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The Duck · 02-01-2010, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by k0nr4d

He still doesn't know as far as Im aware...
Honestly, I think fuck it dude. You want to stress out wondering if she is fucking someone for the next year? Think about it. Nowadays you are lucky to live to 80. Let's say you are around 25 right now (I don't know your age, just guessing). Your dick will stop working at say 60, and you'll be unattractive and gross at around 45?

You've got maybe 20 years left. You are gonna waste 5% of that wondering if shes cheating on you, just so she can come back and dump you anyways? Just break up now and get it over with. It will be much easier to get over her if shes on the other side of the planet and you don't have to see or speak to her.

Logic worthy of a programmer

frank7799 · 02-01-2010, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

right now ive got a conversation with her, one of those internet convos where someone is getting disconnected every fucking minute. Is australia a third world country or something? Jesus fucking christ

It´s hard to hold the line if you get fucked in the ass and suck dick at the same time.

OK, I hope for you that it´s technical problems causing this.

nolongerexists · 02-01-2010, 09:12 AM

so she cheated? :D

MetaMan · 02-01-2010, 09:31 AM

ya so what happened?

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Originally Posted by DatingGold

If it was that serious then she wouldn't have gone.

Listen to Quantum-X dont wait around. Do your own thing then see where you two are in a year. Either way you will have to do your own thing eventually it all just depends how many months you want to make yourself stress out.

Ur in a lose-lose situation. Suck it up and let her go for a year.

this point was key you never leave someone you supposedly love for a year. that just doesnt make sense. that means she is looking for more and just having you as a backup until she finds "what she is looking for".

give us the 411! you can make a diff in some other dudes life from wasting his time. alot of people have been cheated and used no biggie. when it happens to you it teaches what you need to do for yourself first and foremost.

nico-t · 02-01-2010, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by blindzior

so she cheated? :D

yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

MetaMan · 02-01-2010, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

so is life.

the fucked up thing is she prob held it from you. so while she is off doing her own thing you are at home being faithful.

xxweekxx · 02-01-2010, 09:37 AM

fuckin ho'

Rui · 02-01-2010, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

she sounds young...chances are she'll come back thinking she has 'changed' and has grown out of you and now needs someone more experienced and mature (or some useless bullshit she just wants to spout to justify cheating on you repeatedly).

Had that happen to me and saw that "movie" lots of times with other people...

That pretty much covers it..

Move on or be prepared to daily mindfucks

that will most likely end up in nada.

Pornopat · 02-01-2010, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

You were all right on the money. Out with the old, in with the new!

A sadder and a wiser man, He rose the morrow morn.

nico-t · 02-01-2010, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

so is life.

the fucked up thing is she prob held it from you. so while she is off doing her own thing you are at home being faithful.

exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

nolongerexists · 02-01-2010, 09:51 AM

have some trust in GFY adivces next time

MetaMan · 02-01-2010, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback.

nextri · 02-01-2010, 10:09 AM

it was doomed all along

BradM · 02-01-2010, 10:12 AM

she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

Rui · 02-01-2010, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

I doubt that was the 1st time, reading your post almost gives the idea you empathize with her and are willing to forget she cheated on you...

nico-t · 02-01-2010, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Rui

reading your post almost gives the idea you empathize with her and are willing to forget she cheated on you...

nope, you got the wrong impression then.

_Richard_ · 02-01-2010, 10:37 AM

sorry to hear man, hopefully you two can figure it out when she gets back

BradM · 02-01-2010, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_

sorry to hear man, hopefully you two can figure it out when she gets back

lol
congrats to the wieners.

L-Pink · 02-01-2010, 10:47 AM

Are you still having boner problems?

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joshuawk · 02-01-2010, 10:54 AM

ahhh poor men....

I suggest you buy every Too Short CD ever released and study it.

digifan · 02-01-2010, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by MisterPeabody

She's in AUSTRALIA and you're wondering if she's thinking about you, waiting for you, etc? DUDE - have you SEEN Australian men?

Why, I love the Crock Dundee figure

_Richard_ · 02-01-2010, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BradM

lol
congrats to the wieners.

_Richard_ · 02-01-2010, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BradM

she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

nico-t · 02-01-2010, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback.

frank7799 · 02-01-2010, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

nope, you got the wrong impression then.

May I ask how old you are?

RadicalSights · 02-01-2010, 12:11 PM

Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

It will make her feel like the useless whore that you already know she is.

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

They are called Sociopaths

fuzebox · 02-01-2010, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

You were all right on the money. Out with the old, in with the new!

Some lessons have to be learned the hard way.

96ukssob · 02-01-2010, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by blindzior

so she cheated? :D

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Originally Posted by nico-t

yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

never trust women

MetaMan · 02-01-2010, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by RadicalSights

Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

It will make her feel like the useless whore that you already know she is.

BINGO

there is no better feeling then when an EX everyone 6 months comes back like clockwork and you fuck them then tell them you cant talk to them anymore.

make sure you keep your feelings in check or else it can fuck you up though. LOLZ

MetaMan · 02-01-2010, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RadicalSights

They are called Sociopaths

frig i just read up on the full definition and it blew my mind so true.

baddog · 02-01-2010, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM

she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

Seriously? They are both too young for a monogamous relationship, kind of like your situation.

frank7799 · 02-01-2010, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Seriously? They are both too young for a monogamous relationship, kind of like your situation.

Quoted for truth.

dav3 · 02-01-2010, 12:35 PM

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O MARINA · 02-01-2010, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

You were all right on the money.

........................

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

ya so what happened?

this point was you never leave someone you supposedly love for a year.

nico-t · 02-01-2010, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by m4yadult

May I ask how old you are?

28 already.... she is 7 yrs younger so i shouldve seen this coming.

Tasty1 · 02-01-2010, 01:09 PM

Just go there if you already planned it. There are a lot of hot backpacker chicks in asia and it is a nice experience. If you don't like it with her, find another backpack chick. That must be easy, some man let their girlfriend go there alone.

On a bounty island in Thailand, laying in the white sand with a cute sexy backpackster, drinking beer, sitting at a gogo bar, fuck some hookers, sailing, go to patpong and enjoy. That was what i should do when i was a free man.

_Richard_ · 02-01-2010, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by airholland

Just go there if you already planned it. There are a lot of hot backpacker chicks in asia and it is a nice experience. If you don't like it with her, find another backpack chick. That must be easy, some man let their girlfriend go there alone.

On a bounty island in Thailand, laying in the white sand with a cute sexy backpackster, drinking beer, sitting at a gogo bar, fuck some hookers, sailing, go to patpong and enjoy. That was what i should do when i was a free man.

alias · 02-01-2010, 01:36 PM

nico-t seems like a nice guy, be more of a dick dude.

Caligari · 02-01-2010, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by RadicalSights

Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

Uh yeah, if that's the case make sure she presents you with all appropriate health cards/certs before hand.

you know what they say-

here today, gone-a-cockus

frank7799 · 02-01-2010, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t

28 already.... she is 7 yrs younger so i shouldve seen this coming.

You are both young and she is - at the age of 21 - too young for a relationship like Baddog mentioned above. She went to Australia to get some experience. Let her get it and if she´ll be back, time will tell if your story has another chapter.

I´m 47 and I managed a long distance relationship with my wife some years ago. But you can´t take an old fuck like me as an example. At the age of 28 and for your girlfriend (or former gf) at 21, life has many adventures to offer. Take and enjoy them, you´ll regret it otherwise.

combson · 02-01-2010, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback.

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