Hi GFY, I need your help on a forum member possibly trying to rip me off. - GoFuckYourself.com

NetHorse · 04-17-2009, 05:27 AM

Hey everyone..

Here is the story.

I sent money to a board member on here back in early February for some content. He has a good reputation so I've been very patient. He also owns a site which he's sent the first video and model records from.

Back in February, he agreed to create some videos for me. 3 days after we spoke he had already created and sent me the first video, and asked for payment up-front for that video and the remaining videos. At that time he told me the videos would take a week to complete. Well after I sent him the money he started to disappear for weeks at a time.

He logs on to ICQ and GFY everyday yet ignores my emails for weeks at a time and sends me a short email stating his "cable was broken", his computer got formatted, he's sick, he will finish the videos in a couple days, etc.

Anyways, his domain is registered through Enom and I was able to get all his information. I also have his SMS and other information.

My question is, how long would you guys wait until you call this guy out on a bunch of public forums to get what was promised? What are the rules on posting all his personal information? At the rate he's responding I have a feeling he doesn't intend to ever complete the videos.

Thanks in advance/

Jdoughs · 04-17-2009, 05:31 AM

You can't post his personal information but you can post his whois info.

If he's ignoring and doing nothing but feed you excuses, he's ripped you off already and has little or no intent on paying it back.

HorseShit · 04-17-2009, 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Jdoughs

You can't post his personal information but you can post his whois info.

If he's ignoring and doing nothing but feed you excuses, he's ripped you off already and has little or no intent on paying it back.

yup, just out him, I'm sure I know who it is anyway

CaptainHowdy · 04-17-2009, 05:39 AM

Spill the beans...

NetHorse · 04-17-2009, 05:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jdoughs

You can't post his personal information but you can post his whois info.

If he's ignoring and doing nothing but feed you excuses, he's ripped you off already and has little or no intent on paying it back.

Thanks for your reply.

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Originally Posted by Justin

yup, just out him, I'm sure I know who it is anyway

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

Spill the beans...

I'll give him one more week, then I'll out him in a separate thread.

Did I mention I will never pay for content upfront again?

RobertD · 04-17-2009, 05:52 AM

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Originally Posted by NetHorse

Well after I sent him the money he started to disappear for weeks at a time. He logs on to ICQ and GFY everyday yet ignores my emails for weeks at a time and sends me a short email stating his "cable was broken", his computer got formatted, he's sick, he will finish the videos in a couple days, etc.

At the rate he's responding I have a feeling he doesn't intend to ever complete the videos.

What difference do you expect another week to make?

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nosey · 04-17-2009, 05:53 AM

th@ sux, gl man

NetHorse · 04-17-2009, 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by RobertD

What difference do you expect another week to make?

.

Probably nothing, I will send him this thread and give him one last chance to refund me the money or finish the videos.

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Originally Posted by nosey

th@ sux, gl man

Thanks..

Kron · 04-17-2009, 06:01 AM

try to call him out in public, that approach fix few my problems in past

Manowar · 04-17-2009, 06:02 AM

Yeah i'd recommend a new thread about it

~Ray · 04-17-2009, 06:10 AM

this thread does not deliver

gandalfuy · 04-17-2009, 06:21 AM

let us know who he is!

the.drunk · 04-17-2009, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by AdvertisingSex

this thread does not deliver

Barefootsies · 04-17-2009, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by AdvertisingSex

this thread does not deliver

MetaMan · 04-17-2009, 10:00 AM

typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.

lazycash · 04-17-2009, 10:04 AM

Geez, just tell us his gfy nick and we'll tell you if you're ever gonna get the content. I can assure you that if he's doing this to you he's done it to other people here also.

polish_aristocrat · 04-17-2009, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.

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romeo22 · 04-17-2009, 10:07 AM

Good luck buddy!!

MetaMan · 04-17-2009, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

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tough economic times!

Tjeezers · 04-17-2009, 11:17 AM

fuck the rules
spill all the info, and see what happens
Anyone who supports privacy of a thief, raise your hand

goldflower · 04-17-2009, 11:17 AM

For FIRST next time if you will be need some content than contact with me !!

sortie · 04-17-2009, 11:49 AM

You got scammed.

Your payment went to the drug dealer so no money to do the shoot.

Ozarkz · 04-17-2009, 11:51 AM

Pretty good chance after this amount of time and the fact he still goes on ICQ and GFY.

You will never see your money or vids.

Outting him will just save someone else from making the same mistake. You wait a week and it just gives him a chance to rip off more people before you out him.

But I doubt he will EVER pay you back.

Iron Mike · 04-17-2009, 01:06 PM

funny name you have

Deej · 04-17-2009, 01:10 PM

Just tell us who already!!! Waiting a week from now is only hurting you and others here...

AaronM · 04-17-2009, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by NetHorse

My question is, how long would you guys wait until you call this guy out on a bunch of public forums to get what was promised?

March 1st.

You're late. Shoulda hired me.

collegeboobies · 04-17-2009, 01:19 PM

well thats shitty

CurrentlySober · 04-17-2009, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by RobertD

What difference do you expect another week to make?

.

Exactly...

Although it IS a 'Jerry Springer' bit of advice, let me give it to you anyway...

People will ONLY TREAT YOU... How you ALLOW them to TREAT YOU...

Believe me... Thats so true, it almost fucking hurts...

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.

See quote above...

rowan · 04-17-2009, 01:36 PM

If he ends up delivering then you STILL need to out him, so some other poor schmuck doesn't get scammed...

FilthyRob · 04-17-2009, 01:44 PM

Good luck. I could have outted someone for never paying me from their affiliate program, but never did. Didn't want to start anything, but wish I would have a little.

lazycash · 04-17-2009, 03:04 PM

As naive as you sounded in the "Soloconverts" thread, its no wonder you got taken.

Mutt · 04-17-2009, 03:17 PM

what is this crap about 'outing' somebody - if somebody has ripped you off or isn't delivering products/services you paid for in part or in whole you are an idiot for not bringing it to GFY - why would you worry about somebody's reputation or feelings after treating you like shit or ripping you off?

only time i wouldn't do it is if the person is well liked in the industry and you don't have great evidence that you can back up your claims with.

omygosh · 04-17-2009, 04:56 PM

How long does it typically take to get content shot? (wondering how long is too long to wait, im almost getting to the point that I think im in the same boat lol)

Grapesoda · 04-17-2009, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by NetHorse

Thanks for your reply.

I'll give him one more week, then I'll out him in a separate thread.

Did I mention I will never pay for content upfront again?

buy from reputable content producers like me and you won't have any issues. and you must pay some up front, enough to cover model fees after we've done business for a bit until then you must pay all up front.

had to start that after losing 17.5K one year to a client and the slow pay of other clients. -bmb

Grapesoda · 04-17-2009, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by omygosh

How long does it typically take to get content shot? (wondering how long is too long to wait, im almost getting to the point that I think im in the same boat lol)

I say in contact with my clients letting them know the progress of the productions. there is a pretty standard 40% shoot failure on custom content so I need to stay in contact to apprise the clients of any changes. usually within 2-3 weeks from order to delivery in most cases.

it's always best to select a handful of talent to choose from and let then me do what I can to shoot them.... when you say "I want this model with that model" it could take months if ever to get a shoot done.

rowan · 04-17-2009, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mutt

what is this crap about 'outing' somebody - if somebody has ripped you off or isn't delivering products/services you paid for in part or in whole you are an idiot for not bringing it to GFY - why would you worry about somebody's reputation or feelings after treating you like shit or ripping you off?

He'd probably prefer to have the content delivered, rather than a 7 page calling out thread and the payment written off as unrecoverable...

That's probably how a lot of scammers are able to ride so long, they keep alive a small hope that the victim may eventually get what they've paid for.

Like I said, even if this guy ponies up and delivers, you still need to out him.

Spunky · 04-17-2009, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by lazycash

Geez, just tell us his gfy nick and we'll tell you if you're ever gonna get the content. I can assure you that if he's doing this to you he's done it to other people here also.

Like you know everything about everybody..you = tool

»Rob Content« · 04-17-2009, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Kron

try to call him out in public, that approach fix few my problems in past

it has??

the Shemp · 04-18-2009, 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NetHorse

I'll give him one more week, then I'll out him in a separate thread.

04-17-2009, 05:27 AM	#1
NetHorse Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,526	Hi GFY, I need your help on a forum member possibly trying to rip me off. Hey everyone.. Here is the story. I sent money to a board member on here back in early February for some content. He has a good reputation so I've been very patient. He also owns a site which he's sent the first video and model records from. Back in February, he agreed to create some videos for me. 3 days after we spoke he had already created and sent me the first video, and asked for payment up-front for that video and the remaining videos. At that time he told me the videos would take a week to complete. Well after I sent him the money he started to disappear for weeks at a time. He logs on to ICQ and GFY everyday yet ignores my emails for weeks at a time and sends me a short email stating his "cable was broken", his computer got formatted, he's sick, he will finish the videos in a couple days, etc. Anyways, his domain is registered through Enom and I was able to get all his information. I also have his SMS and other information. My question is, how long would you guys wait until you call this guy out on a bunch of public forums to get what was promised? What are the rules on posting all his personal information? At the rate he's responding I have a feeling he doesn't intend to ever complete the videos. Thanks in advance/ __________________ ┌∩┐(◣_◢)┌∩┐ ICQ # 427013273

04-17-2009, 05:31 AM	#2
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04-17-2009, 05:39 AM	#4
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04-17-2009, 10:00 AM	#15
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	typical idiot asks for advice then ends up not using any of it.

04-17-2009, 10:04 AM	#16
lazycash Troll Patrol Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Local Socal Posts: 15,214	Geez, just tell us his gfy nick and we'll tell you if you're ever gonna get the content. I can assure you that if he's doing this to you he's done it to other people here also. __________________ "WTF, on google you can find the answer to every question in human history, EXCEPT how to convert cams.. Its crazy..." VenusBlogger

04-17-2009, 10:07 AM	#18
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04-17-2009, 11:17 AM	#20
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04-17-2009, 11:49 AM	#22
sortie Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 7,771	You got scammed. Your payment went to the drug dealer so no money to do the shoot. __________________

04-17-2009, 11:51 AM	#23
Ozarkz So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 2,377	Pretty good chance after this amount of time and the fact he still goes on ICQ and GFY. You will never see your money or vids. Outting him will just save someone else from making the same mistake. You wait a week and it just gives him a chance to rip off more people before you out him. But I doubt he will EVER pay you back.

04-17-2009, 01:06 PM	#24
Iron Mike Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 460	funny name you have

04-17-2009, 01:10 PM	#25
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04-17-2009, 01:19 PM	#27
collegeboobies So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 3,644	well thats shitty

04-17-2009, 01:36 PM	#29
rowan Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 17,393	If he ends up delivering then you STILL need to out him, so some other poor schmuck doesn't get scammed...

04-17-2009, 01:44 PM	#30
FilthyRob Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Anaheim - CA Posts: 6,741	Good luck. I could have outted someone for never paying me from their affiliate program, but never did. Didn't want to start anything, but wish I would have a little. __________________ AKA - Clubsexy

04-17-2009, 03:04 PM	#31
lazycash Troll Patrol Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Local Socal Posts: 15,214	As naive as you sounded in the "Soloconverts" thread, its no wonder you got taken. __________________ "WTF, on google you can find the answer to every question in human history, EXCEPT how to convert cams.. Its crazy..." VenusBlogger

04-17-2009, 03:17 PM	#32
Mutt Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 34,431	what is this crap about 'outing' somebody - if somebody has ripped you off or isn't delivering products/services you paid for in part or in whole you are an idiot for not bringing it to GFY - why would you worry about somebody's reputation or feelings after treating you like shit or ripping you off? only time i wouldn't do it is if the person is well liked in the industry and you don't have great evidence that you can back up your claims with. __________________ I moved my sites to Vacares Hosting. I've saved money, my hair is thicker, lost some weight too! Thanks Sly!

04-17-2009, 04:56 PM	#33
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