Is getting a blowjob cheating on your partner? - GoFuckYourself.com

Virginie · 04-05-2002, 11:27 AM

I heard that on a radio and almost got a car crash (again)...

The guys were saying that it wasn't really cheating on your partner since when a guy gets a blowjob, he doesn't do anything... He can have a blowjob without moving at all so it's not really cheating...

Well I think that even if the guy do nothing when receiving his blowjob, it is still cheating... Each time a guy gets is stick out with someone that his partner don't know about it, it's cheating...

Wonder if getting a cunnilingus is cheating?????????? well that might change all my perceptions about relationships...

what do you think?

DrGuile · 04-05-2002, 11:29 AM

definitely cheating...

unless is there, tonguing your balls...

BV · 04-05-2002, 11:30 AM

Suckin aint Fuckin!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ludedude · 04-05-2002, 11:32 AM

Bill Clinton "I never had sexual relations with that woman."

There it is...blowjobs aren't sex, therefore they're not cheating either. Simple.

UnseenWorld · 04-05-2002, 11:34 AM

As long as forcing a girl to give you a blowjob is rape ("forced sex"), of course a blow job is sex. Now whether getting a blowjob from someone who isn't your partner is cheating depends upon your partner's attitude toward sex with others. If she (assuming it's a she) would not like that idea and would not want you to do it and expects you to respect her wishes, then it's definitely cheating.

UnseenWorld · 04-05-2002, 11:35 AM

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Originally posted by Ludedude
Bill Clinton "I never had sexual relations with that woman."

There it is...blowjobs aren't sex, therefore they're not cheating either. Simple.

Well, that's pretty stupid. Clinton is an authority on weasel-wording and lying, not sex. If forcing someone to give you a blowjob would be rape (which it would be), then clearly a blowjob is sex. No doubt about it.

FATPad · 04-05-2002, 11:43 AM

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Originally posted by UnseenWorld

Well, that's pretty stupid. Clinton is an authority on weasel-wording and lying, not sex. If forcing someone to give you a blowjob would be rape (which it would be), then clearly a blowjob is sex. No doubt about it.

Duck!!!!

Oh wait...you don't have to...the humor plane cleared your head by a good mile...

Ludedude · 04-05-2002, 11:44 AM

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Originally posted by FATPad

Duck!!!!

Oh wait...you don't have to...the humor plane cleared your head by a good mile...

HAHAHA!!

Bobo · 04-05-2002, 11:47 AM

Cheating??? I didnt know there was such a thing. As far as I'm concerned, if your partner never finds out, then you've never cheated....heheheheheheheheheheheehehehehehehe.:th umbsup

Gemini · 04-05-2002, 12:23 PM

Doncha just LOVE to see how many guys on this board that will end up spiteful lonely old men... All alone in their later years? lol And you can brag that 'I used to get... (fill in the blank)" while you make your miserable bologna sandwich for dinner before you fo your grimey laundry that ONE time a year...

cheaters

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**If forcing someone to give you a blowjob would be rape (which it would be)**

Actually don't most states still consider this to be sodomy versus rape? Just as serious I think but a different section of the law in that it's considered more brutal.

payrollpete · 04-05-2002, 12:28 PM

i ask you this

how many of you guys feel comfortable with your lady going out and getting her pussy eaten from some other guy.

LOL

goodgirl · 04-05-2002, 12:49 PM

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Originally posted by UnseenWorld
Now whether getting a blowjob from someone who isn't your partner is cheating depends upon your partner's attitude toward sex with others.

Very much the answer to any cheating questions, its your partners say, even if you don't have the same attitude as them, really its what they think is cheating or not.

bauhaus · 04-05-2002, 12:53 PM

I will always agree with Virginie cause she is a cute french canadian...the only thing I need worry about it what my wife will think after I visit you in montreal.....we have to rebook our adventure....

Tim

Jakke PNG · 04-05-2002, 12:57 PM

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Originally posted by payrollpete
i ask you this

how many of you guys feel comfortable with your lady going out and getting her pussy eaten from some other guy.

LOL

From another guy, horrible! ->Yelling, and shouting!
From another girl, nice -> can I watch?

payrollpete · 04-05-2002, 01:02 PM

my suggestion would be to do it and not tell the person.

some things r meant to be kept secret

Virginie · 04-05-2002, 01:10 PM

well tim, I must have been really wasted... I don't recall any adventures, at least with YOU....

This is called a fantasme, in French (hearing my accent???) you are day dreaming...

I thought you were coming to MTL WITH your wife... I might have more interest in her.......... Haven't your mamma told you not to dare with the devil and not to play with strangers.......

DrGuile · 04-05-2002, 01:13 PM

Burn!

bauhaus · 04-05-2002, 01:32 PM

we are still going to Monteal, I will tell her about you.....my wife is hot

A bunch of the Orgasm crew will be coming as well...most of these Yankees have never been to Montreal

woodyxxx · 04-05-2002, 01:33 PM

What a question.....woohoo!!

mmmm......I guess I won't post my thoughts.....might end up having problems with my conscience afterwards.....lol

J.R. · 04-05-2002, 03:32 PM

Maybe if you get caught..LOL.

best advice, get a divorce or seperate first.

Kat - Fast · 04-05-2002, 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by payrollpete
i ask you this

how many of you guys feel comfortable with your lady going out and getting her pussy eaten from some other guy.

LOL

Hmm, wrong question....

how many of you guys feel comfortable with your lady going out and blowing some other guy off? I mean - you are the ones saying it's not sexual...

baddog · 04-05-2002, 05:26 PM

It is never cheating, unless you get caught, and then only if you admit that what they think they saw, is what they saw, because sometimes your eyes can play tricks on you. I have seen it happen.

This is not gender biased, what is good for the goose, is good for the gander

pimpshost · 04-05-2002, 06:07 PM

I love my girl so much and she trusts me, because I live by one simple rule.

If either of us does something that we can not openly talk about and work through, thats cheating.

If you cant do that, you are heading down a rocky path.

LoveAsianChicks · 04-05-2002, 06:11 PM

Yes it is cheating!

lagwagon · 04-05-2002, 06:14 PM

I think it is only cheating if you tell somebody

-=HUNGRYMAN=- · 04-05-2002, 06:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Virginie

Wonder if getting a cunnilingus is cheating??????????

Tell ya what 'Ginie .... In the name of scientific research, you let me know if after I am done making you scream like a banshee (for the 6th time ...I breathe through my ears), you feel like you have cheated on your partner ...

By this time, you will have forgotten BOTH your partner's, as well as Tim's wife's, name ....

Bobo · 04-05-2002, 06:18 PM

Pimphost, your girl isn't as honest as you think, but as long as you keep thinking she is, then we'll ALL be happy

Ok, that was immature but I just had to

pimpshost · 04-05-2002, 06:42 PM

Well, check out this thread.

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...threadid=55884

She's got me hooked.

Bobo · 04-05-2002, 06:49 PM

I loved Labrets response on that thread! LOL! And he was right.

Sly_RJ · 04-05-2002, 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pimpshost
I love my girl so much and she trusts me, because I live by one simple rule.

If either of us does something that we can not openly talk about and work through, thats cheating.

If you cant do that, you are heading down a rocky path.

I like that.

XXXPaysiteDesign · 04-05-2002, 09:20 PM

It absolutely is cheating.

phogirl69 · 04-05-2002, 09:27 PM

IT IS CHEATING!!!!!!!

I would dump my guy even if he tongue kissed another skank, let alone get a BJ!

mb189 · 04-05-2002, 09:37 PM

It would never be cheating unless she found out

zubr · 04-05-2002, 10:06 PM

it sure is...

, but i would go for it anyway

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04-05-2002, 11:27 AM	#1
Virginie Registered User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Montreal Posts: 23	Is getting a blowjob cheating on your partner? I heard that on a radio and almost got a car crash (again)... The guys were saying that it wasn't really cheating on your partner since when a guy gets a blowjob, he doesn't do anything... He can have a blowjob without moving at all so it's not really cheating... Well I think that even if the guy do nothing when receiving his blowjob, it is still cheating... Each time a guy gets is stick out with someone that his partner don't know about it, it's cheating... Wonder if getting a cunnilingus is cheating?????????? well that might change all my perceptions about relationships... what do you think? __________________ Did someone said cash??? www.gammacash.com

04-05-2002, 11:29 AM	#2
DrGuile Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 2,025	definitely cheating... unless is there, tonguing your balls... __________________ LiveBucks / Privatefeeds - Giving you money since 1999 Up to 50% Commission! 25% Webmaster Referal Powered by Gamma

04-05-2002, 11:32 AM	#4
Ludedude Suck it! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Who wants to know? Posts: 4,432	Bill Clinton "I never had sexual relations with that woman." There it is...blowjobs aren't sex, therefore they're not cheating either. Simple. __________________

04-05-2002, 11:34 AM	#5
UnseenWorld Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Portland, OR, USA Posts: 5,279	As long as forcing a girl to give you a blowjob is rape ("forced sex"), of course a blow job is sex. Now whether getting a blowjob from someone who isn't your partner is cheating depends upon your partner's attitude toward sex with others. If she (assuming it's a she) would not like that idea and would not want you to do it and expects you to respect her wishes, then it's definitely cheating. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

04-05-2002, 11:30 AM	#3
BV wtf Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Bikini State, FL USA Posts: 10,914	Suckin aint Fuckin!!!!!!!!!!!!!

04-05-2002, 11:47 AM	#9
Bobo Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,253	Cheating??? I didnt know there was such a thing. As far as I'm concerned, if your partner never finds out, then you've never cheated....heheheheheheheheheheheehehehehehehe.:th umbsup

04-05-2002, 12:23 PM	#10
Gemini Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: o-HI-o Posts: 7,183	Doncha just LOVE to see how many guys on this board that will end up spiteful lonely old men... All alone in their later years? lol And you can brag that 'I used to get... (fill in the blank)" while you make your miserable bologna sandwich for dinner before you fo your grimey laundry that ONE time a year... cheaters *********************** If forcing someone to give you a blowjob would be rape (which it would be)** Actually don't most states still consider this to be sodomy versus rape? Just as serious I think but a different section of the law in that it's considered more brutal.

04-05-2002, 12:28 PM	#11
payrollpete Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 1,527	i ask you this how many of you guys feel comfortable with your lady going out and getting her pussy eaten from some other guy. LOL

04-05-2002, 12:53 PM	#13
bauhaus Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Costa Rica Posts: 773	I will always agree with Virginie cause she is a cute french canadian...the only thing I need worry about it what my wife will think after I visit you in montreal.....we have to rebook our adventure.... Tim __________________ Insane, Color and Instant Sensation REalize the potential of dynamic coded features all in real time Vivid Php Code This is the reality of Outsoursouring SKype HolyBauhaus Deep, Deep in the Tropical Dry Rainforest.

04-05-2002, 01:02 PM	#15
payrollpete Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 1,527	my suggestion would be to do it and not tell the person. some things r meant to be kept secret

04-05-2002, 01:10 PM	#16
Virginie Registered User Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Montreal Posts: 23	well tim, I must have been really wasted... I don't recall any adventures, at least with YOU.... This is called a fantasme, in French (hearing my accent???) you are day dreaming... I thought you were coming to MTL WITH your wife... I might have more interest in her.......... Haven't your mamma told you not to dare with the devil and not to play with strangers....... __________________ Did someone said cash??? www.gammacash.com

04-05-2002, 01:13 PM	#17
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04-05-2002, 01:32 PM	#18
bauhaus Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Costa Rica Posts: 773	we are still going to Monteal, I will tell her about you.....my wife is hot A bunch of the Orgasm crew will be coming as well...most of these Yankees have never been to Montreal __________________ Insane, Color and Instant Sensation REalize the potential of dynamic coded features all in real time Vivid Php Code This is the reality of Outsoursouring SKype HolyBauhaus Deep, Deep in the Tropical Dry Rainforest.

04-05-2002, 01:33 PM	#19
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04-05-2002, 03:32 PM	#20
J.R. WantBoobs.com Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Calif & Washington Posts: 3,472	Maybe if you get caught..LOL. best advice, get a divorce or seperate first.

04-05-2002, 05:26 PM	#22
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	It is never cheating, unless you get caught, and then only if you admit that what they think they saw, is what they saw, because sometimes your eyes can play tricks on you. I have seen it happen. This is not gender biased, what is good for the goose, is good for the gander

04-05-2002, 06:07 PM	#23
pimpshost Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 1,052	I love my girl so much and she trusts me, because I live by one simple rule. If either of us does something that we can not openly talk about and work through, thats cheating. If you cant do that, you are heading down a rocky path. __________________ Jason (Vegas King Condo) Cell 702-371-8941 Web LuxuryinLasVegas.com - High Rise Condos

04-05-2002, 06:11 PM	#24
LoveAsianChicks Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: -CANADA- Posts: 1,464	Yes it is cheating!

04-05-2002, 06:14 PM	#25
lagwagon Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: az Posts: 8,464	I think it is only cheating if you tell somebody __________________ FTVGirls - FTVMilfs - DanielleFTV

04-05-2002, 06:18 PM	#27
Bobo Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,253	Pimphost, your girl isn't as honest as you think, but as long as you keep thinking she is, then we'll ALL be happy Ok, that was immature but I just had to

04-05-2002, 06:42 PM	#28
pimpshost Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 1,052	Well, check out this thread. http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...threadid=55884 She's got me hooked. __________________ Jason (Vegas King Condo) Cell 702-371-8941 Web LuxuryinLasVegas.com - High Rise Condos

04-05-2002, 06:49 PM	#29
Bobo Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,253	I loved Labrets response on that thread! LOL! And he was right.

04-05-2002, 09:20 PM	#31
XXXPaysiteDesign Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Everett, WA Posts: 2,201	It absolutely is cheating. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

04-05-2002, 09:27 PM	#32
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	IT IS CHEATING!!!!!!! I would dump my guy even if he tongue kissed another skank, let alone get a BJ!

04-05-2002, 09:37 PM	#33
mb189 Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 222	It would never be cheating unless she found out

04-05-2002, 10:06 PM	#34
zubr Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Toronto Posts: 1,227	it sure is... , but i would go for it anyway __________________ Alex - ICQ:61889253 - MSN:zubr_zubr at hotmail.com - Skype:zubrzubr