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yuu.design · 11-09-2015, 04:31 AM

Well, not divorced, since im not married.
We live together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year
Im 34yo, im not scared, a new start its a new promise, but im not young

Some advice about how to continue from now?

Cutty · 11-09-2015, 04:33 AM

Find out what made it fail, if it was your fault fix yourself, learn who you are. Try new things and places and keep out of contact with her. Good luck.

_Richard_ · 11-09-2015, 04:40 AM

shitty deal, time for strippers and beer

Cutty · 11-09-2015, 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_

shitty deal, time for strippers and beer

Sound advice.

davidclickpapa · 11-09-2015, 05:07 AM

drink.
but not habitually, just to have a proper mind-reset.

armysmoke · 11-09-2015, 05:13 AM

Sorry to hear about you splitting up after 3 years.

34 is still young!

Phoenix · 11-09-2015, 05:43 AM

freedom...enjoy it

Colmike9 · 11-09-2015, 05:47 AM

Don't get depressed. If it's a point where you can't fix it, just move on, work on yourself, and someone great will just show up one day. Mourning about the past or what you could have done differently just makes things worse and never ever helps..

Also, pussy and beer helps

bronco67 · 11-09-2015, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by yuu

Well, not divorced, since im not married.
We live together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year
Im 34yo, im not scared, a new start its a new promise, but im not young

Some advice about how to continue from now?

Stop getting married.

femdomdestiny · 11-09-2015, 06:22 AM

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brassmonkey · 11-09-2015, 06:24 AM

it's going to hurt get some beer.

slapass · 11-09-2015, 06:46 AM

Perfect timing for you. You will be doing great in no time. Still sucks though.

michal · 11-09-2015, 06:53 AM

be happy dont worry

go for younger and better girls

enjoy your freedom
its her who should be upset about it

michael.kickass · 11-09-2015, 07:10 AM

Life goes on yuu.

mineistaken · 11-09-2015, 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

freedom...enjoy it

j3rkules · 11-09-2015, 07:27 AM

Finally... good for you mate. I am sure you will love it.

Rochard · 11-09-2015, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by femdomdestiny

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CPA-Rush · 11-09-2015, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by yuu

Well, not divorced, since im not married.
We live together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year
Im 34yo, im not scared, a new start its a new promise, but im not young

Some advice about how to continue from now?

yeah u are old i'm 29

j3rkules · 11-09-2015, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

freedom...enjoy it

Spunky · 11-09-2015, 08:19 AM

Plenty of women on Plenty of fish

MetaMan · 11-09-2015, 08:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yuu

Well, not divorced, since im not married.
We live together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year
Im 34yo, im not scared, a new start its a new promise, but im not young

Some advice about how to continue from now?

Stop dating or dont ever get married again. Alot of people just dont have what it takes.

And for the love of god dont have any children.

brassmonkey · 11-09-2015, 08:32 AM

your wife gets full custody of your wallet!!!!

get a list of homeless shelters. not really been married twice myself. first one a teacher of 5th grade. now a registered nurse 10 years first was 15 years.

CaptainHowdy · 11-09-2015, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by brassmonkey

your wife gets full custody of your wallet!!!!

get a list of homeless shelters. not really been married twice myself. first one a teacher of 5th grade. now a registered nurse 10 years first was 15 years.

Guy just broke up ...

MFCT · 11-09-2015, 08:56 AM

Doesn't matter how old you get, there will always be 18-19yo women. And making bank is a great equalizer. Focus on your income and everything else should fall into place. Good luck.

seeandsee · 11-09-2015, 09:02 AM

dont live with next girl until you get married

tossi-c · 11-09-2015, 09:04 AM

How old is she?

plaster · 11-09-2015, 09:05 AM

Go to Colombia and bang chicks for a week straight. Bang 2 chicks at the same time for "added" enjoyment. Return from trip, you will have forgotten her and easily pick up another in the grocery store by accidentally rubbing your lettuce against her ass in the pickle aisle.

Cutty · 11-09-2015, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by plaster

Go to Colombia and bang chicks for a week straight. Bang 2 chicks at the same time for "added" enjoyment. Return from trip, you will have forgotten her and easily pick up another in the grocery store by accidentally rubbing your lettuce against her ass in the pickle aisle.

Solid advice here.

Google Expert · 11-09-2015, 09:25 AM

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Some advice about how to continue from now?

Phoenix · 11-09-2015, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Muad'Dib

lol

awesome

VikingMan · 11-09-2015, 09:48 AM

If you are 34 I recomend 21 to 24 year old women.

Austin - MrSkinCash · 11-09-2015, 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by plaster

Go to Colombia and bang chicks for a week straight. Bang 2 chicks at the same time for "added" enjoyment. Return from trip, you will have forgotten her and easily pick up another in the grocery store by accidentally rubbing your lettuce against her ass in the pickle aisle.

Sid70 · 11-09-2015, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by yuu

Well, not divorced, since im not married.
We live together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year
Im 34yo, im not scared, a new start its a new promise, but im not young

Some advice about how to continue from now?

No kids? If so - no worries.

NALEM · 11-09-2015, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by yuu

together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year ... Some advice about how to continue from now?

I sincerely believe when you are in the right relationship, there is no reason for things to become "hard" or difficult. Some say you have to "work" at having a great relationship. If whatever it is you do, to please and show respect to your partner feels like "work" you are with the wrong person.

Appreciate the fact that the two of you "divorced" and now have another chance to find happiness with someone else. Look back on everything you loved and appreciated in the other person, and look for the same qualities in the next girl. Everything you hated about your partner, consider that as a "checklist" of things to look out for, in people's personalities.

People hate to feel alone, so don't be. Date openly as often as you like until you find the next love of your life, that you feel it worth investing emotion into.

Good luck!

ilnjscb · 11-09-2015, 11:43 AM

you are lucky - no kids and no real marriage. Thank your stars. Divorced men 4 times as likely to commit suicide.

The Porn Nerd · 11-09-2015, 11:51 AM

You get what you focus on so if you think about her and your time together you will feel like shit, all day long. So instead, focus on your business, your health, eat and sleep well, work out, make new Goals and focus on your Dreams. Pretty soon enough time will pass and you will be surprised how long you went without thinking about her.

Good luck.

(Fuck as many new girls as possible too, this always helps to shift your focus.)

Horatio Caine · 11-09-2015, 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yuu

Well, not divorced, since im not married.
We live together for almost 3 years and things become hard last months/year
Im 34yo, im not scared, a new start its a new promise, but im not young

Some advice about how to continue from now?

Don't date strippers.

gnawledge · 11-09-2015, 11:53 AM

Most of us have been down that road. There are 20 women to each man. Find yourself a woman through a friend that isn't a heavy drinker with mommy or daddy issues. The most important things are: job, full set of teeth, and willing to put up with you. Nothing is perfect and you'll find the right one. I believe in right place at the right time concept. I found the perfect girl. She's loyal, and has been through rough times as a kid growing up. So she loves stability and being in control. She also has been through foreclosure from the 2006-2008 boom, divorce and bankruptcy. So she knows struggle. And appreciates life and is a giving soul. Find one that will donate to Toys for Tots with you. A kind soul. Life is too short to be with a cunt. Cheer up man.

PornoPlopedia · 11-09-2015, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

You get what you focus on so if you think about her and your time together you will feel like shit, all day long. So instead, focus on your business, your health, eat and sleep well, work out, make new Goals and focus on your Dreams. Pretty soon enough time will pass and you will be surprised how long you went without thinking about her.

Good luck.

(Fuck as many new girls as possible too, this always helps to shift your focus.)

Very good advice. Especially the last sentence

LetterTwenty7 · 11-09-2015, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

You get what you focus on so if you think about her and your time together you will feel like shit, all day long. So instead, focus on your business, your health, eat and sleep well, work out, make new Goals and focus on your Dreams. Pretty soon enough time will pass and you will be surprised how long you went without thinking about her.

Good luck.

(Fuck as many new girls as possible too, this always helps to shift your focus.)

Even tho this is not the easiest thing in the world to do, I totally agree with The Porn Nerd! I just broke up myself, so I know how you feel. You will be fine, don't worry

yuu.design · 11-09-2015, 01:44 PM

thanks for your words guys!

AaronM · 11-09-2015, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by yuu

Some advice about how to continue from now?

Keep your personal struggles off the Internet.

PornoPlopedia · 11-09-2015, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by yuu

thanks for your words guys!

As long as you don't come up with a mechbunny layout with a heart broken theme you will be fine

Give us a new killer design

SBJ · 11-09-2015, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by seeandsee

dont live with next girl until you get married

wtf? worst advice of the thread! I've been married one time and had I lived with her before marriage I would've been married zero times to date. You don't know a person till you've lived with them for 6 mos to a year at min.

Ending a 3 year relationship is tough for sure but nothing a good bank account and one nighters at the clubs can't cure. Most important thing is don't look for someone to date just look for good times for awhile

baddog · 11-09-2015, 05:06 PM

Build a wall; when someone knocks it down, let them in.

yuu.design · 11-09-2015, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by PornoPlopedia

As long as you don't come up with a mechbunny layout with a heart broken theme you will be fine

Give us a new killer design

hahahahah!!!!! best comment of the year!

wehateporn · 11-09-2015, 05:21 PM

Get a crappy car and hide your expensive watch, base the next relationship on something real

brassmonkey · 11-09-2015, 05:24 PM

what is the reason for divorce?

yuu.design · 11-09-2015, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by brassmonkey

what is the reason for divorce?

She is so lazy, and i am so fucking exigent

Mr Pheer · 11-09-2015, 06:22 PM

Pack up your laptop and move the Thailand. Dont date a girl there more than three times. Live happily ever after.

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11-09-2015, 04:33 AM	#2
Cutty So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,265	Find out what made it fail, if it was your fault fix yourself, learn who you are. Try new things and places and keep out of contact with her. Good luck.

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