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MKA · 04-21-2020, 12:36 AM

If have this guy trying to buy hardlinks on my site.
He insist on paying with paypal and only wants 3 month campaigns + won't share his links untill i provide my paypal.

I've heard people filling in disputes after some while just to get their money back and was wondering how i can avoid such thing?
He only wants to use paypal.

V_RocKs · 04-21-2020, 01:02 AM

We use paypal all of the time. Just don't put any notes that have to do with adult.

j3rkules · 04-21-2020, 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by V_RocKs

We use paypal all of the time. Just don't put any notes that have to do with adult.

Same here.

MKA · 04-21-2020, 01:16 AM

Well I do use it either but when I get emails from an email address like [email protected] I kinda get confused.

I'm pretty sure I ever read on here that there was someone was buying hardlinks with paypal and near the end of the campaign simply filled a dispute and got his money back.

Klen · 04-21-2020, 01:48 AM

Hardlink buying it's not really "adult transaction" so you are fine with it. A key rule when you work with paypal is to avoid using porn descriptions/urls and you should be fine. Tho, once i received payment containing URL but i automaticly refunded it and it worked.

Paul&John · 04-21-2020, 01:58 AM

I guess his biggest issue isn't paypal itself, but that the buyer can 'refund' before the 3 month deal expires.

MKA · 04-21-2020, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul&John

I guess his biggest issue isn't paypal itself, but that the buyer can 'refund' before the 3 month deal expires.

Yes, this.

I might have used a misleading title, but my concern is that he can simply open a dispute. I can't find the related thread that once was opened on gfy about this shady tactic someone was using.

Klen · 04-21-2020, 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by MKA

Yes, this.

I might have used a misleading title, but my concern is that he can simply open a dispute. I can't find the related thread that once was opened on gfy about this shady tactic someone was using.

Only shady tactic which i remember was something related to e-checks.

3xmedia · 04-21-2020, 02:58 AM

never had such issue, maybe you are a bit paranoid. does that link send high traffic? if not he probably wants it for SEO purposes and 3 month placement wouldn't help him long-term.

ask him what company he represends and what are his sites. If he can't provide such info, it's probably some shady idiot and you should just block him and move on.

247mg · 04-21-2020, 03:05 AM

Paypal payment is fine until and unless adult should not be mentioned

3xmedia · 04-21-2020, 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by 247mg

Paypal payment is fine until and unless adult should not be mentioned

read the whole thread, not just the title

CaptainHowdy · 04-21-2020, 03:50 AM

Some actually makes you to put a “I will not dispute” oath on the PP note . . . guess it worked for them.

MKA · 04-21-2020, 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by 3xmedia

never had such issue, maybe you are a bit paranoid. does that link send high traffic? if not he probably wants it for SEO purposes and 3 month placement wouldn't help him long-term.

ask him what company he represends and what are his sites. If he can't provide such info, it's probably some shady idiot and you should just block him and move on.

I did ask his company details and sites but he did not needed an invoice and would not provide the links before he got my paypal

3 months won't help him indeed but that is his concern.

He stopped replying when i provided my paypal and requested not to add any adult related info.

Not sure if its just an idiot or what.

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

Some actually makes you to put a “I will not dispute” oath on the PP note . . . guess it worked for them.

Hmm. Good idea.

Klen · 04-21-2020, 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by MKA

I did ask his company details and sites but he did not needed an invoice and would not provide the links before he got my paypal

3 months won't help him indeed but that is his concern.

He stopped replying when i provided my paypal and requested not to add any adult related info.

Not sure if its just an idiot or what.

.

Maybe he saw this thread ?

wankawonk · 04-22-2020, 11:37 AM

my advice would be to accept that in adult you get screwed sometimes. be willing to get screwed working with untrusted new people, in order to learn if they're trustworthy. building a network of trustworthy people to work with, is worth the price you pay getting screwed by the unsavory types. It's just the cost of doing business.

NatalieK · 04-23-2020, 12:51 PM

ask him to make it a gift to a family member, you...

gifting cannot be refunded

stick to your guns, you can also find yourself being without a paypal account if this guy acts like a wanker! Even giving him bank details would be best!

04-21-2020, 12:36 AM	#1
MKA Hey... Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: NL Posts: 545	Adult payments with paypal If have this guy trying to buy hardlinks on my site. He insist on paying with paypal and only wants 3 month campaigns + won't share his links untill i provide my paypal. I've heard people filling in disputes after some while just to get their money back and was wondering how i can avoid such thing? He only wants to use paypal.

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04-21-2020, 01:16 AM	#4
MKA Hey... Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: NL Posts: 545	Well I do use it either but when I get emails from an email address like [email protected] I kinda get confused. I'm pretty sure I ever read on here that there was someone was buying hardlinks with paypal and near the end of the campaign simply filled a dispute and got his money back.

04-21-2020, 01:48 AM	#5
Klen Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Little Vienna Posts: 32,235	Hardlink buying it's not really "adult transaction" so you are fine with it. A key rule when you work with paypal is to avoid using porn descriptions/urls and you should be fine. Tho, once i received payment containing URL but i automaticly refunded it and it worked.

04-22-2020, 11:37 AM	#15
wankawonk Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2015 Posts: 1,017	my advice would be to accept that in adult you get screwed sometimes. be willing to get screwed working with untrusted new people, in order to learn if they're trustworthy. building a network of trustworthy people to work with, is worth the price you pay getting screwed by the unsavory types. It's just the cost of doing business.

04-23-2020, 12:51 PM	#16
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