RIP Todd aka Sextoyking =( - Page 2 - GoFuckYourself.com

kristin · 10-19-2011, 08:34 AM

I never met him but remember his posts. Very young, looks like he was sick for awhile and based on the donations either heart or diabetes or combo thereof. Very sad to see someone pass at such a young age. May you rest in peace, Todd.

Itchy · 10-19-2011, 08:34 AM

RIP Todd

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 10-19-2011, 08:49 AM

An industry pioneer, and good and generous family man has passed - my deepest condolences to Todd's family and friends...

A brief bio:

Quote:

Mr. Ostrer has been an entrepreneur virtually all of his life and exclusively on the Internet since commerce on the internet started. He is considered by many to be a pioneer in the industry. He served in the Army from 1986 to 1989.

Once out of the military he was briefly a forest firefighter in the Pacific Northwest Region of the United States. He has always been into computers since the first PC and turned his skills and knowledge to the Internet and Online Services to make his living, particularly in the Adult Online Services Industry and retail sales.

From 1990 to 1994, Mr. Ostrer started the company Rose City Online, Inc. Originally a BBS that served millions of adult pictures to a paid membership consumer base and eventually turned into one of the first ISP's in the Portland, Oregon Metropolitan area. He also had one of the largest Internet retail stores for adult cd's with "xxxcd.com" doing retail sales of adult cd's and shipping them all over the world.

From 1994 to 1997, Mr. Ostrer was one of the first to start Internet/Web based Adult Online Services with "Adults.com" among many others. He was also one of the first to automate his fee based adult online services to consumer's with automatic signup, real-time online credit card charging and password access.

From 1997, Mr. Ostrer helped start VTR, Inc. and ventured heavy into retail sales of adult sex toys on the World Wide Web with "sextoyworld.com" and "safesexmall.com". He has setup many retail stores on the net and runs several other stores for other companies. He has extensive knowledge of shopping cart software, merchant accounts and marketing strategies for use on the Internet.

From 1999, Mr. Ostrer started "WebInc.com", providing website development and original artwork to mainstream and adult business professionals. His vision is to provide a "One-Stop Shopping" website where business to business (B2B) professionals can find anything and everything they need to start, maintain, expand or support their online ventures, services and retail stores.

Way too young - RIP STK...

ADG

baddog · 10-19-2011, 09:02 AM

Condolences to his family.

howard · 10-19-2011, 09:03 AM

ahh thats just horrible....RIP buddy....

Mr.Fiction · 10-19-2011, 09:04 AM

RIP Todd.

First did business with him over 10 years ago. He was always friendly and professional. Way too young to die.

loreen · 10-19-2011, 09:14 AM

Rest in peace!

Lykos · 10-19-2011, 09:21 AM

R.I.P Sad news

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 09:22 AM

My heart aches. It fully aches. As many of you know, I used to be Sarah_Webinc. Todd, purely and simply, gave me my break in this industry. He was my boss for over four years but really he was a friend and a mentor.

When my husband died, Todd was my guardian angel.

I met my best friend because Todd sent me to my first industry show.

After I left Webinc, Todd followed my career as if he was my personal cheerleader. He is right there in the thread I made last month about joining Fleshlight. As ever he was bigging me up and going out of his way to make me feel good about myself.

My heart goes out to his wife and his beautiful kids.

I am forever going to miss my mentor.

Thank you Todd.

hateman · 10-19-2011, 09:25 AM

cancer sucks

RIP Sextoyking

LeRoy · 10-19-2011, 09:25 AM

Sad news

R.I.P Todd

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 09:28 AM

Does anybody have email or icq for Fletch from former Webinc glory's icq/email?

$tandaman · 10-19-2011, 09:31 AM

Rip Todd, indeed one of the better people in the biz.

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 09:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Forest

T

im down to revive the angel tree if i can get some help and guidance on how to get it done.

Ill be happy to manage the entire thing in Todd's memory

he will be missed by many.

Yes please.. I will do whatever needs to be involved with helping with that.

SykkBoy · 10-19-2011, 09:32 AM

I'm truly speechless...
Todd was such a great guy. In an industry full of smoke, mirrors and bullshit, he was one of the very rare straight shooter/"what you see is what you get" type of guys.

I remember about once a year receiving one of his packages in the mail.

We also had a great dinner at the Bellagio several years ago just shooting the shit about the biz, politics, family, etc. We must have sat there chatting for 3 hours and could have easily chatted for 3 more.

I can honestly say I'm an STK fanboy. He was one of the few people I really looked up to in this business.

Truly a great guy.
RIP Todd

Tofu · 10-19-2011, 09:32 AM

My condolences to his family and all who knew him.

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 12clicks

good guy.
sad news.
Tony, thanks for sharing that story.

Ron, thanks.

I might be voting democrat twice in his honor though ;)

CyberHustler · 10-19-2011, 09:35 AM

My condolences...

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peaches

What a very sad day for all us, and for Todd's family. He was truly one of a kind and as T said, generous to all and I don't recall anyone saying anything bad about him. He was just as cool in person as he was on the boards. I hate that I haven't been in touch with him in a few years and wish we had known what was going on. However, it's like Todd not to want folks to worry about him. He worshiped his daughters and I loved hearing him talk about them.

RIP and Godspeed.

Peaches..you should hit me up. We haven't spoken in far too long and this stuff reminds me you should always keep in touch with those you like and respect.

Evil Chris · 10-19-2011, 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sarah_Fleshlight

Does anybody have email or icq for Fletch from former Webinc glory's icq/email?

fletch **at** programs.net

Axeman · 10-19-2011, 10:02 AM

I am stunned by this news. RIP Todd.

Tjeezers · 10-19-2011, 10:04 AM

Very sad news

RIP Sextoyking, your good deeds will be reminded for always.

Sharky · 10-19-2011, 10:17 AM

R.I.P Todd.

Todd was a good guy, kind hearted and wasn't afraid to stand up for what he believed in. I've only spoken to him a few times in recent years, but every time he was in good spirits and it seemed like no time was lost.

Rest in Peace old friend.

Brad Mitchell · 10-19-2011, 10:20 AM

Todd was a kind and honest entrepreneur. May he rest in peace, his family and friends will be in our prayers. I remember doing business with him back at Webinc and have a fond memory of his hospitality at one of the first shows that Melissa and I went to.

Brad

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evil Chris

fletch **at** programs.net

Ah, some things never change.

Loryn · 10-19-2011, 10:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Forest

T

im down to revive the angel tree if i can get some help and guidance on how to get it done.

Ill be happy to manage the entire thing in Todd's memory

he will be missed by many.

That is a GREAT idea...

RIP Todd

BareBacked · 10-19-2011, 10:33 AM

OMG

so sad RIP

Elli · 10-19-2011, 10:35 AM

That is very sad. This thread makes me wish I knew him better. My condolences to his loved ones and the ones who loved him.

V_RocKs · 10-19-2011, 10:39 AM

Wow... Sucks to see someone who has been such a positive influence to so many people go!

Mojo · 10-19-2011, 10:43 AM

Oh man, sad news.

Great story T.

I have a funny business story about Todd...

I (anonymously) contacted a guy about buying his high value domain that wasn't up for sale.

He and I have brutal, BRUTAL, negotiations back and forth over the price. We go on for 2 weeks arguing every angle and we finally agree on a price.

When he sends the invoice I discover that Todd's actually the domain owner, and Todd discovers I'm the buyer.

He calls me and goes "Dude, why didn't you tell me it was you? I would have sold it to you for $5 grand less and we'd have done the deal in like 5 minutes." and I said "Dude, why didn't you tell me it was you? I would have bought it from you for $5 grand more and done the deal in like 5 minutes."

One of the good guys. RIP.

Imortyl Pussycat · 10-19-2011, 10:53 AM

condolences to his friends and loved ones....RIP Todd

NetHorse · 10-19-2011, 10:54 AM

I didn't know him, but may he R.I.P.

_Richard_ · 10-19-2011, 10:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetT

Wow...I hate hearing that. Todd was a great guy. I hate that he and I lost touch over the years.

Do any of you remember when this industry use to do the "Angel Tree" every Christmas where you adopt a kid and buy them Christmas Presents? I think it was Pattycake that headed it up each year. Most of you don't know this, but Todd and I had a deal that two days before Christmas we would adopt every single child that was left and had not been adopted and I would pick them up gifts and he would pay for the exorbitant shipping fees by letting me put it all on his Fedex account so that it would get delivered on Christmas Day or Christmas Eve. Trust me when I tell you that the Fedex bill was just as much, if not more, than the gifts themselves. He never even cared how much, he just wanted to make sure that the kids got the gifts in time for Christmas.

You can search this board all you want and you will never see that he said a word about this to anyone....as far as I know, PC, STK, and I are the only three that ever knew. This was just the type of guy that he was.

RIP, my friend.

--T

thanks for the word

very sorry to hear

Spunky · 10-19-2011, 10:58 AM

My condolences,RIP Todd

MikeFold · 10-19-2011, 10:59 AM

a sad day.....at least I have good memories from the old days
Thanks for that nice message T
RIP

Theo · 10-19-2011, 11:06 AM

That's so sad. RIP

uno · 10-19-2011, 11:16 AM

Sad news. RIP STK.

Ad-Min · 10-19-2011, 11:32 AM

I´ve never talked to him but from all the posts it seems he was a great guy. R.I.P.

Phoenix · 10-19-2011, 11:36 AM

that is sad...i only met him a couple times..was always super nice.

best wishes to his family and close friends

sternyduke · 10-19-2011, 12:08 PM

bummer, that guy was a pimp in this game and an all-around decent guy from what i heard....

cheekycherry · 10-19-2011, 12:17 PM

RIP Todd...

He bought me my first xbox for sending wishing 10 sales years ago.

Definitely one of the good guys.

Hate seeing people die.

the Shemp · 10-19-2011, 12:25 PM

another good guy gone,
RIP Todd...

XPays · 10-19-2011, 12:44 PM

terrible news, and we were chatting about doing some joint dev together last week and this comes as a total shock. live every day like it's your last....

Monique Niccole · 10-19-2011, 01:00 PM

Incredibly shocking and sad news.

RIP Todd

harvey · 10-19-2011, 01:24 PM

Rip stk

Sarah_Jayne · 10-19-2011, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cheekycherry

RIP Todd...

He bought me my first xbox for sending wishing 10 sales years ago.

Definitely one of the good guys.

Hate seeing people die.

You formatting your post in that way, just made me cry.

Every single time I say 'my friend' to somebody, I think of Todd. Always.

Far-L · 10-19-2011, 01:36 PM

As long as I have been in the industry he is one of the very few people that has never ever had a bad word said of him personally or professionally.

He is in internet porn Heaven, where there is never a chargeback and conversions are 100%, retention for ever.

Todd will be missed from a world that needs way more like him.

VMProd · 10-19-2011, 02:10 PM

RIP Todd. My thought are with your family...

babymaker · 10-19-2011, 02:34 PM

Very sad news to hear, RIP.

Brujah · 10-19-2011, 02:41 PM

Really hated hearing this. Todd was one of my favorite people ever.

10-19-2011, 08:34 AM	#51
kristin GOO! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Back Home : ) Posts: 9,768	I never met him but remember his posts. Very young, looks like he was sick for awhile and based on the donations either heart or diabetes or combo thereof. Very sad to see someone pass at such a young age. May you rest in peace, Todd. __________________ Vacares rules. "Usually only fat guys have the kind of knowledge and ability that Kristin has."

10-19-2011, 08:34 AM	#52
Itchy Datetronix.com Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Chill-A-Wack BC Posts: 6,524	RIP Todd __________________ ICQ: 2588560 Skype: Pornocop

10-19-2011, 09:03 AM	#55
howard Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: phila Posts: 1,827	ahh thats just horrible....RIP buddy.... __________________ perkissmedia.com [email protected] 318621803 perkymon993 Skype

10-19-2011, 09:04 AM	#56
Mr.Fiction Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Free Speech Land Posts: 9,484	RIP Todd. First did business with him over 10 years ago. He was always friendly and professional. Way too young to die. __________________ Don't be lazy, protect free speech: ACLU \| Free Speech Coalition \| EFF \| IMPA

10-19-2011, 09:14 AM	#57
loreen myadultdesign.com Industry Role: Join Date: May 2004 Location: Europe Posts: 12,557	Rest in peace! __________________ Banners, logos, headers, peels, FHGs, ads, paysites, photo retouching etc: my adult design portfolio My logo portfolio: PornLogos.com

10-19-2011, 09:02 AM	#54
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,090	Condolences to his family.

10-19-2011, 09:21 AM	#58
Lykos Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: World Posts: 31,017	R.I.P Sad news __________________

10-19-2011, 09:22 AM	#59
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	My heart aches. It fully aches. As many of you know, I used to be Sarah_Webinc. Todd, purely and simply, gave me my break in this industry. He was my boss for over four years but really he was a friend and a mentor. When my husband died, Todd was my guardian angel. I met my best friend because Todd sent me to my first industry show. After I left Webinc, Todd followed my career as if he was my personal cheerleader. He is right there in the thread I made last month about joining Fleshlight. As ever he was bigging me up and going out of his way to make me feel good about myself. My heart goes out to his wife and his beautiful kids. I am forever going to miss my mentor. Thank you Todd. Last edited by Sarah_Jayne; 10-19-2011 at 09:26 AM..

10-19-2011, 09:25 AM	#60
hateman So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,623	cancer sucks RIP Sextoyking

10-19-2011, 09:25 AM	#61
LeRoy Porn Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: It's a dry heat Posts: 13,334	Sad news R.I.P Todd __________________ JAPANESE CAMS AND CONTENT SITES Skype - leroy.rowland2

10-19-2011, 09:28 AM	#62
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	Does anybody have email or icq for Fletch from former Webinc glory's icq/email?

10-19-2011, 09:31 AM	#63
$tandaman Pimping 8EZ Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,528	Rip Todd, indeed one of the better people in the biz. __________________ CentroProfits.com - Make money with 3000+ Models! ModelCentro.com - Multiple award winning hosted CMS designed to run solo model sites, with affiliate program built in. Launch your model site in 24 hrs or less! FanCentro.com - Premium social network for SWs & Fans!

10-19-2011, 09:32 AM	#65
SykkBoy Jesus loves bacon Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Sin City, Motherfucker Posts: 19,969	I'm truly speechless... Todd was such a great guy. In an industry full of smoke, mirrors and bullshit, he was one of the very rare straight shooter/"what you see is what you get" type of guys. I remember about once a year receiving one of his packages in the mail. We also had a great dinner at the Bellagio several years ago just shooting the shit about the biz, politics, family, etc. We must have sat there chatting for 3 hours and could have easily chatted for 3 more. I can honestly say I'm an STK fanboy. He was one of the few people I really looked up to in this business. Truly a great guy. RIP Todd __________________ Support my new movie “The Second Coming”

10-19-2011, 09:32 AM	#66
Tofu The Video Specialist Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: California Posts: 5,615	My condolences to his family and all who knew him. __________________ tofu916 video services - tofu916.com twitter: tofu916 \| skype: tofu916 \| tel: 916-672-TOFU \| e: tofu # tofu916.com

10-19-2011, 09:35 AM	#68
CyberHustler So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 25,214	My condolences...

10-19-2011, 10:02 AM	#71
Axeman Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Swamp Posts: 5,201	I am stunned by this news. RIP Todd. __________________ XXXRewards - Karups - Boyfun - Jawked. Paying on time since 1997. Contact me at brent [at] xxxrewards.com

10-19-2011, 10:04 AM	#72
Tjeezers Webmaster Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: BP4L - NL/RO Posts: 16,556	Very sad news RIP Sextoyking, your good deeds will be reminded for always. __________________ Enroll in the SWAG Affiliate Asian Live Cam Program and get 9 free quality linkbacks from my network! Wanna see how old school I am? Look at this! All my Cam Review Sites are here!

10-19-2011, 10:17 AM	#73
Sharky Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 4,938	R.I.P Todd. Todd was a good guy, kind hearted and wasn't afraid to stand up for what he believed in. I've only spoken to him a few times in recent years, but every time he was in good spirits and it seemed like no time was lost. Rest in Peace old friend. __________________ Sharky

10-19-2011, 10:20 AM	#74
Brad Mitchell Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Southfield, MI Posts: 9,811	Todd was a kind and honest entrepreneur. May he rest in peace, his family and friends will be in our prayers. I remember doing business with him back at Webinc and have a fond memory of his hospitality at one of the first shows that Melissa and I went to. Brad __________________ President at MojoHost \| brad at mojohost dot com \| Skype MojoHostBrad 71 industry awards for hosting and professional excellence since 1999

10-19-2011, 10:33 AM	#77
BareBacked Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: www.BareBacked.com Posts: 3,685	OMG so sad RIP __________________ NEW SITE PAYING $30 for a $1 TRIAL Selfies

10-19-2011, 10:35 AM	#78
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	That is very sad. This thread makes me wish I knew him better. My condolences to his loved ones and the ones who loved him. __________________ Make More Money with Cams and Dating at FFN.com! email: [email protected]

10-19-2011, 10:39 AM	#79
V_RocKs Damn Right I Kiss Ass! Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Cowtown, USA Posts: 32,391	Wow... Sucks to see someone who has been such a positive influence to so many people go!

10-19-2011, 10:43 AM	#80
Mojo Used to be a Legend Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 356	Oh man, sad news. Great story T. I have a funny business story about Todd... I (anonymously) contacted a guy about buying his high value domain that wasn't up for sale. He and I have brutal, BRUTAL, negotiations back and forth over the price. We go on for 2 weeks arguing every angle and we finally agree on a price. When he sends the invoice I discover that Todd's actually the domain owner, and Todd discovers I'm the buyer. He calls me and goes "Dude, why didn't you tell me it was you? I would have sold it to you for $5 grand less and we'd have done the deal in like 5 minutes." and I said "Dude, why didn't you tell me it was you? I would have bought it from you for $5 grand more and done the deal in like 5 minutes." One of the good guys. RIP. __________________ -12clicks wears fancy boots.

10-19-2011, 10:53 AM	#81
Imortyl Pussycat Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Cali Posts: 5,449	condolences to his friends and loved ones....RIP Todd __________________ Julie Larson julie {at} juicyads.com skype: imortylpussycat Buy & Sell Ads on The Most Sexy Advertising Network on the Planet available ad spots \| sign up now

10-19-2011, 10:54 AM	#82
NetHorse Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,526	I didn't know him, but may he R.I.P. __________________ ┌∩┐(◣_◢)┌∩┐ ICQ # 427013273

10-19-2011, 10:58 AM	#84
Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,928	My condolences,RIP Todd __________________ CONTACT FOR YOUR INFORMATION HERE

10-19-2011, 10:59 AM	#85
MikeFold Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: semi-retired Posts: 465	a sad day.....at least I have good memories from the old days Thanks for that nice message T RIP __________________ nothing to promote Last edited by MikeFold; 10-19-2011 at 11:01 AM..

10-19-2011, 11:06 AM	#86
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,524	That's so sad. RIP

10-19-2011, 11:16 AM	#87
uno RIP Dodger. BEST.CAT.EVER Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: NYC Area Posts: 18,450	Sad news. RIP STK. __________________ -uno icq: 111-914 CrazyBabe.com - porn art MojoHost - For all your hosting needs, present and future. Tell them I sent ya!

10-19-2011, 11:32 AM	#88
Ad-Min Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 655	I´ve never talked to him but from all the posts it seems he was a great guy. R.I.P.

10-19-2011, 11:36 AM	#89
Phoenix BACON BACON BACON Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Poems everybody, the laddie fancies himself a poet Posts: 35,457	that is sad...i only met him a couple times..was always super nice. best wishes to his family and close friends __________________ Skype Phoenixskype1 Telegram PhoenixBrad https://quantads.io

10-19-2011, 12:08 PM	#90
sternyduke Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: scottsdale Posts: 1,082	bummer, that guy was a pimp in this game and an all-around decent guy from what i heard....

10-19-2011, 12:17 PM	#91
cheekycherry Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: N/A Posts: 1,703	RIP Todd... He bought me my first xbox for sending wishing 10 sales years ago. Definitely one of the good guys. Hate seeing people die.

10-19-2011, 12:25 PM	#92
the Shemp congrats to the winners Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Echo Beach Posts: 10,891	another good guy gone, RIP Todd... __________________ i use Vacares...so should you Submit your picture galleries to my site...Outlaw TGP

10-19-2011, 12:44 PM	#93
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