What should I get my ex for her 21st?
 

I'm hanging out with my ex tomorrow night for her 21st birthday. What should I get her? I'm thinking of getting a bottle or two of some nice cabernet and a couple bucks. Any other ideas?

We were in love and we're still friends, so I want to give her something nice but not make it "weird" by getting her something too personal like jewlery.

Giving a friend money as a gift is very strange. Especially your ex.

Really? How so?
For years I have given my buddies a couple bucks on their birthdays, and they have done the same.

What would you recommend?

Yo

"We were in love but still friends" ?????

Dude let her go............trust me unless you want a heartbreak

Really? That is just weird. Frankly I think giving money as a gift, unless the other person needs it, is kind of pointless altogether.

I like taking people out to dinner as a gift, its always fun and you know they'll enjoy it. Otherwise the wine sounds good to me, maybe a CD or something.

how about a weekend escapade for two? Not too personal, just sex ;)

Get her a watch and a dildo....

So if she doesn't like the watch, she can go fuck herself.

Yeah, I know...
I don't really want to get involved with her again, which is why I'm trying to stray away from gifts that are too personal.

Actually, all of my friends need it, so it usually makes for a good gift. :)
CD...perhaps.
Maybe some concert tickets (far) in advance. She likes metal concerts.

You do too want to get involved again. Otherwise you wouldn't be buying her wine, buying her a gift, or even spending her 21st birthday with her. Haha, come on man.

Let it go..............

Your gonna start getting feelings n shit..... next thing you know your fucked up and shit and wanting her back.

b4 you get a really baddddddddddddd broken heart i suggest you let it go bro.. If you are thinking there is a chance you will be back with her ..you wont...women are EVIL

:1orglaugh

I am almost 30 yo dont know how old u r but learn from my past experiences

The juice is ooooold as fuck!

I still do have feelings. But, I have no time for girls, especially this one. Though I do want to maintain a friendship. I've been burnt and fucked up before, I hear ya. :)

Girls that are "Friends" are just girls you havent fucked yet -JDL

Let her open a box that has nothing but a cock ring in it. When she asks what it is tell her that you realize if you'd have had the cock ring and the endurance it gives you, you never would have lost her in the first place.

Then fuck her all night. :)

:sadcrying :sadcrying :sadcrying

Ya money is sort of a weird gift unless it is for a wedding or a child under 16. I like to take the time to find a gift that I think someone will enjoy. In this case, since she is your ex, I think dinner is more than sufficient but if you want her to have something to take home bring a nice bottle wrapped up or a really nice candle in a bag or a card with a music/dvd store gift certificate.

Good luck!

Ex?? OMG, this is going to end up in tragedy ;)

yo give me her info , ill take her out of the picture yo.

:1orglaugh

I just want to keep our friendship, really. And that means not giving her something too personal.

Just get her some booze :)

A wise old man at 29 years. :1orglaugh

Good advice. Thanks.

See, she really needs money. Which is why I thought it would be an appropriate gift. I think dinner would be good too.

You were in love, but now you are just friends?

Okay.... so you are "fuck buddies"?

Fuck her and give her a good time, then move on :)

Papi!

No, I'm not having sex with her.
We are friends still. We were friends before we started getting close.

best thing you could give her is my phone number

I don't mind receiving money as a gift, the only time I hate it is when it's from family. If it's a friend or a bf they can give me whatever they want, but I HATE receiving money from family, it makes me feel like a kid again, and like they think I'm poor and can't take care of myself. I always feel like I have to go out of my way to show my family that I'm doing well for myself. I don't take/accept money as gifts from family members, I always return it. I find it rather insulting.

Give her a bottle of jager and when she passes out fuck her in the ass.

How about an account on AFF?

Alex

dude - juicy is right on the money again.

Ex's are ex's for a reason and you need to wakeup to yourself before YOU get FUCKED OVER (again?) - Do not give her anything and see if she sticks around. My guess is she won't.

Then send juicy half the cash you were going to spend on this EX and you still saved some cash, and heartache.

I've gotta agree with this. As a girl...if you really don't want to get involved with her, but want to do something for her birthday...take her out for an early dinner and tell her you've got plans with your buddies. (even if you don't) Otherwise, you're gonna end up having sex with her and getting re-involved with her again.

Just my :2 cents:

It's nothing like that.
Sure, I have feelings for her but like I said, I don't have time for a relationship. I consider her a friend, period.

well usually my friends get a card or I buy them a beer if I see them on thier birthdays... I dont buy them a bottle of wine and give them money

Exactly, specially for a 21st. You lean over the bar knocking people over and try your hardest not to slur and fall over while yelling "bar tender! five shots over here for the birthday girl".

When you were 21 what did you expect from your friends?

Me personally, it was... Not paying for anything at the bar that night, having two people to kindly carry me home, and having at least ten friends out at the bar all night long no matter what day of the week it was.

End of story.

Ugh ? It's the gift I'd like to get the most personally, and it's the one I give out the most often. Gift certificate cards just sucks compared to real $

lol
I'm still living with my ex GF ... raising the kid together and everything... we just splitted up for 1 year living apart and now we are just roomies... no heartbreaks or anything.

If he's still in love with her, that might cause a problem... but we just realised it wasn't love, and that we were just good friends.

I somehow don't agree with that... I have really good female compagnions that I wouldn't sleep with just because I wouldn't wanna fuck it up... they are just friends.

But I guess I'm a bit different... I don't get emotionally involved quickly, and I respect the limits I set myself.

Don't give her anything. As a matter of fact, it's best if you don't go out with her on her birthday.

send her a dead raccoon in a shoebox.. trust me... all girls are suckers for that gift

Get her a giftcard, you can't go wrong. Cash is too sleezy. And while your at it, get yourself a pair of balls and loose the chick.

spa package? massage/manicure...?

Don't get her shit! She's your ex!

I'd go with the cabernet, that way you can fuck all night and the next day you can both say that you were just too drunk.

I expected a few drinks bought for me and a safe ride home.

I'll probably buy a round for whoever is there and give them all a safe ride home. I just think a present is in order too. Especially since this is her 21st.