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2MuchMark · 07-26-2023, 07:32 AM

So something kind of interesting just happened...

I am exploring ways to make chatbots. Using some AI, I used a bunch of prompts to create a female character that men could interact with. I based this on a friend of mine who is male, loves sci-fi, and is looking for love. He is shy, quiet and a little akward and never tries to meet women. He loves sci-fi as mentioned, especially Star Trek, and can't find women he can talk to about his favourite subject.

The character I created in ChatGPT is everything he wants in a "woman". I've been testing it and tweaking the prompts etc and it's pretty impressive. My next step was to create a script for it with a UI and give it to my friend.

Anyway -

My spouse just saw this and FREAKED OUT. She is really mad at me for doing this, saying it will take him and other away from the real world of social interactions, etc. In my head it is doing him a favour, showing off some modern tech, and its a fun and challening project for me. But in her eyes, it is a terrible idea. She also seems to be really afraid of AI because everytime I mention it, she gets weird. Or bored, or both, and wants to change the subject.

Any ideas? Comments? Advice?

TheLegacy · 07-26-2023, 08:38 AM

As far as your friend - girlfriend AI chats already exist (with a fee) so you creating one for him is a nice gesture especially if he's awkward or shy - may give him direction especially when it comes to opening lines of discussion

Now as far as your wife - this I can appreciate being married myself. I'm not sure if she is aware of what you're friend is going through - much less is aware of how difficult it is these days. She's the one that guys want - it's not a world where men are being chased. Bars - clubs whatever - men are at a disadvantage since they don't have to choose or have options as women do.

Even a 5/10 girl still has a shot of guys wanting to talk to her - she is dominant and in control. Men are always trying to talk to women - not as much the other way around.

Yet in this crazy world - your wife is right up to a point. Although she won't understand the fear and difficulty some men face - her instincts maybe misdirected since she never offered any alternative suggestions. So... here are some

- give him a make over from clothing to hair
- perhaps create a games night and invite some of your wife's female friends
- get him into a free counsellor for advice
- explain to him in meeting women set his emotions to the side and talk to them as if he was talking to a guy. So no thoughts of intimacy etc. just talk as he normally would
- perhaps if that doesn't work take him to a strip club and get girls to chat with him
- get him involved in social programs eg. meals of wheels - homeless kitchens
- possibly get a pet dog and take it on walks to parks
- if he's sexually frustrated take him to a massage parlor he can chat etc. there

most guys who feel this way have either been burned to badly to talk or have never developed during early years to have confidence in themselves to communicate strength or their ideas. Self confidence and self worth are important vibes to show

Explain to your wife these ideas but that the AI you're building can be used on your friend but help others. Her understanding is that it will remove a persons ability or desire to reach out to real people causing them to go deeper into themselves - doubting their own ability to be liked and approved by others. This is only a tool in that development to help him see and correct some of his insecurities - sort of like a AI relationship counsellor.

Technically you're attempting to build this https://dreamgf.ai/

redwhiteandblue · 07-26-2023, 08:49 AM

Get a different wife.

2MuchMark · 07-26-2023, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by redwhiteandblue

Get a different wife.

What is surprising too is that she's cool with me working in porn... and she had no trouble with the studios and girlies we used to have... but AI is a red flag all of a sudden...

CurrentlySober · 07-26-2023, 09:22 AM

Tell her you could be creating a chatbot for me, with *MY* interests taken into account.

She'll be so utterly horrified that she wont give your Star Trek one a second though...

Problem solved

Klen · 07-26-2023, 09:45 AM

Just pay some ho to show him how things are done.

TheLegacy · 07-26-2023, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Klen

Just pay some ho to show him how things are done.

He's in Montreal - where are you going to find.. oh. wait.. Montreal... NVM. Listen to Klen LOL

Zuzana Designs · 07-26-2023, 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Klen

Just pay some ho to show him how things are done.

LOLZ

CaptainHowdy · 07-26-2023, 03:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Klen

Just pay some ho to show him how things are done.

. . .

bmwracer41 · 07-26-2023, 03:03 PM

@Currently sober

You are freaking Hilarious- God Bless you pal !!!!!!!!!

I wet farted

What is surprising too is that she's cool with me working in porn... and she had no trouble with the studios and girlies we used to have... but AI is a red flag all of a sudden...
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07-26-2023, 07:32 AM	#1
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07-26-2023, 08:38 AM	#2
TheLegacy SEO Connoisseur Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Brantford, Ontario Posts: 16,354	As far as your friend - girlfriend AI chats already exist (with a fee) so you creating one for him is a nice gesture especially if he's awkward or shy - may give him direction especially when it comes to opening lines of discussion Now as far as your wife - this I can appreciate being married myself. I'm not sure if she is aware of what you're friend is going through - much less is aware of how difficult it is these days. She's the one that guys want - it's not a world where men are being chased. Bars - clubs whatever - men are at a disadvantage since they don't have to choose or have options as women do. Even a 5/10 girl still has a shot of guys wanting to talk to her - she is dominant and in control. Men are always trying to talk to women - not as much the other way around. Yet in this crazy world - your wife is right up to a point. Although she won't understand the fear and difficulty some men face - her instincts maybe misdirected since she never offered any alternative suggestions. So... here are some - give him a make over from clothing to hair - perhaps create a games night and invite some of your wife's female friends - get him into a free counsellor for advice - explain to him in meeting women set his emotions to the side and talk to them as if he was talking to a guy. So no thoughts of intimacy etc. just talk as he normally would - perhaps if that doesn't work take him to a strip club and get girls to chat with him - get him involved in social programs eg. meals of wheels - homeless kitchens - possibly get a pet dog and take it on walks to parks - if he's sexually frustrated take him to a massage parlor he can chat etc. there most guys who feel this way have either been burned to badly to talk or have never developed during early years to have confidence in themselves to communicate strength or their ideas. Self confidence and self worth are important vibes to show Explain to your wife these ideas but that the AI you're building can be used on your friend but help others. Her understanding is that it will remove a persons ability or desire to reach out to real people causing them to go deeper into themselves - doubting their own ability to be liked and approved by others. This is only a tool in that development to help him see and correct some of his insecurities - sort of like a AI relationship counsellor. Technically you're attempting to build this https://dreamgf.ai/ __________________ SEO Connoisseur Microsoft Teams: Robert Warren SEO Telegram: @TheLegacy54 RobertWarrenSEO.com

07-26-2023, 08:49 AM	#3
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07-26-2023, 09:22 AM	#5
CurrentlySober Too lazy to wipe my ass Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: A Public Bathroom Posts: 38,491	Tell her you could be creating a chatbot for me, with MY interests taken into account. She'll be so utterly horrified that she wont give your Star Trek one a second though... Problem solved __________________ My AI Handywork... My Dream Gal... XXX 👁️ 👍️ 💩

07-26-2023, 03:03 PM	#10
bmwracer41 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 1,526	@Currently sober You are freaking Hilarious- God Bless you pal !!!!!!!!! I wet farted What is surprising too is that she's cool with me working in porn... and she had no trouble with the studios and girlies we used to have... but AI is a red flag all of a sudden... __________________ Im thinking maybe she thinks you could get addicted, start ignoring here, etc...You know loose lips sink ships My divorce cost me millions, lifetime alimony , so no Marriage Counselor , but just my two cents great thread guys __________________ Label Dollars-Top Converting Games

07-26-2023, 09:45 AM	#6
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