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Doug of Montreal 05-08-2008 08:19 AM

(VIDEO) How important are ethics in adult?
 
Adult Insights Ep 21 Video

Are ethics important in adult? Everyone says yes... or at least most do at least while they have a camera pointed at them. Some, though, suggest that there's a grey area that is acceptable to operate in. Where do you draw the line? Would crossing it really affect your business? We hear thoughts from Monty from AVN, Jay D from CrazyShit.com, Kevsh, Avalanche from CherryPimps, Monica from HotMovies, Rob Waters from LiveBucks, SheDevil from Think Pink Online, HoneLynn from High Def Riches and Vegas Ken from The Best Porn.

Some faves:
Kevsh: "Any publicity is good publicity...the examples are numerous of where bad publicity has helped companies."
Avalanche: "People have no problem taking money and screwing people over."
Monica: "It's good to be aware of the other side... even if you don't employ them, you can see what you can do to take advantage of what other people are doing."

SponsorsList sends special thanks to Yappo Dollars for their support.

How important are ethics in adult??

CarlosTheGaucho 05-08-2008 08:27 AM

After recent experience I would dare to say it's actually a competitive advantage..

Although it hurts.

tony286 05-08-2008 08:28 AM

another home run Doug:)

Jens Van Assterdam 05-08-2008 08:33 AM

Can i borrow Monica for the weekend?

Doug of Montreal 05-08-2008 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarlosTheGaucho (Post 14165114)
After recent experience I would dare to say it's actually a competitive advantage..

Really? That's too bad. Maybe there's a plus side to come out of this that you just haven't seen yet.. :S

(I'm all about the positive spin, even if it means chasing rainbows at night)

Casa Nova 05-08-2008 10:06 AM

Ethics are definitely huge in this industry, you either have it or not. If you have to say something is on the border, it's just to make you feel better about what you did. The people with ethics and morality will go further in this industry in the long run... but at the same time we have a different set of ethics then most people outside the industry, but we know the general limits.

Great episode!

Joe BrainCash 05-08-2008 10:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jens Van Assterdam (Post 14165141)
Can i borrow Monica for the weekend?

Get in the line buddy.:thumbsup

Doug of Montreal 05-08-2008 11:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Casa Nova (Post 14165513)
The people with ethics and morality will go further in this industry in the long run...

Wait, there are people looking to stay for the long-run?

:P

GetSCORECash 05-08-2008 12:17 PM

Good post Doug!

Doug of Montreal 05-08-2008 01:55 PM

Cheers Erasmo... nothing like some quality "ethics" conversation to stir the soul. hehe :)

mozadek 05-08-2008 02:03 PM

Ethics in adult!?!? Don't be ridiculous.

Casa Nova 05-08-2008 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mozadek (Post 14166667)
Ethics in adult!?!? Don't be ridiculous.

lol, maybe morality then? haha:error

seeric 05-08-2008 03:23 PM

I'm keeping mine. Whether or not I don't get as far ahead or not.

I guarantee it makes me more money in the long run. Guaranteed.

MichaelP 05-08-2008 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mozadek (Post 14166667)
Ethics in adult!?!? Don't be ridiculous.

mozadek
Registered User

Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 96

Words of Wisdom ? :Oh crap

I am sure that with your long run experience in our industry you can enlight us all about your theory.....

seeric 05-08-2008 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Casa Nova (Post 14165513)
Ethics are definitely huge in this industry, you either have it or not. If you have to say something is on the border, it's just to make you feel better about what you did. The people with ethics and morality will go further in this industry in the long run... but at the same time we have a different set of ethics then most people outside the industry, but we know the general limits.

Great episode!

With all due respect to you Casa, you're just a baby in this business. Don't believe everything or anything for that matter about what you hear from people who you "think" may have ethics. I have seen some of the posts that you've put in some threads over the last year on certain people, just in general saying they are great guys, great people when in fact they are scumbags. You wouldn't believe half of the shit that some of these "stand up guys" do if I told you.

One thing that you will learn over time is the game is played behind the scenes, not on these boards. You can't go around outing everyone when you want to. You can pick certain things to kick people in the nuts about, but behind the scenes is where the real dirt is. Some people get to see it, some don't. You've learned a lot in short period of time, but you haven't even cracked the surface on the ethics of many people you think you may know. :2 cents:

You're a good kid and I think you'll go far, just know that when you say someone is a "stand up guy", they may actually not be.


Much Love. :)

MichaelP 05-08-2008 03:31 PM

Nice Post and Interview Doug BTW :thumbsup

DamageX 05-08-2008 03:46 PM

Interesting topic, especially considering the big banners for JuggCash on the page. :)

seeric 05-08-2008 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DamageX (Post 14167110)
Interesting topic, especially considering the big banners for JuggCash on the page. :)

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

See what I mean. LOL.

the lines cross too many places to not do biz with people. if you didnt do bizness with anyone that had some shady in them how would anyone make any money? sad but true.

no offense to doug, but i thought that was a funny post you just made.

seeric 05-08-2008 03:52 PM

damage you missed chris hansen ripped image and cartooned in the webcashmaker banner or whatever the name is. lol.

DamageX 05-08-2008 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 14167121)
:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

See what I mean. LOL.

the lines cross too many places to not do biz with people. if you didnt do bizness with anyone that had some shady in them how would anyone make any money? sad but true.

no offense to doug, but i thought that was a funny post you just made.

Oh, I agree. I got a shitlist on my board and if I were to divide the industry in black and white, according to shady practices, my shitlist would be full. Hmmm, there's an idea, I bet Google would love those threads. :1orglaugh

DamageX 05-08-2008 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 14167128)
damage you missed chris hansen ripped image and cartooned in the webcashmaker banner or whatever the name is. lol.

Actually, I believe that one is allowed, since it can be considered "artistic parody" or something like that. Not saying they still can't be sued over it though. :)

seeric 05-08-2008 03:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DamageX (Post 14167133)
Oh, I agree. I got a shitlist on my board and if I were to divide the industry in black and white, according to shady practices, my shitlist would be full. Hmmm, there's an idea, I bet Google would love those threads. :1orglaugh

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE 05-08-2008 03:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Casa Nova (Post 14165513)
The people with ethics and morality will go further in this industry in the long run...

100% False.

Some of the biggest dirt bags in the history of mankind reside at the top levels of this industry and the means of which of how they got there often involved some criminal activity or other.

Cool guys yeah some of them but none the less some are the most unethical fuck heads you never met. I think Ethics has very little to do with this industry. If it's legal or technically legal there is no moral about a decision.

It could be spam, UBE, Dialers, Shaving, Shooting 18 year old girls with braces on thier birth day's. It oculd be stealing traffic, jacking traffic, stealing content outright, You name it, it has been done. So clearly what is ethic? Ethic is nothing more than a matter of comfort and some have more and some have less of it.

I were to deem myself as ethical I seriously doubt I would have been in this business as long as I have.

seeric 05-08-2008 04:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ (Post 14167146)


100% False.

Some of the biggest dirt bags in the history of mankind reside at the top levels of this industry and the means of which of how they got there often involved some criminal activity or other.

Cool guys yeah some of them but none the less some are the most unethical fuck heads you never met. I think Ethics has very little to do with this industry. If it's legal or technically legal there is no moral about a decision.

It could be spam, UBE, Dialers, Shaving, Shooting 18 year old girls with braces on thier birth day's. It oculd be stealing traffic, jacking traffic, stealing content outright, You name it, it has been done. So clearly what is ethic? Ethic is nothing more than a matter of comfort and some have more and some have less of it.

I were to deem myself as ethical I seriously doubt I would have been in this business as long as I have.

He's new M. When I first started in late 98 I thought everyone was my friend and full of awesomeness too. That's why I wrote what I did to him. He will learn.

Notice how I said that my ethics will get ME personally farther. Trustworthy people are hard to find. In the long run they find nice homes. As for shadies, well they are what they are. Man if I could spew some of the shit I know after the last year of investigation and talking to people, oh boy oh boy. Not would it rock some people, it would be just flat RUDE! :winkwink:

DamageX 05-09-2008 05:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ (Post 14167146)


100% False.

So far...

Eventually, this industry MIGHT get cleaned up, although I wouldn't hold my breath waiting. But just like any industry which matures, it WILL consolidate, get more regulated (from without or from within) and entry barriers will creep up. Plus, if porn gets more and more mainstream (which I believe it will), more eyes will be on the industry and the people in it as others would see it more as a legitimate business, instead of the devil's offsprings trying to tempt good Christians into sinning. :)

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DamageX (Post 14168902)
Eventually, this industry MIGHT get cleaned up, although I wouldn't hold my breath waiting. If porn gets more and more mainstream... people in it as others would see it more as a legitimate business, instead of the devil's offsprings trying to tempt good Christians into sinning. :)

I'd like to imagine that that's true, but we'll all be dead and gone before the industry gets turned into "perfomance art" and accepted at that level. Also, there would have to be no more "good Christians" left to be tempted... and without the good Christians, would we have anyone left to sell to? :)

CDSmith 05-09-2008 09:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 14167045)
With all due respect to you Casa, you're just a baby in this business. Don't believe everything or anything for that matter about what you hear from people who you "think" may have ethics. I have seen some of the posts that you've put in some threads over the last year on certain people, just in general saying they are great guys, great people when in fact they are scumbags. You wouldn't believe half of the shit that some of these "stand up guys" do if I told you.

One thing that you will learn over time is the game is played behind the scenes, not on these boards. You can't go around outing everyone when you want to. You can pick certain things to kick people in the nuts about, but behind the scenes is where the real dirt is. Some people get to see it, some don't. You've learned a lot in short period of time, but you haven't even cracked the surface on the ethics of many people you think you may know. :2 cents:

You're a good kid and I think you'll go far, just know that when you say someone is a "stand up guy", they may actually not be.


Much Love. :)

Good post :thumbsup

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 14167121)
the lines cross too many places to not do biz with people. if you didnt do bizness with anyone that had some shady in them how would anyone make any money?

That's so true. If you took everyone out who has done shady business, be it something as simple as SEO spam or things much worse, methinks GFY would be a ghost town...

And you're also bang on about the need to watch out for the "stand up guys" you think you know, in this business or any other. People are a lot different than they appear on the boards or what you see of them at conferences. Adult brings special kind of magic to the mix, though.

It's like if you've ever been in any crisis. You bond with those random people around you, fighting for a common goal. However, had that crisis never occurred, you would never had had the desire to do as much as hold the door open for some of them. This industry seems a lot like that. We catch a lot of flack for doing what we do, so there seems to be this instinctive bonding that goes on. Personally, I enjoy it, but you have to see a lot of it for what it is: we're all trapped together so we are just making the best of it. :)

Hell House Vic 05-09-2008 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 14167045)
With all due respect to you Casa, you're just a baby in this business. Don't believe everything or anything for that matter about what you hear from people who you "think" may have ethics. I have seen some of the posts that you've put in some threads over the last year on certain people, just in general saying they are great guys, great people when in fact they are scumbags. You wouldn't believe half of the shit that some of these "stand up guys" do if I told you.

One thing that you will learn over time is the game is played behind the scenes, not on these boards. You can't go around outing everyone when you want to. You can pick certain things to kick people in the nuts about, but behind the scenes is where the real dirt is. Some people get to see it, some don't. You've learned a lot in short period of time, but you haven't even cracked the surface on the ethics of many people you think you may know. :2 cents:

You're a good kid and I think you'll go far, just know that when you say someone is a "stand up guy", they may actually not be.


Much Love. :)

That was a good post, senor.

However... I am SOOOOOOOO ethical it hurts. :)

Supz 05-09-2008 10:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ (Post 14167146)
Ethic is nothing more than a matter of comfort and some have more and some have less of it.

This seems to sum it up for me, I havent been in this industry for a long time. And i still have other business outside the adult world. But ethics and business are hard to put in the same sentence. I worked in a corporate environment for a long time, for public companies, and i've never met as many back stabbers and liars in my life as i did there, with people trying to work there way up the food chain. Having the different levels of comfort that AlienQ talks about is the nature of the beast. Part of being human i guess.

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kick Ass Vic (Post 14169893)
However... I am SOOOOOOOO ethical it hurts. :)

Yeah, but you look bad-ass, so it evens out ;)

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 10:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by supzdotcom (Post 14170020)
But ethics and business are hard to put in the same sentence.

But why is that? Do we make business bad or does business make us bad? I'd like to think we're fundamentally good as a whole, but methinks it's us making business bad.

Tom_PM 05-09-2008 10:53 AM

It's all about where YOU draw the line personally, no industry draws that line for you.

To put it another way, if someone screwed you blatantly and laughed about it in public, would you blame the industry that they were in?

Car dealer? (all crooks?)
Plumber? (all crooks?)
Doctor? (all quacks?)

You get the idea. Ethics are entirely personal, not dependant on an industry.
IMHO plus :2 cents:

Honez 05-09-2008 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doug of Montreal (Post 14169881)
That's so true. If you took everyone out who has done shady business, be it something as simple as SEO spam or things much worse, methinks GFY would be a ghost town...

And you're also bang on about the need to watch out for the "stand up guys" you think you know, in this business or any other. People are a lot different than they appear on the boards or what you see of them at conferences. Adult brings special kind of magic to the mix, though.

It's like if you've ever been in any crisis. You bond with those random people around you, fighting for a common goal. However, had that crisis never occurred, you would never had had the desire to do as much as hold the door open for some of them. This industry seems a lot like that. We catch a lot of flack for doing what we do, so there seems to be this instinctive bonding that goes on. Personally, I enjoy it, but you have to see a lot of it for what it is: we're all trapped together so we are just making the best of it. :)

Very well said :)

Hell House Vic 05-09-2008 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doug of Montreal (Post 14170024)
Yeah, but you look bad-ass, so it evens out ;)


you rule.
but are you saying i look like a cheater?
ha!
i guess it could be the "pirate" in me.

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Honez (Post 14170205)
Very well said :)

And having said that, being "trapped" with you is a true pleasure! ;)

Casa Nova 05-09-2008 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A1R3K (Post 14167045)
With all due respect to you Casa, you're just a baby in this business. Don't believe everything or anything for that matter about what you hear from people who you "think" may have ethics. I have seen some of the posts that you've put in some threads over the last year on certain people, just in general saying they are great guys, great people when in fact they are scumbags. You wouldn't believe half of the shit that some of these "stand up guys" do if I told you.

One thing that you will learn over time is the game is played behind the scenes, not on these boards. You can't go around outing everyone when you want to. You can pick certain things to kick people in the nuts about, but behind the scenes is where the real dirt is. Some people get to see it, some don't. You've learned a lot in short period of time, but you haven't even cracked the surface on the ethics of many people you think you may know. :2 cents:

You're a good kid and I think you'll go far, just know that when you say someone is a "stand up guy", they may actually not be.


Much Love. :)

Thanks for the reply Airek, & no worries I take no offense to what you said. You're completely right, I have made bad judgments on some people. It is truly a learning curve but at the same time there are alot of people I can see through there bullshit. Even though I may say someone is a good guy on boards you must understand that I to am just trying to be the nice guy, even though I may not agree with someones ethics and ulterior motives that doesn't mean I'm going to completely stop talking to them saying they are good people etc. I can't judge someone completely on there past, though it is a reference point to be careful. I don't want to burn bridges with anyone "stand up guy" or not, because like you said, sometimes you have to deal with these people from a business standpoint.

Again thanks for the comments Airek, I am taking what you said and definitely keeping it in mind for the future. Add me to icq and we can talk sometime.

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 12:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PR_Tom (Post 14170127)
It's all about where YOU draw the line personally, no industry draws that line for you.

No, but our industry draws lines based around much different issues... much more entertaining, at least ;) Quacks are certainly the worst case of the three (err... four, including adult) but at least they have a code that they are supposed to live by. I didn't get a mantra when I signed up for this industry, but I think we could certainly use one.

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 12:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Casa Nova (Post 14170519)
A lot of people I can see through there bullshit.

And this is a good point... what kind of sales rep would you be if you called it like you saw it? hahahaha... hahahaha! Oh, my sides! Needless to saY, you wouldn't last long.

Having said that, i appreciate all the flattery. It WILL get you traffic! :) :p

Doug of Montreal 05-09-2008 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kick Ass Vic (Post 14170316)
but are you saying i look like a cheater? i guess it could be the "pirate" in me.

Naw man, tiz a good look! Pirate on!


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