It sucks being a "chubby chaser" - GoFuckYourself.com

digitaldivas · 09-29-2011, 11:03 PM

Due to ravaged self esteems and self loathing, it's usually harder to connect with these women. Harder than skinny or athletic women, actually, imho.

And I blurt stupid shit out sometimes when I'm nervous, like
"i'm going to go home and masturbate and think about you"
or
"i love voluptuous women because they sweat more and oh, btw, i have a foot fetish

...I would think that these tawdry little comments would at least endear me to them in some way, or...

L-Pink · 09-29-2011, 11:06 PM

Try inviting them to all-you-can-eat restaurants. Works every time ....... I hear.

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digitaldivas · 09-29-2011, 11:10 PM

lol, L. I just feel really comfortable with that body type, but it's hard. Throw in adult industry for my job and they go a runnin'

BIGTYMER · 09-29-2011, 11:12 PM

Sweat more? Yuck...

digitaldivas · 09-29-2011, 11:15 PM

I know Bigtymer, ... i know. blah

DaddyHalbucks · 09-29-2011, 11:18 PM

Spunky · 09-29-2011, 11:21 PM

They should be grateful somebody talks to them

martinsc · 09-29-2011, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by DaddyHalbucks

BIGTYMER · 09-29-2011, 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by digitaldivas

I know Bigtymer, ... i know. blah

It's ok. We all have our own likes. Luckily you don't have a balloon fetish.

Tofu · 09-29-2011, 11:30 PM

Are you serious? I STAY fucking fat girls, the sexy ones, too. If you have swag, style and charisma, any fat girl is going to roll her panties down for you. If she smells any hint of insecurity or low self esteem on you, the panties are up and she's out of the door (same as any other woman).

You may laugh, but I speak the truth. Ask around.

<- they modeled this emoticon after me.

SomeCreep · 09-29-2011, 11:32 PM

Skinny girls always be hatin' on fat chicks, but it's been my experience, that the voluptuous chubby chicks are the ones who are always taken and the skinny girls are the ones who are always single.

digitaldivas · 09-30-2011, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by SomeCreep

Skinny girls always be hatin' on fat chicks, but it's been my experience, that the voluptuous chubby chicks are the ones who are always taken and the skinny girls are the ones who are always single.

hmm, never thought about it that way.

digitaldivas · 09-30-2011, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Tofu_Fleshlight

Are you serious? I STAY fucking fat girls, the sexy ones, too. If you have swag, style and charisma, any fat girl is going to roll her panties down for you. If she smells any hint of insecurity or low self esteem on you, the panties are up and she's out of the door (same as any other woman).

You may laugh, but I speak the truth. Ask around.

<- they modeled this emoticon after me.

yeah i like the pretty ones that are just super naturally busty. My sizes i date are 12-18, depending on... there are some ridiculously beautiful voluptuous women out there... sigh

digitaldivas · 09-30-2011, 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by BIGTYMER

It's ok. We all have our own likes. Luckily you don't have a balloon fetish.

oh man, lol

digitaldivas · 09-30-2011, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

They should be grateful somebody talks to them

how you been, spunky?

iamlili · 09-30-2011, 03:20 AM

You like really fat or slightly chubby? To me it's different things

fat is ugly, chubby is cute and can be sexy

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 05:11 AM

As a fat girl that knows FAs exist, I will admit that I make somebody work a bit harder to show me they really are into big girls rather than just going for an easy lay. However, I promise that once I believe, I make it worth the effort.

PR_Glen · 09-30-2011, 05:25 AM

voluptuous means sexy or sensual... it doesn't mean chubby or fat...

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 05:27 AM

Wether chubby or fat means sexy or sensual is totally down to the individual who is judging. Yay for diversity.

spazlabz · 09-30-2011, 05:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

As a fat girl that knows FAs exist, I will admit that I make somebody work a bit harder to show me they really are into big girls rather than just going for an easy lay. However, I promise that once I believe, I make it worth the effort.

I've loved plus size girls my entire life and find that the ones who have the same attitude as you are incredibly fun to be around. Not just sexually, they generally have really good personalities and I enjoy spending time with them.

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by spazlabz

I've loved plus size girls my entire life and find that the ones who have the same attitude as you are incredibly fun to be around. Not just sexually, they generally have really good personalities and I enjoy spending time with them.

Honey, you have never made a secret of liking big girls. We have known each other online for ages and you have always flown that flag. I hope we get to meet sometime.

PR_Glen · 09-30-2011, 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

Wether chubby or fat means sexy or sensual is totally down to the individual who is judging. Yay for diversity.

Chubby or fat means exactly that, whether it is voluptuous or not is up to the persons opinion. The word itself has zero connotation of the the terms fat or chubby, it only means sexy or sensual, people use it wrong all the time. Yay for english.

Tofu · 09-30-2011, 06:05 AM

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Originally Posted by spazlabz

I've loved plus size girls my entire life and find that the ones who have the same attitude as you are incredibly fun to be around. Not just sexually, they generally have really good personalities and I enjoy spending time with them.

I totally agree with this! Fat girls are fun to kick it with, especially at big girl functions.
I love surrounding myself with beautiful fat women. They make good friends (most of them, anyway..).

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 06:18 AM

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Originally Posted by PR_Glen

Chubby or fat means exactly that, whether it is voluptuous or not is up to the persons opinion. The word itself has zero connotation of the the terms fat or chubby, it only means sexy or sensual, people use it wrong all the time. Yay for english.

I am not arguing against your point. Using words correctly is an important thing. I just also think that even when used in the sense you are saying is correct, it *can* still apply.

alias · 09-30-2011, 06:19 AM

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Originally Posted by PR_Glen

Chubby or fat means exactly that, whether it is voluptuous or not is up to the persons opinion. The word itself has zero connotation of the the terms fat or chubby, it only means sexy or sensual, people use it wrong all the time. Yay for english.

This^.

vo·lup·tu·ous [vuh-luhp-choo-uhs]
adjective
1.
full of, characterized by, or ministering to indulgence in luxury, pleasure, and sensuous enjoyment: a voluptuous life.
2.
derived from gratification of the senses: voluptuous pleasure.
3.
directed toward or concerned with sensuous enjoyment or sensual pleasure: voluptuous desires.
4.
sensuously pleasing or delightful: voluptuous beauty.
Origin:
1325?75; Middle English < Latin voluptuōsus, equivalent to volupt ( ās ) pleasure + -ōsus -ous; -u- probably by association with sumptuōsus sumptuous

alias · 09-30-2011, 06:20 AM

Fat chicks tried to steal the word, not gonna happen.

candyflip · 09-30-2011, 06:21 AM

As a lover of big girls I just thought I'd plant myself here for a bit.

raymor · 09-30-2011, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by digitaldivas

Due to ravaged self esteems and self loathing, it's usually harder to connect with these women. Harder than skinny or athletic women, actually, imho.

And I blurt stupid shit out sometimes when I'm nervous, like
"i'm going to go home and masturbate and think about you"
or
"i love voluptuous women because they sweat more and oh, btw, i have a foot fetish

...I would think that these tawdry little comments would at least endear me to them in some way, or...

Would you say stupid shit like that to me or any person other than a date? Here's a suggestion from an ugly nerd who nevertheless managed to hook up with a lot of hot women. Attractive women are people. Just talk to them like any other person who is interesting to talk to. If you get mega horny on a date, masturbate two or three times before the date so that you no longer really care. Get used to talking to people by saying something to all the women around you - in line at the grocery store, your waitress, etc. Young women, old women, hot women, ugly women - talk to them all just to get REALLY comfortable talking to women. (Being careful what you say to young women who are underage of course.)
A joke about a situation or complimenting their jewelry is normally good. A lot of jewelry has a story attached, so asking where they found such an interesting piece is a conversation starter.

Once you becomed accustomed to such chit chat you won't "blurt out stupid stuff" any more. I'm a really funny looking geek, but I found that even super hot women enjoyed taking to me when I relaxed and just chatted with them much like I would my brother, and LISTENED to what they had to say.

Once you're at that point, my experience is that people with lower self esteem crave the attention and company. A woman who never really thought she was attractive will do anything to hear you say that she is. Don't get into "fat fetish", "I like black girls" or "tiny tits are hot". Tell them you like THEM - and mean it. (Yeah that means listening to learn what's attractive about them besides their boobs.) You can absolutely connect with anyone in the world if you truly appreciate what's important to them.

Just the opinion of one ugly nerd former player with a hot young wife.

rogueteens · 09-30-2011, 07:18 AM

I suppose that the good thing about being a Chubby Chaser is that you don't have to run so fast?

L-Pink · 09-30-2011, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by rogueteens

I suppose that the good thing about being a Chubby Chaser is that you don't have to run so fast?

Oh man ...

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brassmonkey · 09-30-2011, 07:46 AM

luv chunky girlz

pornguy · 09-30-2011, 08:13 AM

Huge difference between Chubby and Fat.

Wizzo · 09-30-2011, 08:22 AM

Whether skinny, chubby, or fat no woman wants to hear about her sweating in any fashion or that your running home to rub one out thinking about them...

Sounds like your problem is the approach and not who your approaching...

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by candyflip

As a lover of big girls I just thought I'd plant myself here for a bit.

I was waiting for you to show up so the party could properly start.

Shall we dance?

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by raymor

Attractive women are people.

*claps* The line of the thread for me.

Sophie Delancey · 09-30-2011, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Wizzo

Whether skinny, chubby, or fat no woman wants to hear about her sweating in any fashion or that your running home to rub one out thinking about them...

Sounds like your problem is the approach and not who your approaching...

Exactly. As someone on the bigger side of average/smaller side of plus size, I would feel like shit if someone talked to me that way. Just treat any woman (any person, really) like a human being. And don't refer to yourself as a chubby chaser or talk about how much you like big women. Most women don't want to be fetishized. Show that you like her body by just enjoying it and by giving the occasional generic "You look so great in that dress." kind of compliment. No need to go into rolls or big thighs or sweat or whatever, because it is more likely to make her seize up than put her in the mood.

candyflip · 09-30-2011, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

I was waiting for you to show up so the party could properly start.

Shall we dance?

Do you even have to ask?

CaptainHowdy · 09-30-2011, 11:51 AM

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BruceM · 09-30-2011, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by rogueteens

I suppose that the good thing about being a Chubby Chaser is that you don't have to run so fast?

Vendzilla · 09-30-2011, 12:00 PM

Well I've been a slut for many years, I like all women, they all have their gifts. For me it's all about three things, passion, unselfishness and not on any antidepressants. I can work with the rest.

spazlabz · 09-30-2011, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

Honey, you have never made a secret of liking big girls. We have known each other online for ages and you have always flown that flag. I hope we get to meet sometime.

Yup, thats me, never shy about how much I like bigger girls. I am sure we'll meet at a show maybe next year. I've never gone but looking to pop my cherry on. I would love to buy ya a drink and shoot the shit for a few.

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by candyflip

Do you even have to ask?

Well, it is always polite to ask but ...yeah

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Vendzilla

Well I've been a slut for many years, I like all women, they all have their gifts. For me it's all about three things, passion, unselfishness and not on any antidepressants. I can work with the rest.

Apparently, I am not allowed to fall in love with a man or a woman that isn't on anti-depressants. It just comes with being attracted to the sort of mental type I like. Congrats on finding the gold mine of women that aren't on them.

I hope your GF is enjoying having you back from the road

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by spazlabz

Yup, thats me, never shy about how much I like bigger girls. I am sure we'll meet at a show maybe next year. I've never gone but looking to pop my cherry on. I would love to buy ya a drink and shoot the shit for a few.

Oh, come to one of them early in the year. If you have never been to any shows at all, I would suggest the Phx Forum. It is my favorite show of the year and very relaxed. I call it the porn industry company picnic.

I would certainly be sad if we didn't take time to drink and chat

LeRoy · 09-30-2011, 04:04 PM

Chubby girls are nice!

I dig em especially the vivacious galz. You know... the girls that know what they want.

and arent afraid to tell you how to sex em up

Hey is it just me or do chubby girls give the best BJ's?

jimmy-3-way · 09-30-2011, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

Oh, come to one of them early in the year. If you have never been to any shows at all, I would suggest the Phx Forum. It is my favorite show of the year and very relaxed. I call it the porn industry company picnic.

I would certainly be sad if we didn't take time to drink and chat

Awww yeah.

jimmy-3-way · 09-30-2011, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by LeRoy

Chubby girls are nice!

I dig em especially the vivacious galz. You know... the girls that know what they want.

and arent afraid to tell you how to sex em up

Hey is it just me or do chubby girls give the best BJ's?

Hard to say, if they lean on you wrong your shit gets numb and they could be gnawing that thing like a corn cob.

Sarah_Jayne · 09-30-2011, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmy-3-way

Awww yeah.

epitome · 09-30-2011, 04:17 PM

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Vendzilla · 09-30-2011, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

I hope your GF is enjoying having you back from the road

Yeah, she was going a little nuts me not being there. She said next time she's going with me, LOL

09-29-2011, 11:03 PM	#1
digitaldivas ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,327	It sucks being a "chubby chaser" Due to ravaged self esteems and self loathing, it's usually harder to connect with these women. Harder than skinny or athletic women, actually, imho. And I blurt stupid shit out sometimes when I'm nervous, like "i'm going to go home and masturbate and think about you" or "i love voluptuous women because they sweat more and oh, btw, i have a foot fetish ...I would think that these tawdry little comments would at least endear me to them in some way, or... __________________ ...

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Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	Wether chubby or fat means sexy or sensual is totally down to the individual who is judging. Yay for diversity.

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