WOMEN OF GFY: Can You Tell If Another Woman Is a Slut?

[The Porn Nerd]

I had a girlfriend tell me once that women were better judges of other women than men were. She said we (men) get blinded by the boobs, the asses, the smiles, etc, but that another woman can just tell (somehow) what a fellow woman is really like.

So I gave it a try once and brought this girl to a party. Just a bunch of people hanging out, drinking, flirting, etc. My girlfriend looked around, and said "That one's a Golddigger, that one's cool, that one's a bitch tho she acts all nice, that one has fucked like two guys max..."

(I always wondered if she meant that girl fucked two guys named Max or two guys maximum. I assume it was the latter.)

The point is I, the guy, thought the women at the party were basically "hot" or "not-so-hot". All that other stuff just flew over my head. So Women Of Gfy, I ask you: can you just tell somehow, when you meet another woman, whether she's a slut or not? Is she "vanilla", or kinky, loves sex or is a bit prudish? If so, what are the clues we clueless men can pick up on? You WANT us to be better communicaters, right?

[RyuLion]

Yes, they tell each other slut, if they joking or not, that's how friends compliment each other.

[Bill8]

women are profoundly better judges of other women than men are, and better judges of men as well.

it's been theorized that they have much larger areas of brain devoted to doing assessments of others around them - something left over from 5-10 million years of competitive band and clan living, and the division of labor, gathering and child rearing for females, hunting defense and exporation for resources for males.

if true, those devoted brain areas also force women to obsessively play status and alliance games more than males, and to lie more devious, including lying to themselves.

[alias]

All women are sluts. /thread

[TurboAngel]

Yes we can tell but IMO it takes a little more than just looking at them, a min convo is all that's needed for the most part.

[arock10]

rofl these baddog avatars are killing me

[JFK]

well the way it works, all other ones are sluts except them, or so I heard

[TurboAngel]

I thought he ask us women of GFY not all you guys! LOL

[JFK]

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

I thought he ask us women of GFY not all you guys! LOL

ooops , so sorry

[CaptainHowdy]

Women (in plural) doesn't exist...

[Shey]

Women can tell with 90% accuracy if they are not on their period...

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by TurboAngel

I thought he ask us women of GFY not all you guys! LOL

Yes, I've noticed all the mena answering and I assume it's cause their trannies, metrosexuals or screaming homos so this helps with sorting process. :D

Kidding. We guys can't help chiming in on a conversation.

[bronco67]

They can't even tell when they're a slut themselves.

[Monique Niccole]

They can't tell. They're just projecting.

[Agent 488]

her observations tell more about herself.

[Spunky]

She wants the Mandingo cock

[ShellyCrash]

I think that's fairly money. In general women can read other women better than a man can, and vice versa.

Attraction blinds people to red flags. How many women do you know in relationships with dirtbags who can't seem to see the forrest for the trees?

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Spunky

She wants the Mandingo cock

Hah! I was adversely affected by the movie Mandingo when I was a kid.....

[loreen]

Clothes, makeup, accessories, hair style, face expressions, body language... Take all these in consideration and you have your basic slut / no slut portrait.

[Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life]

You need some lessons in women immediately..

First Lesson - If the woman in question is not a close friend of wthe woman judging, she is a slut. Especially if she talks to male friends of judging female, she may then also graduate to the level of "whore"...

Second Lesson - No matter how fat and ugly a judging woman's friends are, they are always "beautiful" and "sexy". Anyone not directly in the friend circle falls under "i don't think she's that great looking" or "I don't understand what guys see in her"

Third lesson - This pertains to lesson two. Women are like fucking used car salesmen when it comes to pimping out their friends. Be very very weary if a female friend is setting you up with a friend of hers you haven't met. Especially when she talks them up a lot. The friend is probably a fucking hose beast...

In summary, don't listen to anything women tell you about other women. It's almost 100% based on the emotions of the moment. The most prominent being jealousy and envy. Their opinions should be valued somewhere between little and none when it comes to "other" women.

[Paul Markham]

If a guy fucks a different girl every week he's a legend.

If a girl fucks 2 guys in a year she's a slut.

But the legend has to be fucking sluts, so go figure that one out.

Some of you guys still think it's 1950. Get with the program guys.

Guys worried about whether girls are sluts or not are usually not getting much. It's a defense statement. "I wouldn't of fucked her anyway she's a slut." LOL LOL

Ever heard the legend guy describe the girls he fucked as sluts?

[nico-t]

bullshit. They sometimes say someones a slut because, simply, they dont like them / see them as competition. Also, they have convinced themselfs they are NOT sluts themself. Fact is, they are all sluts. And every one of those sluts think they are not a slut, and they really believe it. When they fuck 5 guys in a couple weeks, they still will never see themself as a slut. Women cannot look objectively at themselfs, their brain lies to them, they are born with this flaw.

Females are the worst judges of character, because the way they judge is based on themselfs - is she prettier, is she competition, etc. If you really believe a woman you need to get your head checked.

[u-Bob]

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

Second Lesson - No matter how fat and ugly a judging woman's friends are, they are always "beautiful" and "sexy". Anyone not directly in the friend circle falls under "i don't think she's that great looking" or "I don't understand what guys see in her"

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[Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life]

Originally Posted by u-Bob

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I have tons of experience with this one. My roomie is female, she's a bartender, we live in a ski resort town. So there's always a lot of new people coming through. So anyone who knows women, should instantly realize I live in the middle of constant drama and hating.

There's at least one weekly hate fest where the womens gather together in our kitchen to get drunk and just fucking hate on everyone. That's just what women do. This has a tendency to lead to a lot of "Do you think this new girl that's working over at so and so is hot?". If i think she's hot I say so, which is almost ALWAYS met with "Ewww OMG. No way. Really? She's got a weird face. I don't like her ankles. Have you seen the clothes she wears? I can't believe you're into that, must just be because you're a dude who'll fuck anything." type reactions. To which I'm sitting here thinking, "That chick is hot as fuck. I'd hit that shit out of that before I'd go anywhere near one of you. She's got a body that ain't quittin. What the hell are you hating bitches smoking?"

Always. 98% of the time. NEVER do you see a cute new girl come into town, and the bitch crew starts talking about how cute she is. Never. Not fucking ever.

Then when I'm hanging around just with the roomie I get constant stories about the rest of the bitch crew "She's so beautiful, her boyfriend is an asshole, yadda yadda. She deserves better. She's gorgeous, she could get any guy she wants, why is she with him?" Talk up the beer belly, fat assed having friends while you hate on the pretty ew girla t the coffee shop. THAT is just how women operate.

[BlackCrayon]

most women will think every other woman is a slut.

if they are really objective, im sure they can to some extent but its not like they can read some kind of magical vibes that guys can't. there are the obvious signs. guys might not want to see them but if they too are objective, they are there. you can't always tell one way or another what a person is by how they act/dress though..

[CaptainHowdy]

Originally Posted by Paul Markham

If a guy fucks a different girl every week he's a legend.

If a girl fucks 2 guys in a year she's a slut.

But the legend has to be fucking sluts, so go figure that one out.

Some of you guys still think it's 1950. Get with the program guys.

Guys worried about whether girls are sluts or not are usually not getting much. It's a defense statement. "I wouldn't of fucked her anyway she's a slut." LOL LOL

Ever heard the legend guy describe the girls he fucked as sluts?

[Bill8]

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

THAT is just how women operate.

you are not talking about perception in these cases, which you describe accurately enough.

you are talking about deception, and protective band and pack behavior.

like I said women deceive more than men, they deceive themselves and they deceive each other and they especially deceive men.

it's a behavior designed to get them maximum benefits at minimum cost.

however, their actual perception of other women's status and states and behaviors are pretty good, generally better then 95% of most males.

they know full well when they are bitching about some other chick's looks, that they are lying.

they get no benefits from saying so-and-so is cute. unless so-and-so is in their pack.

[CaptainHowdy]

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

There's at least one weekly hate fest where the womens gather together in our kitchen to get drunk and just fucking hate on everyone. That's just what women do. This has a tendency to lead to a lot of "Do you think this new girl that's working over at so and so is hot?". If i think she's hot I say so, which is almost ALWAYS met with "Ewww OMG. No way. Really? She's got a weird face. I don't like her ankles. Have you seen the clothes she wears? I can't believe you're into that, must just be because you're a dude who'll fuck anything." type reactions. To which I'm sitting here thinking, "That chick is hot as fuck. I'd hit that shit out of that before I'd go anywhere near one of you. She's got a body that ain't quittin. What the hell are you hating bitches smoking?"

Are you a black man?

[AsianDivaGirlsWebDude]

HEY!?! You clicked!!!

ADG

[grumpy]

whats a slut in your opinion?

[czarina]

of course we can! we're experts, you know ;)

[Paul Markham]

Originally Posted by grumpy

whats a slut in your opinion?

A girl whose getting more sex than some of the guys in this thread.

Would be the honest reply from some.

I have never ever had sex with a slut, I value myself far too much to think that.

Mind you I have had a lot of sex with a lot of girls with an open attitude towards sex. Just like most men's attitude.

[ruff]

Since when is being a slut a bad thing?

[TurboAngel]

Originally Posted by MisterPeabody

Yes, I've noticed all the mena answering and I assume it's cause their trannies, metrosexuals or screaming homos so this helps with sorting process. :D

Kidding. We guys can't help chiming in on a conversation.

I know right?

[Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life]

Originally Posted by grumpy

whats a slut in your opinion?

It's a passing term calling a chick who pisses you off a slut. Does it literally mean you think she fucks a lot of guys every time you call a chick a slut? Hell no. I've called tons of people cocksuckers, faggots, hahahahahahas, sluts, or whatever. Doesn't mean I literally think they suck dicks, fuck men, or are ignorant fucking monkeys. Just means I am not pleased with their shit. Certain terms just naturally attach themselves to certain groups because they garner the most hostility in return. Want to push a woman's buttons? Call her a whore...

[Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life]

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

Are you a black man?

I wish, then I could just slap 'em around when they start running their mouths.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

I wish, then I could just slap 'em around when they start running their mouths.

AJC be pimpin' & educatin'.

[adendreams]

my ex always new if another girl was a slut.... if she was breathing - SLUT!

[GatorB]

Originally Posted by Bill8

women are profoundly better judges of other women than men are, and better judges of men as well.

Why do so many women end up with assholes then?

[GatorB]

Originally Posted by Paul Markham

If a guy fucks a different girl every week he's a legend.

If a girl fucks 2 guys in a year she's a slut.

But the legend has to be fucking sluts, so go figure that one out.

Some of you guys still think it's 1950. Get with the program guys.

Guys worried about whether girls are sluts or not are usually not getting much. It's a defense statement. "I wouldn't of fucked her anyway she's a slut." LOL LOL

Ever heard the legend guy describe the girls he fucked as sluts?

Here's the problem with your point. Women have the power when it comes to sex. So a woman fucking a lot of guys is no big deal. For a guy to have sex a woman has to say YES. That's harder to do. An average looking girl will have more chocies for sex partners than a very good looking guy.

[Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life]

Originally Posted by GatorB

Here's the problem with your point. Women have the power when it comes to sex. So a woman fucking a lot of guys is no big deal. For a guy to have sex a woman has to say YES. That's harder to do. An average looking girl will have more chocies for sex partners than a very good looking guy.

What are you talking about average for? The fattest, ugliest, most miserable cunt in the world can still get laid at will if she really wants to throw it out there.

[Bill8]

Originally Posted by GatorB

Why do so many women end up with assholes then?

because they are at the stage and age when an asshole is more interesting.

and because it's a way to win points in the female pack. assholes give a girl more rep points with other girls. nice guys are easy to get.

it's a fairly calculated decision.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Bill8

because they are at the stage and age when an asshole is more interesting.

and because it's a way to win points in the female pack. assholes give a girl more rep points with other girls. nice guys are easy to get.

it's a fairly calculated decision.

This is fascinating.

[Spunky]

We're all whores one way or another

[GregE]

Originally Posted by adendreams

my ex always new if another girl was a slut.... if she was breathing - SLUT!

I think that attitude is more common than not.

[CaptainHowdy]

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

I wish, then I could just slap 'em around when they start running their mouths.

You're a black man at heart then...

[Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life]

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

You're a black man at heart then...

I need to go get me a nice track suit and some shiny white Pumas.