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Old 08-17-2013, 10:00 AM   #1
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Callistamodel.com

My solo girl paysite, callistamodel.com, is currently undergoing some changes. It's not just design or layout but a bit more than that.

There have been some "incidents" in my private life lately the nature of which I will not be disclosing. Some affiliates feel that no matter what I "owe" them and should say what it is.

No. It's private and will stay that way.

What I will say is that it came out of nowhere and took me by complete surprise and facilitated the current "state" of my website. It is not permanent.

It did prevent me from warning affiliates that the front page of my site would be temporary changed and because of my private dealings I prioritized events and sending or posting a notice has been late in coming.

Almost simultaneously I have had to deal with the loss of two family members, each from different circumstances. One a parent. Both also a surprise.

I don't say any of this for sympathy, only as a way of saying I do have private events causing my business life to suffer.

In the 10 years I've run my site, since the day it opened up online I have NEVER ONCE been down or "closed". I have had a few affiliates state that I've "done this to them", that I've "burned them" because of this or some other whiny-ass shit.

If I wanted to "get" someone I sure as hell wouldn't pile a heap of shit into my life and disrupt my own source of income to do it. But I guess I don't have "business sense" (or a dick) so what do I know.

Pull links if you have any by all means. Once I'm back up and my new direction is going I will announce it. Those who want to promote me are welcome to do so, as are those who don't can do as they please. Sales are still occurring, I've had many affiliate and direct sales just this morning. My members section is also been updated as normal and will continue to do so.

If you want to come in here and tell me how my affiliates and my business comes before my private life or my family, well you may shove it up your ass along with the rest of your bullshit and go take a fucking leap.

To the rest of you I can only say I'm sorry for the lack of notice to affiliates for the first time in my life and thank you for being patient with me while I get back on track.
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Old 08-18-2013, 08:56 AM   #2
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Old 08-18-2013, 08:17 PM   #3
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Old 08-26-2013, 09:00 PM   #4
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My solo girl paysite, callistamodel.com, is currently undergoing some changes. It's not just design or layout but a bit more than that.

There have been some "incidents" in my private life lately the nature of which I will not be disclosing. Some affiliates feel that no matter what I "owe" them and should say what it is.

No. It's private and will stay that way.

What I will say is that it came out of nowhere and took me by complete surprise and facilitated the current "state" of my website. It is not permanent.

It did prevent me from warning affiliates that the front page of my site would be temporary changed and because of my private dealings I prioritized events and sending or posting a notice has been late in coming.
No one asked you to disclose WHY you took down your index page. People at another board only were mad that you didn't inform affiliates that were sending your site traffic. You took it personal.





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In the 10 years I've run my site, since the day it opened up online I have NEVER ONCE been down or "closed". I have had a few affiliates state that I've "done this to them", that I've "burned them" because of this or some other whiny-ass shit.
A website's index page with no join links is pretty much "closed"


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If you want to come in here and tell me how my affiliates and my business comes before my private life or my family, well you may shove it up your ass along with the rest of your bullshit and go take a fucking leap.
You are always free to shut down your website at anytime but when you do so you should email affiliates the state of your website in a timely manner.

This post was the 17th of this month but the index was altered before aug 13th and to date no emails have been sent to affiliates on the state of this website. I get you were grieving the loss of family members (I am sorry for your loss) but it only takes 3 mins to write a email to affiliates. You spent way more than that attacking affiliates at another board that were sending you traffic.
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Old 08-27-2013, 05:08 AM   #5
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Old 08-27-2013, 05:10 AM   #6
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Old 08-27-2013, 05:50 AM   #7
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Thanks Markul, adendreams, ladiesofnogales, LiveDose. I'm trying to get things going right. (and Tits will be on the future menu)

SBJ, I know you're trying to seem to others here that you're 'professional' and what-not. Shame you had to act like you did at that 'other board'.
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No one asked you to disclose WHY you took down your index page. People at another board only were mad that you didn't inform affiliates that were sending your site traffic. You took it personal.
The general thread at that 'other board' was fine and I in fact did my best to answer what I could and apologized to all for the "situation".

What I 'took personal' was when a select few decided to bring in shit and made it clear that I was just wrong no matter how many times I said I was sorry for things out of my control.

Some people are just haters and want to cause grief to make their own sorry lives seem less pathetic. This is something also out of my control.

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A website's index page with no join links is pretty much "closed"
Actually, no.

"Closed" would imply 'not functioning' or 'unable to accept transactions'. My site currently is neither. It's not being presented as I would like but as I've said over and over: some things are out of my control right now.

I've had sales nearly every day, many days with numerous sales. A great deal of affiliates have been making and are still making NEW sales to this day.

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You are always free to shut down your website at anytime but when you do so you should email affiliates the state of your website in a timely manner.

This post was the 17th of this month but the index was altered before aug 13th and to date no emails have been sent to affiliates on the state of this website. I get you were grieving the loss of family members (I am sorry for your loss) but it only takes 3 mins to write a email to affiliates. You spent way more than that attacking affiliates at another board that were sending you traffic.
Again, how things "went down" for me would clearly explain my situation and any lack of affiliate contact on my part. If it hadn't been for someone telling me there was a thread I wouldn't have gone there to reply during this time.

Unfortunately for some I won't be revealing those details. It's not anyone's business and never will be. Everyone is free to guess all they want, but no one's even close to understanding or guessing. Those same 'some' feel it is their business and therefore want to spread their hate for not being informed.

And if by "attacking affiliates" you mean yourself and rochard, well I can only say that when on a good day anyone wants to give me shit I will give it back. When you want to give it to me while I'm dealing with more crap than you can understand, well, just don't cry when it gets thrown back in your face.
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Old 08-27-2013, 08:22 AM   #8
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"Closed" would imply 'not functioning' or 'unable to accept transactions'. My site currently is neither. It's not being presented as I would like but as I've said over and over: some things are out of my control right now.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

Your tour has been removed. There is no link to your join page. Everyone who is sending you traffic is sending traffic to... A blank page with a link for "members to enter".

Links pulled.
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:35 PM   #10
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

Your tour has been removed. There is no link to your join page. Everyone who is sending you traffic is sending traffic to... A blank page with a link for "members to enter".

Links pulled.
Just got another affiliate sale in my email the same time I got the notice there were posts here to see. Guess while you were busy doing your....*thing*..... others are busy working.

But please, remove my pictures you have that link to spunkys sites. That's false advertising and an improper use of my content.
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Oh ..... I like her.

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Just got another affiliate sale in my email the same time I got the notice there were posts here to see. Guess while you were busy doing your....*thing*..... others are busy working.

But please, remove my pictures you have that link to spunkys sites. That's false advertising and an improper use of my content.
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Let us know when you can begin accepting new affiliates again.
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my condolences to you and your family. I hope things get better for you soon, hang in there
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Just got another affiliate sale in my email
Does he go by alias Paul M. ?
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Old 08-29-2013, 05:07 PM   #20
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Thanks guys, I hope to have more positive news soon.

rochard, be a good little boy and get those pics removed. I knew you could ;)
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