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God i love this thread!!!!
DWB you are right and i dont even have to tell you that! Epoch yes you feel right, but DWB brought up a great point here that really should change your policies since you do porcess for the world and not just for the USA. Safety of others comes before profit... bottom line. If you dont think so... Well then fuck you! No one here in this argument so far as endured the detriment that DWB has in his career. I myself cannot even fathom the shit that DWB has encountered. From all that hes is most concerned for the safety and well being of his models which in the end are his main asset and all that truly matters. I commend that! This guys is known as a pervert tranny fucker yet hes is probably the most respectable and loyal mother fucker here. Pure fucking irony! i have never signed up to use Epoch but i would love to read the signing policies.
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With 3rd party processors, they do have the power. It isn't your merchant account, they aren't even your members and really it isn't your money. Understand, they can do ANYTHING and ask ANYTHING they want, and you have no power to say no. All it takes it someone to make a claim, and you will be forced to provide proof. Compliance checks isn't just for VISA, it's for U.S. Laws as well. And thank god they do... I would NEVER want to work with a 3rd party processor that didn't make sure every client was perfectly in check. It's not your money, just like it isn't mine, so you screwing with them, screws with me and everyone else too.
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You are also missing the other point, which is, why does Epoch have special privileges that are not even provided to the FBI or other law enforcement agencies? How can Epoch just shoot me an email and demand those IDs, when a government agency can not? If WE have to abide by 2257, then so do they. I've said it over and over here, if they need them, grab the FBI and go see them, during normal business hours at the address listed. That's what the FBI would have to do, so that is what Epoch will have to do. Of course, I've also said if Epoch wants to provide me with their employees IDs, the ones who will see these IDs, as well as sign a document stating they take full responsibility should anything happen to these models as a result of them having access to the IDs, then that is another option. I have given them TWO solutions. Both of them are fair. They gave me one, to remove the content. Luckily for me, there are other billers in town, so I'm not going to jump through bullshit hoops to use Epoch when I can log into NATS and take them out of the cascade should that need to happen. |
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I feel DWB could be more diligent more giving up records to people hes fdoing business with but i also see exactly what DWBs point is... and to me it overcomes importance! Hes potentially saving lives, reguardless of true outcome! He is protecting not only his business but also his models no matter what the case may be.
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If you dont want to save your profit margin with a legitimate process that the law has laid out then why should it be enforced without repercussion?
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I feel ya dwb. I don't like it neither.
I have faith in the people who process our cards, especially a company like epoch. It's not some 3rd world gateway asking you for this info. I'm in no way disagreeing with you. I have only been asked once for an ID (not by epoch). I handed it over, but sanitized out all but name and age. This is where I feel that us as a business have to mutually trust each other. Yea, it's the jizz bizz and there are scumbags entering at an alarming rate. But there are still some good people left. In that I have faith. Cheers bro, Duke
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So legally, they are just covering their asses. If something ever went down, and they got pulled in, they could show proof they tried. They don't have to prove the age, but they would have to prove they attempted to filter it out. ... and when Visa starts telling them to check, Epoch won't be years behind.
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Just don't forget, CCBill can ask and I'm sure has at least once (I know they won't allow newsgroups, and I was told because of age issues), even the merchant bank can ask. If you're doing business in Porn in America, be ready to provide proof at some point to someone, or lose money.
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Actually, its HIS money, epoch is just processing the money, they don't own it. Upon your logic people working at walmart at cash counters can take all the money they process during the day, its their money, right? No, they just get their share, they don't own shit.
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If Visa wants to crack the whip and everyone has to show every ID for every site, and laws are changed, then I will live by that. But in the meantime while Epoch plays cowboy, they can do it with someone else. They can follow the 2257 rules just like everyone else has to. |
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Oh i hate you now, you threw me under the bus
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You nailed it there. Proof to SOMEONE would be legal authorities. Not hosting companies, not 3rd party companies, and not someone who you lease a CMS or cascading back end from.
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we all know it... 10% of the "gf" sites out there have an inkling of proof and about 2% of those are actually legit. I agree with DWB... before checking his cubans and cambodians you should all chekc the ALL TO WELL KNOWN fake ass ripped off amateur GF sites that we all know have no prrof at all to process. If you say a policy is the rteason then please enforce it to the fullest instead of selective processing!
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![]() ![]() Yea, some of the Thai girls look very young. They are Asian and small. But I used to work a lot in Latin America and that is where these models are from. Cuba and Colombia. Just to put into perspective, a Cuban girl goes to jail for THREE MONTHS if the police catch her just TALKING to a tourist, unless she is a licensed guide. Imagine what they would do with her for shooting porn with a tourist!?!? |
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A loophole which should be(but isnt always) both ways...
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seriously... if you american processing companies want to continually process for countries other than where you are based, i advise you and implore you to involve your company and its policies with every country that you process. If not, dont expect people to give up everything for your profit margin...
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If you want to do business with EPOCH, or anyone, you comply to their terms. Doing business with that business, and their contract and terms of service supersede the laws. Same as a mainstream webhost does not allow adult sites, and will kill your account. Adult sites are not illegal in the U.S., or most of the world, but their TOS supersede them. Same as PayPal will freeze your account, or seize your funds for processing adult virtual transactions. They are not illegal, per se, but they are against their TOS and will close your account. The point is. If you want to do business with them, and you agree to their T.O.S., you follow their rules period. It is not a 2257 issue, as being broadly painted. It is a compliance issue. EPOCH supposedly get a complaint. They want to verify, as any processor would, that the models in the complaint are legal before their merchant bank or VISA get involved and start fining them, or drop them. EPOCH has to think about more than just one DWB, and about all their clients they process for when it comes to compliance, and their merchant bank. |
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If your host receives complaints or has their doubts about legality of any content on their network, they will require you to prove that the content is legal. If you don't, you can either remove the content or they will boot you.
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Yup, 3 months. The don't fuck around down there. Another reason I'm not giving her ID to anyone unless they are fully trusted and part of a government agency.
I've seen it happen several times. And if the girl has been arrested before for the same crime, she goes to jail for an even longer time. |
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This is compliance issue though.. It's not loop hole, any U.S. Company 'allowing' illegal activity is illegal.
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Also, I don't have the contract in front of me. It was signed a long time ago. I'm curious to see if they even state they have the right to view the IDs or not. Even if it does state they can do that, Epoch is not the only game in town so I don't have to follow their rules. Last, if they want to see IDs and documents, I say again... WHY ARE THEY ABOVE THE FBI OR OTHER GOVERNMENT AGENCIES? Why can they fire off an email when the FBI has to go to your place of business during normal business hours, to see the same thing? |
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They want to make sure the content is yours. I've done this dance before. Most of my content is on DVD as well, so it's not hard to prove that I own it. |
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And yes, you are free to move to any hosting company you want. You may have done the ownership dance, obviously you haven't done the legality dance. Which is good for you. But it does happen. If you think hosting companies are going to let illegal content or questionable content run rampant on their servers you are nuts.
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Say the same 'complaint' went to your web host. You would take the same stance? Telling MOJO, PHAT, or whomever to jump on a place and fly to Thailand with Federali's? |
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Let me put ya on the spot...
As an Affiliate, I want you to prove the girl is legal age. Nothing fancy, just proof so I can make sure I won't get into trouble. Or maybe my hosting company asked me.. Now the 2257 law pretty much clearly explains this, how to sanitize the records, and so on. It's not a privacy issue by law.. What now?
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First of all, I've been with my main host for many, many years and have a great relationship. I would give the OWNER a copy of the IDs, and that's it. Nobody else. If it was just some other host, I would tell them that they can view the IDs the same as the FBI has to. If they can't do that, I would take my business to another host.
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We had been processing with epoch/ccbill for like 5 years, with the exact same members area for the entire time, NO complaints. We had a FORUM, no content.. it was TEXT "Stories." <--- Really, it was stories. I had to pull it down or lose my processing with both. Questionable content.. not illegal, questionable. No proof, no nothing... pull it down or that's it. So we checked with our own merchant account... didn't make a difference, issuing bank didn't allow it either. Again, the TEXT was legal.
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The issue is, her name. I'm not giving out her name. If you would be happy with just her DOB and a photo, and OK with me blacking out even the issuing country, then I may be OK with that IF I knew you on some level, other than some dude who sends sales to my site. Though, if you have to see her name and the country the ID is issued from, unless I know you on a personal level, my answer is no. |
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Did I mention that I love this thread?
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You mention them closing up. OK sure and why dont you just get an agreement that it will be destroyed after viewing. I can understand your concern. Perhaps set up a time and day with Rand at epoch and do a live webcam chat, show the id on screen. Sure ya he could screen cap it but be realistic. Fuck I do not know I see your side too and I just feel your a bit more paranoid than me. I know when CCbill asked for ours. We sent them the 3 they asked for. Had all identifiable info blocked out besides DOB and her picture. At the same damn time I am sure that someone could totally alter an ID and send it in to any company and they would not even notice. It is not like they are holding the real ID. Hate to even admit this but I did it once when a model of mine who I knew for a fact was old enough was waiting for her ID to come in the mail (lost it) and wanted to do some live cam work for quick cash.
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Hey, if the rules change and I can't play by them, I will move on to something else. If nobody will process for me, it may be a blessing in disguise and I would do something else. I'm not attached to anything, other than my own personal beliefs and morals, which can change at any time, with or without notice. lol Well, I have a lamp that I'm pretty fond of, but this business, I could probably do without if that day comes. However, If better safety measures were put into place and processors and billers worked with law enforcement to check a models age, I would be OK with that. I trust the law when it comes to this matter, I don't trust the people in the porn industry. |
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But this is a different story...if the model is stupid enough to sign off the privacy thing, she has to deal with the consequences.
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If your agreement with EPOCH/CCBill/ToeHee Billing tells you that you need to comply with THEIR terms of service you signed back when you joined them. That supersedes any other 'legalities' you want to lay claim to. I signed away those rights when you joined, typically. It is not a 2257 issue. It is a T.O.S. issue of compliance. |
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Epoch's compliance department was out of control when I tried to add them to the mix.
They weren't happy with dozens of little nit picking things... on sites that have been active for years! It finally became too much of a hassle and we did not add them. We now deal with 7 different billing companies, Epoch will never be one of them.
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And risk... Epoch takes on the risk of 1000's of Websites and being so, so do all of us.
Personally, I HATE it when any of them ask for something... But, at the end of the day, I have to respect it for the safety of my business, and yours.
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