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Originally Posted by cherrylula
Well I am a firm believer of time helping to work things out. It takes so many days for our minds to make changes, like quitting smoking for example. It takes 14 days they say to break the hard habit of lighting up and putting it in your mouth every hour or so, and longer to train your brain to do other things. Although I have never smoked and I know that is a tough one too.
Of course I miss getting fucked up. But that was a different time in my life. Instead of refusing drinks all the time, I just wonder what it would be like now to have one, or two. I used to have about ten, haha.
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If you want a drink, have one. You are The Decider. No one and no thing controls you.
Don't get caught up in "what they say" and don't over think it. Remember, you get exactly what you want. If you end up drunk with your head in the toilet, it is because that is the result you wanted and the actions you put in motion to achieve it. If it takes you 14 days to kick a smoking habit, it is because you allowed someone else to dictate the terms of quitting for you, you accepted it, and you will get the result you want, whether that's quitting or failure to quit. If you really wanted to quit, (drinking, smoking, etc...) it only takes one decision and 1 second to do that. That is the nature of controlling yourself versus being led by another.