know what for... But she looked good in ribbons..."

That song still gets me going to this day...

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 12:29 PM

I got one of the best hummers of my life while "Ribbons" was playing.......


anyone else who has a problem with our exit consoles, simply build your own tour and send directly to the join page and voila, no consoles....we're going to start paying on console sales in the next few weeks.

If you don't feel creative and want to just copy our tour to your own server and remove the console code, by all means go ahead (just email me first). I'll make sure to check your linking code and ensure you're still sending to the right join page to get credit for your sales.

SpaceAce 09-28-2002 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pornopete
Respond

sorry cock-sucker, I will refrain from calling you an ass-hole in the future.

Wow, this is pretty much word-for-word the advice I was about to give you :)

SpaceAce

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 01:08 PM

Ian, if you need any help, Cyberpunk is a big fucker...hehehehe
he's like my bodyguard at the shows...

I cc'd you in on the email to this fuckface to give you an idea of how we handle situations like this.

I apologize that an affilaite of ours caused a problem like this. It may seem like a no worries thing, but to me, it just pisses me off. Nopw, if this fuckstick was a GFY regular and was threatning you, well, that's fine, because that's kinda like family ;)))))

gothweb 09-28-2002 01:13 PM

Heh. For a minute there, I thought you were calling Cyberpunk a big Fucker, but I assume you just mean he's a big guy... ;)

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 01:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by gothweb
Heh. For a minute there, I thought you were calling Cyberpunk a big Fucker, but I assume you just mean he's a big guy... ;)
both ;)

Techie Media 09-28-2002 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SleazyDream
pretty much anyone who has to stoop to a threat is a coward, I wouldn't worry about it.
Exactly:) Don't worry about it, and just keep doing your thing.:thumbsup

Va2k 09-28-2002 01:50 PM

Hey SykkBoy2
stupid question what do you run? With the action you just took I would like to join your program. Im throwing alot of exits away to others right now and would like to try a converting sponsor. Tom at va2k dot net

peace

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by va2k
Hey SykkBoy2
stupid question what do you run? With the action you just took I would like to join your program. Im throwing alot of exits away to others right now and would like to try a converting sponsor. Tom at va2k dot net

peace

psst, check the sig ;)

.:Frog:. 09-28-2002 02:37 PM

Didn't this guy make a simple & polite request for you to tone down the popups?
Then you turn around and call him an asshole with a 1-line reply.

Of course he is going to be pissed off a little.

klik 09-28-2002 02:46 PM

"Fighting on the internet is like competing in the special olympics... Even if you win, you're still retarded"

Suprised no one replied with that one yet. :1orglaugh

gothweb 09-28-2002 02:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by .:Frog:.
Didn't this guy make a simple & polite request for you to tone down the popups?
Then you turn around and call him an asshole with a 1-line reply.

Of course he is going to be pissed off a little.

No. He made a ranting and smarmy request of someone else to remove their popups, and carbon copied me to try to bully an upstanding program into listing to his pissant demands. Say it with me...

Ian X.... Does... Not.. Run... DarkDollars.

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 03:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by .:Frog:.
Didn't this guy make a simple & polite request for you to tone down the popups?
Then you turn around and call him an asshole with a 1-line reply.

Of course he is going to be pissed off a little.

see, this is why some programs don't respond to webmasters they've terminated....I've now wasted an hour with this guy explaining if he has an issue with us, DarkDollars, he doesn't need to email his entire address book about the problem. Ian has nothing to do with DarkDollars other than being one of our top webmaster referrers.

Ian runs a great site and is one of those Sensitivity Police guys and doesn't deserve to be brought into a problem that an affilaite has with US.

SykkBoy + cyberpunk = Dark Dollars
Gothweb = Not Dark Dollars

;))))))

CDSmith 09-28-2002 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by .:Frog:.
Didn't this guy make a simple & polite request for you to tone down the popups?
Then you turn around and call him an asshole with a 1-line reply.

Of course he is going to be pissed off a little.

Honestly I was thinking the same thing.

I got a few emails from Hufkens, I guess because I run a dark fetish tgp in my network, and he's probably submitted galleries to me before. This looks like a misunderstanding from what I can tell. Hufkens has a habit of "CC-ing" everyone whenever he sends emails like that, but he did say that Ian's program has great sites did he not?

Then he was called an asshole, and he's not the type that takes kindly to that, so he threatened back if anyone calls him an asshole again.

He then received an email that sort of implies that he might be sued and that he is violating someone's copyrights, and I can see where he's getting angrier by the second.


I don't think all this shit is worth it just because he doesn't like popups, but that's just my opinion. I sent him an email just now that advises him to drop it and drop the program, or else phone Ian and get this straightened out. If he does the phone call, maybe everyone involved should try TALKING instead of arguing.

gothweb 09-28-2002 03:08 PM

Sorry I wasn't clear. I didn't call him an asshole because he CC'd me. I called him an asshole because I think he's an asshole; he's stealing my content, along with a lot more, and *then* he CC'd me.

And, you know what... One strong word doesn't quite warrant a threat of physical violence. Especially from a kiddy porn peddler.

CDSmith 09-28-2002 03:11 PM

Hufkens is confused at the best of times. That just proves that this is a misunderstanding (largely on his part but not all), and it's really kind of laughable when you think about it.

Again, it's not worth making a big bad issue out of this. None of the emails I saw said anything like him telling other webmasters not to join darkdollars.

Can this not be worked out?

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 03:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CDSmith
Honestly I was thinking the same thing.

I got a few emails from Hufkens, I guess because I run a dark fetish tgp in my network, and he's probably submitted galleries to me before. This looks like a misunderstanding from what I can tell. Hufkens has a habit of "CC-ing" everyone whenever he sends emails like that, but he did say that Ian's program has great sites did he not?

Then he was called an asshole, and he's not the type that takes kindly to that, so he threatened back if anyone calls him an asshole again.

He then received an email that sort of implies that he might be sued and that he is violating someone's copyrights, and I can see where he's getting angrier by the second.


I don't think all this shit is worth it just because he doesn't like popups, but that's just my opinion. I sent him an email just now that advises him to drop it and drop the program, or else phone Ian and get this straightened out. If he does the phone call, maybe everyone involved should try TALKING instead of arguing.

yeah, I got a lovely exchange of emails cc'd to me, between you and him...

his problem with our consoles should not have been directed at Ian....

What he did (by CCing everyone) is a disruption of business. I've sent him a follow up email explaining that it's our policy to investiagte any allegations of content theft. Most any other sponsor has that same policy....

I also gave him the option of simply dropping us...not that hard to do....I also further explained how he could send his traffic to alternate tours or pages to avoid the consoles....I run the program fairly, but I also have very little bullshit tolerance...

We've had several attempts by other goth sposnors to smear our sites and programs and after awhile it starts getting old and pissing you off...

CDSmith 09-28-2002 03:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by gothweb
Especially from a kiddy porn peddler.
Careful. GFY isn't the place to make such accusations without proof. All I see is words, can you offer proof? (off the board of course)


Hufkens says (a few emails ago now) that your program has some models that look like "minors" too, so it sounds like you're both hell-bent on blowing this issue up to the moon.


He says he can't post here because his IP is banned. Now THAT'S funny!

quiet 09-28-2002 03:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by gothweb
he's stealing my content, along with a lot more, and *then* he CC'd me.
*if* he's stealing content, he should be shut down, period. talk to his host.

CDSmith 09-28-2002 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SykkBoy2
his problem with our consoles should not have been directed at Ian....

What he did (by CCing everyone) is a disruption of business.

I also further explained how he could send his traffic to alternate tours or pages to avoid the consoles.

We've had several attempts by other goth sposnors to smear our sites and programs and after awhile it starts getting old and pissing you off...

In the time I've known him I've come to think he's always a bit confused about things in general. I don't feel much surprise that he contacted the wrong person about your program.

He does have a habit of "CC-ing" everyone about anything and everything he thinks is of the least importance, but I don't think he intended to slam your program, at least not at first, as his words here plainly tell... "<i>You have a selection of GREAT MAJOR Paysites !</i>
...Followed by a plea to "fix the popups".
I haven't looked around Hufken's site much, so I don't know about content theft or child porn, but 2 things I do know are this: 1) People better have proof before publicly accusing,
and 2) If it is there, the offending site needs to be shut down.

Btw, offering alternate "non-popup tours" is something I personally love to see, and is the mark of a good sponsor in my book.

gothweb 09-28-2002 03:32 PM

I take back the kiddy porn thing. I do not know that he is peddling child pornography. All I know is that he told me himself, in the past, that he was in trouble with the law, accused of having child porn on his site. Innocent until proven guilty-- but not smart enough to take MET off his site after going to court.

gothweb 09-28-2002 03:39 PM

Here's an unauthorized mangling of my logo (very top of the page):
http://www.crucified-women.com/special/horror/

He also uses a variety of images from my site, outside of the regulations I give for affiliates promoting my sites. When I complained, his response was that he steals most of the images on his site outright, so why should *I* complain if he is linking to me. I can try to find the email...

SykkBoy 09-28-2002 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CDSmith
In the time I've known him I've come to think he's always a bit confused about things in general. I don't feel much surprise that he contacted the wrong person about your program.

He does have a habit of "CC-ing" everyone about anything and everything he thinks is of the least importance, but I don't think he intended to slam your program, at least not at first, as his words here plainly tell... "<i>You have a selection of GREAT MAJOR Paysites !</i>
...Followed by a plea to "fix the popups".
I haven't looked around Hufken's site much, so I don't know about content theft or child porn, but 2 things I do know are this: 1) People better have proof before publicly accusing,
and 2) If it is there, the offending site needs to be shut down.

Btw, offering alternate "non-popup tours" is something I personally love to see, and is the mark of a good sponsor in my book.

I even emailed him how to get rid of the consoles by either building his own tour or copying our tours to his server and removing the console code.

I wasn't going to terminate his account just on the word of someone else accusing him of having stolen content, but I felt I should mention it and ask if he had a license for the images. If he does indeed show proof of license, I'll gladly apologize for inconvenience and wish him well. If he cannot produce the license, then I'll suspend his account. If, after a resonable amount of time he offers nothing at all, I'll terminate the account.

My biggest beef was the CCing in of all those other people....

CDSmith 09-28-2002 03:46 PM

Gothweb -- I know all too well how tough it is to run a dark fetish site. There are still a lot of webmasters in that genre that grab content without asking. Look at fuckhead Stile, he's been known to grab a movie or two from time to time from other sites. He was caught using one of my producer's movies without authorization about 3 years ago.

Anyway, I guess you either can everyone who even slightly violates your TOS or you accept the traffic they send and get on with it. Did you can him?

CDSmith 09-28-2002 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SykkBoy2
I even emailed him how to get rid of the consoles by either building his own tour or copying our tours to his server and removing the console code.

I wasn't going to terminate his account just on the word of someone else accusing him of having stolen content, but I felt I should mention it and ask if he had a license for the images. If he does indeed show proof of license, I'll gladly apologize for inconvenience and wish him well. If he cannot produce the license, then I'll suspend his account. If, after a resonable amount of time he offers nothing at all, I'll terminate the account.

My biggest beef was the CCing in of all those other people....

K, I've emailed the above comments to him. Hopefully he'll calm down and contact you and get this straightened out with you guys.

Cheers,


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