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Head · 01-01-2004, 08:08 PM

Would you go out with a guy who is rich but over weight? He's not bad looking but 60lbs over weight. Very nice guy but can be a little cheap! Made his wealth in IT. This is not me but my GF's brother.
Just curious.

DrtySweeet · 01-01-2004, 08:12 PM

i guess if he wasnt a prick.. it might be an option.i guess. maybe she can fuck that excess weight off him

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-01-2004, 08:15 PM

girls date overweight guys all the time ..unless they are total fuckheads .

doober · 01-01-2004, 08:18 PM

no, cheap overweight dudes dont get any action...lol did i just describe 99% of gfy'ers?

mrthumbs · 01-01-2004, 08:19 PM

Looks dont matter for a girl. (well for 99% of them that is).

Looks are only useful to make contact with a girl the easy way.
(it becomes pull tech instead of push tech).

Other than that: the only thing he needs to know is HOW TO TALK
and present himself.

Holly · 01-01-2004, 08:25 PM

I see what you're getting at, but you'd still have to give a lot more info here. For me, the rich part isn't gonna get him a date, but the fat part won't lose him one, either. There's gotta be more to him than either one of those.

Sarah_Jayne · 01-01-2004, 08:29 PM

i would never date anyone based on wealth

digifan · 01-01-2004, 08:35 PM

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Originally posted by doober
no, cheap overweight dudes dont get any action...lol did i just describe 99% of gfy'ers?

sxycherish · 01-01-2004, 08:37 PM

I agree with Holly.

HS-Trixxxia · 01-01-2004, 08:45 PM

Personally, I've dated different types (skinny/overweight - rich/broke - goodlooking/average looking) The thing I think he may have working against him may be the 'cheap' in the sense that if he lets money get between treating a woman as a woman he wants the affection of example: Pay the cab fare / movies / supper when he is taking her out on a date or buying her a rose or even totally ignoring the people who walk in restaurants to sell a rose while you are dining. If he's the type of cheap that wears secondhand clothing (that looks like it's seen better days) or the type that won't dress up because it costs too much.....those guys are the ones that I think will have a hard time getting a date and this just because his love for money is greater than his attraction for the girl.

If he is not 'that cheap' and his love of money is not this bad.....then I think he won't have a hard time winning a girl over.

If he looks good, knows how to present himself, know how to treat a woman, can keep her interested......I think he'll do fine.

Head · 01-01-2004, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia
Personally, I've dated different types (skinny/overweight - rich/broke - goodlooking/average looking) The thing I think he may have working against him may be the 'cheap' in the sense that if he lets money get between treating a woman as a woman he wants the affection of example: Pay the cab fare / movies / supper when he is taking her out on a date or buying her a rose or even totally ignoring the people who walk in restaurants to sell a rose while you are dining. If he's the type of cheap that wears secondhand clothing (that looks like it's seen better days) or the type that won't dress up because it costs too much.....those guys are the ones that I think will have a hard time getting a date and this just because his love for money is greater than his attraction for the girl.

If he is not 'that cheap' and his love of money is not this bad.....then I think he won't have a hard time winning a girl over.

If he looks good, knows how to present himself, know how to treat a woman, can keep her interested......I think he'll do fine.

Ya he's pretty cheap!

Rictor · 01-01-2004, 09:22 PM

If he's rich and pays me enough, I'll fuck him.

Pete · 01-01-2004, 09:45 PM

Overweight, rich, poor....its the size of the cock that matters.

NoAngel · 01-01-2004, 10:45 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
i would never date anyone based on wealth

yes, i personally really do not care on that too.

Tala · 01-01-2004, 10:55 PM

Personally, I don't give a fuck. I like a man who's got a good attitude, doesn't mind me being a Dominant control freak, doesn't mind taking me shopping, and doesn't mind me having my girlfriend over.

Loryn · 01-01-2004, 11:00 PM

How rich is rich???

I would say mrthumbs pretty much nailed it!!

NoAngel · 01-01-2004, 11:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tala
Personally, I don't give a fuck. I like a man who's got a good attitude, doesn't mind me being a Dominant control freak, doesn't mind taking me shopping, and doesn't mind me having my girlfriend over.

tootie · 01-01-2004, 11:03 PM

I happen to think some big guys are sexy. I don't give a hoot about looks OR money. No, really! In fact, a great majority of guys I've dated have been less than good looking and made little or NO money. I've dated some drop dead gorgeous guys that were such assholes it made me SICK. I'll take a sweet fatty over a self-absorbed Adonis any day!

Drake · 01-01-2004, 11:03 PM

If he's wealthy and a decent guy he can get women.

Counter to what is generally thought, looks are just as important to women as they are to men (insidious studies show that both sexes rate looks as the most important factor, but if asked directly, most will tell you otherwise).

In cultures where women are more dominant, looks become increasingly important to them.

In a culture driven by men and money, woman will often forego looks. I'm sure he has no problems finding women. If he's looking for love....I don't know.

If he's shy or socially awkard that could be a problem.

NoAngel · 01-01-2004, 11:08 PM

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Originally posted by tootie
....I've dated some drop dead gorgeous guys that were such assholes it made me SICK. I'll take a sweet fatty over a self-absorbed Adonis any day!

Muahahahahah

just wanted to write sth. similar to that - the last 'freak' was at NewYearEve's party- an arogant and 'self-absorbed' (<-- cool word

) 'i'm just got rich, but lackin' brain' freak

Blondie23 · 01-01-2004, 11:21 PM

A guy just has to have sex appeal for you to be attracted.. money alone wont cut it, has to have something physically attractive even if its just one or two features that get you going.. you can overlook the rest -- and of course a great personality will really help you overlook bad features.

01-01-2004, 08:08 PM	#1
Head Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Starship Enterprise Posts: 8,278	Questions for the ladies? Would you go out with a guy who is rich but over weight? He's not bad looking but 60lbs over weight. Very nice guy but can be a little cheap! Made his wealth in IT. This is not me but my GF's brother. Just curious. __________________

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Holly Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Jesusland Posts: 10,017	I see what you're getting at, but you'd still have to give a lot more info here. For me, the rich part isn't gonna get him a date, but the fat part won't lose him one, either. There's gotta be more to him than either one of those. __________________ War National Damn Champions Eagle

01-01-2004, 08:45 PM	#10
HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	Personally, I've dated different types (skinny/overweight - rich/broke - goodlooking/average looking) The thing I think he may have working against him may be the 'cheap' in the sense that if he lets money get between treating a woman as a woman he wants the affection of example: Pay the cab fare / movies / supper when he is taking her out on a date or buying her a rose or even totally ignoring the people who walk in restaurants to sell a rose while you are dining. If he's the type of cheap that wears secondhand clothing (that looks like it's seen better days) or the type that won't dress up because it costs too much.....those guys are the ones that I think will have a hard time getting a date and this just because his love for money is greater than his attraction for the girl. If he is not 'that cheap' and his love of money is not this bad.....then I think he won't have a hard time winning a girl over. If he looks good, knows how to present himself, know how to treat a woman, can keep her interested......I think he'll do fine. __________________ ~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~ Patrizia COO - ♥ MassiveDollars Email: patrizia at MassiveDollars dot com ICQ: 465.826.441 Yahoo: trixxxia_me MSN: trixxxia at hotmail dot com

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Pete Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Mr. Rogers Neighborhood Posts: 6,617	Overweight, rich, poor....its the size of the cock that matters. __________________ Evoke Electronics

01-01-2004, 08:15 PM	#3
C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	girls date overweight guys all the time ..unless they are total fuckheads .

01-01-2004, 08:18 PM	#4
doober Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: in yoOoo kitchen Posts: 6,984	no, cheap overweight dudes dont get any action...lol did i just describe 99% of gfy'ers?

01-01-2004, 08:19 PM	#5
mrthumbs salad tossing sig guy Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: mrthumbs*gmail.com Posts: 11,702	Looks dont matter for a girl. (well for 99% of them that is). Looks are only useful to make contact with a girl the easy way. (it becomes pull tech instead of push tech). Other than that: the only thing he needs to know is HOW TO TALK and present himself.

01-01-2004, 08:29 PM	#7
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	i would never date anyone based on wealth

01-01-2004, 08:37 PM	#9
sxycherish Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: usa Posts: 43	I agree with Holly.

01-01-2004, 09:22 PM	#12
Rictor Old Timer Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 12,208	If he's rich and pays me enough, I'll fuck him.

01-01-2004, 10:55 PM	#15
Tala Fucked if I know Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Do you have a flag? Posts: 23,368	Personally, I don't give a fuck. I like a man who's got a good attitude, doesn't mind me being a Dominant control freak, doesn't mind taking me shopping, and doesn't mind me having my girlfriend over. __________________ ICQ: 11120676 \| Google: mindcrime \| Skype: suitemindcrime\|E-Mail: mindcrime AT gmail.com\|PR girl with great writing skills for hire!!!! Contact me to work for YOU!\|TECHIEMEDIA? 24/7 support from some of the best techs in the biz. Tell Jim that I sent you.

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Loryn Super Connector Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 12,853	How rich is rich??? I would say mrthumbs pretty much nailed it!! __________________ ~ loryn@loryntaylor . com ~ RIP TD

01-01-2004, 11:03 PM	#18
tootie Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Planet Earp Posts: 6,041	I happen to think some big guys are sexy. I don't give a hoot about looks OR money. No, really! In fact, a great majority of guys I've dated have been less than good looking and made little or NO money. I've dated some drop dead gorgeous guys that were such assholes it made me SICK. I'll take a sweet fatty over a self-absorbed Adonis any day! __________________

01-01-2004, 11:03 PM	#19
Drake Hello world! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 12,508	If he's wealthy and a decent guy he can get women. Counter to what is generally thought, looks are just as important to women as they are to men (insidious studies show that both sexes rate looks as the most important factor, but if asked directly, most will tell you otherwise). In cultures where women are more dominant, looks become increasingly important to them. In a culture driven by men and money, woman will often forego looks. I'm sure he has no problems finding women. If he's looking for love....I don't know. If he's shy or socially awkard that could be a problem. Last edited by Drake; 01-01-2004 at 11:06 PM..

01-01-2004, 11:21 PM	#21
Blondie23 Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 408	A guy just has to have sex appeal for you to be attracted.. money alone wont cut it, has to have something physically attractive even if its just one or two features that get you going.. you can overlook the rest -- and of course a great personality will really help you overlook bad features.