Should GFY enable private messaging? - GoFuckYourself.com

CyberHustler · 11-10-2011, 03:56 PM

In your opinion...

#OccupyGFY

@DeezNutz

Vendzilla · 11-10-2011, 04:00 PM

Yeah that sounds like a problem waiting to happen

LeRoy · 11-10-2011, 04:02 PM

fuck that! use the board as your message system like everyone else

Waiter · 11-10-2011, 04:03 PM

sounds like a good idea ...

baddog · 11-10-2011, 04:10 PM

Absolutely not . . . . not that there is any chance of it happening.

CyberHustler · 11-10-2011, 04:12 PM

Why not though? Any reasons?

blackmonsters · 11-10-2011, 04:15 PM

Yeah right.

That way people can start a thread bitching about how someone didn't respond to their PM.

CyberHustler · 11-10-2011, 04:16 PM

heaven forbid that shit happens... could shake the whole industry to it's core

baddog · 11-10-2011, 04:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberHustler

Why not though? Any reasons?

Spam, resources.

Lace · 11-10-2011, 04:20 PM

nahh ninja

96ukssob · 11-10-2011, 04:22 PM

fuck no! can you imagine the spam you would get from idiot affiliate managers and douche bags wanting to trade links?

if you want to get a hold of me email. if you cant figure out my email, then stay the fuck off the internet

B.Barnato · 11-10-2011, 04:25 PM

No. We are all one big happy family and do not need to keep things private.

djroof · 11-10-2011, 04:43 PM

nope....

ottopottomouse · 11-10-2011, 04:50 PM

I pm'd you my vote.

WarChild · 11-10-2011, 04:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CyberHustler

Why not though? Any reasons?

Because it would slow down the board. Email works well enough for private conversations.

Tempest · 11-10-2011, 05:19 PM

Yes they should... Don't buy the spam/resource argument. Plenty of large boards out there that handle it just fine.

FlexxAeon · 11-10-2011, 05:21 PM

yeah right. scam city

baddog · 11-10-2011, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tempest

Yes they should... Don't buy the spam/resource argument. Plenty of large boards out there that handle it just fine.

Really? What big board has it that does not deal with spam? I can't think of one that I don't get spammed on.

And to say it would not be resource intensive is

stocktrader23 · 11-10-2011, 05:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

Spam, resources.

Much larger boards handle this with no problems and PM's are damn near a necessity when conducting business if you don't want to turn your personal computer into an ICQ / AIM / MSN / Skype machine.

stocktrader23 · 11-10-2011, 05:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tempest

Yes they should... Don't buy the spam/resource argument. Plenty of large boards out there that handle it just fine.

VBulletin has a plugin for user ratings that is very effective as well. Whatever reason GFY has decided to stick with 2003 technology is not a good one.

stocktrader23 · 11-10-2011, 05:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bossku69

fuck no! can you imagine the spam you would get from idiot affiliate managers and douche bags wanting to trade links?

if you want to get a hold of me email. if you cant figure out my email, then stay the fuck off the internet

Very little to none if the captains of the ship take care of business.

alias · 11-10-2011, 06:04 PM

Never going to happen, use email etc.

Jakez · 11-10-2011, 06:08 PM

There's really no reason that they shouldn't have it. At least not any reason that can't be dealt with. But not having makes the post and thread count higher so..

Konda · 11-10-2011, 06:13 PM

People that want to be contacted have their email and/or icq in their sig.

The rest obviously doesn't want to be contacted.

If they'd enable PM all the annoying affiliate reps would spam the hell out of you if you make some post where you say you have traffic or can send sales.

NOT a good idea at all.

Jakez · 11-10-2011, 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Konda

People that want to be contacted have their email and/or icq in their sig.

The rest obviously doesn't want to be contacted.

If they'd enable PM all the annoying affiliate reps would spam the hell out of you if you make some post where you say you have traffic or can send sales.

NOT a good idea at all.

Pretty sure vBulletin has a way to let members turn their PMing off?

JFK · 11-10-2011, 07:10 PM

Tempest · 11-10-2011, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

Really? What big board has it that does not deal with spam? I can't think of one that I don't get spammed on.

And to say it would not be resource intensive is

I did not say they don't have to deal with spam.. I said they handle it... Nor did I say it wouldn't increase resource usage... Again.. Bigger boards than this one handle it just fine. Bigger boards than this one don't have the crazy limitations on search either.

brassmonkey · 11-10-2011, 07:28 PM

only to green and red members yes

L-Pink · 11-10-2011, 07:30 PM

I get enough death threats as it is.

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Fat Panda · 11-10-2011, 07:40 PM

search rarely works much less a PM system

ColBigBalls · 11-10-2011, 07:51 PM

Text messages are for takling GFY is for name callling.

Mr Pheer · 11-10-2011, 07:53 PM

This is the only adult forum I'm on, and its also the only forum I'm on that doesnt have PM enabled.

FlexxAeon · 11-10-2011, 07:54 PM

And furthermore.......

Anything I have to say that should be "private"' this is one of the last places I'd trust with sensitive info

baddog · 11-10-2011, 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tempest

I did not say they don't have to deal with spam.. I said they handle it... Nor did I say it wouldn't increase resource usage... Again.. Bigger boards than this one handle it just fine. Bigger boards than this one don't have the crazy limitations on search either.

But GFY has the issues they have. There is no way I would want a PM system until they made regular things work.

RyuLion · 11-10-2011, 08:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vendzilla

Yeah that sounds like a problem waiting to happen

spazlabz · 11-10-2011, 08:36 PM

voted no... it is not practical for GFY, much like the e mail notifications for new replies to subscribed threads isn't practical

ColBigBalls · 11-10-2011, 09:19 PM

Wait what ICQ what?

Paul Markham · 11-11-2011, 01:27 AM

Yes.

Just make it optional so those that want it can have it and those that don't can refuse it. Also block certain people sending you a message. Spamming is a reason for the ban hammer to come crashing down.

Then all sides are happy.

BIGTYMER · 11-11-2011, 01:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by B.Barnato

No. We are all one big happy family and do not need to keep things private.

Lykos · 11-11-2011, 05:30 AM

It's too big for PM i think,severs would go nuts,lol

Chosen · 11-11-2011, 06:24 AM

It was nice of you to make a poll with checkboxes, so people can choose all 3 options

CaptainHowdy · 11-11-2011, 06:27 AM

No. I couldn't handle all the female attention ...

Avalana · 11-11-2011, 06:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ottopottomouse

I pm'd you my vote.

michael.kickass · 11-11-2011, 06:53 AM

No it shouldn't!

2intense · 11-11-2011, 07:48 AM

No........

nation-x · 11-11-2011, 07:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog

Spam, resources.

CyberHustler · 11-11-2011, 09:16 AM

Spam happens anyway, with or without pm's. In topics, emails in sigs and icq. Pm spam can be stopped by disabling pm's in your profile or blocking users. Same as the public part of the forum or profile comments, no difference. As long as nobody can mass pm, spamming wouldn't even be a minor issue. And if you limited the feature to just green nicks and up, it would be even less of an issue. The spam excuse makes no sense. The resources excuse actually makes sense, but is a shame since more active boards than this have no resource issues 'cause they upgrade hosting when needed. IMO.

seeandsee · 11-11-2011, 09:44 AM

Yes 39 52.70%
No 32 43.24%
FUCK OFF ASSHOLE! 17 22.97%

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88 votes = 118.91%

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Ramirez · 11-11-2011, 09:46 AM

No!!!

mineistaken · 11-11-2011, 09:46 AM

Definitely yes. Forum without Pm function is crippled forum.

View Poll Results: Should GFY enable private messaging?
Yes	45	51.14%
No	39	44.32%
FUCK OFF ASSHOLE!	19	21.59%
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11-10-2011, 03:56 PM	#1
CyberHustler Masterbaiter Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 26,113	Should GFY enable private messaging? In your opinion... #OccupyGFY @DeezNutz

11-10-2011, 04:00 PM	#2
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11-10-2011, 04:02 PM	#3
LeRoy Porn Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: It's a dry heat Posts: 13,341	fuck that! use the board as your message system like everyone else __________________ JAPANESE CAMS AND CONTENT SITES Teams - leroy.rowland2 Telegram - @lroddd

11-10-2011, 04:03 PM	#4
Waiter Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 15,986	sounds like a good idea ... __________________ The Best Web Hosting Plan ... Amerinoc.com / Unlimited Transfer / Unlimited Web Space / Unlimited Domains / Unlimited Email + Databases ... And much more at Amerinoc.com

11-10-2011, 04:10 PM	#5
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	Absolutely not . . . . not that there is any chance of it happening.

11-10-2011, 04:12 PM	#6
CyberHustler Masterbaiter Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 26,113	Why not though? Any reasons?

11-10-2011, 04:15 PM	#7
blackmonsters Making PHP work Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: 🌎🌅🌈🌇 Posts: 20,564	Yeah right. That way people can start a thread bitching about how someone didn't respond to their PM. __________________ Make Money with Porn

11-10-2011, 04:16 PM	#8
CyberHustler Masterbaiter Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 26,113	heaven forbid that shit happens... could shake the whole industry to it's core

11-10-2011, 04:20 PM	#10
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11-10-2011, 04:22 PM	#11
96ukssob So Fucking Banananananas Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: If I was in your ass you'd know it Posts: 12,991	fuck no! can you imagine the spam you would get from idiot affiliate managers and douche bags wanting to trade links? if you want to get a hold of me email. if you cant figure out my email, then stay the fuck off the internet __________________ Email: Clicky on Me

11-10-2011, 04:25 PM	#12
B.Barnato So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 3,618	No. We are all one big happy family and do not need to keep things private.

11-10-2011, 04:43 PM	#13
djroof JuicyDevils.gr Owner Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Greece Posts: 25,398	nope....

11-10-2011, 04:50 PM	#14
ottopottomouse She is ugly, bad luck. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 13,177	I pm'd you my vote. __________________ ↑ see post ↑ 13101

11-10-2011, 05:19 PM	#16
Tempest Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2004 Location: West Coast, Canada. Posts: 10,217	Yes they should... Don't buy the spam/resource argument. Plenty of large boards out there that handle it just fine.

11-10-2011, 05:21 PM	#17
FlexxAeon Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 3,765	yeah right. scam city __________________ flexx [dot] aeon [at] gmail

11-10-2011, 06:04 PM	#22
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11-10-2011, 06:08 PM	#23
Jakez Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: oddfuturewolfgangkillthemall!!!!!!! Posts: 5,656	There's really no reason that they shouldn't have it. At least not any reason that can't be dealt with. But not having makes the post and thread count higher so.. __________________ [email protected] - jakezdumb - 573689400 Killuminati

11-10-2011, 06:13 PM	#24
Konda ... Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 2,280	People that want to be contacted have their email and/or icq in their sig. The rest obviously doesn't want to be contacted. If they'd enable PM all the annoying affiliate reps would spam the hell out of you if you make some post where you say you have traffic or can send sales. NOT a good idea at all.

11-10-2011, 07:10 PM	#26
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11-10-2011, 07:30 PM	#29
L-Pink working on my tan Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Florida/Kentucky Posts: 39,151	I get enough death threats as it is. .

11-10-2011, 07:40 PM	#30
Fat Panda Porn is Dead. Move along. Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 13,295	search rarely works much less a PM system

11-10-2011, 07:51 PM	#31
ColBigBalls Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,733	Text messages are for takling GFY is for name callling.

11-10-2011, 07:53 PM	#32
Mr Pheer Retired Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 21,206	This is the only adult forum I'm on, and its also the only forum I'm on that doesnt have PM enabled. __________________ 2 lifeguards for Jessica

11-10-2011, 07:54 PM	#33
FlexxAeon Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 3,765	And furthermore....... Anything I have to say that should be "private"' this is one of the last places I'd trust with sensitive info __________________ flexx [dot] aeon [at] gmail

11-10-2011, 08:36 PM	#36
spazlabz Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Kentucky Posts: 6,548	voted no... it is not practical for GFY, much like the e mail notifications for new replies to subscribed threads isn't practical

11-10-2011, 09:19 PM	#37
ColBigBalls Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,733	Wait what ICQ what?

11-11-2011, 01:27 AM	#38
Paul Markham Too old to care Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: On the sofa, watching TV or doing my jigsaws. Posts: 52,943	Yes. Just make it optional so those that want it can have it and those that don't can refuse it. Also block certain people sending you a message. Spamming is a reason for the ban hammer to come crashing down. Then all sides are happy. __________________ Blowout deal. 880 videos, 2,400 image sets, plus many RAW videos. $500. PM me for a deal. Skype Paulmarkham70

11-11-2011, 05:30 AM	#40
Lykos Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: World Posts: 31,027	It's too big for PM i think,severs would go nuts,lol __________________

11-11-2011, 06:24 AM	#41
Chosen VIPPay.com \| AdultWebSponsors.com Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 63,151	It was nice of you to make a poll with checkboxes, so people can choose all 3 options

11-11-2011, 06:27 AM	#42
CaptainHowdy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Happy in the dark. Posts: 93,560	No. I couldn't handle all the female attention ...

11-11-2011, 06:53 AM	#44
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11-11-2011, 07:48 AM	#45
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11-11-2011, 09:16 AM	#47
CyberHustler Masterbaiter Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 26,113	Spam happens anyway, with or without pm's. In topics, emails in sigs and icq. Pm spam can be stopped by disabling pm's in your profile or blocking users. Same as the public part of the forum or profile comments, no difference. As long as nobody can mass pm, spamming wouldn't even be a minor issue. And if you limited the feature to just green nicks and up, it would be even less of an issue. The spam excuse makes no sense. The resources excuse actually makes sense, but is a shame since more active boards than this have no resource issues 'cause they upgrade hosting when needed. IMO.