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Old 09-18-2011, 05:26 AM   #1
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So what does your wife/husband say about your adult biz?

Hi,

I am interested to know what your spouse say about your adult biz?

Are they happy with it? Do you hide while working on your sites? ;)
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Old 09-18-2011, 05:31 AM   #2
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I did this before her, so she knew what she was getting into.

But at this point, I am mostly doing other things with maybe one foot still left in adult.
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Old 09-18-2011, 05:32 AM   #3
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I'm not married, but everyone from my friends to my mom knows that I promote adult websites. Not a single person has anything negative to say about it.
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Old 09-18-2011, 05:54 AM   #4
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My husband and I created our business together. Our whole family knows what we do (well, except for hubby's grandfather).
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Old 09-18-2011, 06:00 AM   #5
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My wife is donīt care as long as I make some bucks. But, I do not like working on any adult stuff when she is around...
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Old 09-18-2011, 06:04 AM   #6
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None of my friends / family have a problem. It's kind of hard hiding the fact you own a brothel and a chain of adult shops, even if you hid online porn biz!
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Old 09-18-2011, 06:35 AM   #7
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He's more than fine with it, since it gives him a free pass to "help" me choose galleries and brings in more money than his job. I was doing this when I met him (we met at the job I ended up quitting for doing this full time) so if he'd had a problem, we wouldn't be together now.
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Old 09-18-2011, 06:49 AM   #8
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Thats an easy answer... "NOTHING" - lol.
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:01 AM   #9
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Well, I'm usually shooting my wife while she fucks other guys, so I think she's ok with it. Just a guess, though...
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:19 AM   #10
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Well, I'm usually shooting my wife while she fucks other guys, so I think she's ok with it. Just a guess, though...
I kind of wonder how it would be... if you as a photographer shooting your wife fucking other men, was jealous Agressive and jealous...
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:27 AM   #11
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I am not married, however I have had the same GF 13 years.

She never cared for the fact I am started/still doing porn. She prefers I spend my time, and energy in the web hosting/network and software development stuff. She would like me to get out of porn at some point completely. However, it is like a hobby that makes me money, and I feel my fetish.

Even if I did not make any money in porn, I would still do it for the love. Which is how I had gotten started in the first place. Everything I was first doing online was doing as a hobby for myself. When that started making money, and I just followed it until full time.
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:34 AM   #12
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My wife is European and has no issues with porn. Plus it has provided us with a comfortable lifestyle for over 10 years. Cable companies do it, hotels and motels do it, many mainstream corporations are involved in porn these days. If you are invested in mutual funds you are in porn.
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:41 AM   #13
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I kind of wonder how it would be... if you as a photographer shooting your wife fucking other men, was jealous Agressive and jealous...
No jealousy here... and I get to fuck my share of girls, too. We are swingers, though... its all good!
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:43 AM   #14
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She made me sleep on the couch... But them i would sneak the laptop to check stats. Skill or what?
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:47 AM   #15
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She isn't allowed to have an opinion ...
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Old 09-18-2011, 07:48 AM   #16
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Me being a real man, i have a wife who has no say in anything i do ;)

Joking apart, she has no problem with it. She herself has taken up to adult blogging after seeing that it is more financially rewarding that her current day job.
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Old 09-18-2011, 10:31 AM   #17
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Me, I just start in the adult business. I told my wife, but she doesn't really like the idea. But when I start bringing cash from that, she won't mind. hope it will be fast.
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Old 09-18-2011, 11:20 AM   #18
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I am not married, however I have had the same GF 13 years.
can we see her feet?
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Old 09-18-2011, 01:05 PM   #19
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Everyone knows and no one in my life has a problem with what I do. The only time I got push back was when I worked for a company doing Russian Brides. I actually thought that would be more acceptable but completely not the case at all.
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Old 09-18-2011, 01:08 PM   #20
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Why would she know about anything that happens outside of the kitchen to begin with?
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Old 09-18-2011, 01:16 PM   #21
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she thought it was so cool that she got into it herself.
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Old 09-18-2011, 05:55 PM   #22
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Old 09-19-2011, 01:33 AM   #24
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Everybody arounds me know what is my job, luckily in Spain is not as taboo as in USA, and while my wife is not thrilled about it and would prefer that I worked on mainstream, we have been having a good life out of it for the last 13 years and at the ends it is what does matter as long as I don't do anything ilegal or that I could regret or feel guilty about. In the past I had really good $$ offers to get into more questionable or borderline illegal sides of our business and I always said no. Money is good but not at any price, specially when you have a family.

In fact i would probably prefer to get the income I get now but working on sports (my passion) websites for example as i find porn to be boring after all those years. I always enjoyed more the technical part of the biz, programming, working with scripts, stats etc. Anyway is not that I work with porn directly a lot mysel as I did when I started. Now it's more about investing, marketing and networking while others do the "dirty" job for me.

I have also started some mainstream projects and recently founded a new mainstream company with other partners, but the income is far from what i get in porn, at least by now, so it's just a side project for me where I act more as investor and advisor than as worker.

By now i just avoid my 4 years old kid to know about it and in fact i moved to an office outside home when he was born. I'll explain him when he gets old enough to understand it.
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Old 09-19-2011, 02:58 AM   #25
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My GF knows I do porn, she encourages me because she knows its what pays the bills. The only thing she does moan about is when I get hard over porn
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Depends on whether you are in the biz, or just drool over porn all day, I should think.
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I am not married, however I have had the same GF 13 years.

She never cared for the fact I am started/still doing porn. She prefers I spend my time, and energy in the web hosting/network and software development stuff. She would like me to get out of porn at some point completely. However, it is like a hobby that makes me money, and I feel my fetish.

Even if I did not make any money in porn, I would still do it for the love. Which is how I had gotten started in the first place. Everything I was first doing online was doing as a hobby for myself. When that started making money, and I just followed it until full time.

I swear to everything I thought you were gay... no disrespect, but your avatar choices made me think that. Learn somethin' new every day.
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I'm not married but I have no problem telling friends what I do. Even my mom has come to accept it. When I was looking into phone sex a couple years back she initially called me a 'prostitute'....but now with the writing & texting, etc. she's finally seeing that I'm making money and a job is better than none. She just doesn't wanna hear too many details. lol

Boyfriends, dates, and friends don't seem to mind hearing about it. lol it's a good topic starter and I get a kick out of hearing 'I never would have thought that about you...'. Sweet on the outside, freak on the inside. Ha
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same here...
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My husband doesnt know what I do on my webcam all day while he is at work. He would divorce me if he ever found out.
and he doesn't ask you where the 5000 dollars per month of your income come from?

just wondering...

you tell him is by working on the web?
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Wifey is fine with it for the most part. Her mom thinks its an "Internet Job". One of her relatives is a holier-than-thou nut bar who is pleasant to me in person but then calls me a sinner behind closed doors. Oh well.
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