help - code of ethics re: models real name? - GoFuckYourself.com

LushBoobs · 07-16-2011, 01:06 AM

hi. I have a problem. I worked with a model who recently took it upon herself to tell fans - my real name. I know this to be true because some of these fans have added my personal real me twitter acct to their accts ( not safe since they follow other models too) and also getting some weird penis big boob emails to my personal facebook acct - the one where i hang out with my family and childhood friends.

isn't there some sort of - ethical code whereby we do not out the models to fans, ever? Has anyone ever run into this problem? I realize most of you are not models, and you are in fact webmasters but i have bought content ( from some people here even ) and i would never think of taking 2257 info and sharing it with ANYONE let alone a fan.

what is the proper course of action here? what can be done, if anything to stop any further outing? this person has kinda lost her marbles a bit and is doing very strange, questionable things.. like OUTING ME TO FANS BY GIVING THEM MY REAL NAME?!! wtf? help. i'm kinda freaking out. anonymous for a decade and then one girl gets a post pregnancy hormonal surge and flips out and now fans are adding my facebook to their boobfollower fan accts? I need help and i need it now. I'm not even going to ask for advice on the breach of contract, equipment theft, promo and social networking acct theft, lies slander and defamation, trademark infringement and now..breach of privacy in the form telling people my real name. so.. help? please. and no i never will ever build a solo model site ever again. in 2009 score turned her down. divine breasts also declined to build her a solo site - and then i agreed to take it on, spending 18+ months branding retouching developing the character into something awesome.. and now i'm just getting slammed with the worst backlash for helping someone i've ever experienced.

so ya - i need help and i need it now. what do any of you suggest I do, if anything? I've been quietly waiting for her to just go away since early june when she quit - but she isn't stopping her irresponsible behavior - to the point where my personal info is now in the hands of fans - short for fanatics - the kind who send 100 emails a year that never get read.

is there or is there not an understanding in this business that we don't out eachothers real name in public or to fans.. ever?! i thought there was, besides the privacy agreements we had ( oral not written) this makes no sense to me.

help? please? and yes i know I'm freaked out and typing a lot. oh well. i'm scared. this is what happens when i feel unsafe.

ps - don't let crazy people live in your house. even if they have nowhere else to go and seem sweet.

EslynneWeaver · 07-16-2011, 01:14 AM

Not sure what to say that might be helpful other than you have my sympathy -

can you block the people on your personal facebook and twitter? I have separate ones for personal versus modeling, maybe encourage the fans to add your modeling ones instead, play dumb when people who shouldn't know your real name do?

Really, I'm sorry it's happening to you, there is generally and understanding not to out people's personal info if they don't want it out, at least that's my understanding.

LokoWilli · 07-18-2011, 05:21 PM

thet is a real problem for people like us that have family but do xx and xxx material with girls that don't visit a church every week.
first i think you must t do is to us another name or company name, dever disclose your real one.

GARY LEE · 07-19-2011, 12:32 AM

I have always used my "stage name" for anything involved in this biz. Even my GFY name is not my real name simply my biz name. I use it constantly and no one even knows the real deal unless you get into my 2257 info or the recent problem with the AIM database. You shouldn't have told this other model your private life and now you got to pay the piper. Sorry to be blunt but don't let it happen again. A lesson lived and hopefully learned.

dc0ded · 07-19-2011, 09:20 AM

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07-16-2011, 01:06 AM	#1
LushBoobs Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Hollywood, California Posts: 140	help - code of ethics re: models real name? hi. I have a problem. I worked with a model who recently took it upon herself to tell fans - my real name. I know this to be true because some of these fans have added my personal real me twitter acct to their accts ( not safe since they follow other models too) and also getting some weird penis big boob emails to my personal facebook acct - the one where i hang out with my family and childhood friends. isn't there some sort of - ethical code whereby we do not out the models to fans, ever? Has anyone ever run into this problem? I realize most of you are not models, and you are in fact webmasters but i have bought content ( from some people here even ) and i would never think of taking 2257 info and sharing it with ANYONE let alone a fan. what is the proper course of action here? what can be done, if anything to stop any further outing? this person has kinda lost her marbles a bit and is doing very strange, questionable things.. like OUTING ME TO FANS BY GIVING THEM MY REAL NAME?!! wtf? help. i'm kinda freaking out. anonymous for a decade and then one girl gets a post pregnancy hormonal surge and flips out and now fans are adding my facebook to their boobfollower fan accts? I need help and i need it now. I'm not even going to ask for advice on the breach of contract, equipment theft, promo and social networking acct theft, lies slander and defamation, trademark infringement and now..breach of privacy in the form telling people my real name. so.. help? please. and no i never will ever build a solo model site ever again. in 2009 score turned her down. divine breasts also declined to build her a solo site - and then i agreed to take it on, spending 18+ months branding retouching developing the character into something awesome.. and now i'm just getting slammed with the worst backlash for helping someone i've ever experienced. so ya - i need help and i need it now. what do any of you suggest I do, if anything? I've been quietly waiting for her to just go away since early june when she quit - but she isn't stopping her irresponsible behavior - to the point where my personal info is now in the hands of fans - short for fanatics - the kind who send 100 emails a year that never get read. is there or is there not an understanding in this business that we don't out eachothers real name in public or to fans.. ever?! i thought there was, besides the privacy agreements we had ( oral not written) this makes no sense to me. help? please? and yes i know I'm freaked out and typing a lot. oh well. i'm scared. this is what happens when i feel unsafe. ps - don't let crazy people live in your house. even if they have nowhere else to go and seem sweet. __________________ <3

07-18-2011, 05:21 PM	#3
LokoWilli Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: The Land of the Inkas Posts: 226	thet is a real problem for people like us that have family but do xx and xxx material with girls that don't visit a church every week. first i think you must t do is to us another name or company name, dever disclose your real one. __________________ I earn a lot of money with :JUICY TRAFFIC

07-19-2011, 12:32 AM	#4
GARY LEE Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Paso Robles, CA. U.S.A. Posts: 600	I have always used my "stage name" for anything involved in this biz. Even my GFY name is not my real name simply my biz name. I use it constantly and no one even knows the real deal unless you get into my 2257 info or the recent problem with the AIM database. You shouldn't have told this other model your private life and now you got to pay the piper. Sorry to be blunt but don't let it happen again. A lesson lived and hopefully learned. __________________ amateur porn videos lipstick lesbians

07-19-2011, 09:20 AM	#5
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07-16-2011, 01:14 AM	#2
EslynneWeaver Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: OH Posts: 3	Not sure what to say that might be helpful other than you have my sympathy - can you block the people on your personal facebook and twitter? I have separate ones for personal versus modeling, maybe encourage the fans to add your modeling ones instead, play dumb when people who shouldn't know your real name do? Really, I'm sorry it's happening to you, there is generally and understanding not to out people's personal info if they don't want it out, at least that's my understanding.