How to approach girls in a bar? - GoFuckYourself.com

DebsDeep · 07-22-2006, 07:58 AM

So we are at the local hick bar last night....(small town here pop 1100)
There are a TON of really hot girls because we have 4 colleges within 40 miles and they all seem to come to this lil bar....I am looking around and seeing content everywhere.....How do you approach them....is it possible?
I mean you cant just walk up and say HEY wanna be on a porn site?

Anyone have any advice?

DebsDeep · 07-22-2006, 07:58 AM

Hey i am almost at 500 posts...just noticed!

DebsDeep · 07-22-2006, 08:20 AM

guess nobody knows!
bet jimthefiend does....lol

HorseShit · 07-22-2006, 08:38 AM

give her a hug and stick your finger up her bug

martinsc · 07-22-2006, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by jdavis

give her a hug and stick your finger up her bug

ServerGenius · 07-22-2006, 08:42 AM

I think as a woman you actually CAN do that. That rule only applies if you're a guy

jono · 07-22-2006, 08:43 AM

LOL! Well there's no easy way to ask, so just ask.

psili · 07-22-2006, 08:44 AM

"Hello. My name's [insert name here] and I [work for / own] a highly lucrative website featuring beautiful women. I instantly noticed you because [some reason here (great eyes, awesome face, blah blah blah)] and was wondering if you'd like to try out a test shoot with my photographer. Would you be interested?"

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Fuck. Actually, I have no idea. Good question.

TurboAngel · 07-22-2006, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by psili

"Hello. My name's [insert name here] and I [work for / own] a highly lucrative website featuring beautiful women. I instantly noticed you because [some reason here (great eyes, awesome face, blah blah blah)] and was wondering if you'd like to try out a test shoot with my photographer. Would you be interested?"

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Fuck. Actually, I have no idea. Good question.

Not bad.

I LOVE Little Brown Asses · 07-22-2006, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by debsdeepthroat

I mean you cant just walk up and say HEY wanna be on a porn site?

Anyone have any advice?

actually, i think you can. what's the worst that happens? she says "no".

if you're a guy, you're already used to girls at bars saying no.

XMaster · 07-22-2006, 08:47 AM

Easy, make a fake biz card..from model agency for example , then tell her she will be the next cindy crawford. (no mention of you're talking about the pornstar and not the model)

DebsDeep · 07-22-2006, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

Not bad.

yeh thats pretty slick

psili · 07-22-2006, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by debsdeepthroat

yeh thats pretty slick

Dunno man. I'm not a content finder or shooter. Just figured if you approached the situation with a business perspective / angle then you'd appear more genuine and honest. If you got a positive response back, you could either continue to engage in the conversation there or at a later date, slowly working in "what" exactly type of site you have. Could save the trauma for both sides.... but again, I have no idea.

DebsDeep · 07-22-2006, 08:53 AM

I actually wrote that down!!!!!!

07-22-2006, 09:00 AM

just say, would u rather be drinking beer or champagne...

make sure when u do approach her she is not with the football team...ull find out fast if u could have been a track star or not....

Adultnet · 07-22-2006, 09:17 AM

well there are some nice tips here anyways. A woman should feel that you are offering her a huge opportunity to make serious money here. So what you should do to build yourself in her eyes is first thing introduce your self 2 her maybe even give her a business card of your site or company. then just directly ask her if anything like what you got to offer(Explain in details first) interest her a little. If she says yes it actually does then i guess you got a win.

Doctor Dre · 07-22-2006, 09:26 AM

LMAO...

As a woman, it will be easier.

Why not just spend a few bucks and throw a porn party over there or something ? So you let every girl arround know of the possibilities ?

psili · 07-22-2006, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Doctor Dre

LMAO...

As a woman, it will be easier.

Why not just spend a few bucks and throw a porn party over there or something ? So you let every girl arround know of the possibilities ?

Granted, that'd be a fun party, but I don't think it'd lead into business relationships with models. You'd get a bunch of people boozing, half naked, on your dime, who, on the next day with a wicked hangover, will forget what they did and in their painful recovery not want to think about anything, much less being a "porn star".

Again, I have no idea what I'm talking about, but I like to post like I do. ;)

Grapesoda · 07-22-2006, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by psili

"Hello. My name's [insert name here] and I [work for / own] a highly lucrative website featuring beautiful women. I instantly noticed you because [some reason here (great eyes, awesome face, blah blah blah)] and was wondering if you'd like to try out a test shoot with my photographer. Would you be interested?"

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Fuck. Actually, I have no idea. Good question.

1. do not mention money
2. do not compliment the model
3. be obtuse and confusing

Digipimp · 07-22-2006, 09:36 AM

here's what i do, i learned my game way back in the 80's. i go up to them and i say

say ho, can i ask you a question? can you get in where you fit in trick biaaaatch!

DebsDeep · 07-22-2006, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Digipimp

here's what i do, i learned my game way back in the 80's. i go up to them and i say

say ho, can i ask you a question? can you get in where you fit in trick biaaaatch!

oh i will jump right on that one...Prolly 1/2 are farmers daughters.....

Digipimp · 07-22-2006, 09:47 AM

honestly i'd say if you come off as being half ass about what you're asking then you'll probably get blown off. go hard or dont go at all, just be straight up or else slip them a card and say i'd be interested in talking to you if you have some time. if they call you then it's almost a sure thing.

oh yeah, dont hand them a cheap ass business card with a vistaprint ad on the back that you got 100 cards for free either lol

E$_manager · 07-22-2006, 10:17 AM

surprisingly many girls would like to be a porno star. You have to get close to them and then make a proposition in 2 days or something.

Quagmire · 07-22-2006, 11:41 AM

You need to hand them a foot-long hotdog and say "if you can get this all down your throat, have I got a job for you!"

woj · 07-22-2006, 11:51 AM

It's not rocket science man, print out some business cards, sell yourself as a representative of a modeling agency and go from there, if she ends up calling you to get more info, you are more than half way done by then...

seeric · 07-22-2006, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by debsdeepthroat

I mean you cant just walk up and say HEY wanna be on a porn site?

why not?

that approach always worked best for me. honesty.

i wouldn't say porn site.

ask em "have you ever done any modeling?" they'll ask what kind.

as soon as you say "internet"

they know.

you got a 50/50 chance each time.

OzMan · 07-22-2006, 12:05 PM

I always approach them from behind in the parking lot outside the bar and hold a cloth soaked in chloroform to their mouth for 10-12 seconds.

Works every time

phypon · 07-22-2006, 12:40 PM

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I always approach them from behind in the parking lot outside the bar and hold a cloth soaked in chloroform to their mouth for 10-12 seconds.

Works every time

I literaly laughed out loud!

DaddyHalbucks · 07-22-2006, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by psili

"Hello. My name's [insert name here] and I [work for / own] a highly lucrative website featuring beautiful women. I instantly noticed you because [some reason here (great eyes, awesome face, blah blah blah)] and was wondering if you'd like to try out a test shoot with my photographer. Would you be interested?"

At what point do you let them know that they have to take their clothes off?

DaddyHalbucks · 07-22-2006, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Quagmire

You need to hand them a foot-long hotdog and say "if you can get this all down your throat, have I got a job for you!"

Hahahahahaha, nice one!

Kiwigirl · 07-22-2006, 12:57 PM

Being a girl makes it a whole lot easier to scout for talent however....
every girl that I have approached about modelling has wanted to know more.
I tell them it's a great way to earn a lot of cash quickly. I buy them a drink/ body shot or something to that degree and I try to hang with them for the night and make friends so that they feel comfortable and are more likely to call me within a few days of meeting.

But like I said, I'm a girl scouting for models.....they know I'm not hitting on them and they are always aware from the get go of what I am looking for.
Beating around the bush with them only wastes there time and yours!

Spunky · 07-22-2006, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by OzMan

I always approach them from behind in the parking lot outside the bar and hold a cloth soaked in chloroform to their mouth for 10-12 seconds.

Works every time

I have to try that trick

Dvae · 07-22-2006, 01:41 PM

bogo · 07-22-2006, 01:48 PM

best way is to ask her if she wants to be in movies and if she says yes grab her ph.number and then let her know over the phone exactly what your intentions are, this way you dont get slapped in the face or kicked in the nuts.

E$_manager · 07-22-2006, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by bogo

best way is to ask her if she wants to be in movies and if she says yes grab her ph.number and then let her know over the phone exactly what your intentions are, this way you dont get slapped in the face or kicked in the nuts.

right, and show her some of your best works

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DebsDeep Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 2,649	How to approach girls in a bar? So we are at the local hick bar last night....(small town here pop 1100) There are a TON of really hot girls because we have 4 colleges within 40 miles and they all seem to come to this lil bar....I am looking around and seeing content everywhere.....How do you approach them....is it possible? I mean you cant just walk up and say HEY wanna be on a porn site? Anyone have any advice? __________________ http://www.gothamscreenprinting.com Cheapest T's Online. $5 tshirts printed, no minimums, no fees of anykind!!!!

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LilBro Guest Posts: n/a	just say, would u rather be drinking beer or champagne... make sure when u do approach her she is not with the football team...ull find out fast if u could have been a track star or not....

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Adultnet Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 8,713	well there are some nice tips here anyways. A woman should feel that you are offering her a huge opportunity to make serious money here. So what you should do to build yourself in her eyes is first thing introduce your self 2 her maybe even give her a business card of your site or company. then just directly ask her if anything like what you got to offer(Explain in details first) interest her a little. If she says yes it actually does then i guess you got a win. __________________ TrafficCashGold Paying Webmasters Since 1996! Awesome Conversions! Fast Weekly Payments! Over 125 Tours! Last edited by Adultnet; 07-22-2006 at 09:20 AM..

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Digipimp BP4L OT DL Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: BP4L Swap Meet Posts: 13,481	honestly i'd say if you come off as being half ass about what you're asking then you'll probably get blown off. go hard or dont go at all, just be straight up or else slip them a card and say i'd be interested in talking to you if you have some time. if they call you then it's almost a sure thing. oh yeah, dont hand them a cheap ass business card with a vistaprint ad on the back that you got 100 cards for free either lol __________________ Still Hosting at Webair and You Should Be Too

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Kiwigirl Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 2,556	Being a girl makes it a whole lot easier to scout for talent however.... every girl that I have approached about modelling has wanted to know more. I tell them it's a great way to earn a lot of cash quickly. I buy them a drink/ body shot or something to that degree and I try to hang with them for the night and make friends so that they feel comfortable and are more likely to call me within a few days of meeting. But like I said, I'm a girl scouting for models.....they know I'm not hitting on them and they are always aware from the get go of what I am looking for. Beating around the bush with them only wastes there time and yours! __________________ KIWISOURCING OUTSOURCING WITH A TWIST!

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bogo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1,982	best way is to ask her if she wants to be in movies and if she says yes grab her ph.number and then let her know over the phone exactly what your intentions are, this way you dont get slapped in the face or kicked in the nuts.