Originally Posted by Scott McD (Post 19043046)

Date - No

Fuck - Yes

Originally Posted by NemesisEnforcer (Post 19043086)

Fuck - No: if you get her pregnant, you know she will keep the kid.

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 19043041)

- Don't.

Originally Posted by raymor (Post 19043297)

Don't date fucked up moms. If they treat their kid poorly, they'll treat you poorly, and the kid will be screwed up if they aren't already.

Originally Posted by myjah (Post 19043419)

This - thank you!

If she is a great catch, the children won't be the problem. Besides, why would you walk away from the right woman just because the situation is a bit complicated? Weirdos.

Originally Posted by Roald (Post 19043146)

Not convinced. Have you seen some of those moms?!? Hot, sexually great and if you are lucky you catch a smart one ;)))

Originally Posted by xxxupdate (Post 19043869)

my dad remarried a woman with 3 kids that he hates (i mean really hates)

Originally Posted by blonda80 (Post 19043972)

what is wrong with single moms?

Originally Posted by tabasco (Post 19043672)

hit it, then quit it

Originally Posted by myjah (Post 19043419)

If she is a great catch, the children won't be the problem. Besides, why would you walk away from the right woman just because the situation is a bit complicated? Weirdos.

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx (Post 19044049)

If she is such a great catch, then why is she single?

Originally Posted by xxxupdate (Post 19043869)

my dad remarried a woman with 3 kids that he hates (i mean really hates)

Originally Posted by myjah (Post 19044072)

Fucking dumb ass reply

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx (Post 19044409)

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

Originally Posted by myjah (Post 19044459)

It was a 'dumb ass' reply because of exactly what you said here: "Not saying that it's her fault". She can be the best catch ever and be single due to no 'fault' of her own.

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx (Post 19044409)

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

Originally Posted by TheLegacy (Post 19044598)

Amazing how we group them all together. There are single mothers out there that would be great GF's etc. We tend to forget they may be single for other reasons than being a bitch.

Best rule of thumb if you're going to date is NOT to meet the kids until you're actually serious about being with her longer. You don't want to have a connection or feelings develop then if you leave it hurts the kids.

Any relationship deserves a chance to grow and hard to do that with kids around - so date - learn about her - watch how she talks about her ex and everything to know what she's about. It can work... and has.

Originally Posted by Roald (Post 19044627)

stop making sense.

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx (Post 19044583)

Unfortunately you clearly took my reply as an end-all-be-all statement when in fact there was a huge question mark at the end of it.

Nevertheless, every man worth his salt should ask himself that question when dealing with a single mom.

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx (Post 19044409)

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

Originally Posted by Roald (Post 19044627)

stop making sense.

Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ (Post 19044645)

They're desperate, as some losers will see an opportunity to exploit another in a weak position.

If you're between 18-35, more then enough (no kid) women around. I rarely ran the risk of fucking a single moms and the few I did, ended up always wanting more then just a dick in them.

I was just straight-up with them. You can't possibly expect me to put you first in my life, and me second or third, depending on the amount of kids, and then pay for it? Fuck that, not only is that a suckers bet, I respect myself way too much for that.

My wife was in her 30's when we met as she focused on he education and family business first. She mentioned, no kids, and she wanted a rock solid relationship first, see the world first, and own a home. I couldn't get a ring on her finger fast enough.

Well, 6.5 years later, we own our home, been to more places in this world then I even care to remember, dynamite on/off-line businesses, as we just laugh when friends (with kids) ask, were you going this time?

The cool thing about not having kids is your disposable income, the pure silence, and being able to get up and do whatever you want, when you want. Simply, the amount of free time you have.

So much so I took a passion of mine, commercial fishing, and started a very small seasonal business from money selling a gun collection. Anyway, I eventuality purchased the processing equipment to eliminate a middleman, and grew tired of dealing with moody commercial fishermen. So I learned where/how and actually designed a boat for a specific type of fishing.

This is the first as the other 2 will be done by the season. My goal will be 8 as they're is a ton of knowledgeable labor here who just can't afford their own boats and get shit on as hired labor. After equipment deductions etc. My profit will be almost 50% more then my competitor. Also, it a fucking blast to do all this.

http://www.hunt101.com/data/500/caviar_1.jpg
http://www.hunt101.com/data/500/caviar_2.jpg
http://www.hunt101.com/data/500/caviar_3.jpg

The moral of this story that I was going to blog about anyway? NEVER date/marry a single mom, unless your single with kids, your time and money should not fund others bad decision making. It's your life, make the most of what you got.

Originally Posted by seeandsee (Post 19044015)

Fuck them but be careful or you will be dad anytime soon, they just love kids :D