Hey Bro's. Need some feed back. Chick I've been talking too...... - GoFuckYourself.com

Makaveli · 06-13-2008, 11:33 PM

Damn, some chick I've been seeing, chilling with, talking to for long hours with, getting to know, sleeping with etc etc all that stuff.. (When I say sleeping with I mean just some spooning and some making out) I mean, I really started liking this chick and I waited for the sex because she kept stopping when things started getting to that point.. Guess what she told me tonight? That she has herpes.

FUCK!

How would you proceed? Never been here.

tony286 · 06-13-2008, 11:34 PM

valtex and condoms?

Makaveli · 06-13-2008, 11:40 PM

She's a nice girl.. Been threw some shit and she's really confided in me.. I can't just dump her. I'm not that cold hearted, but I'm a bit freaked out. She did also tell me before we had sex.. I don't know.

Iron Fist · 06-13-2008, 11:41 PM

She can only give you a blowjob then dump her. Sorry.

DefaultMan · 06-13-2008, 11:46 PM

I would go the "just friends" route. Herpes are forever

Makaveli · 06-13-2008, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DefaultMan

I would go the "just friends" route. Herpes are forever

Yea but how long do I have to stay "friends" with her? KNow what I mean?

st0ned · 06-14-2008, 01:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DefaultMan

I would go the "just friends" route. Herpes are forever

After Shock Media · 06-14-2008, 01:30 AM

Roughly 1/4 or is it 1/5 has it. So think of it this way if you have already been with more than 5 odds start to dictate you have plunged that pool before.

Seems like you liked her way more than a pump and dump so wtf is wrong with playing it safe and trying out the relationship you already were after.

d-null · 06-14-2008, 01:38 AM

wow, almost this exact thing happened to me a bunch of years ago, I couldn't get past it and avoided seeing her again after she told me, now thinking back I kind of wish I hadn't been so paranoid, she was a really cool girl and the fact that she told me so soon upfront was a testament to her honesty, but I was young and couldn't get past it, so I blew her off...... apparently it is only contagious when flare ups but I don't really know enough about it to say for sure

Scott McD · 06-14-2008, 01:43 AM

Does she suck a mean cock ??

potter · 06-14-2008, 04:06 AM

damn you've already kissed her? hope she doesn't have it in her mouth and you got it now. that shit looks nasty

ONIONS! · 06-14-2008, 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media

Roughly 1/4 or is it 1/5 has it.

Sounds like we have a big fat herpes victim here. Good luck with those stats herpe dude!

Makaveli, just tell her you made a mistake and you can't see her anymore.

Infections (like herpes) are not a quality that the hot girls go for. Just ask After Shock.

k0nr4d · 06-14-2008, 04:31 AM

VeriSexy · 06-14-2008, 04:34 AM

Consider yourself lucky she told you.. oh and get yourself checked just incase.

After Shock Media · 06-14-2008, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ONIONS!

Sounds like we have a big fat herpes victim here. Good luck with those stats herpe dude!
Makaveli, just tell her you made a mistake and you can't see her anymore.
Infections (like herpes) are not a quality that the hot girls go for. Just ask After Shock.

Damn already banned.

So anyone who's fake nick was it this time? By the type I am guessing someone that wants to broker the sale of sexy L domain.

Spunky · 06-14-2008, 07:28 PM

Drop her..plenty of clean fish out there

MediaGuy · 06-14-2008, 07:57 PM

You didn't mention you feel about her...

:D

baddog · 06-14-2008, 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Makaveli

Yea but how long do I have to stay "friends" with her? KNow what I mean?

If you were just being friends so you could fuck her later, DTB, now.

If you were being friends to be friends (doubtful) this wouldn't be a question.

And you can be real sweet about it too, since you are so worried about appearances. Just say, "honey, I was looking for a long term relationship, with possible children in the future. Herpes is a deal killer in this scenario."

baddog · 06-14-2008, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jetjet

apparently it is only contagious when flare ups

Don't think so.

payd2purv · 06-14-2008, 08:08 PM

See now in our day when a girl turns us down for sex we have to ask WHY not.. "oh she's not ready" or "oh she doesn't like me" NO.. its "what fuckin std does she have?"

MediaGuy · 06-14-2008, 08:12 PM

No, but, how you feel about her here matters a lot...

JamesK · 06-14-2008, 08:35 PM

Go for it. Fuck her hard. All the cool guys have herpes nowadays.

PlugRush Sascha · 06-14-2008, 08:36 PM

Get a full body latex suit.

GrouchyAdmin · 06-14-2008, 08:36 PM

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minddust · 06-14-2008, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JamesK

Go for it. Fuck her hard. All the cool guys have herpes nowadays.

Yeah, eat her lunch

poto · 06-14-2008, 08:49 PM

run like hell...

opulence · 06-14-2008, 08:50 PM

The problem with herpes is that a condom provides even less protection for this disease than it does for others.... as it's a disease that is transmitted through skin to skin contact.

And while flare ups can sometimes occur very rarely (once a year or less) there is a 7 or so day 'incubation period' that you can still contract herpes, without visibly being able to see them. Otherwise, you can only contract herpes during the flareup, which occurs 7 or so days after the incubation period.

Also keep in mind that herpes can be contracted and can inflame not only around a vagina and on a penis, but also around the anus, nutsack, inner thigh AND mouth.

It was valiant of her to let you know about it quickly before anything got too serious, but it's now probably in your best interest to end things... While sex with anyone means a 1 in 4/5 chance of them having herpes, it's still a hell of a lot better odds of not getting them than a for sure 100% chance of them having herpes.

Also, don't ask 'what should I do?' 'how long should I wait?' 'what lie do I tell her?' to make her feel better or something. What are you? a fucking girl? That's what girls do. Just do what YOU think is right and honest.

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 06-14-2008, 08:56 PM

Well if ya stick yer dick in it, will it be worth it?

I mean how hot is she? It might be worth it.

jakethedog · 06-14-2008, 08:57 PM

Dude .. she actually told you because she is at that trust point with you .. and wanting to go further with the relationship .. Herpes albeit are forever .. there certainly not the end of life .. Valtrex and condoms .. and your safer than getting her pregnant .. just take some time to check her out down stairs and be honest with her cause she's been honest with you .. and I am sure you guys can work out some kind of cute code word for when she has an out break .. stress is a primo reason to bring on an out break .. and no i don't personally have it .. I was a performer for 10 years and have std tests every month ..first Tuesday of the month ..and I have tons of dealing with models and friends with the herps and they are awesome .. doesn't change who you are as a person ..

GrouchyAdmin · 06-14-2008, 09:02 PM

It amazes me how many "Adult Webmasters" here are telling him to give her a shot because she's honest. This is GFY, not fucking Dr. Laura.

jakethedog · 06-14-2008, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GrouchyAdmin

It amazes me how many "Adult Webmasters" here are telling him to give her a shot because she's honest. This is GFY, not fucking Dr. Laura.

come on .. it's gonna be a great thread when he comes back in 2 months and screams blue bloody murder that it's all our faults, and he has the herps from some girl who bull shitted him and turned out that she was escorting bareback for drugs and the pure enjoyment of the sex with fat greasy truck drivers ..

poto · 06-14-2008, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by jakethedog

come on .. it's gonna be a great thread when he comes back in 2 months and screams blue bloody murder that it's all our faults, and he has the herps from some girl who bull shitted him and turned out that she was escorting bareback for drugs and the pure enjoyment of the sex with fat greasy truck drivers ..

c'mon... it would be an even greater thread if he came back in 2 months and screams bloody murder cuz the condom broke and he got the herpes from this chick...

GrouchyAdmin · 06-14-2008, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jakethedog

come on .. it's gonna be a great thread when he comes back in 2 months and screams blue bloody murder that it's all our faults, and he has the herps from some girl who bull shitted him and turned out that she was escorting bareback for drugs and the pure enjoyment of the sex with fat greasy truck drivers ..

So, she's.. schmoozing with the rest of the board while sleeping with him? Creepy.

lazycash · 06-14-2008, 09:32 PM

My advice would be to just continue seeing her as a friend and if she's interested in going further then refer her to Dank for sex.

snaker · 06-14-2008, 10:34 PM

Really it depends on if she is shedding or not. You would want to avoid sex during a break out. Unless she has a raging case of the herps you should be ok. your immune system may react differently to the virus but the majority of people with herps show no signs at all.

WHat it boils down to is its just a minor skin irritation, but the stigma is the real problem for most people who have it. Me personally I wouldnt date a girl with the herps, but the fact that she told ya says a lot about the girl.

Makaveli · 06-15-2008, 12:52 AM

Hey guys, I'm glad I got some good feed back from ya... It's a tough decision, but I'm going to let her down slowly. I can't deal with it. I don't want no bumps on my dick. Just too risky. It fucking sucks because she's my type of gal and she's really sweet too.. Fuck, things haven't been going my way lately..

JamesK · 06-15-2008, 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Makaveli

I don't want no bumps on my dick.

It's not on your dick. It's mostly the places where your pubic hair grows.

Vick! · 06-15-2008, 02:40 PM

make sure you know this:

Quote:

How do you get Herpes?

Herpes is spread by direct skin to skin contact. Unlike a flu virus that you can get through the air, herpes spreads by direct contact, that is, directly from the site of infection to the site of contact. For example, if you have a cold sore and kiss someone, you can transfer the virus to their mouth. Similarly, if you have active genital herpes and have vaginal or anal intercourse, you can give your partner genital herpes. Finally, if you have a cold sore and put your mouth on your partners genitals (oral sex), you can give your partner genital herpes.

http://www.herpes.com/Transmission.shtml

I'd say avoid fucking skin contact. World is full of chicks like her, cute, honest blah blah .. stop wasting time and find a better fuck.

bushwacker · 06-15-2008, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lazycash

My advice would be to just continue seeing her as a friend and if she's interested in going further then refer her to Dank for sex.

LMAO!!

jcsike · 06-15-2008, 03:11 PM

the reality is that that shit happens a few times, sometimes a year or more apart, and then goes away

from my own experience wiht cold sores around the mouth and i had a friend that was freaked out about getting it like 8 years ago, when we were roomates, it happened 2x, then never again

and that makes sense when you see the stats are like 1/4 girls *officially* have genital herpes

06-13-2008, 11:33 PM	#1
Makaveli Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 1,027	Hey Bro's. Need some feed back. Chick I've been talking too...... Damn, some chick I've been seeing, chilling with, talking to for long hours with, getting to know, sleeping with etc etc all that stuff.. (When I say sleeping with I mean just some spooning and some making out) I mean, I really started liking this chick and I waited for the sex because she kept stopping when things started getting to that point.. Guess what she told me tonight? That she has herpes. FUCK! How would you proceed? Never been here.

06-13-2008, 11:41 PM	#4
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06-14-2008, 01:30 AM	#8
After Shock Media It's coming look busy Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: "Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn". Posts: 35,299	Roughly 1/4 or is it 1/5 has it. So think of it this way if you have already been with more than 5 odds start to dictate you have plunged that pool before. Seems like you liked her way more than a pump and dump so wtf is wrong with playing it safe and trying out the relationship you already were after. __________________ [email protected] ICQ:135982156 AIM: Aftershockmed1a MSN: [email protected]

06-14-2008, 01:38 AM	#9
d-null . . . Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NY Posts: 13,724	wow, almost this exact thing happened to me a bunch of years ago, I couldn't get past it and avoided seeing her again after she told me, now thinking back I kind of wish I hadn't been so paranoid, she was a really cool girl and the fact that she told me so soon upfront was a testament to her honesty, but I was young and couldn't get past it, so I blew her off...... apparently it is only contagious when flare ups but I don't really know enough about it to say for sure __________________ __________________ Looking for a custom TUBE SCRIPT that supports massive traffic, load balancing, billing support, and h264 encoding? Hit up Konrad! Looking for designs for your websites or custom tubesite design? Hit up Zuzana Designs Check out the #1 WordPress SEO Plugin: CyberSEO Suite

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Makaveli Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 1,027	She's a nice girl.. Been threw some shit and she's really confided in me.. I can't just dump her. I'm not that cold hearted, but I'm a bit freaked out. She did also tell me before we had sex.. I don't know.

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06-14-2008, 08:50 PM	#27
opulence Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 273	The problem with herpes is that a condom provides even less protection for this disease than it does for others.... as it's a disease that is transmitted through skin to skin contact. And while flare ups can sometimes occur very rarely (once a year or less) there is a 7 or so day 'incubation period' that you can still contract herpes, without visibly being able to see them. Otherwise, you can only contract herpes during the flareup, which occurs 7 or so days after the incubation period. Also keep in mind that herpes can be contracted and can inflame not only around a vagina and on a penis, but also around the anus, nutsack, inner thigh AND mouth. It was valiant of her to let you know about it quickly before anything got too serious, but it's now probably in your best interest to end things... While sex with anyone means a 1 in 4/5 chance of them having herpes, it's still a hell of a lot better odds of not getting them than a for sure 100% chance of them having herpes. Also, don't ask 'what should I do?' 'how long should I wait?' 'what lie do I tell her?' to make her feel better or something. What are you? a fucking girl? That's what girls do. Just do what YOU think is right and honest.

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06-14-2008, 08:57 PM	#29
jakethedog Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Vancouver B.C. Posts: 2,497	Dude .. she actually told you because she is at that trust point with you .. and wanting to go further with the relationship .. Herpes albeit are forever .. there certainly not the end of life .. Valtrex and condoms .. and your safer than getting her pregnant .. just take some time to check her out down stairs and be honest with her cause she's been honest with you .. and I am sure you guys can work out some kind of cute code word for when she has an out break .. stress is a primo reason to bring on an out break .. and no i don't personally have it .. I was a performer for 10 years and have std tests every month ..first Tuesday of the month ..and I have tons of dealing with models and friends with the herps and they are awesome .. doesn't change who you are as a person .. __________________ No sig .. just me

06-14-2008, 09:02 PM	#30
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06-14-2008, 09:32 PM	#34
lazycash Troll Patrol Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Local Socal Posts: 15,214	My advice would be to just continue seeing her as a friend and if she's interested in going further then refer her to Dank for sex.

06-14-2008, 10:34 PM	#35
snaker Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1,281	Really it depends on if she is shedding or not. You would want to avoid sex during a break out. Unless she has a raging case of the herps you should be ok. your immune system may react differently to the virus but the majority of people with herps show no signs at all. WHat it boils down to is its just a minor skin irritation, but the stigma is the real problem for most people who have it. Me personally I wouldnt date a girl with the herps, but the fact that she told ya says a lot about the girl. __________________ My Best Sponsors: Naughty Revenue \| Get Score Cash \| Thick Cash

06-15-2008, 12:52 AM	#36
Makaveli Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 1,027	Hey guys, I'm glad I got some good feed back from ya... It's a tough decision, but I'm going to let her down slowly. I can't deal with it. I don't want no bumps on my dick. Just too risky. It fucking sucks because she's my type of gal and she's really sweet too.. Fuck, things haven't been going my way lately..

06-15-2008, 03:11 PM	#40
jcsike Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 689	the reality is that that shit happens a few times, sometimes a year or more apart, and then goes away from my own experience wiht cold sores around the mouth and i had a friend that was freaked out about getting it like 8 years ago, when we were roomates, it happened 2x, then never again and that makes sense when you see the stats are like 1/4 girls officially have genital herpes __________________