Events Going on vacation on your own....

[CurrentlySober]

Anyone ever been on a 'singles' vacation? I don't mean hooking up with eligible partners / dating kinda thing... Just a vacation specifically designed for singles / solo travellers who dont have partners or anyone to go with them...

If so, what was it like? Any hints or tips or organisations that organize this kinda thing that you'd recommend?

I'd really like to try and get away this year, but dont have anyone to go with. Cost is not that important, but a good experience and time are a must

Thanks

[CurrentlySober]

Must add, it cant be me going to anywhere in America... I'm banned but can travel anywhere else in the world freely...

[MakeMeGrrrrowl]

Gosh you don't have one great friend you can go with out there? Travelling alone sucks =(

I'd go with you. I really need a passport!

[Manfap]

I did a Eurotrip for a month on my own. Started in Amsterdam, Brussels, Paris, a few places in Spain and ended up in Lisbon.

I loved it, but I am an unsociable bastard, so not speaking to many people was quite nice.

[TimS]

I believe this would be the best vacation you will ever experience:
Paris Sewers Museum

[xXXtesy10]

no surprise 'shit head'

[kane]

I have taken a couple of vacations on my own. I like it. You get to do what you want when you want without dealing with others.

When I went to Egypt I used a company called Globus (Escorted Tours - Globus® Official Site). The tour I was on had about 20 people, some couples and some singles. The guide was great and handled all the logistics so I just had to relax and enjoy.

[NatalieK]

Originally Posted by Manfap

I did a Eurotrip for a month on my own. Started in Amsterdam, Brussels, Paris, a few places in Spain and ended up in Lisbon.

I loved it, but I am an unsociable bastard, so not speaking to many people was quite nice.

exactly this!

I was going to recommend to CS, not to go on a singles trip, but just go on a road trip. Just do it, you only live once, enjoy your life

[Mediamix]

Come to The Netherlands... I always wanted to share my poo with someone.

[Sunny Day]

It is many times better to experience a vacation, meal or movie with another person, be them a friend or lover. Experiences are meant to be shared.

But being an only child and spent years after my divorce alone, I have no problem doing any activity alone. I was recently in a BBQ joint and the old man that owned the place & grill master saw me eating alone. He asked if I had been there often and I replied no and asked why he asked. His response was I seemed comfortable eating alone there, so I must have come often. Told him it was my 3rd time there.

Can't count the times I went to a movie alone or the 1000's of lunches or suppers alone. Happens when you're terminally shy. My girlfriend, with 6 brothers & sisters, I can't imagine her do anything alone. Recently, she had to rescue a brother, who had become homeless, and was going to drive 1500 miles (1 way) to bring him here. Knowing she'd never make it alone, I volunteered to go with her. I'd ride the 30-hour Amtrak ride home, so he'd have room in the car for his belongings. Only thing that bugged me, was the best part of the train ride was in darkness.

Just go. If it's a singles vacation package. It's people in the same situation. Most aren't looking for love or sex. Some won't talk to anyone, but the majority will be reasonably friendly.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Sunny Day

It is many times better to experience a vacation, meal or movie with another person, be them a friend or lover. Experiences are meant to be shared.

But being an only child and spent years after my divorce alone, I have no problem doing any activity alone. I was recently in a BBQ joint and the old man that owned the place & grill master saw me eating alone. He asked if I had been there often and I replied no and asked why he asked. His response was I seemed comfortable eating alone there, so I must have come often. Told him it was my 3rd time there.

Can't count the times I went to a movie alone or the 1000's of lunches or suppers alone. Happens when you're terminally shy. My girlfriend, with 6 brothers & sisters, I can't imagine her do anything alone. Recently, she had to rescue a brother, who had become homeless, and was going to drive 1500 miles (1 way) to bring him here. Knowing she'd never make it alone, I volunteered to go with her. I'd ride the 30-hour Amtrak ride home, so he'd have room in the car for his belongings. Only thing that bugged me, was the best part of the train ride was in darkness.

Just go. If it's a singles vacation package. It's people in the same situation. Most aren't looking for love or sex. Some won't talk to anyone, but the majority will be reasonably friendly.

Fuck dude, you must really love your girlfriend.

[Google Expert]

bunch of insecure losers in this thred

who gives a shit what others think wether you're alone or not? fuck them

just do whatever you like, who's to stop you?

[Sunny Day]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

Fuck dude, you must really love your girlfriend.

Couple of times her other siblings have pulled my ass out of the fire.

And I owe her for the world's greatest fucks and blow jobs. Until Ritalin destroyed her sex drive.
Really embarrassing when when we be out and an ex-lover would, in front of his pregnant wife and beg my GF for one more fuck.
But I still have the fun of watching the world's greatest liar at work. At a party, all she needs is a person's first name and she can convince them they used to have "something special."
Entertainment value alone, is worth having her brother move in.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Sunny Day

Couple of times her other siblings have pulled my ass out of the fire.

And I owe her for the world's greatest fucks and blow jobs. Until Ritalin destroyed her sex drive.
Really embarrassing when when we be out and an ex-lover would, in front of his pregnant wife and beg my GF for one more fuck.
But I still have the fun of watching the world's greatest liar at work. At a party, all she needs is a person's first name and she can convince them they used to have "something special."
Entertainment value alone, is worth having her brother move in.

Well like I said, you must really love her. LOL Good for you man (but get her off the Ritalin ASAP).

[georgeyw]

There is nothing better than traveling on your own. Get to do what you want when you want and meet some amazing people along the way.

I find people feel far less threatened in approaching you when you are on your own, both the good and the bad, but who gives a shit, just roll with it.

I plan on messing about in Eurpoe in July / Aug and maybe Sept this year by myself. Looking forward to it.

[Sunny Day]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

Well like I said, you must really love her. LOL Good for you man (but get her off the Ritalin ASAP).

Well her blood pressure is off the charts. So the docs are slowly cutting her off.

[Sednub997]

Solo vocation are the best. Just you have to take advantage of it

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by kane

I have taken a couple of vacations on my own. I like it. You get to do what you want when you want without dealing with others.

When I went to Egypt I used a company called Globus (Escorted Tours - Globus® Official Site). The tour I was on had about 20 people, some couples and some singles. The guide was great and handled all the logistics so I just had to relax and enjoy.

Thanks for the link. It redirects to another 'sister firm' thats UK based which looks interesting. Thanks.

To clarify for others, Yes, I DO have mates and I'm not a total sad sack, but tbh, my mates dont just happen to have a spare 5 grand or so and the ability to drop everything and sod off for 3 weeks to a month somewhere

I have indeed travelled alone in the pat many times with no problems, but this time I simply fancied some suggestions of trips that were specifically designed for solo travellers. (Like Kanes link - No Solo price Supplements etc)

I have cruised before, and thats OK solo because they put you at a dining table with other Solo passengers etc, however I dont have all the formal wear required for a cruise these days nor do I wish to have to buy it just to use once

[2MuchMark]

A Single vacation is great. When you're in a relationship, taking a seperate vacation can really clear your head. If you're alone to begin with, a vacation is still really good for you for the same reason. It'll help you relax and help give you a dress perspective on business, etc. It doesn't matter where you go - just go.

[freecartoonporn]

you are not alone., there is POO with you.

[kane]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Thanks for the link. It redirects to another 'sister firm' thats UK based which looks interesting. Thanks.

To clarify for others, Yes, I DO have mates and I'm not a total sad sack, but tbh, my mates dont just happen to have a spare 5 grand or so and the ability to drop everything and sod off for 3 weeks to a month somewhere

I have indeed travelled alone in the pat many times with no problems, but this time I simply fancied some suggestions of trips that were specifically designed for solo travellers. (Like Kanes link - No Solo price Supplements etc)

I have cruised before, and thats OK solo because they put you at a dining table with other Solo passengers etc, however I dont have all the formal wear required for a cruise these days nor do I wish to have to buy it just to use once

The tour I went on made me pay about an extra $150 because I was by myself and they almost always had me in a double room. I could have saved that if I wanted to be paired up with some other solo traveler, but I didn't want that.

The group I was in had about 20 people and it was a mix of single, married, and dating couples. There were some people that kept to themselves and nobody bothered then and there were others that ended up forming little "cliques" that they mostly hung out with. I spent most of my time with three other people, another solo guy and two girls who were friends and were traveling together. We had a blast and I ended up hooking up with one of the girls for most of the trip. The other guy in our little clique was 26 and still a virgin (not by choice, he told a funny story about how it is just a thing now and seems to be keeping him from meeting women). On the last night of the trip the other girl in our clique decided to throw the guy a little mercy and took his virginity. Lucky dude got to see the pyramids and lose his virginity to a hot Asian nurse.

[Tasty1]

I tavel already 5 years alone around the world. You meet a lot of people that are also travel solo a lot. I saw a lot of them back in other parts of the world and than we hang out there together for some weeks.

Alone for a few weeks is a little harder to realy get connected. Most long travellers don't even make contact with couples that stay a few days and leave.

I recommend to travel alone, you can do what you want with who you want. I was in Mexico, started Tinder (or Badoo) and the first date was great and she showed me Mexico DF and surrounding cities and the last two months i stayed at her place. In Bangkok i met, 3 hours after arriving, a nice girl from the Phillipinnes and we explorered Bangkok together for a week. She was crazy and wanted to see pussy pingpong and go to sexclubs. And no this wheren't prostitutes. Just people that where free to explore everything they where curious about.

Mostly i hang out at neighbourrhoods where there are more backpackers so it is easy to start a conversation and get to know people.

There are also travel sites where people look for people to travel. Just look there and make the deal that you always can splitt up and find your own way if you want.

A good way to travel if you don't mind is couchsurf some days. I was at a friends house where also a couchsurfer arrived and we went out together in the city for a weekend. The guy was also Dutch and liked it to explore the Brazilian city with us and he ended up with a woman. I heard couchsurfing is the perfect way for travelling around, see a place with locals and most of the time your host knows some nice friends, if she is not interested to have sex ;)

I think i hate it with a group, but i heard people who liked it. If you go alone it is als cheaper and you can get in unbelievable situations. In Bangkok i went out with a guy that was hanging out alone. He was from Qatar and he went completely crazy enjoying it.

On Tripadvisor you have some (free) tours in a lot of cities. You can decide what you will give the guide. Also a good way to explore the sightseeing points of a city with other people for a few hours.

I also visit adult industry events when they around. Therefor i was at the Lalexpo in Medellin and stayed 2 months in Medellin. First week going out with he adult industry and make tours and than stayed longer with other adult industry people that wanted to stay longer.

I would choose to go alone. But take your country wisely. You don't want to go to the USA or New Sealand alone. And i would do it now, maybe next year you have a girlfriend that likes Poo and is so jealous you can't even go out alone.

[Phoenix]

I like it also great way to really unwind. Plus you always make fast friends that way

[nikki99]

winnieh the poo...

[mineistaken]

I have been vacationing alone as in buying plane tickets, ordering a hotel and then going to the beach or to the bars/clubs alone.
In fact my best vacations have been those. Reason - instead of only spending time with those who you came with, you are "forced" to have fun and meet new people, do more exiting things etc.

Some people do not have character for that though. Some people would not even dare to go to a bar alone in their own home town, lol.

Does that count? Since you mention some organizations I am not sure if that is what you mean.

[mineistaken]

Originally Posted by Bjorn_Tasty1

I would choose to go alone. But take your country wisely. You don't want to go to the USA or New Sealand alone.

Why?

[Tasty1]

Originally Posted by mineistaken

Why?

I travelled a lot and like to meet other travellers. USA is too big, you need to hire a car. A lot of nice things are for families/couples, more expensive so less travellers that go alone.

In Asia, South America, Europe, there are more travellers travelling alone. For 15 USD you can have a good hotel. And very easy to travel to another city when you dont like it. Best tips i got from travellers when i choose another destination. Most people travel in circles, you see them in Thailand, than Laos, Vietnam or Cambodja. again. Or you join them. There are whole cities where travellers stay long time like Ciang Mai, Bangkok, Phnom Penh, Koh Samui, Tulum, Cartagena, .. There you meet for 100% sure other travellers. While in the grand canyon i didn't see any backpacker.

[mineistaken]

Originally Posted by Bjorn_Tasty1

While in the grand canyon i didn't see any backpacker.

One reason - there are almost no hostels in US. There are plenty of BIG CITIES with literally 0 hostels in them. Strange as that is untapped business niche.

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by mineistaken

I have been vacationing alone as in buying plane tickets, ordering a hotel and then going to the beach or to the bars/clubs alone.
In fact my best vacations have been those. Reason - instead of only spending time with those who you came with, you are "forced" to have fun and meet new people, do more exiting things etc.

Some people do not have character for that though. Some people would not even dare to go to a bar alone in their own home town, lol.

Does that count? Since you mention some organizations I am not sure if that is what you mean.

No, Ive been away on my own many times - Its not a problem. However this time I just fancied trying out a 'single / solo holiday' that specifically caters for solo travelers, just for a change

Organisations I have found as an example (And theres one thats really caught my eye in amongst them are as follows:

Solo travel specialists

There are always more women than men travelling on these trips: usually 65:35. Everyone who joins a tour has their own en-suite room, which is usually a double for single occupancy.

Friendship Travel (0871 200 2035; friendshiptravel.com)
House party-style beach holidays in Greece and Majorca taking over small hotels entirely; from £495 a week including flights and three dinners. A Friendship host is always on hand to ensure no one is left out. Group size is around 20, most aged 35-60. There?s also a range of short breaks and long-haul options including the Caribbean, Mexico and Cambodia.

Just You (0800 112 3311; justyou.co.uk)
An impressive portfolio of holidays to 46 countries, from Downton Abbey weekends to Alaskan adventures, plus culture-and-chill weeks in the Med. Most holidays are led by a British tour manager. Group size is up to 30; fewer on long-haul trips but always more than 12. Age spread is 35-70.

One Traveller (01760 722011; onetraveller.co.uk)
Aimed at the over-50s and escorted by experienced British hosts. Suggests first-timers try a break in Budapest or Prague. Maximum group size is 25. Long-haul options include Sri Lanka, Thailand and North America.

Solos (0844 371 8860; solosholidays.co.uk)
More than 30 years? experience organising singles holidays worldwide, including cruises. There are four age bands, and minimum group size is around 15 with a 60:40 female:male ratio. Runs its own hosted Club Solo holidays in Croatia and Crete from £595 for a half-board week.

Taken from here: Solo travel: the best tour operators for singles - Telegraph

Hopefully that explains what I was talking about

[SekobA]

you can benefit if you are single but sometimes its badass boring

[Matyko]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Anyone ever been on a 'singles' vacation? I don't mean hooking up with eligible partners / dating kinda thing... Just a vacation specifically designed for singles / solo travellers who dont have partners or anyone to go with them...

If so, what was it like? Any hints or tips or organisations that organize this kinda thing that you'd recommend?

I'd really like to try and get away this year, but dont have anyone to go with. Cost is not that important, but a good experience and time are a must

Thanks

I used to eat acid on my own, ride my bicycle and listen to music Can integrate a two week journey into 12 hours.

[rogueteens]

I'd go with you CS but i really wanted to go to America

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by rogueteens

I'd go with you CS but i really wanted to go to America

[Sednub997]

Still no nasty gay pics

[LetterTwenty7]

You want to travel alone?! You're full of shit, man! :P
Who knows, maybe it's a great experience. I've never tried it, nor thought of it.

[brassmonkey]

i usually do flagstaff or payson. sometimes a condo in colorado

[mineistaken]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

No, Ive been away on my own many times - Its not a problem. However this time I just fancied trying out a 'single / solo holiday' that specifically caters for solo travelers, just for a change

Organisations I have found as an example (And theres one thats really caught my eye in amongst them are as follows:



Taken from here: Solo travel: the best tour operators for singles - Telegraph

Hopefully that explains what I was talking about

I think you mentioned that you do not mean something "dating" related.
So my question is - why are those packages you posted are supposed to be aimed at solo people?
What would be the difference if you went solo on a similar package but other travelers would not be solo?
If it is not about dating (solo people meeting other solo people during the trip) then I do not understand what is the difference between those packages and same/similar packages that do not claim to be "for solo travelers only"?

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by mineistaken

I think you mentioned that you do not mean something "dating" related.
So my question is - why are those packages you posted are supposed to be aimed at solo people?
What would be the difference if you went solo on a similar package but other travelers would not be solo?
If it is not about dating (solo people meeting other solo people during the trip) then I do not understand what is the difference between those packages and same/similar packages that do not claim to be "for solo travelers only"?

Well thats a fair question but to really answer, you nee d to trust me in that I say there is no side or ulterior motive to my answer... And my answer is that the difference is, that its just solos really... Thats about it. Everyone else is 'solo'- lets not say single, but solo - and you are all in the same (metaphorical) boat...

The idea is that really I suppose that there are not any couples etc on the trip, just solo people. I mean, OK, some people would want to hook up, or try and meet that special someone, but its really not the emphasis of the trip. If thats what you wanted, there are PLENTY of better options available.

I however am not considering hooking up or the possibility thereof to be the focus of the trip. Would I say no, if someone I found attractive offered? Possibly not, however thats not the aim of the game for me.

I look at it more as a complete package holiday all for one payment. Flights, airport transfer, Double room to myself in a nice hotel, meals etc all taking place somewhere with a group of like minded individuals. Events would be planned during the week that you could choose to participate in, (or not as the case may be) Join in or not, the choice is yours...

I'm thinking it could be a nice hassle free relaxing week in an environment that I perceive as one I would like to experience... At least once...

Is there a huge difference to doing as you said and going somewhere without the 'solo' tag attached to it? Well other than paying single traveler supplements on the room etc, then no, probably not... But then again it might be? I dunno...

Bottom line I think is like I have said I have been away on my own before and done it that way. Now I might like to try it another way... No biggy

If you look at the link I posted and read the top paragraph thats before the bit I copied, I think it explains it pretty well

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Is there a huge difference to doing as you said and going somewhere without the 'solo' tag attached to it? Well other than paying single traveler supplements on the room etc, then no, probably not... But then again it might be? I dunno...

OH yeah, one other benefit I just thought of... No kids or teenagers or 20 somethings... Just people over 35 and mostly ages nearer fifty which is what I want

[dillonaire]

I love solo vacations. Ive taken several in my single days. Once I went to Mexico to a kite boarding school for 7 days. Another time went to Miami just to chill by myself before heading home to Ohio for the holidays. Hung out in Spain for a week solo. One of the best things about traveling by yourself is that you are more likely to meet new people instead of staying in your comfort zone and just hanging with the person you went on vacation with.

[mineistaken]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Is there a huge difference to doing as you said and going somewhere without the 'solo' tag attached to it? Well other than paying single traveler supplements on the room etc, then no, probably not... But then again it might be? I dunno...

That was the reason I asked. I just thought I was missing something when you searched for something like that and it looked that there is no difference (or as you say "probably" no difference)

[mineistaken]

Originally Posted by gamelinkjeff

One of the best things about traveling by yourself is that you are more likely to meet new people instead of staying in your comfort zone and just hanging with the person you went on vacation with.

Indeed, this is yuuuge plus.
And second is that only you decide WHEN and WHAT you do every day, every hour.
When you think about it, it is also a very big plus compared to when you need to coordinate every step between 2 or even more people. So every time, every day or hour you are "deciding" on next things to do.