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xinyonghu · 07-31-2013, 04:21 PM

Do you think you?ll get a
divorce with your wife if she was in a car accident and paralyzed ?

Well..one of my friends is facing the
same problem and that caused him to consider divorce .

SilentKnight · 07-31-2013, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xinyonghu

Do you think you?ll get a
divorce with your wife if she was in a car accident and paralyzed ?

Well..one of my friends is facing the
same problem and that caused him to consider divorce .

Your friend is a shallow asshole.

L-Pink · 07-31-2013, 04:22 PM

Is she paralyzed from the neck down or the mouth down?

(and I agree with above post)

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Zuzana Designs · 07-31-2013, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

Is she paralyzed from the neck down or the mouth down?

(and I agree with above post)

.

lolz............

bluebook18 · 07-31-2013, 04:25 PM

only in china

pornmasta · 07-31-2013, 04:28 PM

i would post a message on gfy to get paul markham's answer.

Or i would read the 毛主席语录 and try to find the best solution.

Harmon · 07-31-2013, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

Is she paralyzed from the neck down or the mouth down?

(and I agree with above post)

.

Oh maaaaaaan

Rochard · 07-31-2013, 04:33 PM

If my wife was paralyzed... I wouldn't need to tie her up and she wouldn't be able to run away. Win win.

All kidding aside... If my wife was paralyzed I would gladly take care of her for the rest of her life. I'd buy her a great big hospital bed, set her up in the master bedroom with a tv, put a computer in there... And I would spend all of my there working with her in the room.

SilentKnight · 07-31-2013, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

If my wife was paralyzed... I wouldn't need to tie her up and she wouldn't be able to run away. Win win.

All kidding aside... If my wife was paralyzed I would gladly take care of her for the rest of her life. I'd buy her a great big hospital bed, set her up in the master bedroom with a tv, put a computer in there... And I would spend all of my there working with her in the room.

You just restored my faith there's at least one or two good folk left on GFY after all.

The Heron · 07-31-2013, 04:57 PM

Would you want your wife to divorce you if you were paralyzed?
Personally I'd want her to kill me, so I'd have to do the same for her. Of course that would require me to get married and that isn't happening anytime soon! But I have given end of life instructions to my gf and pretty much everyone else I talk to.

xinyonghu · 07-31-2013, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

If my wife was paralyzed... I wouldn't need to tie her up and she wouldn't be able to run away. Win win.

All kidding aside... If my wife was paralyzed I would gladly take care of her for the rest of her life. I'd buy her a great big hospital bed, set her up in the master bedroom with a tv, put a computer in there... And I would spend all of my there working with her in the room.

But you have to know she could not work any longer and you will spent your lifetime taking care of her. if you don?t have enough money , medical bills and expenses for medical attendance is a big expense. you have not enough time(or time enough)to do the job and You may lose your job and other possessions, for instance, until you finally realize that those things don?t matter.

JFK · 07-31-2013, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by xinyonghu

But you have to know she could not work any longer and you will spent your lifetime taking care of her. if you don?t have enough money , medical bills and expenses for medical attendance is a big expense. you have not enough time(or time enough)to do the job and You may lose your job and other possessions, for instance, until you finally realize that those things don?t matter.

for better or worse......... means exactly that.

As SilentKnight posted;

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Your friend is a shallow asshole.

Barry-xlovecam · 07-31-2013, 05:03 PM

The value of human life must be cheap in China.

That mentality is the same reason the French and Americans lost to Ho Chi Minh in the Vietnam Wars.

pornmasta · 07-31-2013, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by xinyonghu

But you have to know she could not work any longer and you will spent your lifetime taking care of her. if you don?t have enough money , medical bills and expenses for medical attendance is a big expense. you have not enough time(or time enough)to do the job and You may lose your job and other possessions, for instance, until you finally realize that those things don?t matter.

What kind of sick fuck is there in your country ?

ErectMedia · 07-31-2013, 05:12 PM

I'm sure the situation would add some stress to your life but if ya love the girl gotta do what ya gotta do or at least make an attempt at it

If your friend is considering divorce maybe she's better off without his ass

SilentKnight · 07-31-2013, 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xinyonghu

But you have to know she could not work any longer and you will spent your lifetime taking care of her. if you don?t have enough money , medical bills and expenses for medical attendance is a big expense. you have not enough time(or time enough)to do the job and You may lose your job and other possessions, for instance, until you finally realize that those things don?t matter.

My wife has RA - and as much as I don't like to dwell on or consider the worst - there's the very real possibility she may become a bed-ridden invalid some day. I'll be right there by her side through it all. I'd have it no other way.

As I said above - anyone who'd consider divorcing someone because they've become physically or mentally incapacitated...is a soulless asshole.

xinyonghu · 07-31-2013, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by pornmasta

What kind of sick fuck is there in your country ?

If you were born in this country (North Korea or China), what would your life be like?

dillfly2000 · 07-31-2013, 05:21 PM

If my wife was paralyzed, I'd do everything to make every second of hers less painful.

TheSquealer · 07-31-2013, 05:23 PM

Asian cultures.... have a "different" attitude towards woman....

Dankasaur · 07-31-2013, 05:23 PM

First I'd wonder where my life went wrong which resulted in me getting married... Then I'll worry about why she left the kitchen which resulted in her getting paralyzed from a car accident... OR why the asshole was driving his car in my kitchen to begin with.

All kidding aside, I agree about your friend being a shallow asshole.

pornmasta · 07-31-2013, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by xinyonghu

If you were born in this country (North Korea or China), what would your life be like?

No idea, but here you don't let people die or you don't leave them when they are paralyzed...

Phoenix · 07-31-2013, 06:07 PM

troll is obvious

this guys is not chinese

brassmonkey · 07-31-2013, 06:08 PM

starve to death

hopefully her arms are still good.

ilnjscb · 07-31-2013, 06:14 PM

Get used to Chinese thought, cause they'll be runnin' things soon in one highly probable timeline.

Too bad they aren't like they were in the period after the Sung dynasty:

In a history radically different from the West, the power of hereditary aristocracy in China was largely finished by the time of the Sung dynasty. Thenceforth, the class holding power, wealth, and prestige was composed mainly of administrators and bureaucrats in the emperor's civil service. Membership in this class depended more on passing the civil service examination than on parentage. Persons from certain occupations (and their immediate descendants) were excluded from the examinations: "watchmen, executioners, yamen torturers, labourers, detectives, jailors, coroners, play actors, slaves, beggars, boatpeople, scavengers, musicians and a few others." Still, the great majority of the population was eligible, and the examinations effectively prevented the formation of a hereditary ruling class. For example, the lists of those who passed the highest-level examinations in 1148 and 1256 show that only 40 percent were sons, grandsons, or great-grandsons of civil servants, while the rest came from families with no history in the bureaucracy. Thus, for nearly a thousand years, beneath the overall control of an emperor, China was governed by a meritocratic elite.
It was an elite with distinct privileges. Those who passed the examinations given in the prefectural capitals were designated sheng-yuan , or government students. This entitled them to wear a distinctive dress and to courteous treatment from government officials. They were exempted from government labor service and, should they run afoul of the law, from the demeaning punishment of lashing. These perquisites were not perennial, however. Shengyuan had to pass the examination each time it was given (every three years) to retain their status. Those who went on to pass higher-level examinations became government officials and enjoyed great privilege, power, and wealth.

And agreed - ask your friend what he would want if it was him who was paralyzed, and then do likewise.

xinyonghu · 07-31-2013, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

troll is obvious

this guys is not chinese

Why do you say so ?

Phoenix · 07-31-2013, 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xinyonghu

Why do you say so ?

your grammar mistakes...are not the same as the chinese i deal with on a daily basis

xinyonghu · 07-31-2013, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

your grammar mistakes...are not the same as the chinese i deal with on a daily basis

I am not on purpose .it hard to express my thoughts because of my poor English

Spunky · 07-31-2013, 09:07 PM

I would hope she would stay by me if it happened,I would take care of her

Imortyl Pussycat · 07-31-2013, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Barry-xlovecam

The value of human life must be cheap in China.

considering that they throw baby girls in the trash, ditching a paralyzed wife is probably no big whoop over there

SplatterMaster · 07-31-2013, 09:19 PM

Maybe China can create a "Take care of your spouse" law like the "Visit Your Parents" law. Pretty much every man for himself over there huh?

Captain Kawaii · 08-01-2013, 02:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xinyonghu

Do you think you?ll get a
divorce with your wife if she was in a car accident and paralyzed ?

Well..one of my friends is facing the
same problem and that caused him to consider divorce .

He is pretty much an ass if he divorces her.

Captain Kawaii · 08-01-2013, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

your grammar mistakes...are not the same as the chinese i deal with on a daily basis

He 'troll-in-training'.

BladeZ · 08-01-2013, 02:53 AM

3 years ago I had a stroke and was paralyzed after that.My wife stayed with me aznd I can walk again.This created an unbreakable bond between us.
The concept love exist in China?

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Dankasaur So Fucking Fossilized Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 1,432	First I'd wonder where my life went wrong which resulted in me getting married... Then I'll worry about why she left the kitchen which resulted in her getting paralyzed from a car accident... OR why the asshole was driving his car in my kitchen to begin with. All kidding aside, I agree about your friend being a shallow asshole.

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ilnjscb Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 8,785	Get used to Chinese thought, cause they'll be runnin' things soon in one highly probable timeline. Too bad they aren't like they were in the period after the Sung dynasty: In a history radically different from the West, the power of hereditary aristocracy in China was largely finished by the time of the Sung dynasty. Thenceforth, the class holding power, wealth, and prestige was composed mainly of administrators and bureaucrats in the emperor's civil service. Membership in this class depended more on passing the civil service examination than on parentage. Persons from certain occupations (and their immediate descendants) were excluded from the examinations: "watchmen, executioners, yamen torturers, labourers, detectives, jailors, coroners, play actors, slaves, beggars, boatpeople, scavengers, musicians and a few others." Still, the great majority of the population was eligible, and the examinations effectively prevented the formation of a hereditary ruling class. For example, the lists of those who passed the highest-level examinations in 1148 and 1256 show that only 40 percent were sons, grandsons, or great-grandsons of civil servants, while the rest came from families with no history in the bureaucracy. Thus, for nearly a thousand years, beneath the overall control of an emperor, China was governed by a meritocratic elite. It was an elite with distinct privileges. Those who passed the examinations given in the prefectural capitals were designated sheng-yuan , or government students. This entitled them to wear a distinctive dress and to courteous treatment from government officials. They were exempted from government labor service and, should they run afoul of the law, from the demeaning punishment of lashing. These perquisites were not perennial, however. Shengyuan had to pass the examination each time it was given (every three years) to retain their status. Those who went on to pass higher-level examinations became government officials and enjoyed great privilege, power, and wealth. And agreed - ask your friend what he would want if it was him who was paralyzed, and then do likewise.

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SplatterMaster Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: cyberspace Posts: 790	Maybe China can create a "Take care of your spouse" law like the "Visit Your Parents" law. Pretty much every man for himself over there huh?

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BladeZ So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 272	3 years ago I had a stroke and was paralyzed after that.My wife stayed with me aznd I can walk again.This created an unbreakable bond between us. The concept love exist in China?