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jack-exploitedbabysitters · 11-01-2013, 03:38 PM

Does being in love effect your money, for example u won't do certain sites or business ventures because u think u wife or significant other won't approve and spending too much time with them. It's funny to me all the guys i personally know who are doing well are single, guys in relationships are struggling due to them spending too much time with their loved one and not working. Their are 24 hours in the day and u are spending 6 hours with ur girlfriend the single guy has a advantage over u.

_Richard_ · 11-01-2013, 03:41 PM

id say that would be a personal choice/dilemma: don't let your dick run your life lol

xNetworx · 11-01-2013, 04:12 PM

Its simply a matter of time management skills. You can be single and spend 6 hours a day playing video games and jerking off. Tons of successful people are married.

TheSquealer · 11-01-2013, 05:08 PM

Typically, the more content you are as a person, the less driven you are and the less money you are likely to make.

keysync · 11-01-2013, 05:43 PM

I would say in my case. Yes being married effects the decisions I make.
As long as I keep things relatively reasonable she doesn't give two fucks what I do.
However opening a swing club is something I would like to do. There was one in a nearby city and it was always busy as hell but the owners had a fall out and it closed.

I would like an 8 ball and a hooker for my birthday too! But I'm pretty sure the wife wouldn't approve of either...
Damn good thing I love her..

JockoHomo · 11-01-2013, 06:13 PM

Hookers cost money...dating costs money...dating hookers costs even more money!

ilnjscb · 11-01-2013, 06:37 PM

.... Affect .....

_Richard_ · 11-01-2013, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by ilnjscb

.... Affect .....

Si · 11-01-2013, 08:44 PM

MGTOW - look that up.

Si · 11-01-2013, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_

Thought that was wrong did you? In a fred where da the op didnt even use you rather than u?

Funny how you attack things based on your views rather than the content isn't it?

Si · 11-01-2013, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

Typically, the more content you are as a person, the less driven you are and the less money you are likely to make.

This is a good point.

beerptrol · 11-01-2013, 09:24 PM

Yep, I love my money and bitches come and go!

scubadiver626 · 11-01-2013, 11:08 PM

If your the head cheese, a good woman is the neck. If she's frugal, helps save for retirement and you're a team... You'll go far!

MrMaxwell · 11-02-2013, 08:11 AM

Loving family and a woman or two caused me to be poor financially, but not in the usual ways. I just got distracted by all of their shit and ran myself into the ground. I never let the women take or spend my money but I let family have a lot of it. Huge mistake. When a woman is with me, if she told me not to do something, that is just ridiculous. A woman telling me what to do flies in my airspace about as well as a lead toilet flies over the grand canyon there.

To make it you cannot have distractions. Period. That is the major lesson I have learned. I'll never let any of them get in the way of me making mine ever again. Ever. Period. Anyone who's worth my time wouldn't even want to.

I will end up making a lot of money again now that I understand this and FUCK love. The more I did for them and the more loyal I was, the worse ways they found to betray me. Wonderful angels, at first, then BLAM.

So for now suck my dick and make a sandwich and if you want to say or do anything troublesome shut the fuck up and get the fuck out first. It's like that, because it has to be.

ottopottomouse · 11-02-2013, 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Si

In a fred where da the op didnt even use you rather than u?

That's the point where I give up on someone

SlammedMedia · 11-02-2013, 11:45 AM

Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less.

SilentKnight · 11-02-2013, 11:56 AM

In 15 years of marriage my wife and I have never fought or disagreed over money issues.

Not once.

She's an accountant's daughter...and both of us have good, responsible judgement when it comes to spending, saving and investing.

slapass · 11-02-2013, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by SlammedMedia

Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less.

I think this is more the norm. Pussy on tap has its advantages.

wehateporn · 11-02-2013, 12:29 PM

Being physically in love has the same effect as being on drugs, so yes

mineistaken · 11-02-2013, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by jack-exploitedbabysitters

Does being in love effect your money, for example u won't do certain sites or business ventures because u think u wife or significant other won't approve and spending too much time with them. It's funny to me all the guys i personally know who are doing well are single, guys in relationships are struggling due to them spending too much time with their loved one and not working. Their are 24 hours in the day and u are spending 6 hours with ur girlfriend the single guy has a advantage over u.

Of course. Not because of her not approving, but because of having less time for work when you are not single. I think most of the guys are same way, only exceptions can be as productive as they would be being single.

mineistaken · 11-02-2013, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by wehateporn

Being physically in love has the same effect as being on drugs, so yes

What is that? In love is in love..

wehateporn · 11-02-2013, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by mineistaken

What is that? In love is in love..

Yes, quite a difference between being emotionally in love and physically in love; physically in love is a trick your body does on you

Full article http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

The Science of Love

- There are three phases to falling in love and different hormones are involved at each stage.
- Events occurring in the brain when we are in love have similarities with mental illness.
- When we are attracted to somebody, it could be because subconsciously we like their genes.
- Smell could be as important as looks when it comes to the fanciability factor. We like the look and smell of people who are most like our parents.
- Science can help determine whether a relationship will last.

Cupid's chemicals

"Flushed cheeks, a racing heart beat and clammy hands are some of the outward signs of being in love. But inside the body there are definite chemical signs that cupid has fired his arrow.

When it comes to love it seems we are at the mercy of our biochemistry. One of the best known researchers in this area is Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in New Jersey. She has proposed that we fall in love in three stages. Each involving a different set of chemicals. "

Continued http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

Si · 11-02-2013, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ottopottomouse

That's the point where I give up on someone

I hope you got my sarcastic spelling, and didn't think I was a moron.

Someone making fun of a person's spelling, while failing to spell properly themselves really pisses me of.

Si · 11-02-2013, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by wehateporn

Yes, quite a difference between being emotionally in love and physically in love; physically in love is a trick your body does on you

Full article http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

The Science of Love

- There are three phases to falling in love and different hormones are involved at each stage.
- Events occurring in the brain when we are in love have similarities with mental illness.
- When we are attracted to somebody, it could be because subconsciously we like their genes.
- Smell could be as important as looks when it comes to the fanciability factor. We like the look and smell of people who are most like our parents.
- Science can help determine whether a relationship will last.

Cupid's chemicals

"Flushed cheeks, a racing heart beat and clammy hands are some of the outward signs of being in love. But inside the body there are definite chemical signs that cupid has fired his arrow.

When it comes to love it seems we are at the mercy of our biochemistry. One of the best known researchers in this area is Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in New Jersey. She has proposed that we fall in love in three stages. Each involving a different set of chemicals. "

Continued http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

BBC is just a bunch of propaganda, come on now! Don't trust them, then you post this shit? Fuck sake!

It's like people who say; "I'm so heartbroken, I lost the love of my life", no you're not, your heart has no emotion, it pumps blood round your body, it's your pathetic brain screwing you up, you pathetic shitpot.

fuzebox · 11-02-2013, 09:39 PM

I personally believe it's easier to crank out a lot of good work without those outside factors affecting you. Takes a lot of mental discipline to juggle work and life.

faxxaff · 11-03-2013, 03:30 AM

It all depends on the person you are in love with. I have always been way more productive at work when I had a girlfriend. At least for the first couple of months or years because I did want to spend quality time with her. Of course she had her own money, so it made life cheaper for me. When girlfriends become drama queens it changes, totally. Then it's more productive to send her away.

kane · 11-03-2013, 03:34 AM

Can it. Sure.

For me meeting a new girl can cost me money. I want to take her out, show her a good time etc. Also I spend time with her, but normally don't take that time out of work I would take it out of other things. For example, instead of watching TV or a movie or playing a video game I would hang out with her.

As for a long term affect on my business, no. I would never be involved long term with someone who had a problem with what I do. I am up front with women and tell them very early on how I make money. If they have an issue with it, I understand, but I also understand that it is not going to work out for us and move on.

I've been with the current GF for about a year and a half now and things are great. She actually thinks making porn sites is funny. I am starting to branch into mainstream and she even asked me if that sells as well as boobs.

Zeiss · 11-03-2013, 03:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jack-exploitedbabysitters

Does being in love effect your money

Short answer: No
Long answer: No. Why will it?

BlackCrayon · 11-03-2013, 07:34 AM

it all depends, chasing various pussies can take up a lot of time whereas having a long term girlfriend eliminates that and could allow you to focus more on work rather than partying all night and recovering all day.

ilnjscb · 11-04-2013, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Si

I hope you got my sarcastic spelling, and didn't think I was a moron.

Someone making fun of a person's spelling, while failing to spell properly themselves really pisses me of.

Where did this take place?

Barefootsies · 11-04-2013, 05:39 AM

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Originally Posted by jack-exploitedbabysitters

does being in love effect your money?

Nope. As long as you're upfront about it all it will help you find the right partner who understands, then it's not a problem.

I would say this however, do not talk about it all of the time and throw it up in their face if you want the relationship to last. Even the most understanding and secure woman will become jealous at some point.

Good luck.

Markul · 11-04-2013, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by SlammedMedia

Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less.

This

and spend time chasing pussy. I guess I need girl around to keep me in line haha

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keysync Living the Dream Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Murica Posts: 2,376	I would say in my case. Yes being married effects the decisions I make. As long as I keep things relatively reasonable she doesn't give two fucks what I do. However opening a swing club is something I would like to do. There was one in a nearby city and it was always busy as hell but the owners had a fall out and it closed. I would like an 8 ball and a hooker for my birthday too! But I'm pretty sure the wife wouldn't approve of either... Damn good thing I love her.. __________________

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_Richard_ Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Vancouver Posts: 30,986	id say that would be a personal choice/dilemma: don't let your dick run your life lol

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xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	Its simply a matter of time management skills. You can be single and spend 6 hours a day playing video games and jerking off. Tons of successful people are married.

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JockoHomo "LIKE I GIVE A SHIT" Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Dark side of the moon Posts: 1,523	Hookers cost money...dating costs money...dating hookers costs even more money!

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Si Such Fun! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 13,900	MGTOW - look that up.

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MrMaxwell Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 10,057	Loving family and a woman or two caused me to be poor financially, but not in the usual ways. I just got distracted by all of their shit and ran myself into the ground. I never let the women take or spend my money but I let family have a lot of it. Huge mistake. When a woman is with me, if she told me not to do something, that is just ridiculous. A woman telling me what to do flies in my airspace about as well as a lead toilet flies over the grand canyon there. To make it you cannot have distractions. Period. That is the major lesson I have learned. I'll never let any of them get in the way of me making mine ever again. Ever. Period. Anyone who's worth my time wouldn't even want to. I will end up making a lot of money again now that I understand this and FUCK love. The more I did for them and the more loyal I was, the worse ways they found to betray me. Wonderful angels, at first, then BLAM. So for now suck my dick and make a sandwich and if you want to say or do anything troublesome shut the fuck up and get the fuck out first. It's like that, because it has to be.

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SlammedMedia Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,573	Mine's more the other way around. I haven't been single, going on 6 years...but when I was my friends and I would party like there was no tomorrow and I'd spend way more money than I do now and work quite a bit less. __________________ ICQ: 350-260-628

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SilentKnight Megan Fox's fluffer Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: shooting pool in Elysium Posts: 24,818	In 15 years of marriage my wife and I have never fought or disagreed over money issues. Not once. She's an accountant's daughter...and both of us have good, responsible judgement when it comes to spending, saving and investing.

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fuzebox making it rain Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: seattle Posts: 22,011	I personally believe it's easier to crank out a lot of good work without those outside factors affecting you. Takes a lot of mental discipline to juggle work and life.

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faxxaff Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Marina Hemingway Posts: 2,134	It all depends on the person you are in love with. I have always been way more productive at work when I had a girlfriend. At least for the first couple of months or years because I did want to spend quality time with her. Of course she had her own money, so it made life cheaper for me. When girlfriends become drama queens it changes, totally. Then it's more productive to send her away. __________________ Asian Babes Last edited by faxxaff; 11-03-2013 at 03:32 AM..

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kane Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: portland, OR Posts: 20,684	Can it. Sure. For me meeting a new girl can cost me money. I want to take her out, show her a good time etc. Also I spend time with her, but normally don't take that time out of work I would take it out of other things. For example, instead of watching TV or a movie or playing a video game I would hang out with her. As for a long term affect on my business, no. I would never be involved long term with someone who had a problem with what I do. I am up front with women and tell them very early on how I make money. If they have an issue with it, I understand, but I also understand that it is not going to work out for us and move on. I've been with the current GF for about a year and a half now and things are great. She actually thinks making porn sites is funny. I am starting to branch into mainstream and she even asked me if that sells as well as boobs.

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BlackCrayon Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Ottawa Posts: 19,631	it all depends, chasing various pussies can take up a lot of time whereas having a long term girlfriend eliminates that and could allow you to focus more on work rather than partying all night and recovering all day. __________________ you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..