Why do I have this wierd feeling after my girlfriend talked about past experience? - GoFuckYourself.com

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 09:25 PM

I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

media · 04-23-2004, 09:26 PM

That's just something you don't talk about...

That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..

Rictor · 04-23-2004, 09:27 PM

Yah, don't ask, don't tell.

Nothing good can come from knowing.

nathan_f · 04-23-2004, 09:28 PM

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Originally posted by media
That's just something you don't talk about...

That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..

so true..

irishfury · 04-23-2004, 09:29 PM

lol yeah man what others said is right on point

StRoGE · 04-23-2004, 09:30 PM

If I hadnt asked my ex-fiance a bunch of questions about shit like that we'd probably still be together.
I have to agree. Dont ask, and definately dont tell.

Thomas1007 · 04-23-2004, 09:31 PM

Im gonna take a wild guess
and god forbid I say this on GFY
but yup
" yer in love"
Congrats

Trixie Racer · 04-23-2004, 09:31 PM

You're insecure.

My boyfriend knows that he's the best sex I've ever had so it doesn't bother him at all if I discuss previous sex partners. He's had MUCH more experience than I, so it does make me insecure if he talks about previous partners.

StuartD · 04-23-2004, 09:33 PM

My ex felt the need to relate everything we did to some past experience with her past boyfriends....

Man that was annoying. I so totally didn't want to know.

Even after telling her that, she'd still keep on telling me.

This is one of the reasons why she's now an "ex"

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 09:33 PM

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Originally posted by Thomas1007
Im gonna take a wild guess
and god forbid I say this on GFY
but yup
" yer in love"
Congrats

I don't want to sound like a corn dog, but you're probably right. Havn't felt this way about a female before.

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 09:36 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
You're insecure.

My boyfriend knows that he's the best sex I've ever had so it doesn't bother him at all if I discuss previous sex partners. He's had MUCH more experience than I, so it does make me insecure if he talks about previous partners.

I don't think it's that. She says I pleasure her better than she can pleasure herself

... that's pretty good coming from a female! lol.

Thomas1007 · 04-23-2004, 09:36 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I don't want to sound like a corn dog, but you're probably right. Havn't felt this way about a female before.

I hate to say it, but yup
all us men go thru it, we see her, we fall...
then of course like idiots we spend every fucking dime to Impress her. Oh then its gets better... you or she moves IN...

another story for another time

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 09:40 PM

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Originally posted by Thomas1007
I hate to say it, but yup
all us men go thru it, we see her, we fall...
then of course like idiots we spend every fucking dime to Impress her. Oh then its gets better... you or she moves IN...

another story for another time

If this thread starts to die, please bump with the story!... could save a life you know! lol

gwilkins · 04-23-2004, 09:42 PM

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Originally posted by media
That's just something you don't talk about...

That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..

You just need to find a girl that doesn't shit or have sex and you'll be golden

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 09:43 PM

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Originally posted by gwilkins
You just need to find a girl that doesn't shit or have sex and you'll be golden

Sheri Santiago · 04-23-2004, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

Yep, if you didn't love her you wouldn't give a shit. Enjoy yourself, she's with you for a reason...don't let the past get in the way!!!!

Cyborg 2.0 · 04-23-2004, 09:53 PM

get that feeling too...
start to think about it

better not tell and not know

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 09:54 PM

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Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
Yep, if you didn't love her you wouldn't give a shit. Enjoy yourself, she's with you for a reason...don't let the past get in the way!!!!

She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol

Thomas1007 · 04-23-2004, 10:00 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol

Perhaps you should Ask?
communication is the key

enjoy
new love is Momentus

Sheri Santiago · 04-23-2004, 10:02 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol

LOL shit I didn't think about that...no I'd say maybe she's just really into you so she doesn't care - different things affect people differently - if you are enjoying your life with her then don't let this kind of stuff bother you...by the way, why aren't you out living it up on a Friday night with yer woman? ;)

have a good weekend

goBigtime · 04-23-2004, 10:04 PM

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Originally posted by media

That's like walking in on your girl taking a shit or something.. You just feel wierd after like it's something you should have never seen or known they did..

Hmm I wonder if it would be worse if you walked in after her and there was an unflushed foot long turd in the bowl.

Would have made a great Seinfeld.

Jerrys new girlfriend leaves him a present...

Then again... maybe it already was an episode? lol

wdsguy · 04-23-2004, 10:06 PM

u don't wanna know about shit dude, thats what caused problems in my current relationship

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:07 PM

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Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
LOL shit I didn't think about that...no I'd say maybe she's just really into you so she doesn't care - different things affect people differently - if you are enjoying your life with her then don't let this kind of stuff bother you...by the way, why aren't you out living it up on a Friday night with yer woman? ;)

have a good weekend

We had a good night together... she left not too long before I started this thread

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:07 PM

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Originally posted by goBigtime
Hmm I wonder if it would be worse if you walked in after her and there was an unflushed foot long turd in the bowl.

Would have made a great Seinfeld.

Jerrys new girlfriend leaves him a present...

Then again... maybe it already was an episode? lol

LOL

Sheri Santiago · 04-23-2004, 10:13 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
We had a good night together... she left not too long before I started this thread

hooo hell yeah! got pics? lol just playin' ;)

media · 04-23-2004, 10:13 PM

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Originally posted by gwilkins
You just need to find a girl that doesn't shit or have sex and you'll be golden

That's why I married a virgin, and I don't use the restroom while she does.. Problem solved..

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:15 PM

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Originally posted by media
That's why I married a virgin, and I don't use the restroom while she does.. Problem solved..

My girl actually IS a virgin... but she's still had other flings doing almost everything but. Actually, before tonight I thought I was the only guy that EVER touched her.

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:17 PM

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Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
hooo hell yeah! got pics? lol just playin' ;)

Actually sometimes I joke around about the people on the internet watching, lol...

A quote from tonight:

Her: "Can anyone see through those blinds"

Me: "Only my paying customers"

lol

Sheri Santiago · 04-23-2004, 10:18 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant

Actually sometimes I joke around about the people on the internet watching, lol...

A quote from tonight:

Her: "Can anyone see through those blinds"

Me: "Only my paying customers"

lol

LOL did tanker put you up to that? ;)

I think if she's a virgin you should be even less worried...sounds like you have a good thing going

why am I still awake?

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:20 PM

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Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
LOL did tanker put you up to that? ;)

I think if she's a virgin you should be even less worried...sounds like you have a good thing going

why am I still awake?

Where do you think we got the content for Chick Trick from? lol...

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:34 PM

It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.

brizzad · 04-23-2004, 10:36 PM

i took my g/f's virginity... nothing to worry about here

but in previous relationships.. talking about who fucked who was ALWAYS trouble.. ive definately learned my lesson

Sheri Santiago · 04-23-2004, 10:37 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.

block it out or you'll drive yourself nuts, everyone has a past, she's still a virgin, which means a lot. Enjoy what you have, remember you could be dating A LOT worse!!!

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 10:54 PM

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Originally posted by Sheri Santiago
block it out or you'll drive yourself nuts, everyone has a past, she's still a virgin, which means a lot. Enjoy what you have, remember you could be dating A LOT worse!!!

I'll do my best, but I have a problem of thinking to much, lol... I'm gonna take a long walk and chainsmoke, that should help, lol... have a good night and thanks for your posts

SmutGiant · 04-23-2004, 11:15 PM

will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

Royaltee_Gee · 04-23-2004, 11:27 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

Ya it will after a good 2-3 weeks... Ya what everyone else said, dont ask dont tell.... Then whenever your mad at her, youll think of it, so get used to it.. its like a monkey on your fucking back that will never go away

wdsguy · 04-23-2004, 11:45 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

dude it took me 4 months and I am still dealing with it but its getting better. It will depend for you. All i gotto say is you have to focus on the good things between u guys and keep yourself busy. This won't be an easy issue to deal with but you can't get over it- it will just take time. Lesson learned= never open the pandoras box.

Ironhorse · 04-24-2004, 12:10 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
My girl actually IS a virgin... but she's still had other flings doing almost everything but. Actually, before tonight I thought I was the only guy that EVER touched her.

Words of advice: Don't marry her!! You will remember this post 15 years later when you're struggling with jealous feelings which you are obviously already having.

Ironhorse · 04-24-2004, 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

See my post above. NO, this feeling will never go away, it will get worse when you realize it's not natural for anyone to only sleep with just one person. Sorry bro

wdsguy · 04-24-2004, 12:17 AM

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Originally posted by Ironhorse
See my post above. NO, this feeling will never go away, it will get worse when you realize it's not natural for anyone to only sleep with just one person. Sorry bro

It does get better, to the point where if u think about it- it won't get u pissed anymore. Gotto accept reality sooner or later

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by wdsguy
It does get better, to the point where if u think about it- it won't get u pissed anymore. Gotto accept reality sooner or later

It might be the alchohol talking, but I think you're right bro!

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 01:34 AM

It's kind of one of those "you're damned if you do, damned if you don't" type deals. If you don't know, you're curious, and when you do know it bothers you. I guess you could also call that a catch22?

Elli · 04-24-2004, 01:45 AM

All of my bf's asked that question sooner or later. Too late, I realized they didn't really want the truth. I was all about being honest and communicative, and all they wanted to hear was how every other guy was awful and creepy and a blundering idiot and I was still as pure as the driven snow.

I don't ask "Does this dress make me look fat?" if I don't want the TRUTH. Don't ASK if you don't want to KNOW.

If you already know, deal with it. Be thankful she told you the truth and has nothing to hide from you.

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 01:47 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
All of my bf's asked that question sooner or later. Too late, I realized they didn't really want the truth. I was all about being honest and communicative, and all they wanted to hear was how every other guy was awful and creepy and a blundering idiot and I was still as pure as the driven snow.

I don't ask "Does this dress make me look fat?" if I don't want the TRUTH. Don't ASK if you don't want to KNOW.

If you already know, deal with it. Be thankful she told you the truth and has nothing to hide from you.

Holly · 04-24-2004, 02:13 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I?

Because you have a y chromosome.

wdsguy · 04-24-2004, 02:15 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
It's kind of one of those "you're damned if you do, damned if you don't" type deals. If you don't know, you're curious, and when you do know it bothers you. I guess you could also call that a catch22?

its all good bro, alcohol helps.

I been dealin with it for 4 months and it was so shitty at first that I started fuckin up in school. All I can say is that if u think this chick is worth it then stay with her. Atleast u are getting this outta the way early. All chicks have baggage and shit and its just something u gotto deal with. If you start feelin funny, drink, hang out with yer friends or just do something to keep your mind occupied and trust me u will get over this with time.

Holly · 04-24-2004, 02:17 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
She clearly not bothered by my past experiences, does that mean she's not in love with me? lol

No. It means she only has Xs.

Elli · 04-24-2004, 02:18 AM

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Originally posted by wdsguy
its all good bro, alcohol helps.

I been dealin with it for 4 months and it was so shitty at first that I started fuckin up in school. All I can say is that if u think this chick is worth it then stay with her. Atleast u are getting this outta the way early. All chicks have baggage and shit and its just something u gotto deal with. If you start feelin funny, drink, hang out with yer friends or just do something to keep your mind occupied and trust me u will get over this with time.

And hey, if you can't forget her, then at least you're halfway to a good case of alcoholism. It's all good!

VeriSexy · 04-24-2004, 02:21 AM

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Originally posted by StRoGE
If I hadnt asked my ex-fiance a bunch of questions about shit like that we'd probably still be together.
I have to agree. Dont ask, and definately dont tell.

Lesson learnt, forget the past

wdsguy · 04-24-2004, 02:21 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
No. It means she only has Xs.

My gf doesn't care about my x's

I guess its due to the fact that chicks care more about emotional attachments while we get all worked up over the physical things they did

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	Why do I have this wierd feeling after my girlfriend talked about past experience? I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	It's kind of one of those "you're damned if you do, damned if you don't" type deals. If you don't know, you're curious, and when you do know it bothers you. I guess you could also call that a catch22?

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Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	All of my bf's asked that question sooner or later. Too late, I realized they didn't really want the truth. I was all about being honest and communicative, and all they wanted to hear was how every other guy was awful and creepy and a blundering idiot and I was still as pure as the driven snow. I don't ask "Does this dress make me look fat?" if I don't want the TRUTH. Don't ASK if you don't want to KNOW. If you already know, deal with it. Be thankful she told you the truth and has nothing to hide from you. __________________ email: [email protected]