Do Your Parents Know What You Do? - GoFuckYourself.com

HairyChick · 07-26-2018, 06:59 PM

In a discussion about my former life, I was asked this. It made me curious about how people handle their adult profession with relatives.

CjTheFish · 07-26-2018, 07:01 PM

They have an inclination as to what I'm up to but no concrete reasoning to believe it is so.

It is what it is, money talks bullshit walks.

CaptainHowdy · 07-26-2018, 07:11 PM

I don't even know what am I doing . . .

Bladewire · 07-26-2018, 07:13 PM

All of my family has been dead for a long time, but for my son. He knew at an appropriate age. My son's mother died a few years ago, she knew since day one, she actually knew before I decided to start filming content. She was very supportive. I've been on television numerous times about working in adult. I came out when I was 17. I've never had issues being honest with people about who I am & what I do, when appropriate, about sexuality and/or profession, but I think it's something best reserved for the appropriate time, after first impressions settle in.

CjTheFish · 07-26-2018, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Bladewire

All of my family has been dead for a long time, but for my son. He knew at an appropriate age. My son's mother died a few years ago, she knew since day one, she actually knew before I decided to start filming content. She was very supportive. I've been on television numerous times about working in adult. I came out when I was 17. I've never had issues being honest with people when appropriate about sexuality and/or profession, but I think it's something best reserved for the appropriate time, after first impressions settle in.

Well said, it is definitely something best discussed at the appropriate time. If I told my Fiance what I did for work on our first date she would have probably ran for the hills. Over time as she saw who I was past the work that I do she has become extremely supportive and if she comes out of the shower and see's a gaping asshole on my computer screen has no issues

HairyChick · 07-26-2018, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Bladewire

All of my family has been dead for a long time, but for my son. He knew at an appropriate age. My son's mother died a few years ago, she knew since day one, she actually knew before I decided to start filming content. She was very supportive. I've been on television numerous times about working in adult. I came out when I was 17. I've never had issues being honest with people about who I am & what I do, when appropriate, about sexuality and/or profession, but I think it's something best reserved for the appropriate time, after first impressions settle in.

Very smart. Otherwise, they form impressions about you or jump to conclusions. Most assume you’re into what you do and, if adult, go around fucking and sucking anything that moves. Or doesn’t move, if necrophilia is your niche. ;)

yuu.design · 07-26-2018, 07:39 PM

yeah, they know, and we never had problems about that

mikeet · 07-26-2018, 07:50 PM

My parents say they are too 'old' for the internet and still haven't quite figured out how to use it yet so no worries here

Rochard · 07-26-2018, 08:06 PM

Currently I don't work in "porn" but instead do "email marketing" for YNOT.

When I was full in the porn industry, my family knew. My mother was surprised at how much money I was making.

Bladewire · 07-26-2018, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

Currently I don't work in "porn" but instead do "email marketing" for YNOT.

When I was full in the porn industry, my family knew. My mother was surprised at how much money I was making.

You're hung like a horse, shocked she was surprised you'd make money from God's gift to you lol

Look Chang · 07-26-2018, 08:41 PM

My family think I'm a pervert and, honestly, I can't blame them ...

baddog · 07-26-2018, 08:53 PM

they are dead

GAMEFINEST · 07-26-2018, 09:24 PM

They know, they don't trip.

Hustle baby

davidCRM · 07-27-2018, 12:04 AM

my job is mild (mostly seeing numbers and such), it's never been a secret that it's adult though. they're both cool with that, as long as it pays well.

Denny · 07-27-2018, 01:14 AM

Online marketing.

CurrentlySober · 07-27-2018, 01:41 AM

In my personal opinion, unless you ever meet with pornstars in person, shoot content, or work in a studio where you are within spitting distance of sexual acts taking place, then you are NOT in porn.

If the nearest you come to it as an image on a screen, then you do 'Internet Marketing'

Myself? Been a proud pornographer all my life, and parents knew everything. Never done anything else really since the early 80s

3xmedia · 07-27-2018, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

In my personal opinion, unless you ever meet with pornstars in person, shoot content, or work in a studio where you are within spitting distance of sexual acts taking place, then you are NOT in porn.

If the nearest you come to it as an image on a screen, then you do 'Internet Marketing'

agreed

balint · 07-27-2018, 02:05 AM

When I started to work in adult, one day my father came in and porn was open on both screens, he asked me what are you doing?
I told him, just working father.
I tried to explain the "business" part to them several times, but they still think I'm just watching pussies and dicks.
But the best one is my mother, when I shoot a pig joke during a family reunion, she always tells me: you should find another job.

balint · 07-27-2018, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

I don't even know what am I doing . . .

Adultium · 07-27-2018, 04:23 AM

I prefer not to talk about working with people not related to the adult industry. This applies to friends and family too.

nikki99 · 07-27-2018, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Denny

Online marketing.

nikki99 · 07-27-2018, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by yuu

yeah, they know, and we never had problems about that

in south america when u start paying for dinner the tabu problems are over

Brian mike · 07-27-2018, 08:24 AM

I have told my mom about my offline business and online tan center thats about it, not about the adult stuff
She's religious so i would not waist my time trying to explain all what i do.

Rochard · 07-27-2018, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Bladewire

You're hung like a horse....

More like a baguette really....

astronaut x · 07-27-2018, 10:18 AM

When I was younger and just starting out, they were concerned. They knew I was up to to something. LOL. Then the checks started rolling in.

That's when my father was first "proud" of me.

astronaut x · 07-27-2018, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by nikki99

in south america when u start paying for dinner the tabu problems are over

That's probably the same just about anywhere.

HairyChick · 07-27-2018, 07:25 PM

My mother said, “as long as you don’t deal with children or animals” and I got mad. “It’s a magazine about hairy women. I’m insulted you’d suggest that. You raised me better than that.” After apologizing profusely, she never said that again.

When she visited, she’d go to my main office where I had dildoes on the walls, other toys, a friend’s blown- up 15” cock pic, etc. She looked the other way. In my living room I had a 6’ blow up penis. She was curious and felt it and I said it was for “shock value.” She agreed.

Dad read my magazine and saw some sites but only said I did a great job on publishing. Mom said the same. Then she lamented I should have been a doctor or lawyer. When I was making more than they do, she was proud.

Other people I’d tell I had chat forums. I did but all adult.

PornDiscounts-V · 07-28-2018, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Adultium

I prefer not to talk about working with people not related to the adult industry. This applies to friends and family too.

Exactly. Friends are the worst. Get me a free account! Um, no.

pimpmaster9000 · 07-28-2018, 04:35 AM

My parents are proud of my pimp work...every parent wants their sons to be pimps...

Sly · 07-28-2018, 07:47 AM

When I was more on the affiliate marketing side...

I was visiting my dad and going through checks on the kitchen table. I had one from Bang Bros sitting out. My dads wife happens to see it. "Oh your dad loves your sites!"

CaptainHowdy · 07-28-2018, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by crucifissio

My parents are proud of my pimp work...every parent wants their sons to be pimps...

. . .

HairyChick · 07-28-2018, 08:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly

When I was more on the affiliate marketing side...

I was visiting my dad and going through checks on the kitchen table. I had one from Bang Bros sitting out. My dads wife happens to see it. "Oh your dad loves your sites!"

OMG! I’d have died laughing? Did they ask for a freebie?!

mikeet · 07-28-2018, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by crucifissio

My parents are proud of my pimp work...every parent wants their sons to be pimps...

+ :D

Bladewire · 07-28-2018, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by PamWinterReturns

OMGoMg

Smart Fred · 07-28-2018, 09:47 PM

No problems with my parents but I don't speak about it to relatives.
Only a few close friends from the early days knows about it.
My 19 yo son knows about it from 2 years.
My 15 yo daughter suspects there's something as dad's computer is forbidden to them from their birth.

Spunky · 07-28-2018, 09:53 PM

I get up at seven, yeah
And I go to work at nine
I got no time for livin'
Yes, I'm workin' all the time
It seems to me
I could live my life
A lot better than I think I am
I guess that's why they call me
They call me the workin' man
They call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am
'Cause I get home at five o'clock
And I take myself out a ice, cold beer
Always seem to be wond'rin'
Why there's nothin' goin' down here
It seems to me
I could live my life
A lot better than I think I am
I guess that's why they call me
The workin' man
They call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am
Well they call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am
I get up at seven, yeah
And I go to work at nine
I got no time for livin'
Yes, I'm workin' all the time
It seems to me
I could live my life
A lot better than I think I am
I guess that's why they call me
They call me the workin' man
Well they call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am
They call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am

Bladewire · 07-30-2018, 02:59 AM

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Originally Posted by PamWinterReturns

My mother said, “as long as you don’t deal with children or animals” and I got mad. “It’s a magazine about hairy women. I’m insulted you’d suggest that. You raised me better than that.” After apologizing profusely, she never said that again.

When she visited, she’d go to my main office where I had dildoes on the walls, other toys, a friend’s blown- up 15” cock pic, etc. She looked the other way. In my living room I had a 6’ blow up penis. She was curious and felt it and I said it was for “shock value.” She agreed.

Dad read my magazine and saw some sites but only said I did a great job on publishing. Mom said the same. Then she lamented I should have been a doctor or lawyer. When I was making more than they do, she was proud.

Other people I’d tell I had chat forums. I did but all adult.

You have a rich history I love reading about this

Daniel BongaCash · 07-31-2018, 07:05 AM

There is no way i will tell them.

View Poll Results: Do your parents know what you do in adult?
Hell, no, they’d freak out	10	21.28%
Sure. It just isn’t discussed	18	38.30%
Sure. We talk about work and the industry	9	19.15%
Partly. I say websites but not the nature of them	10	21.28%
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07-26-2018, 06:59 PM	#1
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07-26-2018, 07:01 PM	#2
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CaptainHowdy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Happy in the dark. Posts: 93,560	I don't even know what am I doing . . .

07-26-2018, 07:13 PM	#4
Bladewire StraightBro Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Monarch Beach, CA USA Posts: 56,229	All of my family has been dead for a long time, but for my son. He knew at an appropriate age. My son's mother died a few years ago, she knew since day one, she actually knew before I decided to start filming content. She was very supportive. I've been on television numerous times about working in adult. I came out when I was 17. I've never had issues being honest with people about who I am & what I do, when appropriate, about sexuality and/or profession, but I think it's something best reserved for the appropriate time, after first impressions settle in.

07-26-2018, 07:50 PM	#8
mikeet this & that Industry Role: Join Date: May 2005 Location: Beer City Posts: 5,319	My parents say they are too 'old' for the internet and still haven't quite figured out how to use it yet so no worries here

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07-26-2018, 08:53 PM	#12
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07-26-2018, 09:24 PM	#13
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07-27-2018, 12:04 AM	#14
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07-27-2018, 01:14 AM	#15
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07-27-2018, 01:41 AM	#16
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07-27-2018, 02:05 AM	#18
balint Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Budapest Posts: 702	When I started to work in adult, one day my father came in and porn was open on both screens, he asked me what are you doing? I told him, just working father. I tried to explain the "business" part to them several times, but they still think I'm just watching pussies and dicks. But the best one is my mother, when I shoot a pig joke during a family reunion, she always tells me: you should find another job. __________________ Skype: live:balint.media.buyer E-mail: [email protected]

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07-27-2018, 10:18 AM	#25
astronaut x Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2011 Location: From this www and beyond! Posts: 4,844	When I was younger and just starting out, they were concerned. They knew I was up to to something. LOL. Then the checks started rolling in. That's when my father was first "proud" of me.

07-27-2018, 07:25 PM	#27
HairyChick Slowly dying Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Padanaram Posts: 3,091	My mother said, “as long as you don’t deal with children or animals” and I got mad. “It’s a magazine about hairy women. I’m insulted you’d suggest that. You raised me better than that.” After apologizing profusely, she never said that again. When she visited, she’d go to my main office where I had dildoes on the walls, other toys, a friend’s blown- up 15” cock pic, etc. She looked the other way. In my living room I had a 6’ blow up penis. She was curious and felt it and I said it was for “shock value.” She agreed. Dad read my magazine and saw some sites but only said I did a great job on publishing. Mom said the same. Then she lamented I should have been a doctor or lawyer. When I was making more than they do, she was proud. Other people I’d tell I had chat forums. I did but all adult. __________________ ***************************************** Anti-Semites have Small Penis Syndrome. The only known treatment is electroshock therapy combined with cerebellum removal. Fortunately, it’s a tiny procedure. *****************************************

07-28-2018, 04:35 AM	#29
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07-28-2018, 07:47 AM	#30
Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,327	When I was more on the affiliate marketing side... I was visiting my dad and going through checks on the kitchen table. I had one from Bang Bros sitting out. My dads wife happens to see it. "Oh your dad loves your sites!" __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available Great for TSS, Nifty Stats, remote work, virtual assistants, etc. Click here for more details.

07-28-2018, 09:47 PM	#35
Smart Fred Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: France Posts: 308	No problems with my parents but I don't speak about it to relatives. Only a few close friends from the early days knows about it. My 19 yo son knows about it from 2 years. My 15 yo daughter suspects there's something as dad's computer is forbidden to them from their birth. __________________ Stop doing what you like and start doing what brings you money!

07-28-2018, 09:53 PM	#36
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07-31-2018, 07:05 AM	#38
Daniel BongaCash Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 353	There is no way i will tell them. __________________ Skype: daniel.bongacash \| E-Mail: [email protected] \| ICQ: 706111038 Kind Regards, Daniel Affiliate Manager