Welcome to the GoFuckYourself.com - Adult Webmaster Forum forums.

You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact us.

Post New Thread Reply

Register GFY Rules Calendar
Go Back   GoFuckYourself.com - Adult Webmaster Forum > >
Discuss what's fucking going on, and which programs are best and worst. One-time "program" announcements from "established" webmasters are allowed.

 
Thread Tools
Old 11-09-2021, 09:14 AM   #1
hamiltonsteele
Confirmed User
 
hamiltonsteele's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jul 2003
Posts: 1,041
How long do you wait for a site to respond to you?

What's going on with the platforms?

I've contacted many sites to either sign up as an affiliate or to ask a question and almost
never get a response. The latest is TourofBooty because I tried contacting them on the
6th and still nothing

Are all these sites abandoned?
Did Covid or its vaccine kill the owners?
Or has making money become obsolete?
__________________
http://steelehard.com/ الإباحية باللغة العربية
Discord: https://discord.gg/QWJpmDSFc2
http://le-beverley.com/ Under Development
Twitter: https://twitter.com/steele_hard
Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/show/43uaTA1AEPa2Nf0Tmvppd0
hamiltonsteele is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2021, 10:01 AM   #2
baddog
So Fucking Banned
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Apr 2001
Location: the beach, SoCal
Posts: 107,090
Customer service sucks in adult.
baddog is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-09-2021, 10:03 AM   #3
hamiltonsteele
Confirmed User
 
hamiltonsteele's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jul 2003
Posts: 1,041
Quote:
Originally Posted by baddog View Post
Customer service sucks in adult.
Sucking would be an improvement.
__________________
http://steelehard.com/ الإباحية باللغة العربية
Discord: https://discord.gg/QWJpmDSFc2
http://le-beverley.com/ Under Development
Twitter: https://twitter.com/steele_hard
Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/show/43uaTA1AEPa2Nf0Tmvppd0
hamiltonsteele is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-2021, 08:00 PM   #4
Forkbeard
Confirmed User
 
Forkbeard's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: I Roam Around
Posts: 2,236
My basic reaction is that if a site doesn't respond to a query -- sent as specified at their affiliate portal -- with three days, or a week at the outside, they aren't worth fucking with. No matter how great their historical glory, it means that TODAY they aren't on top of things. And if they aren't answering their email on time (relatively easy) they aren't sending payment in a timely fashion either. (Paying on time is the hardest thing for any business to do, because paying money is psychologically painful to most business people).
__________________
Offering sponsored blog posts and custom writing services.
Forkbeard is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-2021, 08:24 PM   #5
AlexxxSBG
So Fucking Banned
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Nov 2021
Posts: 613
Quote:
Originally Posted by hamiltonsteele View Post
What's going on with the platforms?

I've contacted many sites to either sign up as an affiliate or to ask a question and almost
never get a response. The latest is TourofBooty because I tried contacting them on the
6th and still nothing

Are all these sites abandoned?
Did Covid or its vaccine kill the owners?
Or has making money become obsolete?
Same issue here. Sometimes, after weeks or months when they answer back, I totally forget what was all about and why I contacted them in a first place.
AlexxxSBG is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-2021, 08:38 PM   #6
Look Chang
Sexpat
 
Look Chang's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 16,468
^^^ I completely agree with you. Sites that are unable to respond to a request in 3 or 4 business days are, for me, dead sites and I do not wish to do anything with them.
__________________
Bests Hot & Juicy Asian Girls Sex Sites : SEDUCTION -> FELLATIO -> CONCLUSION
Look Chang is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-2021, 10:59 PM   #7
Spunky
I need a beer
 
Spunky's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠
Posts: 133,919
Maybe they don't want your business, move on , their loss
__________________
Spunky is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 04:15 AM   #8
Klen
 
Klen's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Little Vienna
Posts: 32,235
Quote:
Originally Posted by AlexxxSBG View Post
Same issue here. Sometimes, after weeks or months when they answer back, I totally forget what was all about and why I contacted them in a first place.
Not just support but approval process as well - i remember it took one sponsor whole year to approve me so kind obvious how i didn't continue to do anything with them.
Klen is online now   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 04:22 AM   #9
AlexxxSBG
So Fucking Banned
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Nov 2021
Posts: 613
Quote:
Originally Posted by Klen View Post
Not just support but approval process as well - i remember it took one sponsor whole year to approve me so kind obvious how i didn't continue to do anything with them.
Yes, exactly. After you see something like that, you already lost a will for cooperation whatsoever. Like it's not in their best interest to work and get some interest (money) out of it.
AlexxxSBG is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 05:04 AM   #10
trevesty
Confirmed User
 
trevesty's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Midwest
Posts: 3,802
What do you have to offer them? A lot of programs aren't going to reply to a bunch of questions that are a waste of their time. Can you send 5-10 joins per day or more? No? Their time isn't free. It makes sense for their reps to spend time with the guys sending 5-6 joins per day to try and turn that into 9-10 per day.

When I've ran programs, it was pretty much always the affiliates who send 1 join every 8 months that asked 300 questions during the onboarding process. Any experienced program probably just ignores those guys now.

Never really understood why people think they're entitled to someone else's time, especially if you have nothing to give in return.
trevesty is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 05:07 AM   #11
gaugestream
So Fucking Banned
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Nov 2021
Posts: 74
milliseconds and i am gone after that turbo thruster time
gaugestream is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 05:37 AM   #12
hamiltonsteele
Confirmed User
 
hamiltonsteele's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jul 2003
Posts: 1,041
Quote:
Originally Posted by trevesty View Post

Never really understood why people think they're entitled to someone else's time, especially if you have nothing to give in return.

1. They don't even know what I can or can't send them because I don't sign up until I've
verified that there are "life signs" on the platform.

2. Smart businessmen act professionally to ALL businesses. Priorities are normal but if you
ignore a small guy today don't be surprised when they ignore you when they become a
big guy tomorrow.

#2 is part of business etiquette 101.
__________________
http://steelehard.com/ الإباحية باللغة العربية
Discord: https://discord.gg/QWJpmDSFc2
http://le-beverley.com/ Under Development
Twitter: https://twitter.com/steele_hard
Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/show/43uaTA1AEPa2Nf0Tmvppd0
hamiltonsteele is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 05:41 AM   #13
trevesty
Confirmed User
 
trevesty's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Midwest
Posts: 3,802
Quote:
Originally Posted by hamiltonsteele View Post
1. They don't even know what I can or can't send them because I don't sign up until I've
verified that there are "life signs" on the platform.

2. Smart businessmen act professionally to ALL businesses. Priorities are normal but if you
ignore a small guy today don't be surprised when they ignore you when they become a
big guy tomorrow.

#2 is part of business etiquette 101.
Smart businessmen don't post tons of threads on forums asking basic questions all the time, so I guess there's that.

I agree in principle about your #2, but for every 100 people who say "I'll remember that when I'm bigger than you", that happens one time. For anyone who's been around a long time, they're probably willing to take that risk - because they've heard it a thousand times and it's only become true a few of those times, if that.

There's a link seller on here who tried to sell me links at $1500 / yr / site on his whole network of sites. 5k / day for the network - was something like $6k for the whole deal. I simply told him "this is way too much for what you've got - no thanks". He told me sites will be huge one day and I clearly know nothing about SEO because buying link for "potential" is common, yet... I was intending to buy those links to a site of mine that gets 500k SE per day.

And that isn't the first time I've seen / heard that. There's a few other link sellers on here with 10 year old sites still saying the same shit, yet their sites are still tiny. These are the same people expecting programs to bend to their will. ;)
trevesty is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 06:13 AM   #14
hamiltonsteele
Confirmed User
 
hamiltonsteele's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jul 2003
Posts: 1,041
Quote:
Originally Posted by trevesty View Post
Smart businessmen don't post tons of threads on forums asking basic questions all the time, so I guess there's that.
Smart businessmen don't act like trolls because such behavior is so unprofessional that other
people will blacklist them from the get go.
__________________
http://steelehard.com/ الإباحية باللغة العربية
Discord: https://discord.gg/QWJpmDSFc2
http://le-beverley.com/ Under Development
Twitter: https://twitter.com/steele_hard
Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/show/43uaTA1AEPa2Nf0Tmvppd0
hamiltonsteele is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 06:40 AM   #15
TheLegacy
SEO Connoisseur
 
TheLegacy's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Brantford, Ontario
Posts: 16,344
Many have moved to home offices which may account for rep's being lazy - while others simply cut back on staff therefore don't have someone ready to handle it except maybe the owner.

See if you can find someone on skype to answer the question after doing a search for the company
__________________
SEO Connoisseur


Microsoft Teams: Robert Warren SEO
Skype: robjameswarren
RobertWarrenSEO.com
TheLegacy is online now   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 06:49 AM   #16
trevesty
Confirmed User
 
trevesty's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Midwest
Posts: 3,802
Quote:
Originally Posted by hamiltonsteele View Post
Smart businessmen don't act like trolls because such behavior is so unprofessional that other
people will blacklist them from the get go.
Are you getting paid to post here or something? Can't tell if this is projection or stupidity.. only one of us posted a thread whining about people not replying to their attempts at contact.
trevesty is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 07:14 AM   #17
hamiltonsteele
Confirmed User
 
hamiltonsteele's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jul 2003
Posts: 1,041
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheLegacy View Post
Many have moved to home offices which may account for rep's being lazy - while others simply cut back on staff therefore don't have someone ready to handle it except maybe the owner.
It's a sign of the times right?

We've all had to adapt and change how we do business. I wish it was 2018 again because
I could be much more comfortable and laid back.
__________________
http://steelehard.com/ الإباحية باللغة العربية
Discord: https://discord.gg/QWJpmDSFc2
http://le-beverley.com/ Under Development
Twitter: https://twitter.com/steele_hard
Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/show/43uaTA1AEPa2Nf0Tmvppd0
hamiltonsteele is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 09:20 AM   #18
The Porn Nerd
Living The Dream
 
The Porn Nerd's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Inside a Monitor
Posts: 19,490
Quote:
Originally Posted by hamiltonsteele View Post
1. They don't even know what I can or can't send them because I don't sign up until I've
verified that there are "life signs" on the platform.

2. Smart businessmen act professionally to ALL businesses. Priorities are normal but if you
ignore a small guy today don't be surprised when they ignore you when they become a
big guy tomorrow.

#2 is part of business etiquette 101.
Quote:
Originally Posted by trevesty View Post
Smart businessmen don't post tons of threads on forums asking basic questions all the time, so I guess there's that.

I agree in principle about your #2, but for every 100 people who say "I'll remember that when I'm bigger than you", that happens one time. For anyone who's been around a long time, they're probably willing to take that risk - because they've heard it a thousand times and it's only become true a few of those times, if that.

There's a link seller on here who tried to sell me links at $1500 / yr / site on his whole network of sites. 5k / day for the network - was something like $6k for the whole deal. I simply told him "this is way too much for what you've got - no thanks". He told me sites will be huge one day and I clearly know nothing about SEO because buying link for "potential" is common, yet... I was intending to buy those links to a site of mine that gets 500k SE per day.

And that isn't the first time I've seen / heard that. There's a few other link sellers on here with 10 year old sites still saying the same shit, yet their sites are still tiny. These are the same people expecting programs to bend to their will. ;)
You both make good points about professionalism, wasting a rep's time, etc. But as a Program Owner myself for well over a decade MY personal attitude is this:

If I get a simple email requesting info, or requesting something that isn't found on the Affiliate Program site, then I answer within a day or two. But if I start getting tons of emails about little inconsequential things, and then I look and see this affiliate has sent a grand total of 2 sales in eight months, guess what? I ignore them. Well, being the sweetheart kinda fella I normally am I would respond once or maybe twice but after that....

Understand that most CCBill Programs are small and the owners have probably gone fishin'. For larger NATS-type Programs understand that the Program may be huge, or in another country/time zone, or their English is shit, or they have little to no "reps" full-time anymore (just owners who are busy doing everything else)....

Bottom line: If a Program does not get back to you in a week (MAX) then write them off. Either they are a dead Program, have gone fishin' or don't want to work with you. So fuck 'em and move on.
__________________
My Affiliate Programs:
Porn Nerd Cash | Porn Showcase | Aggressive Gold

Over 90 paysites to promote!
Skype: peabodymedia
The Porn Nerd is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 09:52 AM   #19
fuzebox
making it rain
 
fuzebox's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: seattle
Posts: 22,004
fuzebox is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Old 11-13-2021, 07:37 PM   #20
Pipecrew
Master of Gfy.com
 
Pipecrew's Avatar
 
Industry Role:
Join Date: Feb 2002
Posts: 14,885
Quote:
Originally Posted by trevesty View Post
What do you have to offer them? A lot of programs aren't going to reply to a bunch of questions that are a waste of their time. Can you send 5-10 joins per day or more? No? Their time isn't free. It makes sense for their reps to spend time with the guys sending 5-6 joins per day to try and turn that into 9-10 per day.

When I've ran programs, it was pretty much always the affiliates who send 1 join every 8 months that asked 300 questions during the onboarding process. Any experienced program probably just ignores those guys now.

Never really understood why people think they're entitled to someone else's time, especially if you have nothing to give in return.
The best affiliates would never use gfy as a support forum. You can generally tell who has their shit together by the type of questions or requests. The best ones usually need members area access and nothing else.
Pipecrew is offline   Share thread on Digg Share thread on Twitter Share thread on Reddit Share thread on Facebook Reply With Quote
Post New Thread Reply
Go Back   GoFuckYourself.com - Adult Webmaster Forum > >

Bookmarks

Tags
sites, 6th, contacting, tourofbooty, abandoned, money, obsolete, owners, kill, covid, vaccine, response, platforms, contacted, wait, respond, sign, question, affiliate, site



Advertising inquiries - marketing at gfy dot com

Contact Admin - Advertise - GFY Rules - Top

©2000-, AI Media Network Inc



Powered by vBulletin
Copyright © 2000- Jelsoft Enterprises Limited.