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Juicy D. Links · 07-21-2010, 02:42 PM

Heading to Buffalo tomorrow for few days for friends wedding , known him for like 15 years...

We are good friends....but drifted last few years...

Me and Izzzzzzzzz heading up there....

How much to give?

I am a groomsmen btw.

whats the "guidelines"

_JDL

Sly · 07-21-2010, 02:43 PM

I think a handjob will suffice. A great gift to give. Easy on your pocket and will release all of his tension before the big day. The bride will thank you.

Juicy D. Links · 07-21-2010, 02:43 PM

I blew alot on him at his bachelor party btw in Vegas few weeks ago... dont know if this matters?

Juicy D. Links · 07-21-2010, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

I think a handjob will suffice. A great gift to give. Easy on your pocket and will release all of his tension before the big day. The bride will thank you.

Izzzz is giving a BJ already ....if I give a HJ it will be not enough... I would need to go double anal

Sly · 07-21-2010, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

Izzzz is giving a BJ already ....if I give a HJ it will be not enough... I would need to go double anal

I'm sure you have the room, don't worry. It won't hurt too much.

Juicy D. Links · 07-21-2010, 02:46 PM

http://www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php lol wtf

Semi-Retired-Dave · 07-21-2010, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

I blew alot on him at his bachelor party btw in Vegas few weeks ago... dont know if this matters?

I thought you said you Blew him a lot at his bachelor party.

It all depends on your financial situation, but I would think $500.00 - $1000.00 is fair.
But then again, you aren't his best man, just a groomsman.

Juicy D. Links · 07-21-2010, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by CyberAge-Dave

I thought you said you Blew him a lot at his bachelor party.

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TurboAngel · 07-21-2010, 04:36 PM

I was in a wedding back in April and my gift was $200. They say it depends on how big and where the wedding will take place. I was told that any where from $100-$300 so I did $200.

CurrentlySober · 07-21-2010, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

I'm sure you have the room...

Provided he removes the Iguana first...

Amputate Your Head · 07-21-2010, 04:48 PM

A gift certificate for Chili's is perfectly acceptable.

Supz · 07-21-2010, 09:53 PM

250 two fitty

marketsmart · 07-21-2010, 10:05 PM

what are they serving for food...

i always base gifts on what i get in return...

shitty buffet and beer and wine only $10...

shitty buffet and open bar with calls.... $500

nice dinner and open bar with calls + monogrammed groomsman gift... $1000

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marketsmart · 07-21-2010, 10:06 PM

ps.. if i fuck one of the hot bridesmaids.. $2000...

if she lets me atm her... $5000

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marketsmart · 07-21-2010, 10:07 PM

pss..

if that same hot bridesmaid snowballs me and drinks up my minibar.... $10

i'm fickle like that...

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Chosen · 07-22-2010, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

Izzzz is giving a BJ already ....if I give a HJ it will be not enough... I would need to go double anal

Raf1 · 07-22-2010, 12:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

http://www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php lol wtf

I gave it a few tries and the results sounded about right

BigRod · 07-22-2010, 12:45 AM

Open bar makes all the difference in the world. If you and your guest drink what would be a $500 bar bill and a nice dinner $1000 is good. If its a crap dinner and cash bar, you decide.

umbralui · 07-22-2010, 01:10 AM

Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $140

aubreythree · 07-22-2010, 01:25 AM

140bucks might get a decent gift

baddog · 07-22-2010, 01:38 AM

Like they said, depends on the event. Where is it at, what are you being fed, open bar?

baddog · 07-22-2010, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

http://www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php lol wtf

That is pretty fair. It is costing you to even be there.

Juicy D. Links · 07-22-2010, 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by umbralui

Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $140

i tried that calc but I cant give what it suggested it seems to low... I gotta talk with Izzz we will give matching amounts loll we have known the groom pretty much equal times

I am off every1 have a great weekend

umbralui · 07-22-2010, 03:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

i tried that calc but I cant give what it suggested it seems to low... I gotta talk with Izzz we will give matching amounts loll we have known the groom pretty much equal times

I am off every1 have a great weekend

yes, is kinda low what calculator say.. i think.. if you had good times with him/her.. close your eyes and 2-3k will be fine..

PersianKitty · 07-22-2010, 03:23 AM

Give what you'd think they might give you if it were the other way around

seeandsee · 07-22-2010, 04:34 AM

that calculator is some bad ass :D

Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $110

wtf, they can buy what with it, shit?

umbralui · 07-22-2010, 04:40 AM

important is to be present .. not to go with gifts.. fuck gifts.. i hate them

ottopottomouse · 07-22-2010, 05:18 AM

I prefer to give something someone actually wants rather than a random amount of cash.

Based on my brother's wedding-

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Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $165

seems a bit cheap.

LongBG · 07-22-2010, 05:20 AM

It all depends on how many whores he shouted you before the big day.

AdultEUhost · 07-22-2010, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

http://www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php lol wtf

lol thats awesome

candyflip · 07-22-2010, 05:57 AM

The standard is to cover the cost of your plate, but that's probably a good rule to follow if you're not family or good friends.

And I've known people here in Rochester to pay under $15 a plate for their reception, so I'd feel like a cheap ass for following that rule here.

07-21-2010, 02:42 PM	#1
Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	Amount of "Wedding Gift" which is appropriate .... Heading to Buffalo tomorrow for few days for friends wedding , known him for like 15 years... We are good friends....but drifted last few years... Me and Izzzzzzzzz heading up there.... How much to give? I am a groomsmen btw. whats the "guidelines" _JDL

07-21-2010, 02:43 PM	#2
Sly Let's do some business! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 31,296	I think a handjob will suffice. A great gift to give. Easy on your pocket and will release all of his tension before the big day. The bride will thank you. __________________ Vacares - Web Hosting, Domains, O365, Security & More - Paxum and BTC Accepted Windows VPS now available - just $50/mo Wanted: CCBill pay sites for sale

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Amputate Your Head There can be only one Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Somewhere else Posts: 39,075	A gift certificate for Chili's is perfectly acceptable. __________________ SIG TOO BIG

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BigRod Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 3,685	Open bar makes all the difference in the world. If you and your guest drink what would be a $500 bar bill and a nice dinner $1000 is good. If its a crap dinner and cash bar, you decide. __________________ Rod Macdonald Mainstream Ad Agency Owner ICQ: 607306

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PersianKitty Meow Media Inc. Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: In the valley of the sun, cactus, tacos, tequila, and nod Posts: 7,785	Give what you'd think they might give you if it were the other way around __________________ Wondering what webmaster programs PK uses? Check them out here!

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Juicy D. Links So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: N.Y. -Long Island -- Posts: 122,992	http://www.theweddingenvelope.com/calculator.php lol wtf

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TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	I was in a wedding back in April and my gift was $200. They say it depends on how big and where the wedding will take place. I was told that any where from $100-$300 so I did $200.

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Supz Arthur Flegenheimer Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: New York City Posts: 11,056	250 two fitty

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marketsmart HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Sunnybrook Institution for the Criminally Insane Posts: 20,419	what are they serving for food... i always base gifts on what i get in return... shitty buffet and beer and wine only $10... shitty buffet and open bar with calls.... $500 nice dinner and open bar with calls + monogrammed groomsman gift... $1000 .

07-21-2010, 10:06 PM	#14
marketsmart HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Sunnybrook Institution for the Criminally Insane Posts: 20,419	ps.. if i fuck one of the hot bridesmaids.. $2000... if she lets me atm her... $5000 .

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marketsmart HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Sunnybrook Institution for the Criminally Insane Posts: 20,419	pss.. if that same hot bridesmaid snowballs me and drinks up my minibar.... $10 i'm fickle like that... .

07-22-2010, 01:10 AM	#19
umbralui Do as i say, not as i do! Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: in the mountains Posts: 13,755	Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $140

07-22-2010, 01:25 AM	#20
aubreythree So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 435	140bucks might get a decent gift

07-22-2010, 01:38 AM	#21
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	Like they said, depends on the event. Where is it at, what are you being fed, open bar?

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seeandsee Check SIG! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Europe (Skype: gojkoas) Posts: 50,945	that calculator is some bad ass :D Hello, the suggested total amount you should give for this wedding is $110 wtf, they can buy what with it, shit? __________________ BUY MY SIG - 50$/Year Contact here

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umbralui Do as i say, not as i do! Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: in the mountains Posts: 13,755	important is to be present .. not to go with gifts.. fuck gifts.. i hate them

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LongBG Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Sesame Street Posts: 1,101	It all depends on how many whores he shouted you before the big day. __________________ Contact me: [email protected]

07-22-2010, 05:57 AM	#31
candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,057	The standard is to cover the cost of your plate, but that's probably a good rule to follow if you're not family or good friends. And I've known people here in Rochester to pay under $15 a plate for their reception, so I'd feel like a cheap ass for following that rule here. __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me