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![]() Has anyone ever quit drinking alcohol for a long period of time, say 5+ years, then changed their life for the better and started drinking again casually without being stupid, having a good time and being in self control?
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Anything is possible, and it doesn't take 5 years. You can change your life in 5 seconds, if you want to. Life is literally a toss of the coin and it isn't always easy. It can be a perfect personal paradise or a perfect personal prison. Each day is perfect, regardless of what "happens" to you. There are no accidents, coincidences, or mistakes, there is only what we make.
Live each day like it's the end of the world, for without love, it is. We are survivors or we are lost. It is all up to you.
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I have known so many people that would be considered some level of "alcoholic," but at the same time some of them function just fine. I don't like hangovers, headaches, and what booze does to my body but still sometimes a drink or two can't be that bad unless you are out to get wasted. But I don't know if I even want those little irks drinking causes in my life.
At the same time, everyone drinks here. Everyone. It really is difficult to exist and just completely not drink at all. I don't know. It is all pretty complicated, then again it isn't. |
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However I quit drinking and wow what after a year you experience. Not a week, or a month or two, a year or more. My life is so very different from what it was 5 years ago. I couldn't even party like that today if I wanted to. Well, unless I was ready to lose custody of my child and give up my house and cozy lifestyle.
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If you are overweight check with a heart specialist before you stop drinking. Your drinking could be saving your life. You may have clogged arteries and the booze is thinning your blood enough so you dont have a heart attack. When you stop drinking your blood will thicken a bit and you may die.
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We gave it up when we started our business & found it a little difficult not to go to wild with other people when we were trying to work & no get pissed. Now we enjoy a few beers, sometimes still running through a botle of vodka with redbull on a friday night while doing live cam together until 3 in the morning. But its easy, just enjoy, you dont have to go wild. Everything is great in moderation ![]() |
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I can not handle alcohol very well. So I've been sober a bit more than a year now. No problem at all. It actually feels really nice to not wake up with a hangover anymore.
I can feel down for days after I've been drinking.
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Of course I miss getting fucked up. But that was a different time in my life. Instead of refusing drinks all the time, I just wonder what it would be like now to have one, or two. I used to have about ten, haha. |
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[QUOTE=cherrylula;17609945] I don't like hangovers, headaches, QUOTE]
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Depends if you were an alcoholic, the temptation would always be there.
I only drink once a week, but when I drink it is very hard to stop until it's gone or I fall asleep. |
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So I'd get drunk say twice a week, and be hungover twice a week. One day I did the math on my calculator and realized I had wasted about 2/3 of my time, wasted over half of my life in over a decade either drinking and fucking off or being hungover and recovering. I lost a lot of my twenties to alcoholism as they call it. So I still realize these things. I don't really like alcohol, but I love a good beer buzz. |
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n/p Read this its actually kind of interesting. Heavy drinkers out live nondrinkers
http://www.time.com/time/health/arti...014332,00.html
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Don't get caught up in "what they say" and don't over think it. Remember, you get exactly what you want. If you end up drunk with your head in the toilet, it is because that is the result you wanted and the actions you put in motion to achieve it. If it takes you 14 days to kick a smoking habit, it is because you allowed someone else to dictate the terms of quitting for you, you accepted it, and you will get the result you want, whether that's quitting or failure to quit. If you really wanted to quit, (drinking, smoking, etc...) it only takes one decision and 1 second to do that. That is the nature of controlling yourself versus being led by another.
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It really depends on other health conditions of the people they study. Where they live, environmental factors, everything. Fact is alcohol just isn't good for you. Sure maybe it has a couple benefits here and there. But there are also other foods and things you can eat that have the same benefits and not all the bad side effects. That is just fact I will always believe. And I have seen what alcohol does to people, and doesn't do to people who don't drink, in my family and friends. Experience and wisdom is what I have the most beliefe in. My own. I do love capitalism though and am almost fascinated by the whole thing. From beer ads to rehab, it's all a trip. It is such a part of this world in all cultures, alcohol. |
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You know what I really want Amp? A big fat bud covered cannabis plant growing in my home and a jar full of sticky buds next to my vaporizer. I can't have that here, this state took away my goddamn freedom.
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Your choices include: Drink Don't drink and everything else in between.
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It is your choice to believe it or not, but understand that it is manufactured truth, not actual truth.
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I did.
I quit drinking at Xbix in Vegas one year. For the love of god, I don't fucking understand why anyone goes to Vegas in the middle of the summer. Anyhow, landed in Vegas at night, went to the "pool party" at 11pm, had two or three beers, and woke up totally dehydrated the following morning, and was pretty much dehydrated for the rest of my stay. It was horrible. I quit drinking for a few years. I was never a big drinker at home - I don't keep any booze in my house - but I was a binge drinker at shows. I stop drinking at the shows and was fine. Now I can have a beer or two at a party or a few drinks at Christmas, and not think anything of it. I think at Cybernet Expo i did one whole shot of Jager, and that was it. Smoking too. I can have a few smokes on Christmas day, and then not smoke again for the next year or two. It's nice.
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You already know the truth, why adopt false truth? You think that because the Mayo Clinic tells you that "alcoholism" exists that it is the truth? interesting. I wonder what else you believe. Addiction is a mindset, not a disease. There is only one person that can cure a mindset. You already know who that person is.
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Yeah nothing wrong with people drinking and having fun. I just choose not to drink. Not a big deal really.
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I quit for 5 months once. I got stupid when I started again.
I haven't done anything stupid lately, but I haven't drank for over 2.5 yrs. I'm sure if I drink again, I'll eventually do something stupid.
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No but i've done the quit drinking for a long period of time and started drinking again casually, having a good time and getting absolutely fucked as I wasn't used to the alcohol anymore.
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when i go out and try to socialize, the only way i can do it is through bloodshot eyes.
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I enjoy drinking.
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I've done it. I used to have a fucking serious drinking problem - like a HUGE one, been through rehab, AA and the works. Years later I drink once every couple of months, and don't even really enjoy it like I used to. |
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