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Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 12:47 PM

and I don't expect any of you to help but I'm in a serious bind and don't have any other place to turn.

I won't bore you with the details...that, and I honestly don't want to recount what's happened so I'll try to summarize.

Lost both parents to cancer..most recently, my father in April. No life insurance or savings. Been working odd jobs and trying to start a web-business for the past year or so..with little success. I have just lost my regular job, which paid just above minimum wage, and don't have a dime to my name. (actually, that's not true, I have $0.25 as hard as that is to believe, on my bank checking statement). I'm behind on the water and electricity bill this month and my rent is already $275 behind from the previous two months..my landlord has been understanding but is growing impatient (which I fully understand). I have no other family (except a younger brother that I take care of) to turn to. My two dogs are healthy, however, and so are myself and my brother..I am thankful for that.

I've survived before and I'll survive this time but things are just looking really bleak right now. Before you ask, I am out looking for work and I have cut my bills down to the bare essentials (Internet will be cut off at the end of this month unless I find a job before then).

If you flame me for this, that's your choice and I can't say that I would blame you. Like I said, I don't expect anyone to help out a stranger but on the off chance that you have a few dollars in your paypal account to send to someone in dire need, I thought I had to take that chance.

my paypal addy is [email protected]
I would appreciate any loose change or even well wishes and words of encouragement. I <b>will</b> pay you back when I get on my feet. Thank you..I'll hopefully see all of you during better times.

AaronM · 08-11-2003, 12:49 PM

Spacedog?

lil2rich4u2 · 08-11-2003, 12:51 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM
Spacedog?

AaronM · 08-11-2003, 12:51 PM

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Originally posted by lil2rich4u2

Spacedog?

lil2rich4u2 · 08-11-2003, 12:52 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM

Spacedog?

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 12:55 PM

guys come on send him some $

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 12:56 PM

You have sent cash! An email has been sent to the recipient

I sent ya $50. i hope you are not bullshitting with the cancer stuff.

Good luck

Sly_RJ · 08-11-2003, 12:57 PM

I have some pretty basic work I could have you do. How about that?

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:01 PM

xxweekxx,
I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did.

You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.

Tala · 08-11-2003, 01:02 PM

If I had it to send, I'd help you out. Hope things start looking better for you soon.

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:03 PM

Sly_RJ,
Absolutely. e-mail me and let me know what it is...I'm on it. Thank you very much.

Va2k · 08-11-2003, 01:04 PM

Hey man I know how ya feel good luck wish there was something I could do but im in one hell of a bind myself right now. maybe list the shit you can do like html, galleries, design etc... good luck

TOM

theking · 08-11-2003, 01:05 PM

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Originally posted by Sly_RJ
I have some pretty basic work I could have you do. How about that?

Are you employed by anyone now?

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:06 PM

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Originally posted by Fappeddotcom
xxweekxx,
I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did.

You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.

no problem bro

i was in a big mess too till i started doing good. I'll keep your paypal on my list and i have a deal that is supposed to work out very well for me. if it does i'll send you more $$$

Good luck

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:06 PM

Tala,
Thank you for the well-wishes. It means just as much to me right now.

va2k,
I can do some design work..I know a bit of HTML and have done web marketing. Thank you as well for the well-wishes. I sincerely appreciate it.

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:08 PM

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Originally posted by Fappeddotcom
xxweekxx,
I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did.

You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.

also for all you stingy muthafuckers.. i know $50 doesnt mean crap to most of you here but you dont know what it means for someone else.. Why dont you guys send him some little $$.

There are a lot of big players here who make $50 in a few seconds so why not help the fella out... You never know..

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:11 PM

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Originally posted by xxweekxx

no problem bro i was in a big mess too till i started doing good. I'll keep your paypal on my list and i have a deal that is supposed to work out very well for me. if it does i'll send you more $$$

Good luck

You've already been very kind..I couldn't accept anything else... This has honestly given me hope for the first time in a long time. Thank you doesn't seem like enough. I am a man of my word, and I promise that every cent that is sent to me will be repaid once I get back on my feet.

Sly_RJ · 08-11-2003, 01:12 PM

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Originally posted by theking

Are you employed by anyone now?

"Employed" is such a tricky word. But yes, I do sales for Phat Servers and still run my own side projects.

Why do you ask?

sextoyking · 08-11-2003, 01:16 PM

Hi Fappeddotcom,

Sorry to hear about the loss of your parents.

I have sent you a paypal, I hope it helps some. I will talk with the team and see if mabey there is some side work for you to do until you get employed full time with some company.

thanks

Todd

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:17 PM

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Originally posted by sextoyking
Hi Fappeddotcom,

Sorry to hear about the loss of your parents.

I have sent you a paypal, I hope it helps some. I will talk with the team and see if mabey there is some side work for you to do until you get employed full time with some company.

thanks

Todd

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:19 PM

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Originally posted by xxweekxx
You have sent cash! An email has been sent to the recipient

I sent ya $50. i hope you are not bullshitting with the cancer stuff.

Good luck

Can you say "Ive been scammed"

Sly_RJ · 08-11-2003, 01:21 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Can you say "Ive been scammed"

Maybe. Maybe not.

Sometimes $50 is worth the chance of turning someone's life around.

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:21 PM

Todd,
Thank you so much for your generosity. I've honestly never experienced anything like this before..the kindness of strangers. You are all amazing people and I will never forget your kindness.

I also would like to thank those of you who have offered me some side-jobs. I will absolutely take them and you can count on my best effort in doing them. Thank you all once again.

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:23 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Can you say "Ive been scammed"

idiot

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:24 PM

for fucking once GFY does something good

AssFairy · 08-11-2003, 01:26 PM

It is good to see somebody being given a helping hand in their time of need

I'll send you some traffic to your TGP I hope that helps a little

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:27 PM

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Originally posted by xxweekxx

idiot

Um no. You realize that the $50 will be going towards a couple bottles of Jack daniells right?

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:28 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Can you say "Ive been scammed"

GeXus,
I understand your cynicism, I just hope that you don't have to go through a tough time in your life..but if you do, I hope myself or some of these fine people who have helped me are there to give you hope that things will get better. Take care.

galleryseek · 08-11-2003, 01:28 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Um no. You realize that the $50 will be going towards a couple bottles of Jack daniells right?

lol, although that would probably be true in a lot of cases, there are actually a few people who don't resort to drinking when they're in tight situations.

and its no reason not to contribute.

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:29 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Um no. You realize that the $50 will be going towards a couple bottles of Jack daniells right?

no it wont. and even if it does, so what? i feel happy i helped someone out. you never know. maybe my $50 stopped him from doing something stupid....

If you wont help him out thats fine, i have no problem helping out someone in need any day.. thats how i was brought up.

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:30 PM

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Originally posted by galleryseek

and its no reason not to contribute.

yup..

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:31 PM

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Originally posted by Fappeddotcom

GeXus,
I understand your cynicism, I just hope that you don't have to go through a tough time in your life..but if you do, I hope myself or some of these fine people who have helped me are there to give you hope that things will get better. Take care.

Dude come on give me a break.. If its true then well i hope things work out for you.. but lets be realistic here..

1. Why are you posting on a porn webmaster board looking for handouts? Do you not have any local friends you could borrow from?

2. Why did you loose your minimum wage job?

3. Why dont you get off you ass in front of the computer, which doesnt seem to be making you much money and get a J-O-B!
and dont say you cant find one. Work at Mcdonalds, anywhere, Just get a fucking job that can make you at least enough money to survive.. and stop asking for handouts!

xxweekxx · 08-11-2003, 01:33 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Dude come on give me a break.. If its true then well i hope things work out for you.. but lets be realistic here..

1. Why are you posting on a porn webmaster board looking for handouts? Do you not have any local friends you could borrow from?

2. Why did you loose your minimum wage job?

3. Why dont you get off you ass in front of the computer, which doesnt seem to be making you much money and get a J-O-B!
and dont say you cant find one. Work at Mcdonalds, anywhere, Just get a fucking job that can make you at least enough money to survive.. and stop asking for handouts!

dude leave him the fuck alone.. you dont know everything..

Here's what i beleive. if you won't help someone out, then dont spoil his chances of other people helping him out..

Thats a very very fucked up thing to do

galleryseek · 08-11-2003, 01:34 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Dude come on give me a break.. If its true then well i hope things work out for you.. but lets be realistic here..

1. Why are you posting on a porn webmaster board looking for handouts?

every bit helps, and oppurtunities arise. i know a few people here who got their initial funding from asking GFY for handouts, and now are makin nice $. so its not all that stupid if you think about it.

ldinternet · 08-11-2003, 01:36 PM

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Originally posted by xxweekxx
for fucking once GFY does something good

and by this time next week, we'll have made up for it. :D

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:37 PM

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Originally posted by xxweekxx

dude leave him the fuck alone.. you dont know everything..

Here's what i beleive. if you won't help someone out, then dont spoil his chances of other people helping him out..

Thats a very very fucked up thing to do

Oh my god, You are an idiot.

Do you realize why beggers beg? Its because people give them money. If people didnt give them money, what would happen? Would they shrivel up and die? no. They would be forced to get a job, work, make money.. and be better off. Its people like you who support people who ask for handouts that make this world worse. Sometimes people just need a little kick in the ass and soem motivation to get out there and get a job and earn a living.. like everyone else.

AssFairy · 08-11-2003, 01:37 PM

GeXus don't you have some sites to run ?

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:39 PM

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Originally posted by AssFairy
GeXus don't you have some sites to run ?

No my sites run themselves, other than my weekly updates

Honeyslut · 08-11-2003, 01:41 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Can you say "Ive been scammed"

Shit happens all the time. My aunt has had a rare cancer in her neck and treatment for he last year. My gramps ( her father died in June ) and my hub found out a few weeks ago that he may have a pituitary tumor. We are waiting for mri on the 6th..

Give the guy a break...

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:42 PM

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Originally posted by Honeyslut

Shit happens all the time. My aunt has had a rare cancer in her neck and treatment for he last year. My gramps ( her father died in June ) and my hub found out a few weeks ago that he may have a pituitary tumor. We are waiting for mri on the 6th..

Give the guy a break...

Im sorry to hear that.. really I am, I hope things work out for you.

Will you be needing a handout?

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:43 PM

GeXus,
I wish it weren't true.

I fully intend to pay each cent back that I receive. I am a prideful person that wasn't brought up to ask for charity but things have a way of messing up in your life. I have a couple of friends and they do not have the ability to help me out with a small loan but they help me out just by being there and I am extremely grateful for knowing them. The small company that I worked for went out of business without much of any notice. I have spent the morning filling out applications in my small town with places like Hardees and Burger King and gas stations.

You have no idea how hard this was to post and I hope you never will.

Tala · 08-11-2003, 01:45 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

No my sites run themselves, other than my weekly updates

So go update something.

Fappeddotcom · 08-11-2003, 01:45 PM

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Originally posted by Honeyslut

Shit happens all the time. My aunt has had a rare cancer in her neck and treatment for he last year. My gramps ( her father died in June ) and my hub found out a few weeks ago that he may have a pituitary tumor. We are waiting for mri on the 6th..

Give the guy a break...

I am very sorry to hear this, Honeyslut. You all will be in my thoughts.

Sly_RJ · 08-11-2003, 01:47 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Im sorry to hear that.. really I am, I hope things work out for you.

Will you be needing a handout?

You've obviously never been in a serious bind, have you?

There's a difference between giving handouts and lending a helping hand in times of need. Without the help of GFY members, I'm sure this guy will make it just fine. But if someone wants to help out, back the fuck off already. Comparing a webmaster to a homeless vagrant? Yeh, right.

AssFairy · 08-11-2003, 01:48 PM

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Originally posted by Tala
So go update something.

GeXus

galleryseek · 08-11-2003, 01:49 PM

gexus has been owned.

GeXus · 08-11-2003, 01:51 PM

i love you guys

Honeyslut · 08-11-2003, 01:52 PM

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Originally posted by GeXus

Im sorry to hear that.. really I am, I hope things work out for you.

Will you be needing a handout?

Nope, just pointing out that things do happen...

Doctor thinks he can shrink it with medicine...

Honeyslut · 08-11-2003, 01:55 PM

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Originally posted by Fappeddotcom

I am very sorry to hear this, Honeyslut. You all will be in my thoughts.

Thank you. I am sorry about your situations too..

I have a suggestion..

Start a thread seeing if anyone is hiring reviews for tgp sites...

Horny Dude · 08-11-2003, 01:57 PM

08-11-2003, 12:47 PM	#1
Fappeddotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 175	Hate asking for charity and I don't expect any of you to help but I'm in a serious bind and don't have any other place to turn. I won't bore you with the details...that, and I honestly don't want to recount what's happened so I'll try to summarize. Lost both parents to cancer..most recently, my father in April. No life insurance or savings. Been working odd jobs and trying to start a web-business for the past year or so..with little success. I have just lost my regular job, which paid just above minimum wage, and don't have a dime to my name. (actually, that's not true, I have $0.25 as hard as that is to believe, on my bank checking statement). I'm behind on the water and electricity bill this month and my rent is already $275 behind from the previous two months..my landlord has been understanding but is growing impatient (which I fully understand). I have no other family (except a younger brother that I take care of) to turn to. My two dogs are healthy, however, and so are myself and my brother..I am thankful for that. I've survived before and I'll survive this time but things are just looking really bleak right now. Before you ask, I am out looking for work and I have cut my bills down to the bare essentials (Internet will be cut off at the end of this month unless I find a job before then). If you flame me for this, that's your choice and I can't say that I would blame you. Like I said, I don't expect anyone to help out a stranger but on the off chance that you have a few dollars in your paypal account to send to someone in dire need, I thought I had to take that chance. my paypal addy is [email protected] I would appreciate any loose change or even well wishes and words of encouragement. I <b>will</b> pay you back when I get on my feet. Thank you..I'll hopefully see all of you during better times.

08-11-2003, 12:57 PM	#8
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sextoyking Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Portland, OR. Posts: 6,034	Hi Fappeddotcom, Sorry to hear about the loss of your parents. I have sent you a paypal, I hope it helps some. I will talk with the team and see if mabey there is some side work for you to do until you get employed full time with some company. thanks Todd __________________ ICQ: 52344098 -------------------------------------- 50% Commissions on all Product Sales. http://www.wishing.com/money

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xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	guys come on send him some $

08-11-2003, 12:56 PM	#7
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	You have sent cash! An email has been sent to the recipient I sent ya $50. i hope you are not bullshitting with the cancer stuff. Good luck

08-11-2003, 01:01 PM	#9
Fappeddotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 175	xxweekxx, I can't thank you enough. I wish I were bsing about losing both of my parents to cancer, that would mean that they were still here, but I am not. You didn't have to help out a stranger...I am, and always will be very grateful that you did. You don't know what this means to me after these past few months. It's very hard to swallow one's pride and ask people for help ... I am honestly tearing up right now...thank you so very much for helping me out.

08-11-2003, 01:03 PM	#11
Fappeddotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 175	Sly_RJ, Absolutely. e-mail me and let me know what it is...I'm on it. Thank you very much.

08-11-2003, 01:06 PM	#15
Fappeddotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 175	Tala, Thank you for the well-wishes. It means just as much to me right now. va2k, I can do some design work..I know a bit of HTML and have done web marketing. Thank you as well for the well-wishes. I sincerely appreciate it.

08-11-2003, 01:21 PM	#23
Fappeddotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 175	Todd, Thank you so much for your generosity. I've honestly never experienced anything like this before..the kindness of strangers. You are all amazing people and I will never forget your kindness. I also would like to thank those of you who have offered me some side-jobs. I will absolutely take them and you can count on my best effort in doing them. Thank you all once again.

08-11-2003, 01:24 PM	#25
xxweekxx Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 6,780	for fucking once GFY does something good

08-11-2003, 01:26 PM	#26
AssFairy Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: AssTown Posts: 674	It is good to see somebody being given a helping hand in their time of need I'll send you some traffic to your TGP I hope that helps a little __________________ I sale lube

08-11-2003, 01:37 PM	#37
AssFairy Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: AssTown Posts: 674	GeXus don't you have some sites to run ? __________________ I sale lube

08-11-2003, 01:43 PM	#41
Fappeddotcom Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 175	GeXus, I wish it weren't true. I fully intend to pay each cent back that I receive. I am a prideful person that wasn't brought up to ask for charity but things have a way of messing up in your life. I have a couple of friends and they do not have the ability to help me out with a small loan but they help me out just by being there and I am extremely grateful for knowing them. The small company that I worked for went out of business without much of any notice. I have spent the morning filling out applications in my small town with places like Hardees and Burger King and gas stations. You have no idea how hard this was to post and I hope you never will.

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