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MetaMan · 06-14-2015, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

just saying its better to have manners than not have any

Well ya... if you respect the person. Youre not respected... thus they didnt thank you.

See how that works?

MetaMan · 06-14-2015, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

i dont pay for the them often

Here is maybe the other thing. Youre a probably a cheap ass who never pays. So tecnically it is you paying some dues.

No thank you is in order.

So in summary youre a cheap ass who is not respected.

/thread

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 11:58 AM

no, im not a cheap ass.

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 11:59 AM

just saying, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended

Sly · 06-14-2015, 12:01 PM

Do your friends really say "aight?"

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:02 PM

just saying, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended

MetaMan · 06-14-2015, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

just saying, its better to have manners than not to have

Look DUMB ASS no one cares what youre saying.

Go buy a box of tampons and ice cream and go cry to your mommy.

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

Look DUMB ASS no one cares what youre saying.

Go buy a box of tampons and ice cream and go cry to your mommy.

if u didnt care, then u wouldnt be replying here

MetaMan · 06-14-2015, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

just saying, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended

We are offended because you have the brain of a very small fish. Plus youre crying like you got sand in your vagina because your friends didnt thank you. Grow a set. Are you a woman?

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:04 PM

all im saying is, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended.

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

We are offended because you have the brain of a very small fish. Plus youre crying like you got sand in your vagina because your friends didnt thank you. Grow a set. Are you a woman?

u obviously care! but u said u didnt?

MetaMan · 06-14-2015, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

u obviously care! but u said u didnt?

I care that maybe your vagina will have too much sand in it next time someone doesnt "thank you" for sucking your own cock.

freecartoonporn · 06-14-2015, 12:08 PM

you missed friendship 101

theres no thank you / sorry in real friendship.

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:08 PM

now now, wheres your manners little boy

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

I care that maybe your vagina will have too much sand in it next time someone doesnt "thank you" for sucking your own cock.

now now little boy, wheres your manners

Sly · 06-14-2015, 12:10 PM

Why didn't you think anyone for their advice in this thread?

https://gfy.com/mainstream-business-d...8-convert.html

MetaMan · 06-14-2015, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by freecartoonporn

you missed friendship 101

theres no thank you / sorry in real friendship.

He doesnt have any real friends. Thus his whiny self loathing thread.

How pathetic can he be?

dyna mo · 06-14-2015, 12:11 PM

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Why didn't you think anyone for their advice in this thread?

https://gfy.com/mainstream-business-d...8-convert.html

(check my other threads where i say tnx at the end of the sentence). I had a little bit of "sly" in me at the time out of like a dozen posts. WHy not put a link here to my other posts where i said "tnx" many times?

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:16 PM

just saying again, im just defending why its better to have manners than not have any. I dont know why some people here are getting offended

TheSquealer · 06-14-2015, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

just saying again, im just defending why its better to have manners than not have any. I dont know why some people here are getting offended

Believing you are a sniveling pussy, is not the same as being offended

The more you talk, the clearer it becomes why you have no friends

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:22 PM

u seem offended about showing gratitude. Its obviousy u have nobody to show gratitude/manners to

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

I'm going to a barbecue tonight. Going to take a few sixpacks.

Which party should say thank you? And if we both say thank you, does it have the same effect? What if I say thank you for the barbecue and nobody says thank you for the beer, should I report back?

U obviously don't need to say thank you to yourself.

CDSmith · 06-14-2015, 12:23 PM

I can only speak to what I do. If someone pays for me I always thank them. If I happen to forget, it bothers me, and I try to remember to thank them the next time I see them.

When I'm the one treating I don't place any expectations on it, if thanks are given it's nice to hear. Far be it for me to force my manners on others. :D

But honestly I can't recall it ever being an issue. Basic manners in my view, and I've found that usually there's one person in the group who remembers to say thankyou, then the rest give their heads a shake and say it too.

But if not, whatever. Sign of the times maybe.

TheSquealer · 06-14-2015, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

u seem offended about showing gratitude. Its obviousy u have nobody to show gratitude/manners to

You seem to be attempting to obfuscate the fact that people think you're a clown with a little misdirection. Clearly no one is offended and people are attacking your behavior and expectations and the need for recognition of your actions... which should have been selfless to begin with

Sly · 06-14-2015, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

u seem offended about showing gratitude. Its obviousy u have nobody to show gratitude/manners to

Or, they do so much for so many people that gratitude is common and when somebody they care about forgets to say "thank you" they simply don't care because they know the other person loves them anyway.

How often do you buy gifts for other people? Dinner? Event tickets? Doesn't sound like very often. That's okay, perhaps you are not financially able to do so. But do yourself a favor and get over your neediness, the quality of friends you make will be higher and little things like this will not be such an issue for you.

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Or, they do so much for so many people that gratitude is common and when somebody they care about forgets to say "thank you" they simply don't care because they know the other person loves them anyway.

How often do you buy gifts for other people? Dinner? Event tickets? Doesn't sound like very often. That's okay, perhaps you are not financially able to do so. But do yourself a favor and get over your neediness, the quality of friends you make will be higher and little things like this will not be such an issue for you.

soo much anger issue in you i sense. Why soo much anger? da fuck did the world do to u

Sly · 06-14-2015, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

soo much anger issue in you i sense. Why soo much anger? da fuck did the world do to u

How did you guess? Are you watching my chaturbate feed?

You could at least tip me, I have people to buy dinner for!

lakerslive · 06-14-2015, 12:33 PM

u mad bro?

Sly · 06-14-2015, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

u mad bro?

You have no idea.

TheSquealer · 06-14-2015, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

You have no idea.

Are you mad that he is a sniveling bItch with no friends that like him or appreciate him? Huh? Are you mad about that?

The Porn Nerd · 06-14-2015, 12:52 PM

Manners:

Please
Thank you
Excuse me
You're welcome

"Friends"....now there's a grey area.

Rochard · 06-14-2015, 12:57 PM

Your friends have no class.

Adraco · 06-14-2015, 01:07 PM

Lakerslive -1
For not starting a sentence with capital letter and for not being consequent with shortened form (ive, dont and then you're).
Inconsistency is confusing for the reader and is not proper manners.

Also a big minus for slang, spelling you with just the letter U.
Not proper manners.

Please go back to school and learn how to spell correctly if you want to teach proper manners to others.

Penny24Seven · 06-14-2015, 01:18 PM

You compare it to giving them a million dollars or even a fucking kidney? Dude you have problems, just let it go. They will show thanks by having your back or whatever as real friends do. If you have to question it they are not friends anyway.

aka123 · 06-14-2015, 02:30 PM

They are just "Later homie." and do weird stuff with their hands as they would be be totally blasted mutes hand signaling.

Dead · 06-14-2015, 04:37 PM

Sorry bro, the dinner sucked and your company was sub par.......

CaptainHowdy · 06-14-2015, 04:58 PM

Live and learn. Hate your friends.

DraX · 06-14-2015, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan

They dont thank you because they dont respect you. Youre that one loser friend where people expect you to pay or else you wouldnt be there in the first place.

To me its a wash. Did you tell them "thank you for allowing me to take time off from my miserable little life". Probably not. So stop whining.

Yea some threats in between invites is in order to get some respect.

After a few months they will say "thank you sir" for the meal.

georgeyw · 06-14-2015, 06:52 PM

Wow this thread went south super fast!

@ OP - yes I would expect at the very least a thank you, I would say thank you myself, so I am not sure as to why that is a big deal. Both are nice gestures - paying for dinner and saying thank you.

2MuchMark · 06-14-2015, 07:30 PM

One thing I've noticed at Trade shows, is that many people go out of their way to say thank-you. For example we sponsor all the suite parties at the Qwebec Expo every year. Many people say thank you for the drinks, the party, etc. Adult industry is good people.

mahoney · 06-14-2015, 07:31 PM

Yeah I l know what u mean. That happens to me from time to time.
Mostly because allot of my "Friends" are broke Losers but they usually
say Thank You. Those who don't I blame their Idiot parents for setting
a shitty example.

Bladewire · 06-14-2015, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by lakerslive

yeah..i cant believe its bothering even until now..lol

You're upset at youself for misjudging the character of these acquaintances. It happens.

Always be the first to thank acquaintances for hanging out as you're making your exit, how they respond gives you a glimpse as to who they are. Don't expect others to give thanks first.

Learning better judgement comes at a price, in you're case, it was dinner. Consider yourself lucky 👍👾

CurrentlySober · 06-15-2015, 03:43 AM

i like pU

_Richard_ · 06-15-2015, 04:38 AM

yea they should say thank you; on the other hand getting upset about people not saying thank you is kinda bizarre too

Sid70 · 06-15-2015, 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

True, but even if a good friend bought me dinner I would still say Thank You.

I was raised well I guess. LOL

But to take a few people out to dinner and not a single person says thanks? Fuck those idiots, never again is what I would say. Hope you wrote the dinner off as a biz expense at least.

About summed it all up, correct.

MaDalton · 06-15-2015, 05:58 AM

don't know whether it's an age or cultural thing but between me and my friends it's common to say thank you when someone invites the others, does a party or similar things.

my parents taught me so (and i have friends with manners)

Marco68 · 06-15-2015, 06:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Real friends don't buy friends something and expect something else in return. Thanks or not.

If they are casual friends, thanks are in order.

totally agree

aka123 · 06-15-2015, 06:29 AM

I have been taught to say thanks when getting up (or about to get) from the table. Or saying thanks if someone gives something to you, whether it is a dinner or someone hands a hammer to you (when hammering something).

Based on answers it is cultural thing to say thanks in Europe, in US it isn't.

Sid70 · 06-15-2015, 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by aka123

Based on answers it is cultural thing to say thanks in Europe, in US it isn't.

That's how you sell different porn here and there - know your target audience!

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lakerslive Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 929	no, im not a cheap ass.

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lakerslive Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 929	just saying, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended

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lakerslive Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 929	just saying, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended

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lakerslive Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 929	all im saying is, its better to have manners than not to have. I dunno why some people here are getting offended.

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lakerslive Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 929	just saying again, im just defending why its better to have manners than not have any. I dont know why some people here are getting offended

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lakerslive Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 929	u seem offended about showing gratitude. Its obviousy u have nobody to show gratitude/manners to

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