Why do I have this wierd feeling after my girlfriend talked about past experience? - Page 2 - GoFuckYourself.com

Holly · 04-24-2004, 02:25 AM

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Originally posted by wdsguy
My gf doesn't care about my x's

I bet if you had two, she would. ;-}

wdsguy · 04-24-2004, 02:30 AM

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Originally posted by Holly

I bet if you had two, she would. ;-}

hehe

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 03:17 AM

I guess something good did come out of this... a two page thread! woohoo!!! lol..

BigG · 04-24-2004, 04:16 AM

It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.
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Like what???

TurboAngel · 04-24-2004, 06:54 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

You're not supposed to talk about ex's or other sex partners with your new g/f - b/f.

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 07:20 AM

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Originally posted by TurboAngel
You're not supposed to talk about ex's or other sex partners with your new g/f - b/f.

she's not my *new* girlfriend, we've been together about 5 months, and "seeing each other" for at least 4=5 months before that

TurboAngel · 04-24-2004, 07:28 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
she's not my *new* girlfriend, we've been together about 5 months, and "seeing each other" for at least 4=5 months before that

You still don't talk about it. I don't talk to Turboface about other people I've been with because it's in bad taste.

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 07:30 AM

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Originally posted by BigG
It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me.
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Like what???

A washroom at a baseball game...

TurboAngel · 04-24-2004, 07:35 AM

She had sex in washroom at a baseball game? Wow see if you hadn't talked about it you wouldn't know and you your tummy wouldn't feel sick.

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 07:43 AM

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Originally posted by TurboAngel
She had sex in washroom at a baseball game? Wow see if you hadn't talked about it you wouldn't know and you your tummy wouldn't feel sick.

not intercourse, but yeah... was her first time "getting any" too. I remember the first time I went down on her I made it the most special experience in the world... candles lit, a back massage with oils and all. A very romantic experience. At the time she said she has never been with anyone else... Now I don't know what to believe.

... I took it so slow for nothing! lol j/k.

TurboAngel · 04-24-2004, 07:49 AM

Awww that was nice of you, but I still think you would have been better off not knowing that don't you?

That's why I think people shouldn't talk about what they did with other people.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 04-24-2004, 07:51 AM

I have to say instead of seeking advice from the masses here at GFY why not discuss it with the girl in question. I'm glad my hubby is not insecure about his sexual prowess ..
who really gives a fuck whats in someones sexual past unless you havent been practicing safe sex or had your HIV tests...you should worry about the present and the future..the past is the past.

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 07:59 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
I have to say instead of seeking advice from the masses here at GFY why not discuss it with the girl in question. I'm glad my hubby is not insecure about his sexual prowess ..
who really gives a fuck whats in someones sexual past unless you havent been practicing safe sex or had your HIV tests...you should worry about the present and the future..the past is the past.

imo GFY is a great vent, a lot of smart people who give good advice hang around here

. Of course I'll talk to her about it, but in the middle of the night GFY is pretty much your only outlet....

BigG · 04-24-2004, 08:27 AM

A washroom at a baseball game...
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Well that doesn't seem so bad. I mean, I understand why it bothers you . . . but from a third party perspecive, it is just something that happened. It probably wasn't "random." I bet it was with someone she knew really well. You can't hold it against her. In fact . . . I am thinking that you might consider her honesty to be proof of how much she cares about you!

BigG · 04-24-2004, 09:34 AM

I asked an ex about this sort of thing. She couldn't tell me to my face. She ended up calling me and telling me.

SmutGiant · 04-24-2004, 09:39 AM

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Originally posted by BigG
I asked an ex about this sort of thing. She couldn't tell me to my face. She ended up calling me and telling me.

Was it really that bad?

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 04-24-2004, 10:08 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
imo GFY is a great vent, a lot of smart people who give good advice hang around here . Of course I'll talk to her about it, but in the middle of the night GFY is pretty much your only outlet....

understandable

BigG · 04-24-2004, 10:11 AM

Was it really that bad?
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She was just embarrassed. I liked the fact that she was honest about a prior relationship . . . but it was something I thought about.

BigG · 04-24-2004, 10:21 AM

Think about this . . . any girl could just lie to you and say whatever you want to hear. In fact, I think it is rare that a girl loves you enough to be completely honest with you (about that).

Trixie Racer · 04-24-2004, 11:07 AM

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Originally posted by TurboAngel
You're not supposed to talk about ex's or other sex partners with your new g/f - b/f.

When you do discuss past sex partners, it helps your current partner know what he/she has to do to match up.

Trixie Racer · 04-24-2004, 11:09 AM

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Originally posted by BigG
Think about this . . . any girl could just lie to you and say whatever you want to hear. In fact, I think it is rare that a girl loves you enough to be completely honest with you (about that).

"Loves you enough"?!? I'm greedy. If the guy isn't doing what it takes to get me off, I sure let him know.

BigG · 04-24-2004, 11:20 AM

"Loves you enough"?!? I'm greedy. If the guy isn't doing what it takes to get me off, I sure let him know.
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But do you tell him all the "nasty" truth abut the past???

SmutGiant · 04-26-2004, 09:03 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
"Loves you enough"?!? I'm greedy. If the guy isn't doing what it takes to get me off, I sure let him know.

oh trust me I can please her! hehe

Ironhorse · 04-26-2004, 09:10 PM

The problem is not so much what she did before, but obviously how you are handling it is not making you happy. Have you discussed this with her and what was her reaction?

SmutGiant · 04-26-2004, 09:16 PM

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Originally posted by Ironhorse
The problem is not so much what she did before, but obviously how you are handling it is not making you happy. Have you discussed this with her and what was her reaction?

It's also largely due the fact that I honestly thought I was the ONLY guy that ever touched her, and it was kind of a shock when I found out she had such a wild experience (well for her at least). It seemed so out of character with her.

pimplink · 04-26-2004, 09:35 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

Maybe you can't accept the fact that you've met someone who lives like you and actually fell for anyway!

Elli · 04-26-2004, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
It's also largely due the fact that I honestly thought I was the ONLY guy that ever touched her, and it was kind of a shock when I found out she had such a wild experience (well for her at least). It seemed so out of character with her.

did you tell her about all your wild experiences?

SmutGiant · 04-26-2004, 09:50 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
did you tell her about all your wild experiences?

yep! but she knew everything about me early in the relationship... especially since I've been with a couple of her friends/aquaintences, lol.

SmutGiant · 04-26-2004, 10:47 PM

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Originally posted by pimplink
Maybe you can't accept the fact that you've met someone who lives like you and actually fell for anyway!

Can you please expand on that? I don't quite understand

pure energy · 04-26-2004, 11:02 PM

Maybe you're jealous?

Elli · 04-26-2004, 11:11 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
yep! but she knew everything about me early in the relationship... especially since I've been with a couple of her friends/aquaintences, lol.

And do you think your expectations of her were reasonable before you knew the truth?

SmutGiant · 04-26-2004, 11:15 PM

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Originally posted by pure energy
Maybe you're jealous?

I don't see how it could be jealousy though, I mean this happened before we were dating.

GonePhishing · 04-26-2004, 11:16 PM

Hehehe, that's rough man. It's just something that I must agree with the majority of people on the board with. It's not something that needs to be discussed in detail. Though I totally understand where you are coming from. Just try to keep in mind that it was the past (possibly well before she knew you)

SmutGiant · 04-26-2004, 11:23 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
And do you think your expectations of her were reasonable before you knew the truth?

yes? lol... well I'm too tired to remember if I posted this earlier, but she actually TOLD me earlier in the relationship that she never had any sort of relations with anyone else. It just hit me pretty hard becuase it's almost like I see her as a totally different person now.

BTW you're a hottie

. Are you related to someone who happens to work in an advertising agency by any chance? You kinda look like someone I used to work with

reynold · 04-27-2004, 12:41 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
will this feeling go away? lol... it's driving me nuts!

Not if you still think about it every second!

Elli · 04-27-2004, 12:50 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
yes? lol... well I'm too tired to remember if I posted this earlier, but she actually TOLD me earlier in the relationship that she never had any sort of relations with anyone else. It just hit me pretty hard becuase it's almost like I see her as a totally different person now.

BTW you're a hottie . Are you related to someone who happens to work in an advertising agency by any chance? You kinda look like someone I used to work with

Thanks

No, I'm not related to anyone in advertising.

Ah, so she told a little white lie at first, and now she's come clean. Well, is the deception bad enough to leave? That is pretty harsh, but it doesn't change who she is, just who you think she is.

newsdude · 04-27-2004, 01:34 AM

I dont think that feeling will ever go away. It shall haunt you unless of course you decide you don't give a damn about her past and start thinking about your future together!

johnbosh · 04-27-2004, 01:38 AM

its natural

NiTe-HaWk · 04-27-2004, 01:44 AM

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I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

Jealous

Or
I hear my sisters talking about having sex. It kind of makes me want to kill the guy but then I remember it is their life.

pure energy · 04-27-2004, 03:04 AM

Accept it. You leave in the world of double standards!

Maximillion · 04-27-2004, 03:33 AM

Don't forget females lie and some will say they haven't done this or haven't done anything blah blah

SmutGiant · 08-12-2013, 06:43 PM

I've said it before and I'll say it again: "the more things change, the more they stay the same".

*yeah, I bumped a nine year old thread, fucking sue me!

L-Pink · 08-12-2013, 06:56 PM

Never ask about the "Property of Hell's Angels" tattoo on her ass.

SmutGiant · 08-13-2013, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

Never ask about the "Property of Hell's Angels" tattoo on her ass.

That was only my first mistake!

Oracle Porn · 08-13-2013, 03:32 AM

did you break up after 9 years or are you still together?

shimmy2 · 08-13-2013, 10:46 AM

grow some nuts and fly to DR, CR, PI, or Thailand. Teenage sluts will drain your nutsack several times a day for $12-$24 and you'll quickly forget whatshername with her high mileage. yo girl symptoms sounds like a salvage rebuildable title car from copart you ain't even scratch the surface yet then you gonna find out the floorboard under the carpet is rusted cause it was underwater for 3 days in hurricane charlie. leave that bitch and make room for some new ones man she occupy toomuch of your brainpower

Best-In-BC · 08-13-2013, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by SmutGiant

I know I shouldn't have this feeling, but why do I? We were talking about past flings and stuff, even though I have had more partners than her, I just have this wierd feeling in my stomach (physically)... What the fuck is wrong with me? lol...

Jealous much ?

Tom_PM · 08-13-2013, 11:11 AM

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_Richard_ · 08-13-2013, 11:39 AM

several reasons, you're in love, your instincts are afraid of 'issues', etc

go buy her favourite colour of lingere, book a nice hotel, feel better in the morning

valeriyCE · 08-13-2013, 11:47 AM

the trick is to never ask questions that you dont want to know the answer to.

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04-24-2004, 04:16 AM	#54
BigG So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 931	It's also the randomness, and places where her enounters took place that bug me. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Like what???

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TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Awww that was nice of you, but I still think you would have been better off not knowing that don't you? That's why I think people shouldn't talk about what they did with other people.

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C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	I have to say instead of seeking advice from the masses here at GFY why not discuss it with the girl in question. I'm glad my hubby is not insecure about his sexual prowess .. who really gives a fuck whats in someones sexual past unless you havent been practicing safe sex or had your HIV tests...you should worry about the present and the future..the past is the past.

04-24-2004, 08:27 AM	#64
BigG So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 931	A washroom at a baseball game... ----------------------------------------------------------- Well that doesn't seem so bad. I mean, I understand why it bothers you . . . but from a third party perspecive, it is just something that happened. It probably wasn't "random." I bet it was with someone she knew really well. You can't hold it against her. In fact . . . I am thinking that you might consider her honesty to be proof of how much she cares about you!

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BigG So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 931	I asked an ex about this sort of thing. She couldn't tell me to my face. She ended up calling me and telling me.

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BigG So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 931	Was it really that bad? --------------------------------------- She was just embarrassed. I liked the fact that she was honest about a prior relationship . . . but it was something I thought about.

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