Should EVERY party be open to everyone? - GoFuckYourself.com

SleazyDream · 03-24-2007, 01:12 PM

lots of people I don't know have been giving me heck about not allowing everyone to come to my event.

fuck you.

it's invite only. Period.

We intensionally keep it small and with interesting guests cause most of you arn't worth our time.

Screaming · 03-24-2007, 01:15 PM

translation:

Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.

SleazyDream · 03-24-2007, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Screaming

translation:

Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.

attempt? nope.

I feel MUCH better so it's mission acompolished

Sly · 03-24-2007, 01:20 PM

This happens with the AVN shows, too... the loudest complainers don't even attend. I don't really understand it.

Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE · 03-24-2007, 01:21 PM

Nope...

The host has the right to invite who ever he chooses and anyone who bitches about it is just sad they are not on the list...

WiredGuy · 03-24-2007, 01:21 PM

Whoever is paying the bills makes the rules. If they don't like it, tell them to screw off.
WG

SleazyDream · 03-24-2007, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

This happens with the AVN shows, too... the loudest complainers don't even attend. I don't really understand it.

everyone wants something for nothing i guess.

those that complain arn't offering me up any invitations.

RawAlex · 03-24-2007, 01:23 PM

It's your party and you can do what you like.

I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion.

The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards.

Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever.

If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.

Doctor Dre · 03-24-2007, 01:25 PM

This world is full of free loaders. You have to filter the bad weeds

Doctor Dre · 03-24-2007, 01:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RawAlex

It's your party and you can do what you like.

I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion.

The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards.

Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever.

If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.

haha
I used to work with coors light on some events... Silver cruises coors light...

They used to have VIP passes for everyone... and Super VIPs.

that was funny.

SleazyDream · 03-24-2007, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by RawAlex

It's your party and you can do what you like.

I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion.

The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards.

Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever.

If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.

I don't bother with passes. I gave a guest list and enforce it. Have in the past and will at this event again

AaronM · 03-24-2007, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

fuck you.

it's invite only. Period.

Exactly.

There are plenty of other parties open to the masses. Anybody who hates on you for having a more private event is either jealous or just pissing in the wind.

Fuck em.

shekinah · 03-24-2007, 01:50 PM

Surely everything depends on the type of occasion and to the host..

MaDalton · 03-24-2007, 01:56 PM

you pay - you make the rules

but i really would like to experience one day how it is to have a lot of traffic so that everyone crawls up my ass

it's tough being on the wrong end of the food chain sometimes

JamesK2 · 03-24-2007, 02:10 PM

I agree with you, you make the party, you make the rules.

Quotealex · 03-24-2007, 02:53 PM

I don't really understand why you don't keep your private party private! Why the need to announce it publicly that you're having a private party!

dank · 03-24-2007, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex from Montreal

I don't really understand why you don't keep your private party private! Why the need to announce it publicly that you're having a private party!

Well thats half the fun.

seeric · 03-24-2007, 02:56 PM

i have a rule from the nightclub biz and is one of the things i live by

whoever puts up the loot for the gig = who makes the list for entry.

are you really getting people that are getting pissed because they didn't get invited to a private invite only party?

wow.

The Walrus · 03-24-2007, 02:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Screaming

translation:

Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.

LiveDose · 03-24-2007, 03:00 PM

GFY needs a spell check plugin... LOL

The Walrus · 03-24-2007, 03:02 PM

Certain people around here would crash the plugin too quick.

abyss_al · 03-24-2007, 03:17 PM

if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?

jayeff · 03-24-2007, 03:31 PM

You are so utterly lacking in the least semblance of class, it is a relief to be spared the embarassment of appearing on one of your guest lists.

Put that comment down to whatever you like, I really don't care...

Halcyon · 03-24-2007, 03:32 PM

http://prehensile.com/tales/partycop/partycop.jpg

I strongly believe in cultivating a party vibe like you would tend to a garden.
An open party is like an open field.

Dandelions may be beautiful flowers. But you have to weed them out if you're trying to grow roses.

RawAlex · 03-24-2007, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by abyss_al

if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?

Ahh,m but you see... there is only value in being able to prove that you are l33t. If a tree falls in the forest... or if a webmaster goes to a party private enough that nobody knows... it has the same result.

Halcyon · 03-24-2007, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

http://prehensile.com/tales/partycop/partycop.jpg

I strongly believe in cultivating a party vibe like you would tend to a garden.
An open party is like an open field.

Dandelions may be beautiful flowers. But you have to weed them out if you're trying to grow roses.

baddog · 03-24-2007, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by abyss_al

if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?

not saying this is the case, but you might announce it so people that were invited but missed the email might hear about it, thus begin going thru their spam bin

dodger21 · 03-24-2007, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by abyss_al

if it's a private event, why bring it to the boards?

Because most of the idiots in this "business" never grew out of the high school mindset.

iamkathi · 03-24-2007, 07:33 PM

When the folks that complain want to plan and pay for an awesome party... then they can invite whomever they want to attend and talk about where ever they want.

In the mean time...

Don't hate the player...hate the game.

Have a delightful gathering

GT-Omar · 03-24-2007, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jon Clark

Nope...

The host has the right to invite who ever he chooses and anyone who bitches about it is just sad they are not on the list...

I completely AGREE!! I didn't ask to go (nor am I asking by this comment) If a host is throwing a party, paying for drinks, entertainment (however large or small) it is that host's exclusive right to allow whom ever they want!

SleazyDream · 03-24-2007, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by jayeff

You are so utterly lacking in the least semblance of class, it is a relief to be spared the embarassment of appearing on one of your guest lists.

Put that comment down to whatever you like, I really don't care...

ok, who are you?

starpimps · 03-24-2007, 08:58 PM

the host has the right to shit on any unwanted guests

SleazyDream · 03-24-2007, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by iamkathi

When the folks that complain want to plan and pay for an awesome party... then they can invite whomever they want to attend and talk about where ever they want.

In the mean time...

Don't hate the player...hate the game.

Have a delightful gathering

we'll try - will be hard without you though

tony286 · 03-24-2007, 09:02 PM

I think its the hosts right to invite anyone they want but doing a few threads about it, which is like blah blah im better than you isnt necessary and Sleazy knows better he is a smart guy.

Pete-KT · 03-24-2007, 10:27 PM

make it however you want sleazy;) see u in phoenix

BlingDaddy · 03-24-2007, 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Screaming

translation:

Yet again I am throwing this private party into everyones face in attempts to make myself feel better.

SleazyDream · 03-25-2007, 12:30 AM

na na ne na na

GT-Omar · 03-25-2007, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

na na ne na na

lol

Steve Awesome · 03-25-2007, 12:33 AM

I can't believe this is even an issue. I would of course love to attend, but I'd like to at least show that I'm worthy and not some hanger on loser (like I probably am right now, heh).

SleazyDream · 03-25-2007, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Steve Awesome

I can't believe this is even an issue. I would of course love to attend, but I'd like to at least show that I'm worthy and not some hanger on loser (like I probably am right now, heh).

that's a decent response from an intelligent person. You wouldn't believe how many haters come after me expecting me to pay their way and open the doors for them. they they use excuses to try and hide the obvious like it's rude to post this or rub it in people's faces.

when i couldn't get into the higher end events I was happy to at least have a clue they existed and what was going on. Gave me something to strive for.

soooo many morons want it handed to them. those people arn't worth my spit - they won't go anywhere.

swampthing · 03-25-2007, 12:45 AM

I have no desire to lick sleazydreams tiny fatboy balls.

swampthing · 03-25-2007, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

that's a decent response from an intelligent person. You wouldn't believe how many haters come after me expecting me to pay their way and open the doors for them. they they use excuses to try and hide the obvious like it's rude to post this or rub it in people's faces.

when i couldn't get into the higher end events I was happy to at least have a clue they existed and what was going on. Gave me something to strive for.

soooo many morons want it handed to them. those people arn't worth my spit - they won't go anywhere.

your an idiot

SleazyDream · 03-25-2007, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by swampthing

I have no desire to lick sleazydreams tiny fatboy balls.

Tiny SALTY fatboy balls , THANK YOU

d00t · 03-25-2007, 03:27 AM

if you don't make the party public then nobody can complain about not being invited ;)

03-24-2007, 01:12 PM	#1
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	Should EVERY party be open to everyone? lots of people I don't know have been giving me heck about not allowing everyone to come to my event. fuck you. it's invite only. Period. We intensionally keep it small and with interesting guests cause most of you arn't worth our time. __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.

03-24-2007, 01:15 PM	#2
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03-24-2007, 01:20 PM	#4
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03-24-2007, 01:21 PM	#5
Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE North Coast Pimp Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: 304-534-757 Posts: 9,395	Nope... The host has the right to invite who ever he chooses and anyone who bitches about it is just sad they are not on the list...

03-24-2007, 01:23 PM	#8
RawAlex So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: In a house. Posts: 9,465	It's your party and you can do what you like. I think invite only works really well for smaller, intimate gatherings (say 100 or less). When you start getting into larger events (with space, say, for 25% of all attendees) you start to have problems of exclusion. The funniest ones are companies that have "invite only" parties, but print up about 20 times more invites than there is space inside the event. The only people who actually get in are the ones with true "VIP" access cards. Second funniest? The ones that put "VIP" on every pass... and then only let in the people with "GOLD" cards or whatever. If you want to have a public event but limit access, those are the best ways to do it.

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MaDalton I am Amazing Content! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 39,828	you pay - you make the rules but i really would like to experience one day how it is to have a lot of traffic so that everyone crawls up my ass it's tough being on the wrong end of the food chain sometimes __________________ AmazingContent.com - providing only the best content and service since 2003 Monetize your content on Veegaz.com - one of Germanies largest VOD sites Got German traffic? We convert it into money for you! Skype: madalton02826 - Email: oltecconsult [at] gmail [dot] com

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JamesK2 Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 6,589	I agree with you, you make the party, you make the rules. __________________

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Quotealex Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: The Global Digerati Village Posts: 6,265	I don't really understand why you don't keep your private party private! Why the need to announce it publicly that you're having a private party!

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seeric .......... Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: .......... Posts: 41,917	i have a rule from the nightclub biz and is one of the things i live by whoever puts up the loot for the gig = who makes the list for entry. are you really getting people that are getting pissed because they didn't get invited to a private invite only party? wow.

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Halcyon Spread The Pink! Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: TrampStampStudios.com Posts: 8,609	http://prehensile.com/tales/partycop/partycop.jpg I strongly believe in cultivating a party vibe like you would tend to a garden. An open party is like an open field. Dandelions may be beautiful flowers. But you have to weed them out if you're trying to grow roses. __________________ HAL on TEDx:

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tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	I think its the hosts right to invite anyone they want but doing a few threads about it, which is like blah blah im better than you isnt necessary and Sleazy knows better he is a smart guy.

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Pete-KT Workin With The Devil Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: West Bloomfield, MI Posts: 51,532	make it however you want sleazy;) see u in phoenix

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Steve Awesome Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Mid-West! Posts: 1,575	I can't believe this is even an issue. I would of course love to attend, but I'd like to at least show that I'm worthy and not some hanger on loser (like I probably am right now, heh). __________________ *The AbbieCash Porn Network. Billing processing by CCBILL. Join our affiliate program today*. RealDollSex \| AbbieTeen \| GamerChicks \| ModelTexans \| HottieCams Nintendo 3DS Porn Blog \| Steve's Adult Industry Blog \| Abbie Bueller's Porn Blog

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d00t Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: In your mind Posts: 3,766	if you don't make the party public then nobody can complain about not being invited ;)