Why do friends turn into pussy-whipped bitch boys when they get in a relationship? - GoFuckYourself.com

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 07:14 PM

It's so irritating to watch,

and this doesn't happen to all guys.. just the weak ones.

As soon as a chick expresses any kind of interests, the guy turns into the biggest pussy-whipped awful little "yes maim" creature that stalks the earth.. catering to her every ridiculous need. He's her little bitch rag from the start of the day to the finish, only leaving to go to work in which he hands over his paycheck every week basically, via giving her cash, paying the bills, and buying everything they both* need. When she doesn't even work, or do anything around the house.

I guess it's all good when your in love and the chick is a good person, but when the chick is just using you to pay her bills and take care of her every spoiled need it's just disgusting and horrible to watch him fuck all his friends over for her. He's not even his real self around her, just puts on a front so much that he begins to buy into his own bullshit and acting like that's really him. When they admit themselves when they are in a relationship they turn into pussy-whipped jello fags with no balls, but they can't admit their pussy-whipped for the life of them while they are in it.

I've had several friends that turn into these awful people once they get into a relationship, it's just weird seeing the paradox I guess.. but sad too.

Some guys just want to be lorded over I guess, those families where the mom wears the pants and the dad is the bitch boy.

I'm all for having a good relationship, but when it completely changes your character, personality, morals, and turns you into a bitter unhappy BROKE bitch boy it seems counter-productive. These are the types of girls that would poke holes in the condoms so they can get pregnant so he takes care of them.

What bothers me about the whole deal is when people lie to themselves, pisses me off to no end.. kind of like those people with ego's who can't ever admit their wrong.

It's like, if your going to be a limp-wristed bitch boy who gets bossed around, used for your money, basically a glorified errand boy who foots the bill.. then atleast try to admit it and be honest about it.. don't make up dumb non-relevant shit and pretend it's not your girlfriend who's behind it.

Sorry for the rant, but it really pisses me off when a good friend and a good person who was doing good for themselves turns into a pussy-whipped bitch boy who you can't stand talking to and now is an unhappy pissed off prick with a miserable life who's treading water and wasting valuable years of his life just for some pussy.

As soon as they started dating I should have been like, good for you guy... give me a shout when ya'll break up. If not, good luck to you and have a happy life but don't spread any of your poisonous diseased garbage of the mouth over here until your done.

This has happened to about 3-4 life long friends of mine, and it's totally a fag subject but it just pisses me off so bad I want to crack the weak minded fucker in his dumb naive head. Poor bastard.

Iron Fist · 06-21-2009, 07:16 PM

Maybe because your no longer the most important person in their life? Things change.... adapt or die.

cherrylula · 06-21-2009, 07:22 PM

gosh you sound really hurt, someone bust out the violin...

Spunky · 06-21-2009, 07:25 PM

The puissy is a very powerful thing..some say it's lined with gold

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by cherrylula

gosh you sound really hurt, someone bust out the violin...

I knew responses like this would be triggered,

still funny none the less.

I guess I am whining a bit, but only cause it pisses me off like nothing else.. it's not about hurt feelings or getting to chill with the guy or anything.. it's just about turning into an awful awful fucking bitch boy and lying to yourself about it like everything is ok.

My curiosity was more along the lines of why they instantly lose their self respect?

jmcb420 · 06-21-2009, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

The puissy is a very powerful thing..some say it's lined with gold

I was just about to say, pussy is great shit. Some guys think that the pussy they have now will be the last one they'll ever come into contact with. Thats why they turn into doormats.

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by jmcb420

I was just about to say, pussy is great shit. Some guys think that the pussy they have now will be the last one they'll ever come into contact with. Thats why they turn into doormats.

Well said.

burntfilm · 06-21-2009, 07:38 PM

In my experience there's usually one girl who gets you with that nonsense, maybe when you're in high school or something, then after that you recognize the behavior and it never happens again. So hopefully you're friends are only 14...

Sly · 06-21-2009, 07:41 PM

These friends you speak of... first-time offense or repeating situation?

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by burntfilm

In my experience there's usually one girl who gets you with that nonsense, maybe when you're in high school or something, then after that you recognize the behavior and it never happens again. So hopefully you're friends are only 14...

That should be right, but sadly it's not.

I certainly had a relationship like that when I was a teenager, and your right.. that was the only one and I learned my lesson well.

Unfortunately some people don't learn, my sister even treats her husband like this so I know it happens to adults too sadly. It's awful shit.

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

These friends you speak of... first-time offense or repeating situation?

Repeat, Rinse, Repeat, Rinse, Repeat.

This is the 4th time,

he has literally wasted years before self-admittedly.. I guess he is just a glutton for punishment.

It would be ok if he could actually get ahead in life while maintaining a relationship.. but sadly he can barely tread water while doing so. His savings instantly go bye bye along with his progress.

Honestly, I think he's destined to become a bitch boy because he's so insecure he doesn't realize he can get other women. That and his dad is one.

His dad is a major bitch boy, and get's bossed around by his wife. I don't think he's been happy in 30 years or so. He barely even talks anymore, never cracks a smile.. lives to work and fulfill her needs.

Barefootsies · 06-21-2009, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by sharphead

Maybe because your no longer the most important person in their life? Things change.... adapt or die.

EscortBiz · 06-21-2009, 08:28 PM

very common at all ages, its sad because they take normal sane men and destroy them beyond repair

deserv · 06-21-2009, 08:30 PM

O My God, I laughed when seeing this thread! I have seen it happen to a friend of mine and god-damn It pisses me off as well :')

Luckily , I have a girlfriend who hates that shit as well and wants me to spend time with my friends too

jmcb420 · 06-21-2009, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by EscortBiz

very common at all ages, its sad because they take normal sane men and destroy them beyond repair

you were married too?

NickB. · 06-21-2009, 08:31 PM

yeah had it happen to a friend of mine as well... the chick is a dirty uugly slut as well... he stopped contact with all his friends...

sad sad guy

Supz · 06-21-2009, 08:39 PM

The power of the P.U.S.S.Y.

MetaMan · 06-21-2009, 08:46 PM

APPLAUSE this post is amazing.

look man it boils down to people are weak, alot of people havent been in a serious relationship way less people then you think then when they do its like they have never experienced it before and they think they have to be different to keep it.

they lose themselves and become a "couple" but not to people together but 1 personality with 2 people together. it is really sickening.

people these days especially are extremely desperate and in need of someone with them to make themselves feel complete because they are weak alone.

dont worry about it they always end up in divorce or whatever.

frankie_gunn · 06-21-2009, 08:55 PM

Usually these kind of guys can't make money. Simple as that!

And then they turn their face to the first whore that is willing to take them, and they think:"...oh well, forget the money, at least I have someone to love me..."

Bullshit !!!

Never get to think that money is not important. Money is the most important thing because money is FREEDOM (even from those whores we are talking about).

GAMEFINEST · 06-21-2009, 08:58 PM

I aint no bitch man, fuck that shit, oh hey honey .. hahaha

most of my friends are pussy whipped ...its sad

EscortBiz · 06-21-2009, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by frankie_gunn

Usually these kind of guys can't make money. Simple as that!

And then they turn their face to the first whore that is willing to take them, and they think:"...oh well, forget the money, at least I have someone to love me..."

Bullshit !!!

Never get to think that money is not important. Money is the most important thing because money is FREEDOM (even from those whores we are talking about).

as crazy as this sounds im convinced some peoples girls and wives dont want them to make money, mix between jealousy and insecurity if the guy does way to well

JD · 06-21-2009, 09:06 PM

start sucking your friends dick and you'll never lose them to chicks.

D Ghost · 06-21-2009, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by sharphead

Maybe because your no longer the most important person in their life? Things change.... adapt or die.

lmao

Socks · 06-21-2009, 09:43 PM

Just trying to help you get your man back.

shimmy2 · 06-21-2009, 09:58 PM

diomed what you speak applies to many guys who lack experience with women. we've all been there at some point in our lives, just many have not yet gotten over that hump. i'll freely admit i was a bitchmade nigga for getting married at 20 to a foreign chick who didn't work for 7 years and spent up all my rebills every month but thats another story in itself. i can go on about how the chick was all cool with porn (the $ aspect no doubt) when she first met me then totally flipped on the i'm a sick pervert shit when she ran the cash dry and the benzes got repoed. i guess you can attribute it a lot to age and inexperience. by the time you're 30 every man should have learnt his lesson but I still have many a peer who is whipped. i would def. not marry again and actually dont even 'date' per say now... i just chill with my lady friends whenever i feel like it

woj · 06-21-2009, 10:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sharphead

Maybe because your no longer the most important person in their life? Things change.... adapt or die.

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 10:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Socks

Just trying to help you get your man back.

Good stuff

Diomed · 06-21-2009, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by JD

start sucking your friends dick and you'll never lose them to chicks.

:slowly backs out of the room:

SCORE Ralph · 06-22-2009, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

The puissy is a very powerful thing..some say it's lined with gold

liquid gold!!!!

CaptainHowdy · 06-22-2009, 12:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JD

start sucking your friends dick and you'll never lose them to chicks.

...

JD · 06-22-2009, 12:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diomed

:slowly backs out of the room:

seeandsee · 06-22-2009, 12:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sharphead

Maybe because your no longer the most important person in their life? Things change.... adapt or die.

BradM · 06-22-2009, 12:11 PM

I was one of those guys. Luckily I now realize it and am getting out.

pornguy · 06-22-2009, 12:12 PM

Never happened to me. And I am married.

Cyndalie · 06-22-2009, 12:21 PM

The pussy whip wears off once they get married.

96ukssob · 06-22-2009, 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sharphead

Maybe because your no longer the most important person in their life? Things change.... adapt or die.

when i started to date my current gf, i had this kid that would always bug me to hang out with him. when i wasnt trying to score on some other girl, i would hang out with him if no one was around.

he was utterly annoying, but had some hot girls that he knew from work and wherever else, so it was worth it. i tried to invite him out with my gf, her friends and I, but they all disliked him, then i noticed he started to get a bit pyscho on me... calling me at 3am drunk crying asking why im not his friend anymore

Si · 06-22-2009, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by JD

start sucking your friends dick and you'll never lose them to chicks.

I don't think that would really be the best way to resolve that issue

AtlantisCash · 06-22-2009, 12:38 PM

sad story, but similar thread made before here, probably by Pr0 i might be wrong though

Good Luck for recovery of Your Buddy.

rowan · 06-22-2009, 12:40 PM

I had a friend who split with his long term g/f and started inviting "the boys" over every saturday... we had a lot of fun, seeing each other regularly each week, which was great because we didn't always get to see too much of each other. Then a few months months later I walk in the door and her cat is there, hmmm, then I realise so is she. That was the last saturday we all got together. The informal invites suddenly stopped.

They ended up married. I don't think she's using him but she's definitely the one wearing the pants.

cess · 06-22-2009, 12:40 PM

Because quite a few people are stupid and crazy. I remember when getting my health insurance that mental problems were only covered to 3k for your entire life. It's a big insurance company too. That just shows there's a ton of wacked out people...

tehHinjew · 06-22-2009, 01:54 PM

Fuck i can really relate to this... I rarely get to see 2 of my good friends because they are pussy whipped

art914 · 06-22-2009, 04:03 PM

i know of a guy who got owned too. his gf purposely got him drunk and somehow got pregnant. now they have a kid, he's stuck with her for atleast 18 yrs. she spends a lot of money and she aint even trying to find ways to earn money to help.

SeniorX · 06-23-2009, 04:50 PM

if your friends cause you stress with this kind of behavior, then it's an opportunity to find better friends.

06-21-2009, 07:14 PM	#1
Diomed Converting like it's 1999 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: The South Posts: 6,164	Why do friends turn into pussy-whipped bitch boys when they get in a relationship? It's so irritating to watch, and this doesn't happen to all guys.. just the weak ones. As soon as a chick expresses any kind of interests, the guy turns into the biggest pussy-whipped awful little "yes maim" creature that stalks the earth.. catering to her every ridiculous need. He's her little bitch rag from the start of the day to the finish, only leaving to go to work in which he hands over his paycheck every week basically, via giving her cash, paying the bills, and buying everything they both* need. When she doesn't even work, or do anything around the house. I guess it's all good when your in love and the chick is a good person, but when the chick is just using you to pay her bills and take care of her every spoiled need it's just disgusting and horrible to watch him fuck all his friends over for her. He's not even his real self around her, just puts on a front so much that he begins to buy into his own bullshit and acting like that's really him. When they admit themselves when they are in a relationship they turn into pussy-whipped jello fags with no balls, but they can't admit their pussy-whipped for the life of them while they are in it. I've had several friends that turn into these awful people once they get into a relationship, it's just weird seeing the paradox I guess.. but sad too. Some guys just want to be lorded over I guess, those families where the mom wears the pants and the dad is the bitch boy. I'm all for having a good relationship, but when it completely changes your character, personality, morals, and turns you into a bitter unhappy BROKE bitch boy it seems counter-productive. These are the types of girls that would poke holes in the condoms so they can get pregnant so he takes care of them. What bothers me about the whole deal is when people lie to themselves, pisses me off to no end.. kind of like those people with ego's who can't ever admit their wrong. It's like, if your going to be a limp-wristed bitch boy who gets bossed around, used for your money, basically a glorified errand boy who foots the bill.. then atleast try to admit it and be honest about it.. don't make up dumb non-relevant shit and pretend it's not your girlfriend who's behind it. Sorry for the rant, but it really pisses me off when a good friend and a good person who was doing good for themselves turns into a pussy-whipped bitch boy who you can't stand talking to and now is an unhappy pissed off prick with a miserable life who's treading water and wasting valuable years of his life just for some pussy. As soon as they started dating I should have been like, good for you guy... give me a shout when ya'll break up. If not, good luck to you and have a happy life but don't spread any of your poisonous diseased garbage of the mouth over here until your done. This has happened to about 3-4 life long friends of mine, and it's totally a fag subject but it just pisses me off so bad I want to crack the weak minded fucker in his dumb naive head. Poor bastard. __________________ 10 years of experience in: CHAT SALES - PAID TRAFFIC - CONVERSION - CREATIVES - CONSULTATION

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	APPLAUSE this post is amazing. look man it boils down to people are weak, alot of people havent been in a serious relationship way less people then you think then when they do its like they have never experienced it before and they think they have to be different to keep it. they lose themselves and become a "couple" but not to people together but 1 personality with 2 people together. it is really sickening. people these days especially are extremely desperate and in need of someone with them to make themselves feel complete because they are weak alone. dont worry about it they always end up in divorce or whatever.

06-21-2009, 08:55 PM	#19
frankie_gunn Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 270	Usually these kind of guys can't make money. Simple as that! And then they turn their face to the first whore that is willing to take them, and they think:"...oh well, forget the money, at least I have someone to love me..." Bullshit !!! Never get to think that money is not important. Money is the most important thing because money is FREEDOM (even from those whores we are talking about).

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shimmy2 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Dominican Republic Posts: 3,248	diomed what you speak applies to many guys who lack experience with women. we've all been there at some point in our lives, just many have not yet gotten over that hump. i'll freely admit i was a bitchmade nigga for getting married at 20 to a foreign chick who didn't work for 7 years and spent up all my rebills every month but thats another story in itself. i can go on about how the chick was all cool with porn (the $ aspect no doubt) when she first met me then totally flipped on the i'm a sick pervert shit when she ran the cash dry and the benzes got repoed. i guess you can attribute it a lot to age and inexperience. by the time you're 30 every man should have learnt his lesson but I still have many a peer who is whipped. i would def. not marry again and actually dont even 'date' per say now... i just chill with my lady friends whenever i feel like it __________________ Make $$$ with Toticos.com! \| Email: 1bluemiata@gmail \| Joutube: ShimmyCash \| Faceberg: ShimmyCash

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06-22-2009, 12:38 PM	#38
AtlantisCash Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Istanbul - Turkiye Posts: 3,169	sad story, but similar thread made before here, probably by Pr0 i might be wrong though Good Luck for recovery of Your Buddy.

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rowan Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 17,393	I had a friend who split with his long term g/f and started inviting "the boys" over every saturday... we had a lot of fun, seeing each other regularly each week, which was great because we didn't always get to see too much of each other. Then a few months months later I walk in the door and her cat is there, hmmm, then I realise so is she. That was the last saturday we all got together. The informal invites suddenly stopped. They ended up married. I don't think she's using him but she's definitely the one wearing the pants.

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06-23-2009, 04:50 PM	#43
SeniorX Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 302	if your friends cause you stress with this kind of behavior, then it's an opportunity to find better friends.