Originally Posted by jayeff

This is Sheri. I'm sorry, there was no obituary in Parsons. It didn't even make the newspaper despite the circumstances. I didn't think an obit in Parsons was necessary, since nobody new him there. His family was on this board and others, and he eschewed public places and towards the end only went to town for groceries and such. John's father and brother in England took care of the arrangements since John and I never married and so, despite 10 years together, I had no legal right to sign for his cremation. His brother told me that they would send his ashes to England, but later said he was scattered in the garden of rest in Parsons. If there was an obituary in England, I don't know about it. Perhaps we could search the net for English Obits?

As I said before, I and so many of you would give anything to change the awful truth. But the truth is final.

Whoever posted that post from Jayeff on the day he died, thank you. I never would have seen it otherwise, and although it made me cry, it was beautiful nonetheless.