They're desperate, as some losers will see an opportunity to exploit another in a weak position.
If you're between 18-35, more then enough (no kid) women around. I rarely ran the risk of fucking a single moms and the few I did, ended up always wanting more then just a dick in them.
I was just straight-up with them. You can't possibly expect me to put you first in my life, and me second or third, depending on the amount of kids, and then pay for it? Fuck that, not only is that a suckers bet, I respect myself way too much for that.
My wife was in her 30's when we met as she focused on he education and family business first. She mentioned, no kids, and she wanted a rock solid relationship first, see the world first, and own a home. I couldn't get a ring on her finger fast enough.
Well, 6.5 years later, we own our home, been to more places in this world then I even care to remember, dynamite on/off-line businesses, as we just laugh when friends (with kids) ask, were you going this time?
The cool thing about not having kids is your disposable income, the pure silence, and being able to get up and do whatever you want, when you want. Simply, the amount of free time you have.
So much so I took a passion of mine, commercial fishing, and started a very small seasonal business from money selling a gun collection. Anyway, I eventuality purchased the processing equipment to eliminate a middleman, and grew tired of dealing with moody commercial fishermen. So I learned where/how and actually designed a boat for a specific type of fishing.
This is the first as the other 2 will be done by the season. My goal will be 8 as there's a ton of knowledgeable labor here who just can't afford their own boats and get shit on as hired labor. After equipment deductions etc. My profit will be almost 50% more then my competitor. Also, it a fucking blast to do all this.
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The moral of this story that I was going to blog about anyway? NEVER date/marry a single mom, unless your single with kids, your time and money should not fund others bad decision making. It's your life, make the most of what you got.