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BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 07:56 AM

Western union/MoneyProblems (Potential Drama)
 
OK I am having a real issue... I did some business with a company back at the end of April... we agreed a deal with payments to be spread over several months...

However it's been a real nightmare... the payments have not been made on time and to the agreed terms laid out... they have blamed this on what I can only discribe as the worst run of luck I have ever heard anyone have...

Firstly they said it was a issue with their bank... then it was western union... then it was paypal... then it was moneygram... every option they tried to use make payments with seem to have been problematic... they really must be the unluckiest company in the world !

They are currently trying to get me the last 20% of the agreed deal... and its been a nightmare... every time they try and send me a western union payment or a moneygran payment it gets flagged and returned to them :(

Spookily I spoke to Western Union and MoneyGram who both tell me there is no issue with my name, or the company that is trying to send me the money... Is anyone else having any issues trying to send money via western union or moneygram ???

I am in the UK and they are in the USA... but that shouldnt matter as thats what Western Union and MoneyGram specalise in... transfering money internationaly !

6 months now... patience is running out... causing me all sorts of problems :(

Juicy D. Links 11-01-2008 08:01 AM

name names!!!!!

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE 11-01-2008 08:04 AM

Yeah, I can tell by reading your post about what the problem is.

They don't have the cash, therefor transfer can't happen!

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 08:06 AM

Hmmm
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links (Post 14987248)
name names!!!!!

No I did only say "Potential Drama" I want to believe they might just be that unlucky... some people think they are taking advantage of my nice guy image :1orglaugh

But after 6 months it is becoming hard even for me to bite my lip... With the financial climate the outstanding money would be most welcome :) We're not talking about a fortune, like $5k... but with certain financial issues I am having personally that would be great right about now...

They told me last night $2000 was sent by MoneyGram... but for soem reason it wasnt showing as confirmed and they would message me the details overnight... surprise surprise I woke up in the UK today to no message :(

u-Bob 11-01-2008 08:07 AM

names ?

marcjacob 11-01-2008 08:07 AM

In all honesty it does sound like thats true, they dont have the money.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 08:10 AM

Hmmm...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Retox Josh (Post 14987263)
Yeah, I can tell by reading your post about what the problem is.

They don't have the cash, therefor transfer can't happen!

That would be sad, I would prefer if they had just told me that... best example would be last Friday (not Friday just gone) they told me they would get my money out on the following Monday... I told them at the time I had issues with my landlord and needed to pay him on the Wednesday and needed to know the money was 100%... they told me it was...

Monday came and went... Tuesday came and went... Wednesday came and went ! Loads of emails and ICQ's were sent, and ignored... then they responded saying they had tried to send every day but for some reason Western Union had refused it ! Now we're on Saturday and still no money... and a pissed off Landlord who is threatening to kick me out...

4 months in a row now they have promised me money and then let me down... 4 months on a trot I have told my landlord based on what they said the money for his rent was good... and 4 months I have let him down based on what they said :(

TisMe 11-01-2008 08:45 AM

You need to assume the worst, that the money is not going to come in from them and stop making promises to your landlord.

Now, go out and secure the money for your rent by whatever means are available to you. Plan as if they are simply not going to pay you and take care of your situation.

If they do pay, then you're ahead, but of they don't you will be taking care of your business.

crockett 11-01-2008 08:47 AM

I've sent to the UK and Moscow of all places with WU and had no problems.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 08:57 AM

Thing Is...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by TisMe (Post 14987381)
You need to assume the worst, that the money is not going to come in from them and stop making promises to your landlord.

Now, go out and secure the money for your rent by whatever means are available to you. Plan as if they are simply not going to pay you and take care of your situation.

If they do pay, then you're ahead, but of they don't you will be taking care of your business.

The crazy thing is the original deal was for $35k... they have paid just under $30k to date, even if that as taken 6 months for them to do so... so they only owe $5.4k... it's crazy that they have paid so much and are dragging their heels to pay the remaining money :(

They also seem to think that if they dont pay the rest and cancell the deal they are entitled to their money back !

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 08:58 AM

Hmmm...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by crockett (Post 14987389)
I've sent to the UK and Moscow of all places with WU and had no problems.


is that recently ?

crockett 11-01-2008 08:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigPimpCash (Post 14987413)
is that recently ?

Actually no.. it's been a while.

TisMe 11-01-2008 09:08 AM

I pay my host, who is in another country, every month by MoneyGram. Never had any issues at all for the last 5 years up to last week when I sent Nov's money.

Sounds like they don't have the money to send or are playing games for some other reason.

EscortBiz 11-01-2008 09:08 AM

airfare in these days might be cheaper than the WU fees depending on where u or they are.

WU can be a serious pain in the ass especially for amounts over 1k dont know about the other providers

Post where they are maybe someone here can simply pick it up and get it to you

AnalProbe 11-01-2008 09:14 AM

WU and MG are expensive, but ok...

Send some pitbulls over.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 09:17 AM

Funny Enough...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by EscortBiz (Post 14987432)
airfare in these days might be cheaper than the WU fees depending on where u or they are.

WU can be a serious pain in the ass especially for amounts over 1k dont know about the other providers

Post where they are maybe someone here can simply pick it up and get it to you

Funny Enough I know someone else in the same city... a cool guy I trust... I told them he was willing to pick the money up off them and send me it via wire... especially as he had just sent me a wire with no issues...

However they have ignored this offer, even though I have now suggested it to them three or four times... makes no sense to me :(

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE 11-01-2008 09:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigPimpCash (Post 14987458)
Funny Enough I know someone else in the same city... a cool guy I trust... I told them he was willing to pick the money up off them and send me it via wire... especially as he had just sent me a wire with no issues...

However they have ignored this offer, even though I have now suggested it to them three or four times... makes no sense to me :(

Yeah, they are leading you on, don't have any money.

seeandsee 11-01-2008 09:20 AM

sig spot!

baddog 11-01-2008 09:23 AM

Anyone that opts for Western Union as their best way of paying you is probably a scammer. If they has the cash they would just send a wire.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 09:28 AM

Well...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 14987489)
Anyone that opts for Western Union as their best way of paying you is probably a scammer. If they has the cash they would just send a wire.

They did apparerlently try and send via wire originally but had issues with their bank... it was only after that they tried sending via western union...

As I said they have managed to drip feed me $29.6k over the last 6 months... a little longer than I had hoped :( There is only $5.4k remaining to pay, just seems mad the deal doesnt get finalised once and for all !

Klen 11-01-2008 09:33 AM

Weird,i sended wu many times to usa and egypt never without any problem.

~Ray 11-01-2008 09:35 AM

well, you are both wrong...

they are wrong for not paying you on time

and

you are wrong by using us (gfy) as leverage against them.

both are pussy things to do :2 cents:


p.s. you are NOT bigpimpcash if your landlord is threatening to kick you out

baddog 11-01-2008 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigPimpCash (Post 14987513)
They did apparerlently try and send via wire originally but had issues with their bank...

Yes, that is the thing with banks . . . they won't let you send wires for more than your account balance.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 09:45 AM

Hmmm...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by AdvertisingSex (Post 14987574)
well, you are both wrong...

they are wrong for not paying you on time

and

you are wrong by using us (gfy) as leverage against them.

both are pussy things to do :2 cents:


p.s. you are NOT bigpimpcash if your landlord is threatening to kick you out

OK fair comment your entitled to your opinion... I am not using you or gfy as leverage... I simply wanted to know if anyone else was having problems sending western union/moneygram... as in with the resession going on and all they had brought in some kind of weird new rules... it appears by the comments on here and other people I spoke to on ICQ that isnt the case...

Secondly I am not a big programme and $5k is money I could use... fuck even if I was a big programme the principle would be enough... anyways thanks for your input :thumbsup

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 09:48 AM

Well
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 14987584)
Yes, that is the thing with banks . . . they won't let you send wires for more than your account balance.

They said it had to do with amounts of $10k... forms to fill out and all... I do believe some of the problems have been genuine (that might make me nieve) they even emailed me one of the wire forms they sent out... but had a typo mistaking a G for a 6... :( Which meant the money bounced back to them...

So as I said maybe they are just the unluckiest company in the world for sending money (is that unlucky or lucky !) :1orglaugh

Either way I wanted to know if other people were having issues with Western Union and Money Gram but it seems not... I will push for them to get the money to my mate who lives in the same city, I mean if they have the money then that shouldnt be a issue right ?

Fucksakes 11-01-2008 09:59 AM

sounds like bullshit to me. got anything else for sale by payments ;)

woj 11-01-2008 09:59 AM

They are jerking you around :2 cents:

Fucksakes 11-01-2008 10:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by baddog (Post 14987584)
Yes, that is the thing with banks . . . they won't let you send wires for more than your account balance.

thats not true here in Canada, many times I have put money into my personal bank just to send a wire with the full amount that I had with no problems

baddog 11-01-2008 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigPimpCash (Post 14987676)
They said it had to do with amounts of $10k... forms to fill out and all...

They are lying to you. You can wire any amount you want. If anything, $10k might be a max, but I have never heard that. With $10k and over there would be additional paprework.

Be that as it may, I have sent and received many wires for less than $10k.

They don't have the money if they are telling you that.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 10:07 AM

Thanks Guys...
 
it's nice to know that most think I aint the bad guy in this... the thing that is frekkin me out the most is the fact they feel if they pull the deal now (6 months after it was agreed) that I have to find the money they have already paid and give them it back... by law !

I am like WTF... what have I done wrong ? How would I be liable for them defaulting on the deal ??? tehy are ones who have broken the contract in so many ways... the initial payment was suppose to be $15k up front, it took me 3 months to even get that ! Then payments of $4k every month which never came in... instead had the remainign monies drip fed to me... and now we're close to complete the deal, just $5k to go they cant get the money to me...

But still they feel if they pull the deal I have to refund them the money ! :disgust :mad:

MediumPimpin 11-01-2008 10:08 AM

Sent to Paraguay today with WU, went right thru.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 10:09 AM

Lol...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Fucksakes (Post 14987730)
sounds like bullshit to me. got anything else for sale by payments ;)

Once bitten twice shy comes to mind :Oh crap

okfling 11-01-2008 10:19 AM

I guess you should consider yourself lucky you got as much money as you did.

I am pretty sure you are not going to do business with them again. Give them an extended deadline to settle up all funds or you will name names. something like 30 days, just incase they are having money problems

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 10:42 AM

Yep
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by okfling (Post 14987834)
I guess you should consider yourself lucky you got as much money as you did.

I am pretty sure you are not going to do business with them again. Give them an extended deadline to settle up all funds or you will name names. something like 30 days, just incase they are having money problems

Pretty sound advice... I have given them several deadlines that they have agreed to and then not delivered... just seems crazy, as you say they already paid so much... but I have not given them the product as such they bought (well part of it, but not all) so they must be motivated to finalise the deal surely ??? Just another $5k and we can put the deal to bed and all move on a lot happier... :(

EscortBiz 11-01-2008 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigPimpCash (Post 14987458)
Funny Enough I know someone else in the same city... a cool guy I trust... I told them he was willing to pick the money up off them and send me it via wire... especially as he had just sent me a wire with no issues...

However they have ignored this offer, even though I have now suggested it to them three or four times... makes no sense to me :(

they dont have the money, case closed!

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 12:42 PM

Yep I Guess...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by EscortBiz (Post 14987923)
they dont have the money, case closed!

Yeah I guess so... as I said I just wish they had told me that... And yeah the original idea of the thread was to see if anyone else was having western union and moneygram problems... and judging by the responses thats not the case...

clubchics 11-01-2008 02:10 PM

Use... www.moneybookers.com

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 03:20 PM

Hmmm...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by clubchics (Post 14988943)

In honesty I am sure what ever vehicle I used it wouldnt matter... I have had a brief chat with them today and hopefully we have a resolution and this wont need to turn into soem DRAMA...

aico 11-01-2008 03:24 PM

My bank, Wells Fargo, won't allow me to do any transactions thru Western Union, due to the high amount of fraud. Haven't tried Moneygram, but I wouldn't be surprised if that was not allowed either.

If I want to use western union I have to go to a western union location and give them cash.

When I first was declined, I asked Western Union why it was getting declined, and they told me that I need to call my bank and have them unflag the transactions, so I called my bank, and they told me that there is no way they will ever unflag any WU transaction.

BigPimpCash 11-01-2008 03:43 PM

Nope...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by aico (Post 14989151)
My bank, Wells Fargo, won't allow me to do any transactions thru Western Union, due to the high amount of fraud. Haven't tried Moneygram, but I wouldn't be surprised if that was not allowed either.

If I want to use western union I have to go to a western union location and give them cash.

When I first was declined, I asked Western Union why it was getting declined, and they told me that I need to call my bank and have them unflag the transactions, so I called my bank, and they told me that there is no way they will ever unflag any WU transaction.

This wasnt them paying western union via their bank, I didnt even know this was possible... it was infact them going into a western union outlet and either paying with cash or credit card...


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