Best course of action? someone is posting nude pics of a friend of mine. she is distraught

[Phoenix]

he is making profiles on social sites...putting up her naked pictures.

they used to date...now he is pissed i guess

anyway...besides contacting the social sites to have the profile removed...is there a legal course of action she can take?

he is an american....now living in the usa.

i have his name....his ex wifes name and address..not that that will help i guess.

[sarettah]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

he is an american....now living in the usa.

Where does his ex live?

Not sure what can be done legally although more and more places are starting to do laws against that stuff.

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[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by sarettah

Where does his ex live?

Not sure what can be done legally although more and more places are starting to do laws against that stuff.

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the ex is in philadelphia...mother lives in texas

id rather stay legal

i could always have him located and play dirty pool with various sites etc

but best would be if he got a call from local authorities...even to just say...stop being a dick

[KRosh]

She could file a lawsuit seeking injunctive relief, which, if granted, could force him to take down the pictures. She might also seek an injunction against the company hosting the website.

If she does file a lawsuit, she can seek damages, including fees and costs, but that doesn't guarantee that she will receive an award of damages.

[Arnox]

Nothing you can really do with regard to the law side of things. She doesn't have a copyright claim and it's not content that is particularly sensitive.

If this were my position - and I know that, given she's upset about it, it might not be a great idea - but I'd post those pictures on /r/Gonewild and link him to the thread. If she's confident about herself and doesn't want him to win, what better way than to have her parade herself and get a ton of compliments from multiple people? It might boost her self-esteem and the reality is, those pictures are already available.

I'd double down and push my stack.

In for a penny, in for a pound.

[devilspost]

I she hot? post pics ;)

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by KRosh

She could file a lawsuit seeking injunctive relief, which, if granted, could force him to take down the pictures. She might also seek an injunction against the company hosting the website.

If she does file a lawsuit, she can seek damages, including fees and costs, but that doesn't guarantee that she will receive an award of damages.

she is chinese...so i think she is screwed on that part.

maybe its time to play dirty pool with him

but i think it will just escalate things and make it worse for her
i think a phone call from the local authorities would be enough to scare him into stop being such an asshole

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by devilspost

I she hot? post pics ;)

haha she is very hot.
i dont have the pics...i wouldnt mind seeing them though..lol

she helps me in business, so need to keep it on the up and up.

anyway, this guy is a scumbag

racked up cc debt in china..then left...and wont pay it.
has a kid in the phillipines...ex wife in usa.

[EddyTheDog]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

haha she is very hot.
i dont have the pics...i wouldnt mind seeing them though..lol

she helps me in business, so need to keep it on the up and up.

anyway, this guy is a scumbag

racked up cc debt in china..then left...and wont pay it.
has a kid in the phillipines...ex wife in usa.

Nice - He sounds like a real joy - I'm feeling devious - I will think of something that won't come back to your friend...

Tell her to remember that revenge is a dish best served cold.....

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by EddyTheDog

Nice - He sounds like a real joy - I'm feeling devious - I will think of something that won't come back to your friend...

Tell her to remember that revenge is a dish best served cold.....

i have found 4 of his email addresses so far

thanks man..id like to make sure he gets the point

[rowan]

Originally Posted by Arnox

She doesn't have a copyright claim [...]

If they're selfies then she's the photographer.

[georgeyw]

I would beat the hell out of the guy, take photos of him beaten and naked and then post them to his neighbours. This is very easy to do and remain anonymous...

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by rowan

If they're selfies then she's the photographer.

that is what i thought as well.
they are pics of her...he has no contract form her to post the pics

so what right does he have to post them...none

he has no proof that she is even over 18

she is like 30..but looks 20

[clickhappy]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

i have his name....his ex wifes name and address..not that that will help i guess.

Fight fire with fire:
- A knock on the door by the authorities outta do it.
- Calling his place of employment and telling them what he's doing will make him stop too.
- Calling his Mom, Dad, sisters, Family and letting them know what he's up to will do it. The women in his family will freak out seeing what he's doing.
- Making photocopies of his picture with some very bad text and posting it EVERYwhere, his neighborhood, the parking lot of his work, will do it too.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by clickhappy

Fight fire with fire:
- A knock on the door by the authorities outta do it.
- Calling his place of employment and telling them what he's doing will make him stop too.
- Calling his Mom, Dad, sisters, Family and letting them know what he's up to will do it. The women in his family will freak out seeing what he's doing.
- Making photocopies of his picture with some very bad text and posting it EVERYwhere, his neighborhood, the parking lot of his work, will do it too.

i have all that information.

his picture...his emails..his name.
id like to find out what city he is in right now

[epitome]

Could be construed as cyber bullying or stalking. Especially if he lives in a conservative area and she speaks to a female cop.

[Jim_Gunn]

If he took the pics, he owns the copyright not her. You may be able to get him to stop somehow, but not with a copyright claim.

[babymaker]

Post his pic and info on gay barebacking sites With full face, and make sure you put him as a bottom

[clickhappy]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

i have all that information.

his picture...his emails..his name.
id like to find out what city he is in right now

Guys feel powerful and are abusive when it comes to women, but if a man contacts him he'll stop.

When my sister broke up with her longtime fiance he left 3 hours of abusive voicemails (youre a cunt, a ugly pig, etc) and threatened her in the voicemails too. He stalked her, drove around her house, showed up at her church and wouldnt leave, etc.

I called him and told him if he didn't stop I would take the recordings of the voicemails and mail it to his mother, his sister and to his employment.
I told him SHE (my sister) wont do it but I will. I told him I would spread it everywhere. I'd make websites with his name and post his recordings and what he's doing everywhere, so any employers who searches for his name will see and hear it all. I told him I would dedicate my life to making sure that everyone knows what a pig he is and he'd never get another job again. He wouldn't be at war with her anymore, he'd be at war with me.

He stopped right away. I think hearing from a man is like cold water to the face and makes him feel threatened himself and stop.

[Captain Kawaii]

Buy his full name for domain, make some initial nasty posts, seo the fuck out of it then send him a link. You can get godaddy domains or namecheap for pretty cheap. I think namecheap comes with free privacy.

If he still does not stop I have some other ideas. Strictly internet related.

My guess is if you are successful it will deepen your relationship with her and make a better business partner relationship. She will work hard to help you would be my guess.

You may also wish to post his full name and email addresses all over China. Say he did some bad stuff in China and to Chinese people. Talk about a flash mob...

[Oracle Porn]

Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

If he took the pics, he owns the copyright not her. You may be able to get him to stop somehow, but not with a copyright claim.

I don't know the laws in the states, but around here you need more then copyright, you need consent.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Oracle Porn

I don't know the laws in the states, but around here you need more then copyright, you need consent.

yeah what about the 2257...how can he prove this girl is of age even to be posting her pics all over the net?

visibly you wouldnt be able to say how old she is....16-23? she is older then that...but she looks young and is very petite
like 43 kgs

[seeandsee]

I know a girl on facebook, and when she left her boyfriend, he got her fb, changed password and posted all nude pics of her, man that was a nice collection of pics and girl was really talented. I guess FB shutit down after some time...

[wehateporn]

You could go down this route, though make sure you do a better job this

[privatesociety]

the guy sounds a jerk off

[Wilsy]

Originally Posted by wehateporn

You could go down this route, though make sure you do a better job this

What is going on in that gif?

[HomerSimpson]

Originally Posted by Wilsy

What is going on in that gif?

russia, paid murder, fail

[Grapesoda]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

he is making profiles on social sites...putting up her naked pictures.

they used to date...now he is pissed i guess

anyway...besides contacting the social sites to have the profile removed...is there a legal course of action she can take?

he is an american....now living in the usa.

i have his name....his ex wifes name and address..not that that will help i guess.

does the guy have a release and 2257 docs? with out the release can't publish

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Grapesoda

does the guy have a release and 2257 docs? with out the release can't publish

no nothing like that
she is a regular girl..just silly enough to let her bf at the time take pictures

now..she is regretting it

it would be great if i could find some one local to call him up.

i am considering posting his pics and info on reddit

but not sure if that will just get me in trouble..lol

[arock10]

Consult a lawyer. People go to jail for pulling what he is doing

[Antonio]

Originally Posted by HomerSimpson

russia, paid murder, fail

not 100% sure that it's a fail, the gif is cut short; after this the fat guy runs into an alley and the hit man runs after him

[Relentless]

www.Randazza.com

You are welcome

[Wilsy]

Originally Posted by Antonio

not 100% sure that it's a fail, the gif is cut short; after this the fat guy runs into an alley and the hit man runs after him

you got a link? wonder if true?

[PR_Glen]

hammers have many functions.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by PR_Glen

hammers have many functions.

its a bit flight im in asia for a few months..lol

im toying with the idea of putting his picture up on some sites as well

but would rather deal with it in a way..that he just decides to leave her alone

and not escalate things and post more of her elsewhere

[bigchadjon]

Originally Posted by arock10

Consult a lawyer. People go to jail for pulling what he is doing

So very true here. A lot of good advice for you, but this makes the most immediate sense due to several facts. She is in China, pics were taken there by him presumably, at the time she was all in, so consent to some extent was given, and now he is posting them everywhere like an asshole, so a lawyer is the best immediate action to check your options. You could always hire a PI and they could scare the hell out of someone like that. Just saying. Good luck.

[dyna mo]

i'd stay out of it.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by arock10

Consult a lawyer. People go to jail for pulling what he is doing

just emailed a lawyer...see what he says

thanks guys

probably a better way to go then me doing something that gets me in trouble..lol

wish i had his address though...that is probably needed.

[wehateporn]

Originally Posted by wehateporn

You could go down this route, though make sure you do a better job this

Video description...

"The hitman was targeting 56-year-old Leonid Kolesnikov, Chief Executive Officer of a St. Petersburg company.

"Kolesnikov was going to a store in the town of Sertolovo, located just north of St. Petersburg, around 10 a.m. local time.

In the video, Kolesnikov is seen parking his vehicle when a man wearing a black jacket enters the frame. The man is holding a bag that is concealing a gun, walks up to the car and attempts to fire two shots through the window.

The first shot hit Kolesnikov but the gun misfired on the second attempt.

The gun is seen malfunctioning and the assassin attempts to reload and fix the problem when Kolesnikov gets out of the vehicle.

The assassin runs away while Kolesnikov runs in the opposite direction, but the hitman returns, follows the businessman and fires one more shot before fleeing.

Another man, emerging from the area where Kolesnikov ran to, is seen pursuing the assassin. At the end of the video, Kolesnikov is seen being treated by medical staff."

[Wilsy]

Originally Posted by wehateporn

Video description...

"The hitman was targeting 56-year-old Leonid Kolesnikov, Chief Executive Officer of a St. Petersburg company.

"Kolesnikov was going to a store in the town of Sertolovo, located just north of St. Petersburg, around 10 a.m. local time.

In the video, Kolesnikov is seen parking his vehicle when a man wearing a black jacket enters the frame. The man is holding a bag that is concealing a gun, walks up to the car and attempts to fire two shots through the window.

The first shot hit Kolesnikov but the gun misfired on the second attempt.

The gun is seen malfunctioning and the assassin attempts to reload and fix the problem when Kolesnikov gets out of the vehicle.

The assassin runs away while Kolesnikov runs in the opposite direction, but the hitman returns, follows the businessman and fires one more shot before fleeing.

Another man, emerging from the area where Kolesnikov ran to, is seen pursuing the assassin. At the end of the video, Kolesnikov is seen being treated by medical staff."

Damn that's insane how calm the guy was walking up to the car, Wonder if they got him or not

[slapass]

Originally Posted by Relentless

www.Randazza.com

You are welcome

I second this.

Edit: also I suggest you keep a distance. Suggest stuff that is totally legal but doing anything is probably just going to lead to shit.

[Phoenix]

Originally Posted by dyna mo

i'd stay out of it.

probably also good advice...but she helps me in china

[Jesse1984]

Originally Posted by Relentless

www.Randazza.com

Bump for Randazza

[nico-t]

There's always 2 sides to a story guys.

[Joshua G]

does she look young in the pics? if so then have her file a CP compliant with jonny law.

[_Richard_]

depending on how serious, contact exwife and explain situation.. women scorned and all that..

[dyna mo]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

probably also good advice...but she helps me in china

it doesn't sound like it's too late to bow out gracefully. might even be the classiest course of action- explain to your business colleague that due to working so closely with her, you wanted to try and help her when you learned of this, but in thinking abotu it, you feel the best thing to do is for her to seek the advices of an attorney and the authorities and that's all you can say about the situation, now back to work!

i'd imagine she'd be pretty impressed by that.

[Rochard]

Originally Posted by clickhappy

Fight fire with fire:
- A knock on the door by the authorities outta do it.
- Calling his place of employment and telling them what he's doing will make him stop too.
- Calling his Mom, Dad, sisters, Family and letting them know what he's up to will do it. The women in his family will freak out seeing what he's doing.
- Making photocopies of his picture with some very bad text and posting it EVERYwhere, his neighborhood, the parking lot of his work, will do it too.

Then grab some photos of him, paste it into some gay porn, and make sure Google picture search finds them.

[TurboAngel]

Good luck with that when Webair gave my starker access to my sever and he put pics everywhere and stole all my domains the cop's didn't wanta do shit. We did get him in court but nothing happened to him.

I'm sure some of you remember that.

[bronco67]

Originally Posted by clickhappy

Guys feel powerful and are abusive when it comes to women, but if a man contacts him he'll stop.

When my sister broke up with her longtime fiance he left 3 hours of abusive voicemails (youre a cunt, a ugly pig, etc) and threatened her in the voicemails too. He stalked her, drove around her house, showed up at her church and wouldnt leave, etc.

I called him and told him if he didn't stop I would take the recordings of the voicemails and mail it to his mother, his sister and to his employment.
I told him SHE (my sister) wont do it but I will. I told him I would spread it everywhere. I'd make websites with his name and post his recordings and what he's doing everywhere, so any employers who searches for his name will see and hear it all. I told him I would dedicate my life to making sure that everyone knows what a pig he is and he'd never get another job again. He wouldn't be at war with her anymore, he'd be at war with me.

He stopped right away. I think hearing from a man is like cold water to the face and makes him feel threatened himself and stop.

I agree. Most slimebag guys will stop doing bad shit to a girl when a guy intercedes. It's because they're a little bitch at heart. What kind of man does this type of shit? A little bitch.