How do you measure success? (Mexican fisherman story) - GoFuckYourself.com

CheeseFrog · 08-09-2006, 10:17 PM

I know most people here measure success in terms of how many sales per week they do. But I found this little story somewhere that's pretty interesting and offers a different perspective on "success":

The Mexican fisherman

An American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them.

The Mexican replied, "only a little while."

The American then asked why didn't he stay out longer and catch more fish?

The Mexican said he had enough to support his family's immediate needs.

The American then asked, "but what do you do with the rest of your time?"

The Mexican fisherman said, "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life."

The American scoffed, "I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat with the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise."

The Mexican fisherman asked, "But, how long will this all take?"

To which the American replied, "15-20 years."

"But what then?"

The American laughed and said that's the best part. "When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions."

"Millions.. Then what?"

The American said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos."

XWS Negotiator · 08-09-2006, 11:05 PM

Success can only be measured when the person dies... count the number of people that comes to visit his funeral.

reynold · 08-09-2006, 11:16 PM

Life is really simple; it's just that we insist on making it complicated..

Nice story there, pal.

martinsc · 08-09-2006, 11:16 PM

nice story.

CheeseFrog · 08-09-2006, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by XWS Negotiator

Success can only be measured when the person dies... count the number of people that comes to visit his funeral.

There's probably some truth to that one...

woj · 08-10-2006, 12:28 AM

great story

godisdead · 08-10-2006, 12:48 AM

What I get out of that story is: If your only ambition in life is to do nothing, you can get started right away. There's a lot of truth in that statement.

Most people who just want to do nothing are working way too much so that they can finally do nothing. Then the die two weeks after retirement.

polish_aristocrat · 09-07-2006, 07:48 AM

polish_aristocrat · 09-07-2006, 07:51 AM

my ambition is to do nothing, now I do almost nothing, but I don't feel secure when doing nothing or almost nothing yet....

so I want to make significantly more money while doing nothing

Dragar · 09-07-2006, 07:51 AM

to much reading here ....
sucsess is in ones pants
all the rest is a bunch of crap

Marshal · 09-07-2006, 08:11 AM

success is when someone's sattisfied with his own deeds... and it's all subjective...

Jack Frost · 09-07-2006, 08:21 AM

Nice. I like it!

Enema · 09-07-2006, 08:40 AM

Wouldn't it be more like:

The American said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing, buy a gigantic home, an expensive car, sleep late, fish a little off your huge yacht, tell your maid to play with your kids, take siesta with your 21 year old girlfriend, get chauferred to the village in the evenings where you could sip quality wine and play your guitar with your amigos."

E$_manager · 09-07-2006, 08:44 AM

great! thank you.

E$_manager · 09-07-2006, 08:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

my ambition is to do nothing, now I do almost nothing, but I don't feel secure when doing nothing or almost nothing yet....

so I want to make significantly more money while doing nothing

you are reading my thoughts.
But i'd like to do not nothing at all but to do what i want to do in the moment , something insignificant like watering plants, cooking, watching TV , reading.
And get money for that

Phoenix · 09-07-2006, 09:03 AM

cool story...but i guess the fisherman doesnt want to leave his kids anything

E$_manager · 09-07-2006, 09:19 AM

yes, he forgot that he had familly. And they want more than fish.

AssPirate · 09-07-2006, 09:23 AM

Success for me is to be able to have hot unbridled angry sex every other night. The kind that you only see in Bugs Bunny movies. In between days, that I should be able to sleep soundly.

$5 submissions · 09-07-2006, 04:09 PM

Seems to confuse form with contentment. Doing nothing and being contented is fine but you have to have the basics covered--health care, daily sustenance, security, etc. But I do agree with the core message--the top of the Maslovian hierarchy of needs doesn't have a price tag or social rank.

E$_manager · 09-07-2006, 07:52 PM

that was said so clever. Even difficult to understand

rodney25 · 09-08-2006, 12:15 AM

Success for me is knowing what you rally want and getting them at the right time.

08-09-2006, 10:17 PM	#1
CheeseFrog Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: AZ Posts: 1,724	How do you measure success? (Mexican fisherman story) I know most people here measure success in terms of how many sales per week they do. But I found this little story somewhere that's pretty interesting and offers a different perspective on "success": The Mexican fisherman An American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them. The Mexican replied, "only a little while." The American then asked why didn't he stay out longer and catch more fish? The Mexican said he had enough to support his family's immediate needs. The American then asked, "but what do you do with the rest of your time?" The Mexican fisherman said, "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life." The American scoffed, "I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat with the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise." The Mexican fisherman asked, "But, how long will this all take?" To which the American replied, "15-20 years." "But what then?" The American laughed and said that's the best part. "When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions." "Millions.. Then what?" The American said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos." __________________ Cary \| AIM: cheesefrog \| ICQ: 4287002

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08-10-2006, 12:48 AM	#7
godisdead Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,213	What I get out of that story is: If your only ambition in life is to do nothing, you can get started right away. There's a lot of truth in that statement. Most people who just want to do nothing are working way too much so that they can finally do nothing. Then the die two weeks after retirement. __________________ $40 Flat Fee 70% Revshare YEAH THOSE ARE CRAZY PAYOUTS coming soon Crazy Payouts

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reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	Life is really simple; it's just that we insist on making it complicated.. Nice story there, pal.

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09-07-2006, 07:51 AM	#9
polish_aristocrat Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 40,377	my ambition is to do nothing, now I do almost nothing, but I don't feel secure when doing nothing or almost nothing yet.... so I want to make significantly more money while doing nothing

09-07-2006, 07:51 AM	#10
Dragar Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,079	to much reading here .... sucsess is in ones pants all the rest is a bunch of crap __________________

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09-07-2006, 08:21 AM	#12
Jack Frost Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: London, England Posts: 301	Nice. I like it!

09-07-2006, 08:40 AM	#13
Enema Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 599	Wouldn't it be more like: The American said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing, buy a gigantic home, an expensive car, sleep late, fish a little off your huge yacht, tell your maid to play with your kids, take siesta with your 21 year old girlfriend, get chauferred to the village in the evenings where you could sip quality wine and play your guitar with your amigos." __________________

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09-07-2006, 04:09 PM	#19
$5 submissions I help you SUCCEED Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Pearl of the Orient Seas Posts: 32,195	Seems to confuse form with contentment. Doing nothing and being contented is fine but you have to have the basics covered--health care, daily sustenance, security, etc. But I do agree with the core message--the top of the Maslovian hierarchy of needs doesn't have a price tag or social rank. __________________ Need a NON-ADULT income stream? We build your YOUTUBE CHANNEL for only $20 per video! For Hire: $3/hour or $400 per month Marketing Specialist Virtual Assistants

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