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Old 07-31-2010, 01:29 AM   #1
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Isn't depression grand?

Yay! It's the middle of summer and another wonderful wave of depression is hitting me like a ton of bricks. I tell myself, go to the gym, work your ass off, you'll feel great! But I'm to sad to go

Why am I sad? There is no reason. Isn't life grand?

Why do some people get away so easy mentally, they have no qualms about talking in a huge group, are always happy (or at least come across as being so), and come across as such positive people. I do my best to be positive, I really do. Then the depression slowly creeps back in and suddenly, everything is negative again.

Why!?
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Old 07-31-2010, 01:34 AM   #2
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Are you really so upset??

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It's really just a general sad feeling. I think about positive things and even those things make me feel sad. And then in a week or two, I'll be fine again. I have plenty of people around me that I can speak to, but I appreciate the thought, sabby, I really do
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I have had the most inane and stupid things happen to me...

I could go rant... and I have... trust me I have....

This why I want to say...

NOTHING.


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Yay! It's the middle of summer and another wonderful wave of depression is hitting me like a ton of bricks. I tell myself, go to the gym, work your ass off, you'll feel great! But I'm to sad to go

Why am I sad? There is no reason. Isn't life grand?

Why do some people get away so easy mentally, they have no qualms about talking in a huge group, are always happy (or at least come across as being so), and come across as such positive people. I do my best to be positive, I really do. Then the depression slowly creeps back in and suddenly, everything is negative again.

Why!?
Many losers in life suffer with depression.
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When i feel down i read the book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. It gives me enough boost to get going again, HARDCORE style ;)
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I was on anti depressants for about 18 months, since I started chemo therapy. They worked fine and no adverse effects. They were call Cypralex or something similar. Stopped taking them 2 weeks ago and sometimes get a bit down. But with nothing to do except sit at home and post on GFY that's to be expected. LOL

Go see your doctor.
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I was on anti depressants for about 18 months, since I started chemo therapy. They worked fine and no adverse effects. They were call Cypralex or something similar. Stopped taking them 2 weeks ago and sometimes get a bit down. But with nothing to do except sit at home and post on GFY that's to be expected. LOL

Go see your doctor.
why you on chemo?

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I take paxil. Its a good drug.

It makes you have bad farts.

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why you on chemo?

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I had cancer in mt tongue. Got it beaten now and just on the road to full recovery. The chemo and radio therapy was the worse period of my life. Still unable to eat solids, fed a liquid food supplement via a tube in my stomach. Two liters a day. Can't walk much more than a mile before flaking out. And probably retired.

Still I'm very happy.
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I had cancer in mt tongue. Got it beaten now and just on the road to full recovery. The chemo and radio therapy was the worse period of my life. Still unable to eat solids, fed a liquid food supplement via a tube in my stomach. Two liters a day. Can't walk much more than a mile before flaking out. And probably retired.

Still I'm very happy.
My mother did 6 weeks radiation... She had it in her throat.

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You are actually only a few months older than my mother Paul... lol.


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I should probably go back on my meds.

Anti-depresents, Anti-psychotics, mood stabalizers...

They just make me feel blahhh... and gassy.


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normally it happens when you don't have enough to do, get a new girl, book a trip, take on more work or new project, ...

I never get depressed because there's always too much going on to sit around and feel bad.
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Just remember it is a western society mentality that makes you think you are supposed to be happy.

people all over the world suffering, starving, dont have clothes, being raped, working for pennies an hour.

and you have the fucking nerve to be depressed?

seriously though i have felt down or depressed before but then i think of the REAL WORLD and realize i have a cake walk in life compared to 99% of people.

everyone always fucking whining these days ME ME ME im depressed ME ME ME i want this.

SHUT THE FUCK UP ALREADY.

FIRST:
NO YOU DONT MATTER you are a piece of shit floating on a fucking MASSIVE rock that is SMALL AS FUCK on scale.

so snap the fuck out of it and stop acting like a baby.

"you are to sad to go to the gym"
omfg the fact you even have an OPTION to go to a gym is reason not to be depressed.

start looking at fucking REALITY, get a life and stop sitting around finding negative things to think about.
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I agree with MetaMan about something. Time to shoot myself.
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I had cancer in mt tongue. Got it beaten now and just on the road to full recovery. The chemo and radio therapy was the worse period of my life. Still unable to eat solids, fed a liquid food supplement via a tube in my stomach. Two liters a day. Can't walk much more than a mile before flaking out. And probably retired.

Still I'm very happy.
How long ago was it that you went through chemo? My dad had the same thing, cancer in the back of his tongue... he was able to talk through the whole thing, continued working and although he lost a ton of weight he got back into shape relatively quickly afterward. FWIW he's in his late 50s now and this happened a year or so ago.

It gets better, I don't know how bad you had it or how much chemo you went through, but it definitely gets better. He's now running 2 miles a day minimum, playing golf a couple times a week.

He did lose his sense of taste for awhile (getting it back) and the ability to produce saliva from the radiation.
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Depression is a chemical imbalance. Go see a doctor or research on some natural remedies to help you. Stay positive, get out, stay active. As soon as a negative thought starts to creep in your mind, GET RID OF IT.
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Yay! It's the middle of summer and another wonderful wave of depression is hitting me like a ton of bricks. I tell myself, go to the gym, work your ass off, you'll feel great! But I'm to sad to go

Why am I sad? There is no reason. Isn't life grand?

Why do some people get away so easy mentally, they have no qualms about talking in a huge group, are always happy (or at least come across as being so), and come across as such positive people. I do my best to be positive, I really do. Then the depression slowly creeps back in and suddenly, everything is negative again.

Why!?
Don't listen to MetaDork, and it isn't a chemical imbalance thing that you can fix with drugs either. I do admit drugs are fun, and can make you feel better, but ultimately they won't fix the problem forever especially if you ever want to stop taking the drugs.

You are obviously not completely satisfied with your life. It isn't exciting enough to keep you busy and from falling into sadness. I understand this from experience, and it makes life really difficult.

I think people who have a tendency to be depressed really need more action in their life. It can be really, really easy to fall into a routine and just accept your life as it is, telling yourself you are happy and okay. Don't let complacency get to you, you have to keep moving or you'll grow roots and dust will settle, and you'll get depressed.

Working out can help, but honestly if you have issues with "manic" depression swings you just have to find something more in your life to fill those gaps and you will be unable to fall into the "lows." I've learned this the hard way, from much experience.

A long distance move can help tremendously, traveling to other countries or a good old road trip.

I also don't know if you have kids. If not, good! I see SO many young (early 20's) people having kids these days, then they have to work these shitty jobs because they have no college education or work experience and end up partying on the weekend because they are so miserable and that is all there is to do. Its an ugly cycle they fall into and once you have kids you have to provide for them and can really be stuck in life, thinking your kids are so awesome but really you're pretty miserable. Don't have kids before 35.

Good luck. It can take years to figure out what you need to do to make yourself happy. Then people will give you a hard time when you give out good advice like this because they're still miserable pieces of shit (cue MetaLoser).
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"you are to sad to go to the gym"
omfg the fact you even have an OPTION to go to a gym is reason not to be depressed.

start looking at fucking REALITY, get a life and stop sitting around finding negative things to think about.[/QUOTE]



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I agree with MetaMan about something. Time to shoot myself.
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Amazing in this day & age that some people still believe depression is just being "bummed out" because you're bored. That's not depression, that's boredom. Depression is fucking horrible. You can't "think positive" or "snap out of it". People giving this advice need to shut their word holes because they know not what they speak of.
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Shit!

I agree with MetaMan about something. Time to shoot myself.
Me too. So when you've finished with the gun can I use it?

One of the things that struck me about going to Thailand was how happy they were. Little money, few possessions and never stopped smiling. Went to Socal and met some of the the most depressed people ever. All driving SUVs, living in big houses and had every gadget you could think of.

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It can be. It's a chemical endorphin that's released or not released into your brain that can govern it. It's the same endorphin that's released when a person climaxes.
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How long ago was it that you went through chemo? My dad had the same thing, cancer in the back of his tongue... he was able to talk through the whole thing, continued working and although he lost a ton of weight he got back into shape relatively quickly afterward. FWIW he's in his late 50s now and this happened a year or so ago.

It gets better, I don't know how bad you had it or how much chemo you went through, but it definitely gets better. He's now running 2 miles a day minimum, playing golf a couple times a week.

He did lose his sense of taste for awhile (getting it back) and the ability to produce saliva from the radiation.
It was February or March 2009 that I started chemo. After 3 months I started radio therapy. All the treatment finished in September. Originally the specialists thought it was so advanced my chances of survival were slim to none. They thought at best I would end up losing a part or all of my tongue after the chemo had reduced the growth.

After the radiation they decided I would not need anything and I had kicked it.

Gave up eating solids in August 2009 because the swelling, from radiation, had blocked my throats ability to swallow. The inside of my mouth was very tender for a long while because of the burning and I had difficulty swallowing anything but filtered water. It's better now. Still lots of things I can't drink.

I can tasted things now, just have to be careful what I put in my mouth and my sense of smell is better than it ever was. Food smells delicious.

My weight plummeted, could do little but lie on the sofa. Still sleeping 12 hours a day and can't walk much for more than an hour. I'm probably retired now as Eva runs the business. Don't ever really see me shooting again. All I do is post on the boards when I feel like it.
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It was February or March 2009 that I started chemo. After 3 months I started radio therapy. All the treatment finished in September. Originally the specialists thought it was so advanced my chances of survival were slim to none. They thought at best I would end up losing a part or all of my tongue after the chemo had reduced the growth.

After the radiation they decided I would not need anything and I had kicked it.

Gave up eating solids in August 2009 because the swelling, from radiation, had blocked my throats ability to swallow. The inside of my mouth was very tender for a long while because of the burning and I had difficulty swallowing anything but filtered water. It's better now. Still lots of things I can't drink.

I can tasted things now, just have to be careful what I put in my mouth and my sense of smell is better than it ever was. Food smells delicious.

My weight plummeted, could do little but lie on the sofa. Still sleeping 12 hours a day and can't walk much for more than an hour. I'm probably retired now as Eva runs the business. Don't ever really see me shooting again. All I do is post on the boards when I feel like it.
don't give up Paul, you'll build back up and be back at it again.
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Amazing in this day & age that some people still believe depression is just being "bummed out" because you're bored. That's not depression, that's boredom. Depression is fucking horrible. You can't "think positive" or "snap out of it". People giving this advice need to shut their word holes because they know not what they speak of.
People who are always whining like they have it tougher than everyone else need to shut their worm holes.

EVERYONE has most likely battled some sort of depression in this world.

but there is LOSERS out there who always think their problem is deeper or worse than others.

they are most likely the type who has had shit handed to them. hard working people dont have time to be depressed.

what ever happened to just being a LOSER. these days LOSERS go to some psychologist who really doesnt know SHIT and they slap some kind of medical name on your REGULAR problems and then people go around and whine "whine whine im suffering from (insert long medical term name)".

there is no medical term for acting like a LOSER. it is that simple.
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Old 07-31-2010, 10:49 AM   #45
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I find a nice hot bath makes me feel better.

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People who are always whining like they have it tougher than everyone else need to shut their worm holes.

EVERYONE has most likely battled some sort of depression in this world.

but there is LOSERS out there who always think their problem is deeper or worse than others.

they are most likely the type who has had shit handed to them. hard working people dont have time to be depressed.

what ever happened to just being a LOSER. these days LOSERS go to some psychologist who really doesnt know SHIT and they slap some kind of medical name on your REGULAR problems and then people go around and whine "whine whine im suffering from (insert long medical term name)".

there is no medical term for acting like a LOSER. it is that simple.
If you've ever really been depressed, you'd know it. It has nothing to do with normal "being down", it's wanting to die because you feel there is nothing left worth living for. Stop being a know-it-all gung-ho douchebag dude. Not every problem is solved with a 30-minute pep talk from Dr. Phil. There are plenty of "hard working people" suffering from depression. It's not a long fancy scientific name you can't pronounce Meta, it's simple really: Depression. People kill themselves because of this shit dude. Calling them "losers" does absolutely nothing to help.

Obviously you've never experienced first class depression, you'd remember it.
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Yay! It's the middle of summer and another wonderful wave of depression is hitting me like a ton of bricks. I tell myself, go to the gym, work your ass off, you'll feel great! But I'm to sad to go

Why am I sad? There is no reason. Isn't life grand?

Why do some people get away so easy mentally, they have no qualms about talking in a huge group, are always happy (or at least come across as being so), and come across as such positive people. I do my best to be positive, I really do. Then the depression slowly creeps back in and suddenly, everything is negative again.

Why!?
Sounds like my life dude. It's hard to shake depression, that's for sure!

Good luck - hopefully you pull out of it soon - even though you know it is cyclical.
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You can call me.


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narcissistic wallowing at it's finest

it's not what life can do for you, it's what you can do for life

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